| 3/18/2016 9:22:04 AM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
57, joined Feb. 2014
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Age has a point. I enjoy sex,so if he didn't satisfy that aspect, no use in going further. However, that is only one part of a relationship.
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| 3/18/2016 10:01:25 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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I don't get it. Why would you date a man you have no sexual attraction to?
Exactly
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| 3/18/2016 10:04:56 AM |
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hotflagal
Jacksonville Beach, FL
61, joined Sep. 2011
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I don't get it. Why would you date a man you have no sexual attraction to?
you haven't been around here too long?
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| 3/18/2016 11:16:07 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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you haven't been around here too long?
Too many of them, are in it for the money..
You, however are the kind of girl that makes the world a better place. 
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| 3/18/2016 1:17:17 PM |
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xray6
Jacksonville, FL
28, joined Mar. 2012
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Once I Eat the p*ssy it doesn't matter what she thought.
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| 3/18/2016 1:36:50 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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hotflagal isn't ashamed of being a woman, like some of the females here.
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| 3/19/2016 9:42:07 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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I don't get it. Why would you date a man you have no sexual attraction to?
Exactly
My question has nothing to do with sexual attraction.
I never said I had no sexual attraction or anything did I
dur dur dur
Damn hate it when people make an off target post then others comment on it
AH
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| 3/19/2016 11:20:07 AM |
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xray6
Jacksonville, FL
28, joined Mar. 2012
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It's because everyone's tired of answering the same question from young women.
There is no 100% way to determine the intentions of a person.
There is a way around every strategy to weed out people with bad intentions.
The waiting is the oldest game in the book and the easiest to get by.
No matter what
The right guy
And the wrong guy
Both want to have sex with you. And they can be equally patient in order to get there.
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| 3/19/2016 11:21:47 AM |
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xray6
Jacksonville, FL
28, joined Mar. 2012
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The fastest way to catch a player is actually just to knock that part out.
If you have sex in a reasonable amount of time then you will have time to assess if he's trying to move the relationship forward or just doing enough to f**k you.
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| 3/19/2016 11:24:20 AM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
61, joined Mar. 2014
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^N**ger will give you STD!
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| 3/19/2016 11:31:25 AM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
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Some people HAVE to have sex while dating because there will be no moving the relationship forward for them... this is a lost option. The skill set is not there or they are not a desirable partner. A relationship is not going to happen.
So, it is best to get some sex while they can.
....That's what they think.
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| 3/19/2016 11:49:12 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010
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Sex
to save
the date. 
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| 3/19/2016 12:19:10 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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The fastest way to catch a player is actually just to knock that part out.
If you have sex in a reasonable amount of time then you will have time to assess if he's trying to move the relationship forward or just doing enough to f**k you.
The thing is, frigid women not only won't f**k you, they will pitch a total fit, if they think some other woman is taking care of you.
Women fought for decades for control of their bodies, and now they want to control a man's as well. 
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| 3/19/2016 12:28:26 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
54, joined May. 2011
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The thing is, frigid women not only won't f**k you, they will pitch a total fit, if they think some other woman is taking care of you.
Women fought for decades for control of their bodies, and now they want to control a man's as well.
OMG! Run for our lives, it's the Rise of the Women!
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| 3/19/2016 3:51:47 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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You would completely understand what we say, IF you ever actually got out of the "Friend Zone".....
I think I am going to make a poll, who is attached to what more:?
Poker and Jester at the hips
or
Legs' tongue to Feminist boot
I'll bet the percentages should be precision-scalpel close to each other
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| 3/19/2016 3:54:07 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
57, joined Feb. 2014
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I don't care about what he wants. While dating is what I want then if I want him, we will talk about his wants from me.
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| 3/19/2016 5:42:45 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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I don't care about what he wants. While dating is what I want then if I want him, we will talk about his wants from me.
Well, add another "hen" to the DH crew here; that will remain single for the rest of her life......
I take that back, there are some sucker, bootlicking men on here that would be perfect for you.
mylegsarecold, scoobs78, and a maybe that rightguyforyou are coming to mind.....
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| 3/19/2016 8:46:43 PM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
53, joined Oct. 2013
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ABORT!
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| 3/20/2016 3:42:32 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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lol friend zone ;p
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| 3/20/2016 3:47:30 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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hunny,your in bad need of a totally new and different subject to write about,and i care,an like you plenty o k..you were my pretty crush an i love you still........but once this story is told,it cant help but grow old.. 
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| 3/20/2016 4:59:46 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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Is it a good idea?
It would weed out the guys who only care about sex
(most guys)
Why do you care what guys want, you are looking for a woman.
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| 3/20/2016 5:02:51 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Why do you care what guys want, you are looking for a woman.
I prefer men but no guys in my country go on here so that's to deter guys from other countries lol
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| 3/20/2016 6:53:18 AM |
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ranconteur2012
Richmond, TX
56, joined Sep. 2012
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He's only dating you to get TO THE SEX. So, as long as he doest think there'll never be any, it'll be ok. Give him the impression he's never gona get some... he's outta there... with a quickness
gothygoogoo
Red Bluff, CA
59, joined Feb. 2015
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over and over and over...
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| 3/22/2016 11:36:26 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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isn't dating about finding someone to have sexual activities with?
Not if the woman in question is frigid.
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| 3/22/2016 1:26:27 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Im not "frigid"
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| 3/23/2016 11:46:54 AM |
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asterflower7
San Leandro, CA
30, joined Mar. 2016
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I think it's definitely a good idea. If a guy is worth it, he'll wait.
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| 3/23/2016 11:50:17 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Thanks!!
that's what I thought but I have a better idea now. Dating/bf/gf for 3 months and then break up.
So then I won't need to worry about them using me or anything weird since we would break up after that time lol. But no sex
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| 3/23/2016 11:57:48 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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Bullshit..
..how long a man will wait for sex with YOU is not a measure of his value.
... sex is not an award you make a man earn, that's manipulation.
Sex is an expression of yourself not a defining term of your value.
Don't use it as a weapon or bait, that's YOU defining your worth through sex.
Do it because you want to.
It's ok to enjoy your sexuality. It's not ok to judge others because they do and you haven't figured it out yet.
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| 3/23/2016 11:58:33 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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I don't enjoy my sexuality! lol
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| 3/23/2016 12:54:36 PM |
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agent_007_xray
Seoul
Korea-(Republic-of)
28, joined Jun. 2013
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I don't enjoy my sexuality! lol
HAHAHAH we cracked the case.
The problem is you.
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| 3/23/2016 12:57:03 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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I don't enjoy my sexuality! lol
I know. We all know. I was hoping you would give it a try but you lack the confidence to do that yet. That's fine...but atleast recognize that bashing men and judging women is a childish alternative.
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| 3/23/2016 1:05:11 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010
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I'm not so much driven to date for stimulating
conversation.
Let us pretend we're going steady
you're wearing me varsity jacket
senior ring for a necklace
and all of this is happening
online.
Oh baby
we're doin' it now. 
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| 3/23/2016 1:09:02 PM |
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agent_007_xray
Seoul
Korea-(Republic-of)
28, joined Jun. 2013
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The human is the only animal on the planet that manages to produce living beings that cannot handle the uncertainty of reality.
And it is getting worse with every generation.
The time of humans is almost over
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| 3/23/2016 4:13:08 PM |
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
44, joined Jul. 2014
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I wnt date a woman who dont give it up, wats the point, thats wat d*cks r fo, u stick em in c*nts,
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| 3/23/2016 4:17:30 PM |
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mrfckinpetey
Orlando, FL
31, joined Jun. 2014
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Just be friends if you don't wanna f**k.
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| 3/23/2016 4:37:21 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010
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Ah yes, the friend angle.
W/o benefits friends o' the fairer sex
are w-a-y overrated.
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| 3/23/2016 4:54:06 PM |
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
44, joined Jul. 2014
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| 3/23/2016 5:19:06 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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When I met my husband (been married for a year now) I didn't have sex with him until we dated for 3 weeks. I told him up front on the very first date that I wanted to wait and have sex. We made out, kissed, did all that on dates, but he was very sweet and agreed to wait. Now we are married and he is my soulmate. He is like no other man I've ever known. He has told me many times that I was worth the wait. He was tired of jumping in the sack with just anyone and having loveless sex just as much as I was and we enjoyed getting to know one another a little first. We've known one another for almost four years.
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| 3/23/2016 5:58:50 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
57, joined May. 2009
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Bullshit..
..how long a man will wait for sex with YOU is not a measure of his value.
... sex is not an award you make a man earn, that's manipulation.
Sex is an expression of yourself not a defining term of your value.
Don't use it as a weapon or bait, that's YOU defining your worth through sex.
Do it because you want to.
It's ok to enjoy your sexuality. It's not ok to judge others because they do and you haven't figured it out yet.
It's like we're the same person. 
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| 3/23/2016 6:10:10 PM |
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
44, joined Jul. 2014
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thts fckn stupid, childish, imature, if a woman told me that shit, id pull over n tell her to get da f**k outa muh car
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| 3/23/2016 7:07:20 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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I don't enjoy my sexuality! lol
That's more than obvious.
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| 3/23/2016 7:27:44 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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It's like we're the same person.
You flatter me
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| 3/23/2016 7:51:28 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
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Thanks!!
that's what I thought but I have a better idea now. Dating/bf/gf for 3 months and then break up. So then I won't need to worry about them using me or anything weird since we would break up after that time lol. But no sex
I think you can just be honest and upfront with the people you meet and say that you are not sure if you want to have sex with anyone at this point and that you might not ever change your mind about this. If this is not their cup of tea. They will let you know. And... this alone will weed out a portion men who are looking for an "easy A".
A light-hearted, romantic friendship doesn't have a beginning point like a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship has... so there is no need to end things unless someone doesn't respect your boundaries. People who enjoy your company with no strings attached and expectations... will spend time with you even if sex isn't involved.
I don't think you OWE anyone sex just because you go out on a date with them.
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| 3/23/2016 11:55:09 PM |
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
44, joined Jul. 2014
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I flat u wife b*tch
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| 3/24/2016 2:52:53 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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say that you are not sure if you want to have sex with anyone at this point and that you might not ever change your mind about this
This is a good idea
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| 3/24/2016 3:07:19 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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I know. We all know. I was hoping you would give it a try but you lack the confidence to do that yet. That's fine...but atleast recognize that bashing men and judging women is a childish alternative.
Give what a try?
I'm confused! lol
and by not liking my sexuality I mean I don't like it because it kind of relies on other people/mates and they are not always the best. I don't like relying on others to have my needs met. Prefer it to not be like that.
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| 3/24/2016 3:34:44 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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same stuff every day,just go for somethin hunny.............too much talk maybe an not enough action.let somebody love you your so cute it should be easy. you worry and discuss too much..go have fun.it does take 2 to tango ya know........
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| 3/24/2016 4:44:05 AM |
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agent_007_xray
Seoul
Korea-(Republic-of)
28, joined Jun. 2013
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Give what a try?
I'm confused! lol
and by not liking my sexuality I mean I don't like it because it kind of relies on other people/mates and they are not always the best. I don't like relying on others to have my needs met. Prefer it to not be like that.
OMG I thought all the emo kids went extinct
Buy a Dog
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| 3/24/2016 4:57:49 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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and by not liking my sexuality I mean I don't like it because it kind of relies on other people/mates and they are not always the best. I don't like relying on others to have my needs met.
Then get a "Battery Operated Boyfriend" or B.O.B. for short. That is what MOST (not all) older women do.
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| 3/24/2016 6:42:12 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Who needs batteries lol
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| 3/24/2016 7:27:09 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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When I met my husband (been married for a year now) I didn't have sex with him until we dated for 3 weeks. I told him up front on the very first date that I wanted to wait and have sex. We made out, kissed, did all that on dates, but he was very sweet and agreed to wait. Now we are married and he is my soulmate. He is like no other man I've ever known. He has told me many times that I was worth the wait. He was tired of jumping in the sack with just anyone and having loveless sex just as much as I was and we enjoyed getting to know one another a little first. We've known one another for almost four years.
You would have been taken home, the minute you uttered the phrase, "no sex for 3 weeks".
If anything, that tells me that I have three weeks to hit a certain amount of money being sent on you, before you put out, but I don't know what the amount actually is. To spend over that, is not cost-effective. To not have the capability to spend enough on your "standards" is a waste of three weeks of my life, that I will never get back.
Better to go find a hooker. I know what I am paying for. I get immediate service, and I know the price upfront.
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| 3/24/2016 7:28:45 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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Who has sex with a guy in under '3 weeks' lol 3 weeks.
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| 3/24/2016 7:29:54 AM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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Who has sex with a guy in under '3 weeks' lol 3 weeks.
..that's a long list. Most women I've "dated" throughout my life gave it up on the first night.
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| 3/24/2016 7:50:14 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Well hot Damn
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| 3/24/2016 8:32:02 AM |
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hotflagal
Jacksonville Beach, FL
61, joined Sep. 2011
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Who has sex with a guy in under '3 weeks' lol 3 weeks.
who sets arbitrary limits on intimacy?
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| 3/24/2016 8:37:54 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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23, joined Jan. 2016
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Yeah who does that
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| 3/24/2016 8:55:46 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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who sets arbitrary limits on intimacy?
People who are either afraid of sex or use it as a tool.
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