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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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Is it a good idea?
It would weed out the guys who only care about sex
(most guys)
By sexual activities I mean sex and any other sexual kind of stuff
you know what I mean : P
Kay gotta goo
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| 2/17/2016 11:53:55 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
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I can give you my point of view, then everyone is different and needs to do what make them feel good...
I would be careful to have sex, especially unprotected sex, because unfortunately nowadays AIDS is more spread than years ago and we cannot ignore that. 
Also you want to avoid crazy people!
I mean even if it isn't the perfect love story, I would wait at least to make sure that my partner is not crazy....
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| 2/18/2016 1:40:15 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
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we all love sex though,male an female
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| 2/18/2016 1:51:55 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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Depends what you mean by crazy!
But yeah good point.
STDs and such are a really good reason alone to hold off on it
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
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It's the best idea. Sex wont keep him.
Either way it goes if he does just walk away, don't let it be AFTER he got what he wants.
Let him walk away sulking that he didn't get what he wanted.
No matter what, he's leaving when he's ready and moving on to the next.
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| 2/18/2016 2:42:26 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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Let him walk away sulking that he didn't get what he wanted.
Lol epic
Yeah that was what I was thinking along the lines of
 
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| 2/18/2016 2:47:44 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
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Is it a good idea?
It would weed out the guys who only care about sex
(most guys)
By sexual activities I mean sex and any other sexual kind of stuff
you know what I mean : P
Kay gotta goo
How about just avoiding any interaction with men, that way you do not have to worry.
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| 2/18/2016 2:51:32 AM |
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mr_imperfect
Philadelphia, PA
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Just because a guy waits lets say 2 or 3 months before jumping into bed with you doesnt mean he is serious and wants you for more than your body.
Back in my day it was a clear indicator he was a keeper if he was willing to wait for sex but these days even if a guy waits awhile for it there is no gurantee that once you open your legs and let him between them that he wont run off and find someone else a week or two later.
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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How about just avoiding any interaction with men, that way you do not have to worry.
I'm trying to date women but finding them seems to be more difficult
unfortunately ;p
Back in my day it was a clear indicator he was a keeper if he was willing to wait for sex but these days even if a guy waits awhile for it there is no gurwmtee that omce you open your legs and let him between them that he wont run off and find someone else a week or two later.
Yeah that's a good point also I was thinking about it be4
so then how about just not do it then
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| 2/18/2016 3:47:48 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
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Why don't you try this? Try going with what you "feel". Sometimes, the energy between two people actually does feel natural, and it may lead to a fast moving relationship.
In the words of Morpheus, from the first Matrix movie: "Stop thinking about stopping me and stop me."
The quote may be off, but the premise was that Neo could just "do" anything he wanted to inside the Matrix, by actively rewriting the code as he was inside the system. By "thinking" about how to do it, he was sabotaging himself and focusing on the wrong lesson being taught to him.
I have other suggestions, as well. I'll post them in a little while.
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| 2/18/2016 4:41:25 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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What I feel is f*cked up and doesn't work lol
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| 2/18/2016 5:29:57 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
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I've never been one to consciously avoid sexual activities, unless one of us was married or she was simply not attractive to me.
Her having sex with me never stopped me from seeing her again. I never had someone I was truly interested in hold off on sexual stuff for very long.
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| 2/18/2016 6:11:55 AM |
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jjp184
Somerset, NJ
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What the hell is left?!?!?!
Perhaps next time I meet a Heifer, I'll just give her a blank check so she can take her fat kids to Red Lobster and I'll sit home watching HBO
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| 2/18/2016 6:20:44 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Well....considering I don't push for or bring up sex right away anyway.
and considering that most of the women I dated pushed for it relatively very early.
If I did that....I guess they'd move on to someone who did.
Again op...your thinking from a mind that has not reached the age of wisdom yet....and not realizing what's really going on out there.
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| 2/18/2016 6:34:58 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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age of wisdom..... really?? lol
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| 2/18/2016 6:48:01 AM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
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Well....considering I don't push for or bring up sex right away anyway.
and considering that most of the women I dated pushed for it relatively very early.
If I did that....I guess they'd move on to someone who did.
Again op...your thinking from a mind that has not reached the age of wisdom yet....and not realizing what's really going on out there.
They pushed for it early because you sat back and put the choice in their hands.
This usually makes me want to screw a guys brains out too. I have a chance to breathe and deal with my feelings and enjoy my time with a person.
Too bad most guys don't realize this.
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siegev
Taylor, PA
32, joined Nov. 2010
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It depends on the people, I guess...
...but there are more important things to dating (and relationships) than sex, so I don't think it'd hurt, exploring those first and avoiding sexual activity.
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| 2/18/2016 7:01:36 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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age of wisdom..... really?? lol
Here's something you should do.
Keep on file, everything your writing these days.
Then in 25 years, take them out and read them....and see what you think.
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| 2/18/2016 7:06:31 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
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Yeah right, I write too much for that 
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| 2/18/2016 7:10:49 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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They pushed for it early because you sat back and put the choice in their hands.
This usually makes me want to screw a guys brains out too. I have a chance to breathe and deal with my feelings and enjoy my time with a person.
Too bad most guys don't realize this.
Well, the thing is...I'm not there just for sex and for the most part...I never was...I'd just assume it happens naturally when both are ready...and I won't go to bed with just anyone either.
In fact back in the day that was the case with a lot of guys....times have changed.
And I understand that if she feels comfortable, at ease and trusting....then she's only human and its been a while....and it just comes out.
But...I also make it tradition to chat for a while before any meets too...and I'm quite talkable and revealing...so by the time we meet, there is some trust already built up to a point.
But times have changed and from enough men's standpoint....as far as what he would want from a relation and women....Are women these days offering that? If not...then what's left?
And the image of women today shows mostly just sex.....we see on a favorite legit show on T.V....the main women star going to bed within ten minutes of meeting the guy.
With all this....we can't blame everything on the men.
Back in the day of more men seeking more....women had a much different image and gave more in relations too....had more or appeared to have more to offer, from a man's perspective than just sex.
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| 2/18/2016 7:17:27 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
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It's not our fault if they see us for good for nothing but sex 
their own thinking
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| 2/18/2016 7:22:09 AM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
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Is it a good idea?
It would weed out the guys who only care about sex
(most guys)
By sexual activities I mean sex and any other sexual kind of stuff
you know what I mean : P
Kay gotta goo
What if it's one sided in your favor?
i.e. he eats you out but you don't do anything back...would you be ok with that? (rhetorical question )
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| 2/18/2016 7:29:17 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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What if it's one sided in your favor?
i.e. he eats you out but you don't do anything back...would you be ok with that? (rhetorical question)
is this a trick question??
Probably no cos I don't care much for receiving oral
I never ask for that anyway, it's the guys that ask to do it to me lol
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
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@bumblebee
I'm not blaming men but... I feel like a lot of these women are lost souls who joined the crowd they couldn't beat.
When husbands and boyfriends were found spending all the bread and butter on strippers and hookers a lot of ladies figured:
I'm a good woman. I'm a lady. This got me nothing. This stripper/hooker has my man's attention and his money. What do I have? I guess I'm doing something wrong.
Women didn't want to take this turn but they assumed by giving a man what he wants they'd be happy.
Guys were pissy women were too guarded and difficult.
Now they're pissy that women are too easy.
Most of these women want to be the fantasy and this has proven that guys hate the fantasy and don't know what the f**k they're talking about.
There was an era of women we were ladies and elegant. But a lot of women who carried themselves modestly don't get the same attention and efforts as the one BARELY clad. I've always been one of those girls. I'd rather keep my integrity and stay true to myself than to worry about joining the crowd that's obviously winning.
Men continue to fail and think about that. Right now women are caught between pleasing themselves and serving the fantasy and men are resentful because they finally got that 2% they've fantasized about and are realizing that they threw away the 98% that they may never get back.
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| 2/18/2016 7:32:41 AM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
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is this a trick question??
Probably no cos I don't care much for receiving oral
I never ask for that anyway, it's the guys that ask to do it to me lol
who the hell doesn't like their genitals being stimulated orally???
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| 2/18/2016 7:35:34 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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who the hell doesn't like their genitals being stimulated orally???
Me apparently
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
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Is it a good idea?
It would weed out the guys who only care about sex
(most guys)
By sexual activities I mean sex and any other sexual kind of stuff
you know what I mean : P
Kay gotta goo
Having you considered becoming a nun?
If you're going to act like one, might as well get the free suit. 
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| 2/18/2016 7:43:52 AM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
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Me apparently
need to let go of whatever is holding you back, I'm sure it's psychological.
Let me know if you need genital...I mean gentle assistance and I'll fly the 12,000 miles out there.
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| 2/18/2016 7:52:12 AM |
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nyythawk
Denver, CO
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He's only dating you to get TO THE SEX. So, as long as he doest think there'll never be any, it'll be ok. Give him the impression he's never gona get some... he's outta there... with a quickness!
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| 2/18/2016 8:02:35 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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Let me know if you need genital...I mean gentle assistance and I'll fly the 12,000 miles out there.
Lmfao
I need this genital ..
Gentle assistance
where are you babe 
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| 2/18/2016 8:07:50 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
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In the age of skinny jeans, thongs, twerking, and hookups, it's kind of shocking to see so many damaged sexually repressed females out there.
Maybe daddy did "things" to them that permanently scarred them, but that couldn't be the case for all of them.
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| 2/18/2016 8:45:07 AM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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A woman not having sex with every man she has a date with isn't being sexually repressed or damaged.
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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Scarred from men treating them badly more like 
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| 2/18/2016 8:55:54 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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Wasn't daddy a man?
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| 2/18/2016 8:58:29 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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whatever floats your boat viper
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
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I never said that it "floated my boat". I just marvel at the number of broken toys.
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| 2/18/2016 9:15:13 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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broken toys?
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| 2/18/2016 9:17:00 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
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It's not our fault if they see us for good for nothing but sex
their own thinking
Lord, this is a sad statement to read.
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| 2/18/2016 9:19:18 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
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Is it a good idea?
It would weed out the guys who only care about sex
(most guys)
By sexual activities I mean sex and any other sexual kind of stuff
you know what I mean : P
Kay gotta goo
what about avoiding honesty or simply resorting to fallacies instead of honesty and reason?
Is it better to avoid sex to merely play word games for around an hour?
You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.
Plato
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| 2/18/2016 9:21:09 AM |
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rocky_dennis
Mechanicsburg, PA
36, joined Nov. 2013
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I've never needed to pursue a woman based on sexual activities, talk, actions, ect. The events I plan, take care of all that, where she brings it too my attention.
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| 2/18/2016 9:37:26 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
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Reminds me of the scene in Scary Movie 2, where Anna Faris just wants to be "buddies" with the guy, until she gets hit in the face with a football, and then her first wedgie.
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| 2/18/2016 10:09:14 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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what about avoiding honesty or simply resorting to fallacies instead of honesty and reason?
Is it better to avoid sex to merely play word games for around an hour?
I dunno about word games but I'd be up for a game of the Life game
Also I never said I'd be dishonest lol
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| 2/18/2016 10:56:56 AM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
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Just because a guy waits lets say 2 or 3 months before jumping into bed with you doesnt mean he is serious and wants you for more than your body.
Back in my day it was a clear indicator he was a keeper if he was willing to wait for sex but these days even if a guy waits awhile for it there is no gurantee that once you open your legs and let him between them that he wont run off and find someone else a week or two later.
I will go with that. My James Gandolfini looking and acting friend says he will wait years to f**k a woman. Although he says he never f**ks twice. Once his is done he is done and on to the next. He is not above working 3 or 4 women at once and he says women love that. Although because of his weight, he mostly f**ks with his tongue.
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| 2/18/2016 11:04:09 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
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If, for the women, it is meant to weed out men who only want sex
then, for the men, it should be used to weed out women who never want sex.
Just using your 'logic' of using sex, or lack of sex, as a filtering tool. 
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yz27500
Henderson, NC
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A woman not having sex with every man she has a date with isn't being sexually repressed or damaged.
True .
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| 2/18/2016 12:34:26 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
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but you were born as ice  holly......hey sara,get the one who you love an satisfies you forever,an then burn the weeds.....an yes,i,ll still be your crush.
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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Born as ice? As usual fly, you don't make much sense.
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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Fly...You need to stop acting like any women you are not dating owe you. I TRIED to be nice to you, but then you became pushy, demanding & delusional.
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
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nope your cold as ice,im friendly..your chicken shit,an really dont date anyone,be truthful. an that delusional word is not allowed,your not respected more for using it....your sweet nice...tease,,go away from me please..you wore me out with cold an boring,an refuse a simple phone conversation.so silly..leave me alone o k.......
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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YOU do NOT know when I date or not. You need to get a life & STOP prying into mine. I tried being nice to you, but you were pushy & acted like we are a couple.
WHY do I owe you a phone conversation if I don't want to do that!? You have a sense of entitlement issues. Leave me alone please.
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
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i wanna hear a voice many of us do,an cowardice is so silly,any time anyone is ready on here they can call me,3a m whatever,i,ll answer an talk big time....i aint stuck up,but smart off especially right now,an i,ll block.i have took enough......  your still messaging me,,you......leave me alone o yeah allways the man is guilty..........WRONG...
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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You are welcome to talk to whoever you wish. I don't owe it to talk with you. I do not want you having my phone number with the way that you act.
You stop messaging me too. I'd block you if I could, but can't right now. I am not going to message you back any more though. I have TRIED to reason with you, but there is no reasoning woth you. You only see things YOUR way. And when you don't get your way, you become mean.
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
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if a woman dont give it up, wats the point of dating them,??
thats wat women r for, to have sex, right??
wats wrong wit that??
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gothygoogoo
Red Bluff, CA
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and
run
the
rototiller...
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sweetlime4u
Ocala, FL
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if a woman dont give it up, wats the point of dating them,??
thats wat women r for, to have sex, right??
WRONG! .. 
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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if a woman dont give it up, wats the point of dating them,??
thats wat women r for, to have sex, right??
wats wrong wit that??
Then date men. Many are willing to give it up easily. 
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
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Then date men. Many are willing to give it up easily.
I knew u were gonna come out of da gutter,
so wat r women good for?? thats wy they have a snatch
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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Not just for sex, that's for sure. And if that's all you think, then be with one who just wants to be f-buddies.
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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Avoid?
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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If, for the women, it is meant to weed out men who only want sex
then, for the men, it should be used to weed out women who never want sex.
Just using your 'logic' of using sex, or lack of sex, as a filtering tool.
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