Honestly, what I don't get is why many black men get mad at the black women that have ventured out, where there is plenty other black women to go a round. And then you have black women who get butthurt because the black men are with white women ( white girlz, yall can have the brotha's, just leave some for the sistas that still want them). It goes both ways. Lol

For some unknown reason, people keep missing the point.

NOBODY CARES THAT YOU, OR ANYONE ELSE DON'T DATE BLACK MEN.

WE DON'T WANT YOU TO.

What is being brought up in here...is this feeling that people need to continuously broadcast that preference all the time. And while doing so, they directly, or indirectly pit black men down while expressing how much better (to them) they feel other races are.

"I Don't Date Black Men!"

So, nobody cares.

"I Date Asian Men...BECAUSE THEY ARE CLEAN, SMART, THE BEST LOVERS, AND KNOW HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN!"

^^ The second one, is an insult, that people feel the need to address.


Got damn!

There is another thing I've noticed, check this out...

If you look at topics about interracial relationships...notice how a whole lot of a certain race are quick to scream from the rooftops about how much they like another race.

But look at the women of other races. You don't see them making topic after topic, or comment after comment about how much they love other races.

You don't see Asians, white, native, or Latino women always talking about their sexual preferences.

Which is funny because out of all races...the black women is married the LEAST to another race.

So that means while some women are broadcasting how much they like men of other races...those men do not like them the same. But their women date and marry black men mite. Their women just don't feel the need to make themselves look thirsty.

According to statistics, black women are the LEAST desirable in America. So it's crazy, that men are supposed to chase the women...but men of other races BY STATISTICS don't even want a black woman like that...but the black woman is still throwing herself publicly at them.

I feel blessed when I see exactly how some who do that are, because that's not very lady-like, and looks desperate as hell.

In fact, a white guy has a topic up now in DGD called "Too Many Desperate Black Women On This Site!"

That should be embarrassing, and something you should make sure you don't look like.

If you have any dignity, class, or pride.

Let the man chase you, not the other way around.

Wow.

I find it odd that you're not pointing out those who are always putting up posts about wanting Mexican and Latino women.

Oh geesh, now you know you only made this thread because your feelings are hurt.

Fine. But at least you acknowledge the point I was making right?

The bold writing, is my point. If white men are falling over themselves to constantly make topics and comments about how much they love black women...it is perfectly normal, for black women who like white men to come in that topic and reciprocate the feeling.


But as YOU said, if they are not doing that in here all that much, it then becomes unseemly to see the woman making all these topics and comments declaring their love for other races, when those men ain't doing so to you...like YOU said!

Prostitutes, wh*res, and sluts...are the type of women that coffee after men chasing them, when the man is just going about his business and not studying them.

Prostitutes shout out at men in the street.."Hey good looking! Come her! You look so fine!"

That's how a woman looks, when every week you come in here, and a black woman got up a folic about dating other races, but other races don't have topics up all the time chasing after you.


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Agreed.

There are decent brothers out here. The problem is you all keep overlooking the type of black men who do show a great deal of respect and integrity and love for women, especially black women. I'm a good man who's single with no baggage and have a lot to offer but you all keep overlooking me. From my experience, many black women tend to choose guys based on what's on the outside of the person in terms of the material things they have and the outward appeal such as the urban/bad boy vibe and look. You all don't realized that this kind of imagery of a man doesn't last forever. This is a short term appeal. But I always have love and respect for the distance but they kept passing me by. So you sistahs need to turn the blinders off and see what's in front of you. Don't stereotype and judge all black men based on a few bad apples.