2/24/2016 9:02:21 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
48, joined Jun. 2014
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yes there are many.women dont really want them
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2/24/2016 9:13:34 PM |
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legaleye
Columbus, OH
64, joined Mar. 2008
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Plenty of good men. Most of them are taken, not always by good women. What I have found interesting over the years is that several times I have been dumped because someone thought I was "too good to be true" so there must be something wrong with me. Therefore better to get rid of me now than later when bad things start coming out. Good grief, and women wonder why they are alone.
Funny thing though. After one of those ladies moved on to a guy who the requisite sports car, condo and boat on the lake, I got a call from her roommate wondering if I were available. Then the former g/f called after the new guy dumped her for someone with nice assets up high, but ya know what, no second chances.
I look for nice people who have kept themselves well over the years and who have at least an inkling of what it takes to be in a relationship. Age appropriate, imagine that. Still not a big market.
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2/25/2016 9:09:03 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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I'm out here, but I don't care for arrogant, haughty feminist lesbians who find pleasure whipping a man with her scalpel sharp tongue just to watch them bleed. Better try the local B&D Club, my dear.
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2/26/2016 12:26:04 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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lol how funny.
continue. don't let me divert the topic
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2/26/2016 1:30:56 AM |
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lookin4lifemate
Portland, OR
51, joined Apr. 2011
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Sure....but not having much luck finding a good woman who isn't taken and who wants long-term with a decent guy.
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2/26/2016 1:42:27 AM |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
68, joined Sep. 2009
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Sure there are nice guys out here. Respectable, fun, dependable and the whole shootin' match. If you care to see them then they are out here.
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2/26/2016 7:46:37 PM |
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jake_is_fake
Avenel, NJ
26, joined Jun. 2015
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No
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2/26/2016 9:19:31 PM |
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
53, joined Nov. 2013
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Good for what?
Killing spiders
Reaching high places
Fixing stuff
Looking good in kilts
What more can you ask for?
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2/27/2016 3:03:02 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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Sure there are nice guys out here. Respectable, fun, dependable and the whole shootin' match. If you care to see them then they are out here.
That is the thing, they do not want to see them.
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2/27/2016 2:42:27 PM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
48, joined Jul. 2013
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There are amazing men out there.
There are even amazing men on these forums.
The problem is we aren't always attracted to that amazing man or maybe he's not attracted to us. So many things can make us not right for someone amazing.
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2/27/2016 2:47:24 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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im a very good man,an born to satisfy allways..........
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2/27/2016 3:12:49 PM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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^^^That's true!
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2/27/2016 3:37:02 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010
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I Can See Clearly Now
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PaqXY5IUIDc
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2/27/2016 5:35:20 PM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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^^^^good song
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2/28/2016 1:06:02 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
54, joined Jan. 2014
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There are amazing men out there.
There are even amazing men on these forums.
The problem is we aren't always attracted to that amazing man or maybe he's not attracted to us. So many things can make us not right for someone amazing.
True, however I seem to live in an area where the single "ladies" don't seem to be looking. Or I guess I must be too ugly or something.
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2/28/2016 2:37:30 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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The problem is we aren't always attracted to that amazing man. So many things can make us not right for someone amazing.
And right here is the truth of the matter.
Most women are NOT attracted to good or amazing men.
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2/28/2016 3:04:39 AM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
27, joined Aug. 2013
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And right here is the truth of the matter.
Most women are NOT attracted to good or amazing men.
Or some of us aren't good enough for those men if we are attracted to them.
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2/28/2016 3:48:41 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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Or some of them aren't good enough for those women if we are attracted to them.
Fixed it.
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2/28/2016 4:21:50 AM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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And right here is the truth of the matter.
Most women are NOT attracted to good or amazing men.
It goes both ways. Some women are not attractive enough for some of the men. Some of the men want someone very hot looking.
[Edited 2/28/2016 4:22:19 AM ]
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2/28/2016 5:36:46 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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It goes both ways. Some women are not attractive enough for some of the men. Some of the men want someone very hot looking.
Funny, you always say that.
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2/28/2016 5:40:41 AM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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It's because it's true. Do you think there are not men who feel that they have to have a woman who they think is hot?
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2/28/2016 6:33:31 AM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
48, joined Jul. 2013
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And right here is the truth of the matter.
Most women are NOT attracted to good or amazing men.
You edited out the part where I said
And that amazing man may not be attracted/interested in us.
The last man I was interested in, had no interest in me.
I'm not sure why some people on here think women can have any guy they want.
It's like you think we just go to a restaurant and say.......
I'll take the tall handsome brunette with piercing eyes, a sense of humor and a steady job.
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2/28/2016 6:43:17 AM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
48, joined Jul. 2013
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True, however I seem to live in an area where the single "ladies" don't seem to be looking. Or I guess I must be too ugly or something.
I would be willing to bet that there have been women interested in you, but they just didn't trip your trigger or they weren't good at flirting and maybe you didn't realize they were interested.
Attraction/showing interest is a funny thing. What one person thinks is obvious, the other doesn't recognize.
Not to mention, I've never met a person that at some point hasn't been hurt(men and women) some folks have more guards up too. Makes it hard just being real and telling someone you like them.
My last date was November 2014. I've just decided to do my own thing, have fun and spend time with those I love. That's not very conducive to finding a mate.
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2/28/2016 7:08:46 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Thanks for keeping my threads alive LOl
XD
In my absence
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2/28/2016 7:44:20 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
53, joined Nov. 2014
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Maybe some guys "suffer" from "goldilocks syndrome", and are trying to find the woman that, "feels just right"?
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2/28/2016 10:20:15 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010
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^^^^good song
I can also see for miles
The Who - I Can See For Miles - YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q0iqg2UanEc
Artist: The Who
Album: The Who Sell Out
Released: 1967
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2/28/2016 1:47:12 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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holly is pretty outward physically,but ruined by being a n ice cold man hater,with no communication except hidden behind computer or smart phone,an shed die before calling,or allowing a call, truth hurts..dont like it,,get off an delete your cruel self...
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2/29/2016 12:59:26 PM |
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gothygoogoo
Red Bluff, CA
59, joined Feb. 2015
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some
guys
need
a
brick
upside the head every now and then...
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2/29/2016 2:01:49 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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You edited out the part where I said
And that amazing man may not be attracted/interested in us.
The last man I was interested in, had no interest in me.
I'm not sure why some people on here think women can have any guy they want.
It's like you think we just go to a restaurant and say.......
I'll take the tall handsome brunette with piercing eyes, a sense of humor and a steady job.
Well have ever occur to you that some guys you may have been interested in may not feel he is right for you ? Because you just mention he has steady job . If the guy knows he doesnt have steady job that may interfere with getting with you .
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2/29/2016 2:30:42 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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Well have ever occur to you that some guys you may have been interested in may not feel he is right for you ?
yes, she did.. read it again...
You edited out the part where I said
And that amazing man may not be attracted/interested in us.
The last man I was interested in, had no interest in me.
Because you just mention he has steady job . If the guy knows he doesnt have steady job that may interfere with getting with you .
of course it interferes..he doesn't meet what she's looking for... There is nothing wrong with wanting a partner to have a steady job.
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2/29/2016 8:39:08 PM |
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
52, joined Jul. 2014
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I am. I live 12,000 miles away and am 29 years older, though.
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3/1/2016 4:18:06 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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Nope, no good men left, or at least according to women.
See, if there WERE good men, you ladies would look right past them anyway.
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3/1/2016 4:46:01 AM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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It's not a matter of just is the man a good man. Two people need to be compatible. Same with a woman. It takes more than just her being a good woman. Being a good man or woman doesn't mean everyone is going to want that person. But that doesn't mean someone doesn't want a good man or good woman.
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3/1/2016 4:53:58 AM |
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sandycrabs
Land O Lakes, WI
48, joined May. 2011
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It's not a matter of just is the man a good man. Two people need to be compatible. Same with a woman. It takes more than just her being a good woman. Being a good man or woman doesn't mean everyone is going to want that person. But that doesn't mean someone doesn't want a good man or good woman.
Oh just come here and kiss me.
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3/1/2016 5:03:57 AM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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3/1/2016 7:36:00 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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lol you guys XD
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3/1/2016 8:34:32 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
54, joined Jan. 2014
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It's not a matter of just is the man a good man. Two people need to be compatible. Same with a woman. It takes more than just her being a good woman. Being a good man or woman doesn't mean everyone is going to want that person. But that doesn't mean someone doesn't want a good man or good woman.
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3/1/2016 9:04:21 AM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013
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^^ That statement is a BIG reason that there are some "Good Men" that do not say they are good or list their good qualities.
Therefore MOST (not all) women will overlook a "Good Man" on the internet, because they automatically see his statement as a lie, till he can prove otherwise by his ACTIONS. Therefore he does not get a chance at all .
This!!!
We get shut down before we even get a chance to prove ourselves ....
And when given a chance we better not do one thing wrong or say something that the woman doesnt agree with or we will never hear fron her again....
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3/1/2016 9:18:12 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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So, are you saying men accept women at their word...without any observation of them in the real world?
Are you saying that men give women a chance without any hesitation?
Are you saying men never pass on a woman based on her picture/s or what she says in her profile?
Is that what you are saying?
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3/1/2016 9:21:42 AM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013
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Yes!
Unless they start with "my kids come first" cuz we all know what that means.....
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3/1/2016 9:25:08 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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I'm sure SOME do, just like SOME women do. Anyone who is not cautious about on-line interractions is naive. I met many men over the yrs but there were many more in whom I had no interest. BFD
I bet it's no different for you..or have you truly given every woman a chance?
eta: just saw your edit..so you clearly DON'T give them all a chance based on your own filter. Women have filters too. if you don't make the cut, you should jost be glad you/she didn't waste your time. simple
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3/1/2016 9:28:22 AM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013
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Not the fat ones of course.
Other than that yep!
Women just dont know what they really want in a man.....js
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3/1/2016 9:30:08 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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PEOPLE often don't know what they want until they find it..lol
but are you really going to be upset about a woman who doesn't want you taking a pass? or do you WANT to be with someone who isn't interested in you?
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3/1/2016 9:48:13 AM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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Not the fat ones of course.
Other than that yep!
Women just dont know what they really want in a man.....js
Some DO know what they want in a man. I sure do!
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3/1/2016 7:12:36 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013
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PEOPLE often don't know what they want until they find it..lol
but are you really going to be upset about a woman who doesn't want you taking a pass? or do you WANT to be with someone who isn't interested in you?
I want someone who is interested in me of course...
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3/1/2016 7:42:26 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
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I am. I live 12,000 miles away and am 29 years older, though.
You seem like a decent guy.
I am sure there are others on this forum... but sometimes people are working through issues and need to vent.
IMO... Sometimes it's difficult to tell who is really a good guy until you've known them for a couple of years.
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3/1/2016 10:01:20 PM |
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pagal17
Lancaster, PA
51, joined May. 2012
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There are plenty of good men and women. The difficulty is in the chemistry.
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3/1/2016 10:07:44 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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no,not plenty,fewer than i thought,i admire who has a pic,and is not invisible,or covered with weird hard to understand quotes..im a very good man in all ways...but theres no trust here,only suspicious,an no fire,spark,chemistry, women seem to go for weird lookin dudes.
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3/1/2016 10:13:50 PM |
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pagal17
Lancaster, PA
51, joined May. 2012
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awww Fly, ya gonna stay mad at me forever for the "no spark" comment ?
If I had a dollar for every guy that wasn't attracted to me , I could go on a very nice vacation
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3/1/2016 10:25:58 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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sara hunny..cut back on half of what you say,i know your a pretty young woman,kinda chill a little,you dont have to remark 500 words about every single thing o k..an you know i love you baby,i was your crush,an send more pics,,there nice..you hear me sweety..you know me..im your friend......
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3/1/2016 10:45:48 PM |
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rgd1313
Rosenberg, TX
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Yes please tell me I can still find a gentleman do they still exist
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3/1/2016 10:46:47 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Does he tell you he loves you when you least expect it?
Does he flutter your heart when he kisses your neck?
No scientist or biology
It's obvious when he's holding me
It's only natural that I'm so affected, oh, oh, oh
And my heart won't beat again
If I can't feel him in my veins
No need to question, I already know
It's in his DNA
D-D-D-DNA
It's in his DNA
And he just takes my breath away
B-b-b-breath away
I feel it every day,
And that's what makes a man
Not hard to understand
Perfect in every way
I see it in his face
Nothing more to say
It's in his D-D-D-DNA
It's the blue in his eyes that helps me see the future
Fingerprints that leave me covered for days, yeah, hey, yeah
Now I don't have any first degree
But I know, what he does to me
No need to work it out, it's so familiar, oh, oh, oh
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uw9qPPMnSgY&index=49&list=PL8MQivHZSJxywjMLz2uoCMAzgazL5FStr
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3/1/2016 11:14:27 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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Good women today are kind of like dinosaurs. You can go to the desert and find fossils, but don't expect to see any walking in the park
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3/1/2016 11:16:24 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Perhaps for you hunny
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3/1/2016 11:27:47 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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You're too young.
I'm not doubledork.
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3/1/2016 11:31:13 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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lmfao
anyways I found someone amazing
He might be heaps far away but he's with me in spirit and
he could prolly meet me in the not so distance future *fingers crossed*
It's always when I give up that I meet someone that is soo
oh my gosh
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3/2/2016 8:27:48 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
54, joined Jan. 2014
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awww Fly, ya gonna stay mad at me forever for the "no spark" comment ?
If I had a dollar for every guy that wasn't attracted to me , I could go on a very nice vacation
Subtract $1.00 from me, if you were closer.
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3/2/2016 11:24:24 AM |
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pagal17
Lancaster, PA
51, joined May. 2012
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darn those miles
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3/2/2016 8:32:45 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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im david..and im not inferior..am on fire for the right one..i have seen some womens choices,,short dark,an just weird..no more compliments or wake up calls.
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3/2/2016 8:35:12 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
48, joined Jun. 2014
online now!
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yes but u ladies dont want one
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