Good luck with that. The more pain you inflict, the more I resist. Pain is something to be used to gather strength with.

If you have to delete to prove your love...it isn't love.

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You really need some bigger problems if that is all you have to complain about

i was away from this place for over 4 years
because of someone i met in here...

But are they really "friends"? Do you actually spend time with them outside the forums and talk on the phone? If not, I'd hardly consider them a real friend. They're just an online persona and for all you know you could be talking to someone from Nigeria.

There are thousands of other forums you could be posting on together if that's something you really like to do. This singles site isn't the only forum out there.

Why can't the truly single/unattached/available singles have their own place to hang out, which is really what this forum is supposed to be about anyways.

And...what the f**k ever happened to Mercsman?

How are you and misc doing? Didn't you meet him here on DH? are you going to ride away into the sunset together?



OT: The forum here is about dating per se but it is the all the other topics which make their way here.. and there are plenty of other forums, eg. Politics , S&DC etc etc...

But I see nothing wrong with peeps who are in a relationship to be on this site,, BUT they also could/should be up front about it and say so in their profile how hard is that??? I think that people who are in a relationship can add their valuable experience(s) in the mix of things.

Peeps just need to be honest... and up front about things like that.

I read Move2themusic's thread about people having profiles that say that they're just here for the forums and I being single/unattached/available have my own opinion on that. But then coincidentally along comes Inknpink's & Capam13's thread about how they're "deleting for love" because they found each other.

So I have to ask... why are you still on this dating site if you are married or have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Why haven't you "deleted for love"?

Honestly, and I'm sure this is going to piss a lot of people off, why should I as a truly single/unattached/available female have to try to figure out which male forum posters are available and which ones are already taken? How is that fair? Same goes for the available male posters on here as well... why should they have to try to figure out which women are already taken??

I know some people have made friends here, but is this the only place to talk? Why can't the truly single/unattached/available singles have their own place to hang out, which is really what this forum is supposed to be about anyways.

Meeting someone on here isn't goin to work.

Distances.

One person is goin to have to give up everything and move...which means they didn't have shit and are desperate...which means,when they move is made they're all up your ass.
Crazy love is for teenagers...grow up

So you think you get to define real love, relationship dynamics, individual social behavior AND friendship for everyone else?

That would be a NO..

So in other words, if I start an opinion thread that varies from an opinion you hold then that is my attempt at defining real love, relationship dynamics, individual social behavior and friendship for everyone else? Wow, I certainly am gutsy. This thread expresses my opinion on a subject, although a strongly held one, it's still only my opinion and not an attempt to educate the masses. It's interesting though to see how there are a few other posters other than yourself who are sooooooooo defensive about this question. That speaks volumes to me.

You're married. Shouldn't you be taking care of your husband instead of screwing around on a singles site? Again, just my opinion, but if my Momma was still around she'd know she raised me right.

Will it go 'round in circles?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ghj5V5cUo1s

It's bullshit if someone is married or in a relationship and does not clearly state it on their profile .. In my opinion .. or their profile name Marriedandcheating


I was on here with my boyfriend (now ex) .. he had full access to my profile.

Where do you think people should who have built posting friendships with ... communicate if not here

I would think most would feel more comfortable if those friendships remain in public on a forum, than be taken offline say via phone or in person ... if in a relationship

If I ever have another relationship and I'm still posting here .. I'm not going to stop just because I'm in a relationship ... just as I would not give up anything else I enjoy ... never again. Accept me as I am or don't

If you're open and honest about your status and your mate is ok with you being here it really isn't anyone else's business why you're still on a dating site while involved with someone.