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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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'He's Just Not That Into You ~ Your Daily Wake-up Call'
~ ~ ~ Have you read the book or seen the movie, it is by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo? I have not seen the movie.
The book is full of short one page words of wisdom to help woman let go and make better choices. I thought it would be interesting to post some of the tips and comment and let them sink in or add comments. You can even add your own
I'm not going in any particular order and feel free to add your 2 cents to any topic it brings to the surface.
Disclaimer: I don't agree with ALL the suggestions and I think it is aimed at a younger adult (than myself). I am not doing this to BASH men, I see it more as the book says "Wake-UP" to some realities that we sometimes don't or can't seem to face.
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........ and if this topic flops or turns out to be a dud, that's ok, we'll just see. 
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| 7/13/2015 4:33:57 PM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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#66
~ Oh, there seem to be so many variations to dating,
... particularly in the early stages of a relationship.
.... So many gray, murky areas of vagueness, mystery, and no questions asked.
...... Dudes love this time because that's when they get to pretend they're not really dating ~you.
.........Then they also get to pretend they're not really responsible for your feelings.
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| 7/13/2015 5:08:26 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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I haven't read it yet, but the title alone, tells me I'll be gone
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| 7/13/2015 5:14:57 PM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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Packerbabe ...... to me sometimes it's a slap upside the head to pull my head out and realize I'm not where I need to be. *lol*
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| 7/13/2015 9:04:50 PM |
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oh_lydia
Upton, MA
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Sounds like a book I should have read about thirty years ago 
I may buy it anyway 
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| 7/14/2015 5:30:45 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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#130
~ Know you deserve not just an affectionate, attentive boyfriend,
......... but you deserve an affectionate, attentive, sober one.
Mornin' Ladies .... 
Hi Lydia nice to see you here. I read this book about 10 years ago. As you see I'm reading it again, I get side tracked from reality and myself sometimes and I'm needing some of these knocks upside the head.
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| 7/14/2015 6:34:17 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
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Sheza what a great topic.
In this mixed up world we live in many have their signs and directions,and signals mixed.Then came dating sites,with each person have a set of rules.
Have not read the book,but i'm sure a wake up call,or a refresher for most.
I have learned a long time ago it's not always wise to be available,for each phone call, or date.Keep your daily or weekly agenda as planned.as always it's a 2 way street for ajustments.
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janet5360
Pittsburgh, PA
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I did see the movie that was out years ago. Don't know if it was the same. I went on a second date with a man once and his brother sat in the middle 
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fishingmom
Lake Alfred, FL
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Not sure if this fits here but its one of the best sayings Ive read in a long time and something I believe in.
Never LOWER your standards to meet UP with his.
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| 7/14/2015 4:45:39 PM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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Aladytoo ~ good to see you here. Very true on the two way street of adjustments! I’m sure we all have a lot to contribute things what have worked for us or against us but most of all I would like this to be a place that reminds women that they have value and they have choices and to believe in themselves. Thanks for contributing. 
Janet ~ I think that might be #350 – He’s just not that into you when he lets his brother take his seat next to you. ~ Awkward !!! 
Fishy ~ aaaah, I LIKE that, Tushay !!!  Thanks for sharing.
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Yes that's what I thought and I guess he wasn't that into me, like I was him so his lost
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| 7/14/2015 9:31:55 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
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I wish that book was around when I was in my 20's. Doesn't really matter to me anymore because now "I'm really just not into him" - translation: I haven't met a man since before my husband that I would carve out 2 hours of my precious time for.
I've changed, dating has changed & men have changed. The only ones I look twice at are half my age & I just can't wrap my brain around that. Men my age can't or don't want to keep up with me. I'm not going to spend my "golden years" taking care of anything with less than 4 legs - unless they have lost one, then I'll take care of them. At least 3 legged dogs pick up their own toys. I'm still "leaning" (lol) towards a mule. Maybe I'll get lucky & find one with 3 legs.
"Don't lower your standards to meet his" is the best advice to all women.
And remember, "Believe someone when they show you who they are the FIRST time".
a quote from Mia Angelou.....
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| 7/15/2015 6:07:44 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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#99
People tell you who they are all the time. When a man says he can't be monogamous, you should believe him.
Cinnamon ~ that #99 goes along with what you quoted. I was also told by a shrink a long time ago 'if a man tells you he is 'not' something, then believe him.' ... and I keep hearing it in other tips of advise. So when guy tells me he is never wanting to get married again .... I totally believe him and I don't get some crazy notion that he'll fall madly in love with me and change his mind ....... they don't!!
POINT being ........ if we as women don't listen WE end up hurting ourselves and we need to be responsible for our own dumb situations we put ourselves into.
Think and make smart choices Ladies !! You owe it to your self.
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
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^^^^^^^
EXACTLY!!!
I saw all the "red flags" BEFORE I married hubby. He was (& still is) a great guy to all his friends. I was always 2nd, 3rd, 10th(!!!) & that never changed, but I sure did!
I learned that from my "loving" family (how to be shit on time after time) & in my early 30's I dumped them - but not before I took care of my dying "father" & nursed my mother (who had broke her neck) back to health, took my 2 year old niece on full time & moved & dog-sat for my other sister more times than I can count. But not once when I needed their help would any of them ever lift a finger.
The moral of all that: Be very careful how you treat your children. You can teach them how to have self respect or you can teach them to be someone that everyone walks on. This is still my main reason for being pro-choice. You can force a woman to have a baby but you can't force her to love & nurture it.
Thank heavens my parents always pawned me off on my friends parents. It's where Iearned compassion & love & generosity & manners & any other admirable quality I have today. The one thing I can give my parents credit for is realizing that you should use caution before letting people into your life. People need to earn your trust & love. If you're the only one giving in the relationship, cut them loose. Know your own value & recognize when people aren't worthy of your love or friendship.
Don't worry. I have a very large "family" now. I'm just not related to any of them by blood.
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Now he wants to be, coming to visit on the 26 but claims I'm tripping, yeah right
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| 7/15/2015 7:32:02 PM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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Cinnamon ... glad to hear you had some really good people in your life so you learned the difference and that you now have a family that you trust.
Babe ... pay attention and you will know if he's into you or not. It's called being honest with yourself.
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fishingmom
Lake Alfred, FL
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you know, I thought about this today and this come again, go again, come again, go again just told me something..... hes NOT that into me... and quite frankly...
I'M RELIEVED!
Now I can move on, no looking back and be the me I really AM, not what he thought I SHOULD be.
Gosh its good to be me 
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| 7/15/2015 10:49:19 PM |
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janet5360
Pittsburgh, PA
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Now that I know what I don't want I recognize it a lot quicker. Some of my best prayers are said giving thanks for what I don't have. As a caregiver by nature it was always my goal to fix people. I am a widow and glad I gained that insight early. I might have lost a few friends but I keep myself number one.
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| 7/15/2015 11:06:27 PM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
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I don't really need a book to show me the signs.
Im more of the type to not allow me feelings get caught up quickly...this way it's easy to know if a guy is or isnt into you.
Plus...i dont give up the cookie quickly or at all.
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| 7/16/2015 6:01:48 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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#213
.....If a guy is yelling about his ex-wife or crying over his last girlfriend, try to find someone else to take you to the movies.
~ Ladies, good morning Coffee is on ~
~ I'm running a little late this morning and I worked OT last night, just a quick 'hello' and hope you all have a good day.
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| 7/16/2015 4:56:17 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Shez, yes that's exactly what I'm doing
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| 7/17/2015 5:40:43 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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~ Mornin' Ladies ~ coffee is on ......
Friday ......... so glad you are here, it's been a long week, be good to me before I meet my weekend. 
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| 7/17/2015 5:53:51 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
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I have at times met men that seen to have a rule 3 strikes your out.I have always kept in mind, you ask the first time on a first date you don't get 2nd and 3rd strike.
he may want in me, but "he's just not that into me." only feeding a need.
No different then e/mails or phone calls.
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| 7/17/2015 8:26:07 AM |
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forumlurkingfun
Chicago, IL
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Good topic. So many "relationships" are just wishful thinking.
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| 7/17/2015 9:56:49 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
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^^^^^^
Totally agree!
it's long, I know....
Sheza - glad to see you back & thanks for your kind words. I haven't had the easiest life but usually I manage to find the "funny" in things. Most comedians say that comedy comes out of tragedy - I agree. My friend that's in her mid 70's sometimes scolds me because I make a joke about some serious stuff in my life. (co2 poisoning, brakes going out, most recently [yesterday] killer on the loose within a 20(?) mile radius - said I'd invite him in & make him a sammich & tell him about my life & scare the hell out of him).....stuff like that.
Back to subject. lol. People, all people, tell who they are all the time! With every gesture, every eye movement, every twitch & every blink. Do they listen or can you tell their mind is wandering.
I've grew up in Mpls which is a pretty large city. Now my town has less than 500. I don't think catching "the clues" has anything to do with where you live or where you're from. I believe it comes from being exposed to many people of many backgrounds.
*********This is important!!!*********
My opinion - if you are a woman who has been truly crushed by a significant other (man or woman), consider yourself blessed. Here's why. You have been so fortunate to have so many great people around you who truly love you & care about you that you find it shocking that some other human being (that you loved) could treat you so badly.
It's those that love you that will always remind you how lovable you are.....
He's really just not that into you if he leaves in the middle of the night.
This coming from a woman who hasn't had a piece-o-tail in nearly a decade. Now, if I did, I would make sure he was gone before morning!
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| 7/19/2015 6:28:26 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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# 58
..... One hundred percent of men polled said they’ve never been too busy to call a woman they were really into. As one fine man said,
“A man has got to have his priorities”.
~ Cinnamon … good comments you’ve added.
~ Yes, the different people, backgrounds and yep … in all things consider yourself blessed.
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| 7/19/2015 3:09:49 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Nice one
Yes know your worth
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| 7/20/2015 5:57:56 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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#26
The "maybe he wants to take it slow' Excuse .....
...... if a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons he needs to take things slow, he will let you know that immediately. He won't keep you guessing, because he'll want to make sure you don't get frustrated and go away.
** (not from the book) ... this is one of the lies we tell ourselves when we like a guy and he doesn't seem to feel the same way, we tell ourselves the above excuse, roll it around and around in our head ....... it's proven to be a waste of time more times than not. Time you could use if not on another potential love but on family, good friends that are there for you ... years down the road you'll look back and remember the time wasted on a guy when she would have spent it with an elderly parent, a young child a friend that was down and out. We make excuses for those unworthy of that precious time we could truly love others and make a difference in life.
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~ ~ ~ ~ true story Ladies
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| 7/21/2015 5:31:45 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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#37
Don't get tricked into asking him out. IF he likes you, he'll do the asking.
Good morning Ladies ~
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| 7/21/2015 9:58:18 PM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
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When making new male friends,sort of like going to a wine tasting.
View the quality,body,and aroma.
Define what it's suited for,or if it's been blended well.
Is it labeled proper?
By all means stay away from screw offs
A good wine will find you,and usually has dust on it,meaning it's waited for you.
By all means be that crystal glass and not a plastic cup.
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| 7/22/2015 4:58:05 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Very well said alady
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| 7/23/2015 5:53:23 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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When making new male friends,sort of like going to a wine tasting.
View the quality,body,and aroma.
Define what it's suited for,or if it's been blended well.
Is it labeled proper?
By all means stay away from screw offs
A good wine will find you,and usually has dust on it,meaning it's waited for you.
By all means be that crystal glass and not a plastic cup.
I LOVE this !!!! I want to steal it!
Seriously I want to put it in my "Boomerangs" thread.
FYI: I'll be leaving today for vacation so I won't be around much if any, maybe lurking. Headed to Texas for a family reunion. Driving and it's going to be a quick turn around.
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| 7/23/2015 4:50:06 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Enjoy your trip Sheza
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| 7/23/2015 10:25:25 PM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
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Sheza share the wine,and have a wonderful vacation!!
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| 8/2/2015 7:50:25 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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Thank you Ladies ........ I had a wonderful vacation/family reunion. I miss the family already. I had some quality time with my daughter and older set of grandchildren when we took a side trip down to New Orleans. Great memories created and good times.
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#92
The old-fashioned idea is that women withhold sex when they want power.
It seems like men can play that game too.
Why buy the cow when you can get the intimacy for free?
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This one made me go 'hummmm' and think a bit deeper.......... for my own personal reasons
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| 8/2/2015 4:44:14 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Glad u enjoyed yourself, yes I'm with u on that
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| 8/3/2015 5:37:09 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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#45 - (remember one of the authors is a guy)
..... If I were into you, you would be the bright spot in my horrible busy day. Which would be a day that I would never be too busy to call you.
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| 8/3/2015 5:32:12 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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true
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| 8/4/2015 5:59:10 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Never too late to dream ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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| 8/4/2015 4:32:20 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Like that one to
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| 8/5/2015 6:27:28 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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~ Packer I hope my post are uplifting to you and to all the Ladies here. Just little reminders of our worth and value. It's so easy for women to put others above our self which in the proper perspective is ok as it's our nature to want to do for others and nurture but we should not do so at the lose of our soul.
~ ~ Since 40 years ago today my lovely daughter made me a mom, I'm posting something inspiring about aging.
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~ ~ ~ ~ I like who I am and I'm glad I don't have to be 'older' to know it.
~ Ladies be Lovely today because you are.
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| 8/5/2015 4:47:11 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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It has sheza, this is the best thread I've seen in here, and yes I put no man above me, I know my worth
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| 8/6/2015 6:10:21 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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~ ~ Thanks Packer ...... I think Aladytoo and I are on the same page in the sense of needing more positive uplifting things in life.
~ ~ There is such power to encourage other women to be their own personal best for themselves. I'll always remember what my older Sister told me when I was so down and out, she said "I wish you could see you through my eyes" ..... and actually I think my Mom also said it to us. I think it's really taken from the Bible and being told that if we could see ourselves as God sees us, just how beautiful, unique and wonderful and loved we are. ~ ~ ~ It's truer than we give ourselves credit for when we have had some hard time and experienced some very difficult struggles. We need to be reminded.
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| 8/6/2015 4:58:27 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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You're welcome, and yes she is, nice one also
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| 8/8/2015 7:51:03 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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# 210
.... He's Married.
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| 8/26/2015 8:00:51 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
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I do not need a book to realize he is not into me. I have the movie...its totally true. Now if women would just pay attention to the signs they will realize what to expect.
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| 8/30/2015 6:55:24 PM |
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here4foromsonly
Cincinnati, OH
56, joined Sep. 2012
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My daughter needs to read this.
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| 9/2/2015 6:31:25 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
60, joined Apr. 2006
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I have always had thoughts never ask of anyone of something you can do yourself.Then you only have yourself to blame, as well self improve.No one is deserving except for God,because he placed you here with tools.
The excuse of being female,age,or I can't simply is not in my vocabulary.But the word respect starts most of my conversations.
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| 9/2/2015 8:43:25 AM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Amen!
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| 9/15/2015 3:02:15 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
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I've read this book, I loved his sarcasm in responses.
But in all fairness, most of these kind of books are BS to tell women they are doing everything wrong and the guys don't have to take responsibility.
I've read Matthew Hussey's catch him keep him.
All of it is designed around been someone you are not. A man's ideal woman and how to act and how to behave.
If, you follow these rules of theirs. Be prepared for the words "You've changed" and you have because you are not being you.
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| 9/24/2015 8:51:51 PM |
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missamicable
Austin, TX
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Yeah, I read the book.
I can tell he is not into me.......
I need to walk.
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| 9/25/2015 12:44:32 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
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But in all fairness, most of these kind of books are BS to tell women they are doing everything wrong and the guys don't have to take responsibility.
I've read Matthew Hussey's catch him keep him.
All of it is designed around been someone you are not. A man's ideal woman and how to act and how to behave.
This is because most men don't live in reality. They lie to make themselves look better - even though they know damn well they will be caught.
Most don't want a woman who lives in reality - because they know you'll call them on their bluff.
It happens in the work place - a lot! It happens in relationships.
This is why you should NEVER jump into a relationship until you find out their "true colors".
This is why I've remained sexless for nearly a decade......
Test the waters before you jump in.
Absolutely nothing wrong with being single. It can be quite entertaining!
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| 10/2/2015 4:12:15 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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U ain't got to tell me or show signs that you're not into me, I'm out
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| 10/2/2015 10:11:20 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Wise words.
Overly clingy isn't good either.
If there were just a few more that landed in the middle.....
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| 10/3/2015 12:45:57 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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 agree
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| 10/4/2015 4:30:47 AM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
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lol. Had to block 2 yesterday. Unfortunately they were a little "too into me".
They started to be stalkers & I never responded to them once. Of course that made them angry, the insults began, & of course they felt that I owed them something - just because they sent a message it was my "duty" to be in awe of them.
The men need this thread - "SHE'S just not that into you". Maybe that would help some get the clue. It's men like that that make me want to stay single!
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| 10/4/2015 5:24:33 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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wow and a 28year old got mad with me cause I wouldn't talk to him, he bother me a whole week and gave up finally, my answer was still no
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| 10/7/2015 5:08:22 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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I've been a slacker. 
Hello Sweet Ladies
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| 10/7/2015 5:17:01 AM |
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shezakeeper_2
San Antonio, TX
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~ Welcome to pickygirl72, here4foromsonly, riflessivo and missamicable !
~ Good day to the regulars hope all are well and a wonderful day to all !!
Coffee is on ~
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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