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3/23/2016 8:58:42 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
stregaleonora
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,658)
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014


I frankly don't know...

When I was in a relationship I always had better things to do than coming in here...

I think they are with mr./ms. Right Now, and so still looking...




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3/23/2016 9:15:19 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

fairymaiden
Over 2,000 Posts (3,242)
Bristol, CT
49, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from micheleisgreat:
You also said that your mother would know that you were raised well by your actions. This insinuates that you believe others who do not act as you do weren't raised well, as was pointed out to you by others.

Stating that a man is fair game of he is on this site even though in a relationship s not done as a senario. It was stated as if this was your belief. I don't know how you think anyone reading that statement would take it otherwise. Don't say what you don't mean.


What I was saying when I said that was that in MY opinion, my mother would be of the opinion that she had raised me well. Both my mother AND my father spent years shaping my morals. I'm sure she'd be proud of me. My Dad is still around and out of 7 kids, guess who he likes best? You guessed it.... yours truly!

And that "scenario" was nothing more than a scenario to say it again... that was put out there because Aintmyb*tch attacked me.

So let's get down to basics. Someone sets up a profile on a dating site. What are they there for? To date. So you meet someone and start a serious relationship with them. Why still be on the dating site, are you not focused on the one you've chosen? want to keep your options open? like all the male attention you get via emails and in the forum?

I'm not stupid, I know what's going on. Any woman here of even the most basic attractiveness is getting hammered by men every day. I also find it soooo interesting that it seems like most of the men would delete their profile if they found someone, yet the women wouldn't. Actually that doesn't surprise me a bit.

3/23/2016 9:20:45 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

mr_imperfect
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,710)
Philadelphia, PA
54, joined Sep. 2011


Once again if your partner is completely aware of your presence here and you are not trying to hide anything from them I see absolutely no reason why an otherwise married or involved person cannot continue to enjoy this site.

I can see for some it is an issue because they haven't learned to truly trust their mate. They probably expect their man/woman to drop all their semi attractive opposite sex friends also.

3/23/2016 9:22:28 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

flyfish77
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,055)
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014


wow,if only all 5 or so of them were here at once..cat fight.. psychotic reaction,my legs are so jumpy..break time..heather..you know what to do,no comunication breakdowns please.

3/23/2016 9:34:25 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (34,543)
Henderson, NV
57, joined May. 2009


Oh my.

I am not even of the most basic of attractiveness since I am not being hammered by men here at all.

I might as well just curl up and die.

I'm on a site I have no business being on because it is only about catching a mate, and I've caught one, and no man is hammering at me. At least since they aren't that leaves them for the single women. Which is really the point, right?

You don't want to do your homework, and just want to be sure that any man hammering at you is actually single and available. You want to believe a person at his word and be guaranteed that his word is his bond. And if that means you have to castigate people who are open about being in a relationship but still in your way, so be it.

Because, of course, this place is different than meeting people anywhere else, where they are all truthful about being single and available.

3/23/2016 9:37:57 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
bandit__geezer
Over 2,000 Posts (3,377)
FujianFujian
China
57, joined Oct. 2015


Quote from fairymaiden:I don't understand why you sound so furious in all of your posts in this thread. I mean, you sound MAD. What's up with that? It's more than just lil ol me posting my opinion.


You claim to know the purpose of this site. Did you ever have a conversation with its creator, Dustin? The last line of your OP is not stated as opinion.

I'm not angry. Just irritated by the fact that I thought you were okay. Turns out you are one of those people that cannot be wrong and are extraordinarily judgemental. You just dig your heels in and become pigheaded. You know what's inside everyone's head and heart. I'm out.



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3/23/2016 9:47:48 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,850)
FukunoFukuno
Japan
49, joined Feb. 2016


Quote from fairymaiden:
What I was saying when I said that was that in MY opinion, my mother would be of the opinion that she had raised me well. Both my mother AND my father spent years shaping my morals. I'm sure she'd be proud of me. My Dad is still around and out of 7 kids, guess who he likes best? You guessed it.... yours truly!

And that "scenario" was nothing more than a scenario to say it again... that was put out there because Aintmyb*tch attacked me.

So let's get down to basics. Someone sets up a profile on a dating site. What are they there for? To date. So you meet someone and start a serious relationship with them. Why still be on the dating site, are you not focused on the one you've chosen? want to keep your options open? like all the male attention you get via emails and in the forum?

I'm not stupid, I know what's going on. Any woman here of even the most basic attractiveness is getting hammered by men every day. I also find it soooo interesting that it seems like most of the men would delete their profile if they found someone, yet the women wouldn't. Actually that doesn't surprise me a bit.



I hate to break the news to ya darlin but they often delete and just come back with an anonymous profile and I can almost guarantee you ... the odds of you finding the kind of relationship you seek or need is probably not going to be found on this site.

There are some other dating sites that may be better suited for the type of man you are looking for.

How long have you been here?

and UMMMMMMMM ... your claiming to be your dad's favorite out of 7 children is very telling of you. I learned a lot from that forthrightness ... Thank you.

3/23/2016 9:48:59 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


or she just likes to ruffle feathers and sit back n watch the reactions like jester does! only problem is maiden isnt suckin off the government tit like jester is and is probably employed

3/23/2016 9:55:35 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,850)
FukunoFukuno
Japan
49, joined Feb. 2016


No Maiden is not here to ruffle any feathers ... Jester is just a freaking idiot

a space filler .. actually I appreciate him being here. He keeps the other idiots busy with his idiotic threads while grown ups converse and have lives and can actually share thoughts that are derived from real life personal experiences .

3/23/2016 9:59:58 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


im just saying shes a better selection than him and yes jester is a retarded f**knut. all she did tonight was test a few people and she got a reaction...it doesnt take much effort to spark a reaction on here.. look at me i left a lasting impression on some other f**knuts and they cant shut up about me and i didnt even try hard but thats probably because they are severely insecure before i even start to make them mad



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3/23/2016 10:07:40 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


im not even trying to make them mad and i can see the steam rollin outta their ears.

3/23/2016 10:07:49 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

didntreadyrnove
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,526)
New York, NY
40, joined Oct. 2015


Wtf novel writing of dh. We need a cliff note writer of dh is what we need.

3/23/2016 10:09:31 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


bumblebutt has that covered dear or was it spaz?

3/23/2016 10:10:46 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

didntreadyrnove
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,526)
New York, NY
40, joined Oct. 2015


Novel writing yeah I know. But who among us can take on the great task of the cliff note ?

3/23/2016 10:11:33 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


jester nah he cant spell his own name.....ummmm the OP?



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3/23/2016 10:12:33 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

didntreadyrnove
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,526)
New York, NY
40, joined Oct. 2015


Fly

3/23/2016 10:13:01 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,850)
FukunoFukuno
Japan
49, joined Feb. 2016


Quote from scoobs78:
im just saying shes a better selection than him and yes jester is a retarded f**knut. all she did tonight was test a few people and she got a reaction...it doesnt take much effort to spark a reaction on here.. look at me i left a lasting impression on some other f**knuts and they cant shut up about me and i didnt even try hard but thats probably because they are severely insecure before i even start to make them mad



Scoobs please go find your mom, your a** needs wiping FFS. It's embarrassing.

3/23/2016 10:16:13 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,850)
FukunoFukuno
Japan
49, joined Feb. 2016


Quote from didntreadyrnove:
Novel writing yeah I know. But who among us can take on the great task of the cliff note ?


You are welcome to hook up to my brain, it's all filed nice and neat, labeled, and categorized

3/23/2016 10:16:24 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


im not driving across town to bother her



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3/23/2016 10:18:24 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,850)
FukunoFukuno
Japan
49, joined Feb. 2016


Oh FFS now you need someone to hold your hand and help you find your way around the threads to find someone ... good grief.

3/23/2016 10:19:06 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

scoobs78
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,091)
Kansas City, MO
38, joined Jun. 2013


FFS no i function well on my own! dont need help like some of u f**knuts do!



[Edited 3/23/2016 10:19:57 PM ]

3/23/2016 10:20:58 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

didntreadyrnove
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,526)
New York, NY
40, joined Oct. 2015


Quote from movez2themusic:
You are welcome to hook up to my brain, it's all filed nice and neat, labeled, and categorized


Organization and I are not getting along at the moment.
If I hooked up to your brain wouldn't your brain as well get my brains file cabinet? I highly doubt you want or need to see that lol

3/23/2016 10:37:29 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

bluesrule
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (15,604)
Marshalltown, IA
59, joined Jul. 2011


Quote from fairymaiden:
What I was saying when I said that was that in MY opinion, my mother would be of the opinion that she had raised me well. Both my mother AND my father spent years shaping my morals. I'm sure she'd be proud of me. My Dad is still around and out of 7 kids, guess who he likes best? You guessed it.... yours truly!

And that "scenario" was nothing more than a scenario to say it again... that was put out there because Aintmyb*tch attacked me.

So let's get down to basics. Someone sets up a profile on a dating site. What are they there for? To date. So you meet someone and start a serious relationship with them. Why still be on the dating site, are you not focused on the one you've chosen? want to keep your options open? like all the male attention you get via emails and in the forum?

I'm not stupid, I know what's going on. Any woman here of even the most basic attractiveness is getting hammered by men every day. I also find it soooo interesting that it seems like most of the men would delete their profile if they found someone, yet the women wouldn't. Actually that doesn't surprise me a bit.



Although I am neither married or in a relationship, I was considering giving my input from previous personal experience. BUT this post of yours reads like someone rather immature. "Dad likes me best, she attacked me first, I'm not stupid but you are." All it needs is one of these

Now that may piss you off but you asked for opinions and that would be mine. Quite frankly most of us know how to weed the dishonest ones out. What I find interesting is that you seem to be having problems with that one.




3/23/2016 10:41:25 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,850)
FukunoFukuno
Japan
49, joined Feb. 2016


@ Heather - Mmmm ... yeah I was thinking more along the lines of some high tech machine and electrodes of some sort.


Scoobs ... go back and play in the pig pen dear. You need something to cry about. run along.

When you are ready to quite sniveling about getting dirty, I'm sure you'll either find a new hobby or you'll learn to enjoy the stench of pig shit ... wither way punkin, you smell no better than the pigs the only problem is they are in the pig pen oinking while you are in here crying about smelling like a damn pig!

Go wash up or don't ... just quite your b*tchen already. Every freaking day, same thing



[Edited 3/23/2016 10:41:54 PM ]

3/23/2016 10:43:50 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (42,583)
San Antonio, TX
51, joined Jun. 2012


Quote from fairymaiden:
I read Move2themusic's thread about people having profiles that say that they're just here for the forums and I being single/unattached/available have my own opinion on that. But then coincidentally along comes Inknpink's & Capam13's thread about how they're "deleting for love" because they found each other.

So I have to ask... why are you still on this dating site if you are married or have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Why haven't you "deleted for love"?

Honestly, and I'm sure this is going to piss a lot of people off, why should I as a truly single/unattached/available female have to try to figure out which male forum posters are available and which ones are already taken? How is that fair? Same goes for the available male posters on here as well... why should they have to try to figure out which women are already taken??

I know some people have made friends here, but is this the only place to talk? Why can't the truly single/unattached/available singles have their own place to hang out, which is really what this forum is supposed to be about anyways.


How many ppl use the net to cheat..tons..millions...thinking this lil site shld be immune..error in thinking..

As for the fourms? Most forums are a place to talk...for every one...there is one about Relationships....most ppl posting are not in one..hvnt been in one for a while..but since it is called Relationships..only those on one shld be allowed there ?

Sex and dating forum..only ppl actually having sex shld be there ? Etc.

What it may be is...projection. You wldnt stay on a site after you were no longer single..and you wld flip if your man did? So you are wondering why others aren't thinking like u do ?

Many ppl on here feel comfortable posting..here. Their situation has lil to do with that

3/23/2016 11:10:52 PM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

lucky_1million
Over 1,000 Posts (1,305)
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013


Quote from fairymaiden:
Any woman here of even the most basic attractiveness is getting hammered by men every day.


If you set your account status to "In a relationship" you will stop getting messages from BOTs and scammers and the majority of men on this site living in your city because the only link to your profile is through the forums.

It's almost as though you are posting on a forum independent of a dating site and... you are just here to exchange ideas and see what other people think.

3/24/2016 12:11:22 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

apokernut
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (15,700)
Elk Grove Village, IL
53, joined Jan. 2008


Quote from movez2themusic:
Scoobs please go find your mom, your a** needs wiping FFS. It's embarrassing.


OMG!! Too funny!! A fem giving Moobs the third degree!! Priceless!!

3/24/2016 12:13:39 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

apokernut
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (15,700)
Elk Grove Village, IL
53, joined Jan. 2008


Scoobs ... go back and play in the pig pen dear. You need something to cry about. run along.

When you are ready to quite sniveling about getting dirty, I'm sure you'll either find a new hobby or you'll learn to enjoy the stench of pig shit ... wither way punkin, you smell no better than the pigs the only problem is they are in the pig pen oinking while you are in here crying about smelling like a damn pig!

Go wash up or don't ... just quite your b*tchen already. Every freaking day, same thing
3/24/2016 12:14:11 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

hello_bad_kitti
Milwaukee, WI
50, joined May. 2013


Actually it doesn't matter what your profile says I still get Messages.

3/24/2016 12:25:19 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
tellitlkittis
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,700)
Los Angeles, CA
62, joined Nov. 2012


Quote from lunaglider:
His name is Jake..................have at him.





3/24/2016 12:30:35 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

hacksawjimthugn
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (68,072)
Bakersfield, CA
33, joined Aug. 2014


Cuz I've been looking for it in all the wrong places?

3/24/2016 12:35:46 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

greeleybro
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,528)
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013




3/24/2016 12:52:20 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

Mercedes_02
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,326)
AñatuyaAñatuya
Australia
101, joined Dec. 2014


Quote from hacksawjimthugn:
Cuz I've been looking for it in all the wrong places?


It's right between your legs bruv

3/24/2016 1:12:04 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

renee398
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,739)
Chilhowie, VA
36, joined Jan. 2015


Quote from scoobs78:
FFS no i function well on my own! dont need help like some of u f**knuts do!






Scoobs, did you just disappear again? Looks like I'm gonna have to train you better.

3/24/2016 2:28:08 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
cavie59
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,639)
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010


Quote from oceanblues53:
cavie, I'd never hit someone with a hammer, lol


But the blow up ones could be fun.

3/24/2016 3:03:24 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
kinderbtch
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,832)
Knoxville, TN
53, joined Feb. 2015


Cause wimmins are skanks. Especially on DH..

3/24/2016 3:22:47 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

dan9787_3
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,173)
Laval, QC
52, joined Jul. 2014


I'm here for the forums - for the most part. People can check out my profile and have an idea of what I want.

3/24/2016 3:37:05 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

silva_13_i_back
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,736)
White City, OR
41, joined May. 2015


Quote from kinderbtch:
Cause wimmins are skanks. Especially on DH..


Kinderb*tch hates "wimmins" but he sure loves his dildo s



3/24/2016 6:59:36 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

enigmaathand
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,965)
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from stregaleonora:
I frankly don't know...

When I was in a relationship I always had better things to do than coming in here...

I think they are with mr./ms. Right Now, and so still looking...
That is exactly why one of my exes still had her dating profiles active while we were in agreement of a "committed relationship". I was nothing more than "Mr. Right Now", because she hadn't been in a relationship in over two years. She used me as leverage to get other, more competitive men, to notice her. That was her way of finding something with better looks and more money, the only two things a woman ever cares about.

3/24/2016 7:10:15 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

enigmaathand
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,965)
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from bluesrule:
Although I am neither married or in a relationship, I was considering giving my input from previous personal experience. BUT this post of yours reads like someone rather immature. "Dad likes me best, she attacked me first, I'm not stupid but you are." All it needs is one of these

Now that may piss you off but you asked for opinions and that would be mine. Quite frankly most of us know how to weed the dishonest ones out. What I find interesting is that you seem to be having problems with that one.


Don't mind this hypocritical femi-Nazi. Me and her have gone rounds before, because she is a typical female.

She would be the type to flip the f*ck out if her man was on a dating site, but he would be completely invalidated to have any problem with her if she were still on here.

So, just ignore this one, because trust me when I say it, she is not worth your time.

3/24/2016 7:10:55 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

celyn67
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,609)
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016


Quote from kinderbtch:
Cause wimmins are skanks. Especially on DH..



3/24/2016 7:22:53 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

hippo65
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,036)
Albuquerque, NM
50, joined Apr. 2013
online now!


Because to me it just doesn't happen that fast. If ever..

3/24/2016 7:23:52 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

celyn67
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,609)
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016


Quote from fairymaiden:
Maybe everyone should listen to more of what he has to say. Maybe he speaks the truth but nobody wants to hear it.

What truth? F*ck...c*nt...being said over & over & over again?

3/24/2016 7:33:45 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

celyn67
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,609)
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016


Quote from fairymaiden:
What I was saying when I said that was that in MY opinion, my mother would be of the opinion that she had raised me well. Both my mother AND my father spent years shaping my morals. I'm sure she'd be proud of me. My Dad is still around and out of 7 kids, guess who he likes best? You guessed it.... yours truly!

And that "scenario" was nothing more than a scenario to say it again... that was put out there because Aintmyb*tch attacked me.

So let's get down to basics. Someone sets up a profile on a dating site. What are they there for? To date. So you meet someone and start a serious relationship with them. Why still be on the dating site, are you not focused on the one you've chosen? want to keep your options open? like all the male attention you get via emails and in the forum?

I'm not stupid, I know what's going on. Any woman here of even the most basic attractiveness is getting hammered by men every day. I also find it soooo interesting that it seems like most of the men would delete their profile if they found someone, yet the women wouldn't. Actually that doesn't surprise me a bit.

Some joined this site for dating & if they are with someone now, stopped the dating part on here & stay on just for the forums. Many on here like that have their profiles set to "in a relationship" so that they won't get lots of messages.

You can't know what's going on with each person if you don't know them or their lives.

3/24/2016 8:36:48 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
movez2themusic
Over 1,000 Posts (1,850)
FukunoFukuno
Japan
49, joined Feb. 2016


Quote from enigmaathand:
That is exactly why one of my exes still had her dating profiles active while we were in agreement of a "committed relationship". I was nothing more than "Mr. Right Now", because she hadn't been in a relationship in over two years. She used me as leverage to get other, more competitive men, to notice her. That was her way of finding something with better looks and more money, the only two things a woman ever cares about.


Last time I checked I am a woman and guess what chair .. The 2 things that I ignore or don't place value on (but boy let me tell you men sure want to make it clear how valuable it should be to me)

Your statement here is IMO you projecting your own insecurities onto women .. The one thing this woman places places very high on the "list" of what I value most in a man or woman ... Genuine confidence.

Why by the way would her choice not to be in a relationship for over 2 years play a factor (in your mind) as to her being insecure with herself?



[Edited 3/24/2016 8:38:57 AM ]

3/24/2016 8:47:23 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

Cicada3301
Hardwick, VT
96, joined Jan. 2016


Quote from movez2themusic:
Scoobs please go find your mom, your a** needs wiping FFS. It's embarrassing.







3/24/2016 10:44:16 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

dasnixter
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,252)
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010


I suppose because I haven't

had the time of me life

yes it's true

and it's all because of you.

3/24/2016 11:09:01 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

enigmaathand
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,965)
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from movez2themusic:
Last time I checked I am a woman and guess what chair .. The 2 things that I ignore or don't place value on (but boy let me tell you men sure want to make it clear how valuable it should be to me)

Your statement here is IMO you projecting your own insecurities onto women .. The one thing this woman places places very high on the "list" of what I value most in a man or woman ... Genuine confidence.

Why by the way would her choice not to be in a relationship for over 2 years play a factor (in your mind) as to her being insecure with herself?
She had a "reputation" that she earned, for her previous poor treatment and infidelity. She admitted she only dated me because she was lonely and even admits her problems with me were age difference, my job wasn't good enough for her, and that I wasn't controlling enough.

While we were dating, I witnessed her messaging guys from dating sites, exchanging phone numbers. I witnessed her passing her number out in front of me, to other guys at a local bar, as well.

If I have insecurity, let's think about why I would feel insecure about these things, when they have been done to me, right in front of me.

I also broke up with her, within a few days of witnessing those acts, and I refused to let her come around me. She begged to come over for a New Years function, I was having at my house, to which I told her to go out and get f**ked by her other boyfriends, since I obviously wasn't good enough for her.



[Edited 3/24/2016 11:12:10 AM ]

3/24/2016 11:14:53 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (42,583)
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That was a worthless human Enig...really worthless...

3/24/2016 11:20:41 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

enigmaathand
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Leavittsburg, OH
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Quote from eyesofmedusa:
That was a worthless human Enig...really worthless...
Well, pretty much any women under 40, without kids, acts the same way towards men. Always looking for the BBD(Bigger Better Deal). Even when confronted, she never apologized, because she didn't care. She knew she was simply using me, because that is what women do.

3/24/2016 11:23:01 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

didntreadyrnove
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Quote from enigmaathand:
Well, pretty much any women under 40, without kids, acts the same way towards men. Always looking for the BBD(Bigger Better Deal). Even when confronted, she never apologized, because she didn't care. She knew she was simply using me, because that is what women do.


There is no possibility you know this

3/24/2016 11:23:57 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

soulflight
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Baltimore, MD
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Quote from hippo65:
Because to me it just doesn't happen that fast. If ever..


Regardless of what you define as fast, there's still no way we can know how long this has been brewing without hearing it from the horses mouth.

Therefore...no way to say it was "fast"

Simple logic.

3/24/2016 11:26:53 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

soulflight
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Quote from didntreadyrnove:
There is no possibility you know this


...apparently you haven't had much interaction with enig...he has a rather personal(myopic) view of logic and rational thought.

3/24/2016 11:28:25 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

celyn67
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Quote from eyesofmedusa:
That was a worthless human Enig...really worthless...



3/24/2016 11:28:25 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

grande_mamon
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Houston, TX
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A couple could date for 4yrs but only see each other for 1hr a week in that time...people wouldn't be surprised though if after 4yrs they declared their love/got married etc..in actuality they only spent less than 1500hrs together.

Now you could have a couple who dated 4 months but spent 16hrs a day together...nearly 2000hrs. People would see the 4 months and think they didn't know each other as well as couple one..they'd be wrong.

3/24/2016 11:31:46 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

soulflight
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^^^

3/24/2016 11:32:20 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
idliketotalk
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I expect Grande and Sammy to delete for love any minute.

3/24/2016 11:33:13 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

fairymaiden
Over 2,000 Posts (3,242)
Bristol, CT
49, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from celyn67:
What truth? F*ck...c*nt...being said over & over & over again?

People get frustrated when they have to repeat themselves over and over again and noone listens to what they have to say or seem to care. Naturally it is going to turn into a cuss fest if you're frustrated enough.

3/24/2016 11:33:52 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  
kinderbtch
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Knoxville, TN
53, joined Feb. 2015


If I found true love, my a** would disaf**kinpear from here.

3/24/2016 11:34:52 AM Why haven't you deleted for love?  

soulflight
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,054)
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014


@ fairymaiden's comment
Naw...only for the emotionally immature..*shrug*



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