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3/22/2016 10:03:45 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

fairymaiden
Over 2,000 Posts (3,242)
Bristol, CT
49, joined Mar. 2014


I read Move2themusic's thread about people having profiles that say that they're just here for the forums and I being single/unattached/available have my own opinion on that. But then coincidentally along comes Inknpink's & Capam13's thread about how they're "deleting for love" because they found each other.

So I have to ask... why are you still on this dating site if you are married or have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Why haven't you "deleted for love"?

Honestly, and I'm sure this is going to piss a lot of people off, why should I as a truly single/unattached/available female have to try to figure out which male forum posters are available and which ones are already taken? How is that fair? Same goes for the available male posters on here as well... why should they have to try to figure out which women are already taken??

I know some people have made friends here, but is this the only place to talk? Why can't the truly single/unattached/available singles have their own place to hang out, which is really what this forum is supposed to be about anyways.

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3/22/2016 10:06:25 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


probably because a few other members think they are in charge so they get to say when and if we have a place to talk and tell us who or who not to talk to like they are trying to regulate things. they send nasty emails to people because someone is talking and talking to someone else they dont like. they chastise u in the forums for liking n talking to someone they dispise...



[Edited 3/22/2016 10:09:51 PM ]

3/22/2016 10:09:48 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

lunaglider
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,238)
Vail, CO
96, joined Dec. 2013


95% of these posters are not here looking for anyone. Just here to shoot the shit or in some cases cause shit....

3/22/2016 10:09:53 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

dasnixter
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,252)
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010


I haven't read that thread, but

I'm here for Schlitz n grins I suppose.

Not a whole lot of ladies

in this neck o' da woods.



[Edited 3/22/2016 10:11:08 PM ]

3/22/2016 10:19:40 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,850)
FukunoFukuno
Japan
49, joined Feb. 2016


It's bullshit if someone is married or in a relationship and does not clearly state it on their profile .. In my opinion .. or their profile name Marriedandcheating


I was on here with my boyfriend (now ex) .. he had full access to my profile.

Where do you think people should who have built posting friendships with ... communicate if not here

I would think most would feel more comfortable if those friendships remain in public on a forum, than be taken offline say via phone or in person ... if in a relationship

If I ever have another relationship and I'm still posting here .. I'm not going to stop just because I'm in a relationship ... just as I would not give up anything else I enjoy ... never again. Accept me as I am or don't

3/22/2016 10:22:52 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
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FukunoFukuno
Japan
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Quote from scoobs78:
probably because a few other members think they are in charge so they get to say when and if we have a place to talk and tell us who or who not to talk to like they are trying to regulate things. they send nasty emails to people because someone is talking and talking to someone else they dont like. they chastise u in the forums for liking n talking to someone they dispise...



Scoobs are you referring to me?

3/22/2016 10:28:23 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
god_says
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,423)
Cabo San Lucas
Mexico
48, joined Aug. 2014


Movez2thehallucinations is a dumb b*tch.

3/22/2016 10:29:17 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


no i was speaking in general it hasnt happend just once on dh it has happened multiple times



[Edited 3/22/2016 10:29:41 PM ]

3/22/2016 10:29:46 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
aintmyb_tch
Over 2,000 Posts (3,644)
Ponchatoula, LA
96, joined Aug. 2015


(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

3/22/2016 10:29:48 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
craftybtch
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Ocala, FL
97, joined Feb. 2015


Too many scammers,liars,and catfish
I've never dated from here
And never would

3/22/2016 10:30:53 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
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Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


but u got a good e-son from the forums



[Edited 3/22/2016 10:31:08 PM ]

3/22/2016 10:31:41 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
craftybtch
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Ocala, FL
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Quote from scoobs78:
but u got a good e-son from the forums





3/22/2016 10:32:24 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

blondie855
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,119)
Fort Madison, IA
60, joined Aug. 2014


Quote from scoobs78:
probably because a few other members think they are in charge so they get to say when and if we have a place to talk and tell us who or who not to talk to like they are trying to regulate things. they send nasty emails to people because someone is talking and talking to someone else they dont like. they chastise u in the forums for liking n talking to someone they dispise...



Yep... And we know who don't we scoobs....

Some brave and others idiots...

And one, with goofy photos and stupid post, whom calls himself the king of the forums...





3/22/2016 10:34:19 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

greeleybro
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,528)
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013


I was on this site for 2 yrs with no luck.....
But found the forums and im loving the interaction with dh posters! If i fine someone ill still be here for entertainment purposes only!

3/22/2016 10:35:11 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


and a fat middle aged n broke uber driver shakin his pom pons cheerleading for him



[Edited 3/22/2016 10:35:47 PM ]

3/22/2016 10:43:18 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

dasnixter
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,252)
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010


Might as well face it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZuYiVlesx0



Your lights are on, but you're not home
Your mind is not your own
Your heart sweats, your body shakes
Another kiss is what it takes
You can't sleep, you can't eat
There's no doubt, you're in deep
Your throat is tight, you can't breathe
Another kiss is all you need
Whoa, you like to think that you're immune to the stuff, oh yeah
It's closer to the truth to say you can't get enough
You know you're gonna have to face it, you've deleted for love

3/22/2016 10:47:16 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

fairymaiden
Over 2,000 Posts (3,242)
Bristol, CT
49, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from movez2themusic:
Where do you think people should who have built posting friendships with ... communicate if not here


But are they really "friends"? Do you actually spend time with them outside the forums and talk on the phone? If not, I'd hardly consider them a real friend. They're just an online persona and for all you know you could be talking to someone from Nigeria.

There are thousands of other forums you could be posting on together if that's something you really like to do. This singles site isn't the only forum out there.

3/22/2016 10:50:01 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
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FukunoFukuno
Japan
49, joined Feb. 2016


Quote from aintmyb_tch:


But we are all supposed to make it easy and disappear from here because the OP does not want to do her homework in checking facts. What a crock of horseshit.


Soul ... No need to get shitty .. Slow your roll darlin. Easssssyyyyyyyyy

3/22/2016 10:50:36 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

lunaglider
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,238)
Vail, CO
96, joined Dec. 2013


I talk to someone from these forums on the phone.....not from Nigeria but close....Texas. Same difference

3/22/2016 10:55:05 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

fairymaiden
Over 2,000 Posts (3,242)
Bristol, CT
49, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from aintmyb_tch:


But we are all supposed to make it easy and disappear from here because the OP does not want to do her homework in checking facts. What a crock of horseshit.


Wow, and THIS is exactly what I'm talking about.... what a load of absolute bullshit. Tell you what sweetheart, do you have a boyfriend on here? Because if you do I want to know his posting name is so that I can relentlessly hit on him until he breaks because in my book, if he's on here, HE'S FAIR GAME.

I, or anyone else who's single, shouldn't HAVE to do homework.

3/22/2016 10:55:11 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
god_says
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,423)
Cabo San Lucas
Mexico
48, joined Aug. 2014


This is DH

3/22/2016 10:57:49 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,850)
FukunoFukuno
Japan
49, joined Feb. 2016


Quote from fairymaiden:
But are they really "friends"? Do you actually spend time with them outside the forums and talk on the phone? If not, I'd hardly consider them a real friend. They're just an online persona and for all you know you could be talking to someone from Nigeria.

There are thousands of other forums you could be posting on together if that's something you really like to do. This singles site isn't the only forum out there.


That's kinda harsh ... but then why are you posting in the forums at all sweets? I mean if it matters where someone is from that you are chatting on the forums with and all

I am not looking to date or hook up ... nor am I in a relationship. I am single.

But maybe you should consider this .. every once in a while, there are some unique people that come along that might actually have interest in helping to facilitate or help bring together other posters ...


For me personally, I just happened upon this site 4 years ago when I was becoming a single person. It's kind of like going to your favorite hang out spot .. be it a bar, restaurant, gym, dog park .. what ever ...

and if the site were JUST for singles, there would not be a choice of "in a relationship" or "married" .. just saying

I like posting with you .. My feelings are kind of hurt

3/22/2016 10:58:28 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

lunaglider
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,238)
Vail, CO
96, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from fairymaiden:
Wow, and THIS is exactly what I'm talking about.... what a load of absolute bullshit. Tell you what sweetheart, do you have a boyfriend on here? Because if you do I want to know his posting name is so that I can relentlessly hit on him until he breaks because in my book, if he's on here, HE'S FAIR GAME.

I, or anyone else who's single, shouldn't HAVE to do homework.

His name is Jake..................have at him.

3/22/2016 11:00:22 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,850)
FukunoFukuno
Japan
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Quote from lunaglider:
I talk to someone from these forums on the phone.....not from Nigeria but close....Texas. Same difference




3/22/2016 11:00:55 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,850)
FukunoFukuno
Japan
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Quote from lunaglider:
His name is Jake..................have at him.



ROTFL

3/22/2016 11:01:09 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

oceanblues53
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,574)
Cayce, SC
58, joined Apr. 2011


Quote from fairymaiden:
Wow, and THIS is exactly what I'm talking about.... what a load of absolute bullshit. Tell you what sweetheart, do you have a boyfriend on here? Because if you do I want to know his posting name is so that I can relentlessly hit on him until he breaks because in my book, if he's on here, HE'S FAIR GAME.

I, or anyone else who's single, shouldn't HAVE to do homework.




Like it or not, its the internet. If you don't do your homework you could end up dead.

3/22/2016 11:02:11 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

lunaglider
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,238)
Vail, CO
96, joined Dec. 2013


The Texans are going to be sending me nasty inboxes.....

3/22/2016 11:04:15 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


mom



oh shit op is on the prowl



[Edited 3/22/2016 11:05:03 PM ]

3/22/2016 11:05:10 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

urealysucklol
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,303)
San Benito, TX
44, joined Jul. 2014


Quote from fairymaiden:
I read Move2themusic's thread about people having profiles that say that they're just here for the forums and I being single/unattached/available have my own opinion on that. But then coincidentally along comes Inknpink's & Capam13's thread about how they're "deleting for love" because they found each other.

So I have to ask... why are you still on this dating site if you are married or have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Why haven't you "deleted for love"?

Honestly, and I'm sure this is going to piss a lot of people off, why should I as a truly single/unattached/available female have to try to figure out which male forum posters are available and which ones are already taken? How is that fair? Same goes for the available male posters on here as well... why should they have to try to figure out which women are already taken??

I know some people have made friends here, but is this the only place to talk? Why can't the truly single/unattached/available singles have their own place to hang out, which is really what this forum is supposed to be about anyways.
she a cracker

3/22/2016 11:05:34 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

Mercedes_02
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AñatuyaAñatuya
Australia
101, joined Dec. 2014


Ink & Capam

Oh shit I can't stop laughing

Forums is sweet f**k all to do with rooting other people.

Ask Lovethelake as she will have the patience to address you!~

3/22/2016 11:08:49 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

greeleybro
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,528)
Longmont, CO
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Thats it! Im outta here!!!

3/22/2016 11:09:26 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

Mercedes_02
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AñatuyaAñatuya
Australia
101, joined Dec. 2014


Quote from greeleybro:
Thats it! Im outta here!!!


Why?

3/22/2016 11:11:48 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
aintmyb_tch
Over 2,000 Posts (3,644)
Ponchatoula, LA
96, joined Aug. 2015


Quote from movez2themusic:
Soul ... No need to get shitty .. Slow your roll darlin. Easssssyyyyyyyyy


Oh I wasnt getting shitty. I just think it is funny that she thinks that just because someone is in a relationship they shouldnt be on here.

@OP, good luck with that.

3/22/2016 11:12:54 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

Mercedes_02
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AñatuyaAñatuya
Australia
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I can't stop laughing how the OP said people with partners are fair game.

Like they want her fat head

3/22/2016 11:16:43 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
stanleyzee
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (41,902)
Dayton, OH
59, joined Dec. 2012


AIN'T, I'm with OP... MFs r Selfish/greedy and ignorant

3/22/2016 11:19:37 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
aintmyb_tch
Over 2,000 Posts (3,644)
Ponchatoula, LA
96, joined Aug. 2015


Quote from fairymaiden:
Wow, and THIS is exactly what I'm talking about.... what a load of absolute bullshit. Tell you what sweetheart, do you have a boyfriend on here? Because if you do I want to know his posting name is so that I can relentlessly hit on him until he breaks because in my book, if he's on here, HE'S FAIR GAME.

I, or anyone else who's single, shouldn't HAVE to do homework.


Youve really been a very long time without sex huh.

Bless it.

3/22/2016 11:21:10 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
aintmyb_tch
Over 2,000 Posts (3,644)
Ponchatoula, LA
96, joined Aug. 2015


Quote from Mercedes_02:
I can't stop laughing how the OP said people with partners are fair game.

Like they want her fat head


Ikr! Somebody needs to inbox her a coupon for a vibrator with a hemi motor STAT!

3/22/2016 11:21:14 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


^^^voice of personal experience


lol @ the ones that get defensive when someone asks why they are here if they are in a relationship outside the forums



[Edited 3/22/2016 11:22:02 PM ]

3/22/2016 11:23:06 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


lol @ merky waters insulting someone else when she hasnt dated in over 40 yrs

fairymaiden has a better chance of getting a man and laid then merky waters does



[Edited 3/22/2016 11:24:17 PM ]

3/22/2016 11:24:05 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

fairymaiden
Over 2,000 Posts (3,242)
Bristol, CT
49, joined Mar. 2014


Words of wisdom from Scoobs... I think they get defensive because they know they are still looking for someone even though they already have a boyfriend.

3/22/2016 11:25:25 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

urealysucklol
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,303)
San Benito, TX
44, joined Jul. 2014


dam mercedes u looking good

3/22/2016 11:26:02 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
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Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


theres quite a few dingruntled n bitter posters here they blame everyone else for their problems and wont fix their own. u can see why they have not been with someone for a very long time so they are destined to be single till death but its was always their own fault

3/22/2016 11:26:24 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
stanleyzee
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3/22/2016 11:27:59 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

fairymaiden
Over 2,000 Posts (3,242)
Bristol, CT
49, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from Mercedes_02:
I can't stop laughing how the OP said people with partners are fair game.

Like they want her fat head


I'm sorry, but do I know you? I really hate to get catty here but if you're going to insult me first.... well, have you looked in a mirror lately? You're not exactly the most attractive woman out there. So if I were you I'd be careful as to who I call a "fat head".

3/22/2016 11:33:55 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

bluecougareyes
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Chelan, WA
72, joined Nov. 2008


Quote from aintmyb_tch:
Youve really been a very long time without sex huh.

Bless it.

Do you really think that "Holy Water' will do the trick ?

3/22/2016 11:33:55 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
im2thexy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,847)
Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014


This a dating site?...Ba ha ha ha.....


Ohhhhh and im not an animal..im not fair game for anybody...I do have a choice in the matter ya know....

3/22/2016 11:34:54 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


if u say so thex

3/22/2016 11:35:48 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
god_says
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,423)
Cabo San Lucas
Mexico
48, joined Aug. 2014


Quote from urealysucklol:
dam mercedes u looking good


Fords, you drinkin' tonight?

3/22/2016 11:36:13 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

fairymaiden
Over 2,000 Posts (3,242)
Bristol, CT
49, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from stanleyzee:


You're cute Zee... you like my thread?

3/22/2016 11:36:14 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
im2thexy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,847)
Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014


I say so...nobody's huntin me down without it.....

3/22/2016 11:36:43 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

lunaglider
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Vail, CO
96, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from bluecougareyes:
Do you really think that "Holy Water' will do the trick ?

No, but Miracle Gro works on many men.....

3/22/2016 11:38:40 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

oceanblues53
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,574)
Cayce, SC
58, joined Apr. 2011


lovebug, we've been doing this all wrong, you gotta relentlessly hit on them till they break. Where the hell is my hammer????

3/22/2016 11:39:49 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
im2thexy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,847)
Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014


That's what the basement is for..ain't gonna happen on dh.....shhhhhhh....

3/22/2016 11:41:18 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

oceanblues53
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,574)
Cayce, SC
58, joined Apr. 2011




3/22/2016 11:42:28 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
im2thexy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,847)
Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014


That's where ya break em...the lack of sunlight...food and sleep does the trick.....

3/22/2016 11:43:57 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

oceanblues53
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,574)
Cayce, SC
58, joined Apr. 2011


ohhhhhhhhhh... I was thinking knee caps and stuff..

3/22/2016 11:45:38 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
im2thexy
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Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014


That too if they don't comply.....





Possible 'bla bla bla' detected. You have already posted in this thread recently. Please wait for some other people to reply before posting in this thread again, or wait like an hour or so, whichever comes first. Sorry for the inconvenience.



[Edited 3/22/2016 11:45:48 PM ]

3/22/2016 11:45:41 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

lunaglider
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,238)
Vail, CO
96, joined Dec. 2013


Odd, I was thinking.....putting his d*ck in a vice and cranking it at warp speed. My bad

3/22/2016 11:46:15 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
im2thexy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,847)
Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014


You ladies are creative.....

3/22/2016 11:47:32 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

fairymaiden
Over 2,000 Posts (3,242)
Bristol, CT
49, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from oceanblues53:
lovebug, we've been doing this all wrong, you gotta relentlessly hit on them till they break. Where the hell is my hammer????


This is actually pretty funny. Settle down though, I was just mad when I said that and would never advocate relentlessly hitting on a guy until they broke as a method for obtaining dates. lol

Is Aintmyb*tch's boyfriend really Jake? I can't go thru with my threat if that's the case.