That only shows who is patient.

A person can want to f**k your brains out on the first date AND still be interested in you as a person for the long term... just as someone can have the ability to wait for date #9 to get the goods and then dump you straight away once they do.

Personally I respect a woman more who doesn't play the waiting game and she'd be more likely to be taken seriously.

I am an adult. If I seem to have undeniable chemistry with a man, so long as I am practicing safe sex, it is only 'our' business as to what intimacy happens at the end of a date. I don't need approval nor permission- I do not answer to anyone, but myself, for the decisions I make.

I would not do anything on a first date, even if I found him very attractive,

Sienna's problem is she is afraid of her own shadow so searching for answers here is more proof of that eh!

I think holding hands and a little kiss is ok but making out is not! It shows that probably by the next date you'll put out lol

Because that is how women are. They have to be in control at all times, including control over the man. They don't think or take accountability for themselves, and when that guy doesn't call her for a second date, because she didn't out out and they both felt the same chemistry(meaning he smelled of money), she will blame him for going "ghost".

Is there something wrong with having sex? Why would you be holding out anyways if the chemistry is there between you?

This.. "control over the man" in this situation could be ..more about control over herself.
Just because a woman doesn't "put out" on the 1st or 2nd date.. after he paid for dinner, doesn't say she's not worth the time. Nor does it say he's not.
What it might say is that, ( man or woman)they still see value in developing a friendship, respect,and trust. They want more than just their bodies being part of it, filling carnal desires...they also want to have their heart in it too ..,establishing a relationship, building trust,respect,... love.
They allow themselves to develop vunerability towards the other.
Vulnerability is a significant aspect of lasting relationships.

And there you go again, getting offended because my broad generalization applies to you, and to mask your guilt you have to insert the word "ALL" like a typical woman, despite the adjective "ALL" not being present in my original message

Because that is how women are. They have to be in control at all times, including control over the man. They don't think or take accountability for themselves, and when that guy doesn't call her for a second date, because she didn't out out and they both felt the same chemistry(meaning he smelled of money), she will blame him for going "ghost".

Not "some".

A generalization is defined as a broad statement or an idea that applies to a group of people or things. Oftentimes, generalizations are not entirely true, because there may be examples of individuals or situations wherein the generalization does not apply.

Meaning, that while it may not apply to ALL women, it is designed to offend the women that are guilty. By definition, a generalization MAY be true in some cases.

However, under no circumstances have I indicated ALL women. There is only one generalization, that I apply ALL to, about women: ALL women are liars.

Good morning beautiful

As a 'generalization' it is addressed to and would possibly offend ALL that belong to the group that is being generalized.

It doesn't matter, so many of your posts are grandly exaggerating the faults of women. You seem to be in need of therapy.

So, you cleary indicate that I am pointing out the faults of women, but rather than women acknowledge their bad behavior and accept responsibility for it, I should get therapy......



By your very words, we agree that I point out the faults of women.

Please, feel free to keep kissing their butts and licking their boots.......

A generalization is defined as a broad statement or an idea that applies to a group of people or things. Oftentimes, generalizations are not entirely true, because there may be examples of individuals or situations wherein the generalization does not apply.

Meaning, that while it may not apply to ALL women, it is designed to offend the women that are guilty. By definition, a generalization MAY be true in some cases.

However, under no circumstances have I indicated ALL women.

Op i make my own decisions on these kinds of matters.If u were self secure/self confident u wud prob do the same.

I don't think Herpes cares if you do it on the first date or the 10th one