| 3/22/2015 8:06:43 PM |
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lonelyblonde11
Wallback, WV
50, joined Mar. 2015
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i want to know if I'm in the wrong or the guy is in the wrong.
We start talking on here. We both have Facebook, we are friends on there.
He told me he hadn't had sex for years. I tell him the truth that I was with a black guy. He gets mad. He blocks me on fb. We make up, he adds me again.
We talk, we meet & had sex. The next day, he tells me that I was his 2nd favorite. He starts saying he was with this person for over a year now. I get mad, he deletes me & blocks me again on fb & he blocks me on here.
We make up, he unblocks me on fb but he says he can't on here. He asks me to make a new profile & he add me. I do, he adds me on here. He deletes me again. He makes a new profile, adds me there.
I catch him in a lie all the time. He deletes me on both his profiles & fb. He still has me blocked on both sites & fb. But he wants to meet again. I ask him to unblock me on fb & add me as a friend. He says maybe some day,
I get mad & tell him I'm not meeting him. He's says we are friends.
You please tell me: he has other friends. He helps them in working for them, taking them to lunch. But he texts me when he has the time. But he says he can't take me to lunch????
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| 3/22/2015 8:12:13 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
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Really? You are 50? Really? I bet your profile says you don't like drama amiright?
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| 3/22/2015 8:21:44 PM |
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l380
Alabaster, AL
42, joined Sep. 2014
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It's childish and you are wasting your energies.
If this is the kind of bullshit you allow in your life at 50 yrs old, shame on you.
You are allowing him to drag you so it's your fault.
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| 3/22/2015 8:25:12 PM |
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ladymelody71
Land O Lakes, FL
43, joined Sep. 2014
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He's in the wrong for doing this BS to you.... but you are too for allowing it. Word of advice.. Move on. Honestly like you need all that BS and drama in your life? None of us do.. Good luck hun..
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| 3/22/2015 9:16:44 PM |
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lonelyblonde11
Wallback, WV
50, joined Mar. 2015
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Thank you! He thinks it's me. I told him to get lost.
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| 3/22/2015 9:21:16 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
50, joined Mar. 2011
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Thank you! He thinks it's me. I told him to get lost.
Until he text you again?
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| 3/22/2015 10:01:14 PM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
23, joined May. 2013
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I would say you are in the wrong how could you meet up with someone after you realizes they got mad because you were with a black person on the past and he even blocked you?? He has shown his personality the whole time clearly a tad bipolar, and you seem kinda desperate as well continuing to deal with it. You end up sleeping with this looney and then he goes through the making a new profile and adding you again. And then he says he takes his friends out but he doesn't take you out. You both sound perfect for each other. You are attracted to a guy who sounds crazy and I wish you luck on this crazy adventure.
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| 3/22/2015 10:04:50 PM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
27, joined Dec. 2014
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He's in the wrong for doing this BS to you.... but you are too for allowing it. Word of advice.. Move on. Honestly like you need all that BS and drama in your life? None of us do.. Good luck hun..
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I agree 
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| 3/22/2015 10:51:41 PM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
55, joined Sep. 2012
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Jerry Springer has an open slot on March 31.
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| 3/22/2015 11:00:49 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
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OP - You are both wrong for various reasons. You both deserve each other, and the BS you give one another.
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| 3/23/2015 1:27:30 AM |
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nurseshanna1972
San Marcos, TX
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you are not in the wrong for being honest and upfront with him.
he is in the wrong for his childish behaviour that shows his ability to be very possessive.
YOU WILL BE IN THE WRONG if you deside to continue this relationship and deal with this child/ possessive behaviour anymore.
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| 3/23/2015 1:31:12 AM |
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spaceface79
Des Moines, IA
35, joined Mar. 2014
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Maybe you are unaccustomed to the whys and the hows of social media. This man is trying to play you. Block him, delete him. Don't look back.
And I wish you the best.
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| 3/23/2015 1:37:06 AM |
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norwegianwood64
Huntsville, AL
51, joined Jul. 2014
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Holy shit...I am glad that I don't date.....good grief.
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| 3/23/2015 1:48:18 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
57, joined Jul. 2010
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Why not mutually agree
to disagree?
Nobody is right or wrong
they're their own person and see matters in a differing light. 
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| 3/23/2015 3:37:59 AM |
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Morochris55
Santa Monica, CA
33, joined Feb. 2015
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Chilling with homegirl while her man is in jail. We party together and she wears skimpy clothes and is totally an awesome chick.. She lets me sleep in bed at night but I haven't done anything yet... Is it wrong? Do I make the move? Is she gonna tell her man when he gets out? It's killing me cause I'm starting to really like this girl!
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| 3/23/2015 4:11:16 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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until I hear his side of the story....I can't answer.
all I know is....you admitted to not chatting that long and met him and had sex almost right away.
I wouldn't call that points in your favor.
are you always that easy???????????
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| 3/23/2015 5:52:24 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
52, joined Oct. 2013
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Based on what you said I feel he was wrong to get pissed about you being with the black guy.
Then you were wrong to hook up with a guy who got pissed about you being with a black guy.
You were/are both wrong in my opinion.
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| 3/23/2015 6:26:23 AM |
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tonguekiss79
Wappingers Falls, NY
35, joined Jul. 2012
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Who cares who you were with in the past? I say dude is a dork. Move on. That block/unblock Facebook shit is immature
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| 3/23/2015 6:27:14 AM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Really? You are 50? Really? I bet your profile says you don't like drama amiright?
this.
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| 3/23/2015 7:02:43 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
49, joined Nov. 2014
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Pee in his butt?
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| 3/23/2015 7:31:44 AM |
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lovetodoit
Buffalo, MO
59, joined Sep. 2011
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It sounds like junior high to me. Just become fwb
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| 3/23/2015 7:35:20 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Until he text you again?
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| 3/23/2015 9:48:05 AM |
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xray6
Fort Stewart, GA
27, joined Mar. 2012
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How do you not know that white guys don't like to hear that shit.
especially around your age
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| 3/23/2015 10:01:33 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Green Bay, WI
52, joined May. 2011
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I got dizzy reading all that facebook blocking/unblocking.
Is the facebook blocking/unblocking the modern equivalent of picking the pedals
off a flower and saying he love me / he loves me not?
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| 3/23/2015 10:23:48 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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You're wasting your time. You shouldn't have given him so much of it already. And now all he wants is one thing if he won't have you as a friend on anything & won't go to lunch with you.
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| 3/23/2015 12:07:41 PM |
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manniblelector
Vancouver, WA
36, joined Apr. 2013
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You're both desperate, and will sleep with anything, both your expectations are sooooo low in regards to sex, but he's got plenty of options available since he has no standards. I would say the same for you, as you just slept with a black man, and he's not a part of the big picture.
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| 3/23/2015 12:31:16 PM |
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sush1
Tucson, AZ
24, joined Jul. 2014
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You're wasting your time. You shouldn't have given him so much of it already. And now all he wants is one thing if he won't have you as a friend on anything & won't go to lunch with you.
he's probably married ..
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| 3/23/2015 12:39:09 PM |
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xray6
Fort Stewart, GA
27, joined Mar. 2012
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Op is just part of the Grand black plan
learn their language
touch their women
and white men go extinct because he won't want to procreate
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| 3/23/2015 1:52:28 PM |
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1adorable
Glen Ellen, CA
53, joined Oct. 2014
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Move on.. Unless you enjoy the Drama
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| 3/23/2015 2:19:55 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Op is just part of the Grand black plan
learn their language
touch their women
and white men go extinct because he won't want to procreate
omg...
LMAO
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| 3/23/2015 2:53:18 PM |
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debyduh
Hamburg, PA
51, joined May. 2014
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You are both stupid and desperate. You asked.
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| 3/23/2015 3:26:35 PM |
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hogaseman
Benátky nad Jizerou
Czech Republic
63, joined Jun. 2014
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Sounds like a soap opera.
50yrs old is kinda
old to be in jr high school
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| 3/23/2015 3:32:05 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
56, joined May. 2009
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So, just what does he have to do or say to get you to drop him? Because evidently what's happened so far hasn't done it.
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| 3/23/2015 4:33:21 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
47, joined Oct. 2013
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At your age why r u so involved with Facebook?
And why would u beg him to re friend u? Anyone blocks me I just move on.
Maybe you should stick to doing black men. We aren't as childish......
Stupid noobs.....
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| 3/23/2015 5:27:53 PM |
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hogaseman
Benátky nad Jizerou
Czech Republic
63, joined Jun. 2014
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Facebook is a waste of time
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| 3/23/2015 7:39:41 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
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And energy
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| 3/23/2015 7:56:31 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jul. 2013
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Whoa, all this blocking and unblocking, very childish and u still gave him some sex, I fault u so there's no wrong or right, it's call grow up
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| 3/23/2015 8:03:40 PM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
29, joined Aug. 2013
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Grow up, OP!
\DELETE!!!
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| 3/23/2015 8:05:38 PM |
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mrhankchinaski
Aurora, CO
53, joined Aug. 2014
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It sounds like you two might deserve each other.
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| 3/24/2015 12:14:03 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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Move the F on for god sake!!
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| 3/24/2015 12:36:44 AM |
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homewright
Medford, OR
57, joined Aug. 2010
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Advice to the both of you. Grow up!
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| 3/24/2015 12:48:31 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
52, joined Nov. 2014
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i recommend you "make a good connection" and ask if he can take you to lunch sometime, and insist, nice boy friends do.
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| 3/24/2015 12:49:23 AM |
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mistermister81
Opa Locka, FL
33, joined Jan. 2014
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i want to know if I'm in the wrong or the guy is in the wrong.
We start talking on here. We both have Facebook, we are friends on there.
He told me he hadn't had sex for years. I tell him the truth that I was with a black guy. He gets mad. He blocks me on fb. We make up, he adds me again.
We talk, we meet & had sex. The next day, he tells me that I was his 2nd favorite. He starts saying he was with this person for over a year now. I get mad, he deletes me & blocks me again on fb & he blocks me on here.
We make up, he unblocks me on fb but he says he can't on here. He asks me to make a new profile & he add me. I do, he adds me on here. He deletes me again. He makes a new profile, adds me there.
I catch him in a lie all the time. He deletes me on both his profiles & fb. He still has me blocked on both sites & fb. But he wants to meet again. I ask him to unblock me on fb & add me as a friend. He says maybe some day,
I get mad & tell him I'm not meeting him. He's says we are friends.
You please tell me: he has other friends. He helps them in working for them, taking them to lunch. But he texts me when he has the time. But he says he can't take me to lunch????
He revenged f**ked you for f**king a black dude. Also added insult by saying you were his second best. Basically he's f**king with your head. A lot of men don't like when the women of their own race have been with another race. Especially if she's been with a black man. Just how it is with some folks.
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| 3/24/2015 2:05:22 AM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
48, joined Jun. 2013
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Yes. You were in the wrong to talk, meet and have sex with this guy after he showed you that he was nuts.
And... you were wrong to get involved in Facebook drama.
Who cares as long as you have each other's phone number or some way to stay in contact.
This is a situation you will not be able to correct.
You cannot get a straight plank out of a crooked tree.
This guy is crooked.
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| 3/24/2015 2:37:28 AM |
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Champaree
Australian Capital
Australia
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Maybe you are unaccustomed to the whys and the hows of social media. This man is trying to play you. Block him, delete him. Don't look back.
And I wish you the best.
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| 3/24/2015 3:12:57 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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He revenged f**ked you for f**king a black dude. Also added insult by saying you were his second best. Basically he's f**king with your head. A lot of men don't like when the women of their own race have been with another race. Especially if she's been with a black man. Just how it is with some folks.
^^^^^^Warped brain.
and you see how mister reacts when black women go after white men.
the irony is killing me....rotf.
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| 3/24/2015 3:39:06 AM |
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latinleprekahn
South San Francisco, CA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Tell him "hit the road jack!"
Btw, OP, you're too old for this bullsh!t! If you want drama watch spanish soap operas they're full of crazy drama!! 
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| 3/24/2015 7:39:00 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
62, joined Oct. 2010
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Thank you! He thinks it's me. I told him to get lost.
nawww ...... low rent sex is great ... when you aim low there are fewer disappointments.
why are you suposedly hurt and want to make him bad or wrong ...
you f**k any thing that has taco sauce on the swartzn**ger.
like that black guy you jumped on and he dumped you or you dumped him ...
this one is a keeper cause he is white ???
Gingrich is white ... yup .. keeper !!!
Cllinton is white .. yup ... keeper !!!
Swartzn**ger is white ... yup ... keeper !!!
You pick them ... then they f**k you every which way you can be f**ked ..
and then you get upset at getting f**ked by a f**ker sex addict little boy.
sheesh ...
you just don't have a clue ... do ya ????
El President De La Casablanca is f**kiing you right now .. and I betcha you voted for him.
Have a Happy Bristol Palin Day ... must be familiar.
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sumbuddie wear blind sea
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| 3/24/2015 7:47:14 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
62, joined Oct. 2010
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You are both stupid and desperate. You asked.
yup ... sex addicts as well ...
ahhhhh ... did you check for any disease from your low rent sex escapades ???
or you just don't give a f**k about that like any addict.
Addicts do not care for the rights and welfare of others.
You and him are stuck in your Toddler Tantrum mentality out of your Duck Disease.
If you keep doing what you are doing .. you will keep getting what you got ... f**ked.
In your case .. you like getting f**ked .. so why snivel about it like you were some Billary Calista Shriver wife.
Some kid beaters .. or wife beaters ... 'look' with disapproval at other kid beaters or wife beaters.
Now you are s f**k .. and you look with disapproval at other f**ks.
In another country you would be tossing virgins into the Volcano God for cherry pop time.
In this country you have your virgins do baby sex with the Ghost of your Father in Heaven for cherry pop time.
Incest is best for you hill billy sex addicts.
Just do not have a clue .. it is that silly psychotic break with reality you have along with most other americans.
You can fix this ... but most people are not interested in fixing the f**king they keep getting.
Here is a video on it ...
Lays it all out ...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Z8aotZycx0
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| 3/24/2015 8:54:00 AM |
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kamlila0
Wilmington, NC
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You both are acting like children. Grow the hell up and at least try and have some damn standards for yourself. This is as dumb as a damn box of rocks. Who would do this kind of chit????????Just you and him.
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| 3/24/2015 9:54:37 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
49, joined Nov. 2014
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Ruin his life. Marry him.
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| 3/24/2015 10:29:45 AM |
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mistermister81
Opa Locka, FL
33, joined Jan. 2014
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^^^^^^Warped brain.
and you see how mister reacts when black women go after white men.
the irony is killing me....rotf.
I'm not for either black men or women going after white folks but I am stating the obvious truth. You see it time and time in here with white men telling white women not to come back if she's been with a black man or get upset. It really isn't black men fault that you'll self esteem are low. Anyway you don't have to worry about be going after white women. Don't want her daddy to come for me. You know how you little white boys can get.
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| 3/24/2015 1:45:44 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
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I'm not for either black men or women going after white folks but I am stating the obvious truth. You see it time and time in here with white men telling white women not to come back if she's been with a black man or get upset. It really isn't black men fault that you'll self esteem are low. Anyway you don't have to worry about be going after white women. Don't want her daddy to come for me. You know how you little white boys can get.
He HATES his Father ... which is why he dropped his Jew Name of "Little Barry Soweto" ..
and HATES his mom for f**king the guy.
So BARACK HUSSAIN OBAMA .. is a Jew Boy .. who loves JEWS ..
YOUR A DISINFO AGENT..OBAMA IS A JEW...FELLA...HIS FATHER WAS JEWISH
All this MUSLIM CRAP..IS JUST SMOKE AND MIRRORS..
BREAD AND CIRCUS
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| 3/24/2015 2:54:10 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
47, joined Aug. 2013
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Really? You are 50? Really? I bet your profile says you don't like drama amiright?
I agree!!!
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| 3/24/2015 6:28:43 PM |
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treec36
Saint Petersburg, FL
36, joined Oct. 2014
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he played with you like a casino he was wrong for taking you threw
that and you kept excepting it
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| 3/24/2015 10:56:06 PM |
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claudius5
Petaluma, CA
65, joined May. 2009
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Use your critical thinking skills. Either you are a glutton for punishment or you just don't want to let him go. If it's causing you this much angst; move on. It seems you're more interested in who's right and who's wrong. In the end, does it really matter because in truth, it's not working.
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| 3/25/2015 12:59:18 AM |
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ilovepoodles55
Munster, IN
53, joined Feb. 2015
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No contact. Block him and move forward and no looking back.
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