Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?

1/14/2016 2:03:15 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	Why or why not? Like could be holding hands, kissing or making out etc stuff like that I mean. Is it a good idea to avoid or turn it down until you feel you know them more OR would holding off on it make it awkward in the future? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
1/14/2016 2:07:37 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
soulflight Baltimore, MD 54, joined Apr. 2014	There is no answer that can be applied across the board. Each person should decide what is right for them according to each situation.
1/14/2016 2:12:08 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
viper1e Jeannette, PA 58, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from SadisticSienna: Why or why not? Like could be holding hands, kissing or making out etc stuff like that I mean. Is it a good idea to avoid or turn it down until you feel you know them more OR would holding off on it make it awkward in the future? Depends. Do you want a second date?
1/14/2016 2:15:24 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
lynyrd80 Wood River, NE 54, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from soulflight: There is no answer that can be applied across the board. Each person should decide what is right for them according to each situation.
1/14/2016 2:26:19 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
zhaed Archbold, OH 38, joined Jul. 2011	From a pure biological view point. Men are designed to move things move as quickly as possible. Most women however feel a natural need to take it slow. It is simply how we are designed due to reproductive turnaround. This is the simple raw instinct of all life. Once psychology and social expectations are applied however, things don't necessarily follow the biological standard.
1/14/2016 2:54:52 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
joe4u2explore Lombard, IL 49, joined Aug. 2013	Why did this puritan thinking ever become a thing? First off, obviously as soul adeptly stated, it is subjective to each situation. But, there is no boundary between the when of any physical contact, meaning some people love to shag and if they want to go out and find someone to do it with, great. Others believe in minimal physical contact even long after the first date. If that works or them, great. I never understand these types of posts that are so subjective, they become completely arbitrary.
1/14/2016 2:56:48 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
amusicluvr Salem, OR 63, joined Nov. 2013	Every couple, and situation, is different. There can never be hard and fast, one answer fits all, type replies to such stupid questions....except: "that is a stupid question."
1/14/2016 4:42:18 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 61, joined Apr. 2011	Quote from SadisticSienna: Why or why not? Like could be holding hands, kissing or making out etc stuff like that I mean. Is it a good idea to avoid or turn it down until you feel you know them more OR would holding off on it make it awkward in the future? Well..I think this question may be a few decades too late. Many don't consider sex such a bad thing on the first date these days. There is not set answer...the thing is to find and have someone be that person to be there to the end and you be that for them...is slim odds these days...mainly because people don't have convictions to stay and get thru the hard times and bail. Which leaves you with all these failed relations to wonder about what and why things didn't go right. Perhaps nothing has changed much in this reference you posted here....except that in the past, the odds were they had known each other some, before getting to that point. I suppose anytime you start romance and/or sex before you really know each other.....your making a bigger risk, than otherwise. [Edited 1/14/2016 4:44:37 PM ]
1/14/2016 4:45:51 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 61, joined Apr. 2011	Quote from zhaed: From a pure biological view point. Men are designed to move things move as quickly as possible. Most women however feel a natural need to take it slow. It is simply how we are designed due to reproductive turnaround. This is the simple raw instinct of all life. Once psychology and social expectations are applied however, things don't necessarily follow the biological standard. I don't know....I've had girls and women who seemed in a hurry at times. I think it just depends on the situation.
1/14/2016 4:55:19 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
mortara Pittsburgh, PA 62, joined Feb. 2014 online now!	Quote from SadisticSienna: Why or why not? Like could be holding hands, kissing or making out etc stuff like that I mean. Is it a good idea to avoid or turn it down until you feel you know them more OR would holding off on it make it awkward in the future? All I know is, if you don't hold my hand going to the car, you will never get a call no matter what went on at the Coffee Date.
1/14/2016 5:34:43 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 51, joined Jul. 2013	Quote from soulflight: There is no answer that can be applied across the board. Each person should decide what is right for them according to each situation. Soul said it best
1/14/2016 6:05:59 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
truly000 Fort Dodge, IA 37, joined Dec. 2011	Everyone is going to have a different answer. It's been a while since I dated. 5 years. Ending them with a hug was standard. Some guys are just looking to get laid and will try to make you believe anything for it. .taking it slow helps to weed out those who are looking for the lay from those who are actually interested in you as a person. Which you will find is not many of any at all.
1/14/2016 6:14:48 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
theloser2123 Manassas, VA 24, joined Apr. 2014	If the dumb btch ain't blowing me in the car on the way to Applebee's for the first date she's getting it stuffed in her a* in the Applebee's bathroom
1/14/2016 6:49:57 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
jjp184 Somerset, NJ 52, joined Jun. 2013	Nothing wrong with a test drive before you take ownership
1/14/2016 6:57:20 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
grneyesrme Sacramento, CA 48, joined Aug. 2013	Quote from soulflight: There is no answer that can be applied across the board. Each person should decide what is right for them according to each situation. I agree with this.
1/14/2016 7:04:38 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
bluecougareyes Chelan, WA 72, joined Nov. 2008	NEVER !!
1/14/2016 8:37:41 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
lucky_1million Pewaukee, WI 49, joined Jun. 2013	I think a lack of affection on a first date could be read as a lack of interest by some. If I liked someone and thought we had a lot in common, I would continue to try to get to know them even if all I got was a hug good night.
1/14/2016 8:45:17 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
pagal17 Lancaster, PA 51, joined May. 2012	I like to greet my date with a hug. It breaks the tension. As long as we are realistic and realize sex on a first date doesn't automatically parlay into a relationship then do what you want. Having sex on every first date though, is not something I'd condone. It's your life. Do what feels right for you
1/14/2016 8:59:02 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 64, joined Oct. 2009	I'd go for it if interested. I'm too old to wait any longer. Any volunteers? Hey, I'll even use a little mouthwash. How's that, huh?
1/14/2016 10:23:16 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
sobe111 Miami Beach, FL 39, joined Oct. 2013	I like taking my time...I need to connect on more than just a physical level. ..plus I like to savour moments I like to think how it will be to kiss you hold you...make love to you.the build up is erotic.
1/15/2016 12:03:34 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
viper1e Jeannette, PA 58, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from truly000: Everyone is going to have a different answer. It's been a while since I dated. 5 years. Ending them with a hug was standard. Some guys are just looking to get laid and will try to make you believe anything for it. .taking it slow helps to weed out those who are looking for the lay from those who are actually interested in you as a person. Which you will find is not many of any at all. That's the biggest problem with "Born Again Virgins". It's got to be either/or. In their frigid world, it can never be both. It's a wonder how any of them EVER managed to get pregnant.
1/15/2016 12:07:04 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
cupocheer Assumption, IL 67, joined May. 2010	A DH 1st Date? A peck on the cheek if he Seabreezed prior.
1/15/2016 12:26:04 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
garravesh Etna, CA 44, joined Mar. 2008	A peck on the cheek......Never an intimate kiss...that is never appropriate IMO
1/15/2016 2:36:48 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	I suppose anytime you start romance and/or sex before you really know each other.....your making a bigger risk, than otherwise That is true
1/15/2016 4:22:14 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 35, joined Mar. 2013	Since we get stuck paying for everything or we won't get a second date, it is probably a good idea to male out but definitely not put out. You should always have a minimum of 24 hours of talking/dating, before you get in the sack. Give your instincts time to detect the energy of that person. No matter what, I have a 24-hour rule, before they get any from me.
1/15/2016 4:23:21 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	I thought you didn't pay for stuff?
1/15/2016 5:45:14 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 35, joined Mar. 2013	I don't. That's why I don't date. I refuse to pay for my "EQUAL" to go out. If she comes out, she better have her own damn money. Needless to say, that mentality didn't get me any second dates, when I was trying to date.
1/15/2016 5:56:56 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
idliketotalk Punxsutawney, PA 53, joined Oct. 2013	I have no problem with it, I say if you both feel like getting it on, do it.
1/15/2016 7:00:09 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	Needless to say, that mentality didn't get me any second dates Lmfao awww
1/15/2016 7:24:07 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
grande_mamon Houston, TX 49, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from truly000: taking it slow helps to weed out those who are looking for the lay from those who are actually interested in you as a person. That only shows who is patient. A person can want to f**k your brains out on the first date AND still be interested in you as a person for the long term... just as someone can have the ability to wait for date #9 to get the goods and then dump you straight away once they do. Personally I respect a woman more who doesn't play the waiting game and she'd be more likely to be taken seriously. [Edited 1/15/2016 7:25:34 AM ]
1/15/2016 7:30:19 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	I just make them wait because it's too risky esp with Diseases going around check first please
1/15/2016 7:33:52 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
grande_mamon Houston, TX 49, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from SadisticSienna: I just make them wait because it's too risky esp with Diseases going around check first please I don't think Herpes cares if you do it on the first date or the 10th one
1/15/2016 7:47:22 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	That's why STD tests
1/15/2016 8:03:04 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 61, joined Apr. 2011	Quote from grande_mamon: I don't think Herpes cares if you do it on the first date or the 10th one We know damn good and well, if the op went out on a date with a super cute guy....she'd be all over him as soon as he was ready for that. Why women bullshit this much on here, is beyond me....they ain't fooling no one...loll
1/15/2016 8:14:04 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
viper1e Jeannette, PA 58, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from grande_mamon: That only shows who is patient. A person can want to f*k your brains out on the first date AND still be interested in you as a person for the long term... just as someone can have the ability to wait for date #9 to get the goods and then dump you straight away once they do. Personally I respect a woman more who doesn't play the waiting game and she'd be more likely to be taken seriously. EVERYTHING he said.. If I'm put through the game, I'm MORE likely to dump her on the 15th date as soon as I score. She spent all that time building up her honeypot to be the be-all of human existence and then present me with just plain ole' pssy? Yeah I'll relish the, and the chance to retaliate! [Edited 1/15/2016 8:16:41 AM ]
1/15/2016 8:14:42 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
grande_mamon Houston, TX 49, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from SadisticSienna: That's why STD tests Few and far between, to the point I've never had anyone ask me to get an STD test, and if they did I wouldn't anyway...that would come across as a bit psycho.
1/15/2016 8:44:15 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
soulflight Baltimore, MD 54, joined Apr. 2014	Quote from grande_mamon: That only shows who is patient. A person can want to f**k your brains out on the first date AND still be interested in you as a person for the long term... just as someone can have the ability to wait for date #9 to get the goods and then dump you straight away once they do. Personally I respect a woman more who doesn't play the waiting game and she'd be more likely to be taken seriously. exactly. Have whatever intimacy you want when you want and because you want. Never base what you want or do on what response it will get. That's being manipulative of your "partner" and dismissive of yourself. Be a grown up, own your choices and accept responsibility for them. [Edited 1/15/2016 8:46:16 AM ]
1/15/2016 8:58:55 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
lynyrd80 Wood River, NE 54, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from lucky_1million: I think a lack of affection on a first date could be read as a lack of interest by some. If I liked someone and thought we had a lot in common, I would continue to try to get to know them even if all I got was a hug good night. This would work for me too.
1/15/2016 4:21:05 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	Few and far between, to the point I've never had anyone ask me to get an STD test, and if they did I wouldn't anyway...that would come across as a bit psycho. WOW WOW always std tests first thought this was like a golden rule???
1/15/2016 5:23:43 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
viper1e Jeannette, PA 58, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from SadisticSienna: WOW WOW always std tests first thought this was like a golden rule??? You're too young to know about it, but once upon a time in this country, women weren't ashamed to love the dck. In fact some women would come over and introduce themselves and then ask: "Ok so are we going to my place or your place"? Others didn't even bother with introductions. There was many a man that woke up the next morning, in a strange bed, and tried to sneak a peek at an envelope, because he couldn't remember or didn't know her name. Most of those women are the Born Again Virgins you see here today. Back then, to paraphrase Cindy Lauper (No, you don't know her, Google is your friend.) Girls just wanted to have fun. Can't wait until somebody makes a functional time machine so I can get the f*k back there.
1/15/2016 6:20:51 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	In the time of aids We know damn good and well, if the op went out on a date with a super cute guy....she'd be all over him as soon as he was ready for that. Hell yeah, depends How cute and ...... after I make sure his had his disease checks and that he hasn't f**ked the whole country [Edited 1/15/2016 6:22:54 PM ]
1/15/2016 9:23:09 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
lucky_1million Pewaukee, WI 49, joined Jun. 2013	Quote from grande_mamon: ...just as someone can have the ability to wait for date #9 to get the goods and then dump you straight away once they do. That seems like sort of a mean-spirited thing to do to another human being. It's too bad that some men choose to act this way.
1/15/2016 10:05:58 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 57, joined May. 2009	Mamon and Soul said it well. I'm with them.
1/15/2016 10:51:31 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
pickygirl72 Barrow, AK 45, joined Sep. 2011	First date is with a stranger. And i normally do not hold hands, kiss or hug strangers.
1/15/2016 11:36:51 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
viper1e Jeannette, PA 58, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from lucky_1million: That seems like sort of a mean-spirited thing to do to another human being. It's too bad that some men choose to act this way. It's even worse that some women are capable of inspiring it. Quote from pickygirl72: First date is with a stranger. And i normally do not hold hands, kiss or hug strangers. You've made it clear more than once that you're a walking, talking Frigidaire. [Edited 1/15/2016 11:38:10 PM ]
1/15/2016 11:50:00 PM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
flyfish77 Conyers, GA 51, joined Jul. 2014	i have allways did all things on the first date with most except a very few,im just passionate that way,and most of them are too,an just was great,an no worries,never had no disease ever...........
1/16/2016 12:31:31 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
viper1e Jeannette, PA 58, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from flyfish77: i have allways did all things on the first date with most except a very few,im just passionate that way,and most of them are too,an just was great,an no worries,never had no disease ever........... EXACTLY! If you're that paranoid, but you have to get your people tested before you'll sleep with them, why would you even want to sleep with them?
1/16/2016 3:08:01 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	Better being safe than sorry and I worry So fking much don't need to worry about that too
1/16/2016 4:03:04 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
cavie59 Enid, OK 57, joined Feb. 2010	On a first date I will ALWAYS err on the side of caution and keep my hands and lips to myself. In the arena here in the U.S.A. it always pays to let the woman make the first move. The reasoning is, if a man does make the first move and it is not what the woman wanted, she can have him arrested for sexual assault, sexual harassment, or just plain old simple assault. It does not pay to start any sort of intimacy with a woman, unless she has been very clear that intimacy is wanted.
1/16/2016 4:40:24 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
windy_rider Aspen, CO 40, joined Nov. 2014	It's never a bad idea if you feel comfortable. Comfort level should dictate whether or not anything happens or if you even make it to a second date.
1/16/2016 4:55:25 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	I thought guys Always make the first move??
1/16/2016 5:01:46 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
cavie59 Enid, OK 57, joined Feb. 2010	Quote from SadisticSienna: I thought guys Always make the first move?? Back before "Radical Feminism" that was how it played out. However in the U.S.A. today. a man can be arrested and charged for sexual harassment JUST for asking a woman out on a date. It is not worth having to register as a sex offender, for the rest of a man's life to do so in the U.S.A. today. Women wanted equality, let them step up to the plate and do the asking, get rejected, and maybe then they will see how it feels.
1/16/2016 5:28:53 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	Women wanted equality, let them step up to the plate and do the asking, get rejected, and maybe then they will see how it feels. LOl fk that
1/16/2016 6:31:01 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
flyfish77 Conyers, GA 51, joined Jul. 2014	she has to show me in small way or two,that shes for sure she wants even to eat with me etc,an they allways have.......
1/16/2016 7:57:42 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
mountain901 Pueblo, CO 44, joined Mar. 2014	I agree with cavie; if gals do get rebuffed then they will retaliate by questioning his/her sexual prowess, going after the momma for not raising you right, opening doors for us. And yet most of these gals love the thugs and felons forever wanting it both ways, it makes me ashamed about this! [Edited 1/16/2016 7:58:04 AM ]
1/16/2016 8:07:56 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 61, joined Apr. 2011	Quote from SadisticSienna: I thought guys Always make the first move?? Nope...I've had several times in my life where girls or women made the first moves. and even if its not an obvious first move...there are subtle things a women can do, that gets the ball rolling.
1/16/2016 8:25:21 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
SadisticSienna AñatuyaNew South Wales Australia 23, joined Nov. 2015	Nope...I've had several times in my life where girls or women made the first moves. and even if its not an obvious first move...there are subtle things a women can do, that gets the ball rolling. I mean if you've been together for a while sure but if not I'd be hella shy x.x
1/16/2016 9:17:46 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 57, joined May. 2009	Quote from pickygirl72: First date is with a stranger. And i normally do not hold hands, kiss or hug strangers. Do you mean people that you've met in an online venue as opposed to meeting through friends or your daily activities? To me, they're not strangers because we've had some interaction prior to a first date. They're not someone I know inside and out but they're not totally unknown to me. Anyway, I will hug in greeting, and I do hug strangers. lol...not like I go up and grab people from off the street to hug, but there are many occasions where a hug happens. Quote from SadisticSienna: I thought guys Always make the first move?? Women have been making the first moves, too, since time began. They just went about it differently. A first move can be anything from making it obvious to the guy that you're interested and he should ask you out (or kiss you) to doing the asking. My grandmother used to give me tips on how to catch a guy.
1/16/2016 9:19:41 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
maniacmassager Lawrence, MA 50, joined Mar. 2008	Quote from truly000: Everyone is going to have a different answer. It's been a while since I dated. 5 years. Ending them with a hug was standard. Some guys are just looking to get laid and will try to make you believe anything for it. .taking it slow helps to weed out those who are looking for the lay from those who are actually interested in you as a person. Which you will find is not many of any at all. Ill volunteer to end your 5 year non dating streak.
1/16/2016 9:22:34 AM	Is kissing/or any kind of intimacy a bad idea on first dates?
lynyrd80 Wood River, NE 54, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from cavie59: On a first date I will ALWAYS err on the side of caution and keep my hands and lips to myself. In the arena here in the U.S.A. it always pays to let the woman make the first move. The reasoning is, if a man does make the first move and it is not what the woman wanted, she can have him arrested for sexual assault, sexual harassment, or just plain old simple assault. It does not pay to start any sort of intimacy with a woman, unless she has been very clear that intimacy is wanted. Exactly And dancing with your girlfriends doesn't help, along with staring at your phone.

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