| 12/27/2006 6:08:12 PM |
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skydaddy
Covington, LA
age: 72
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If you both want sex whether its the first or second or third date, and you are both comfortable with it, its really no one else's business. Now, if I picked up a gal at my local Wal*Mart, took her out to eat a hamburger at McDonald's(Oh Barf), and she then wanted to take me to bed with her, I would probably think she was a slut, but if you have been chatting with someone for several months by e-mail and telephone, you have gotten to know a lot about that person and on your first face to face date/meeting you both decide you want to have sex, I wouldn't think that there would or should be a loss of respect by either person and I certainly wouldn't think less of a lady than if we didn't have sex.
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| 12/27/2006 9:50:12 PM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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I dont have sex..I make love and I feel there has to be an all around connection first.
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| 12/28/2006 5:37:04 AM |
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skydaddy
Covington, LA
age: 72
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I dont have sex..I make love and I feel there has to be an all around connection first.
I agree with you gawd. There should be an emotional as well as a physical connection with someone, a feeling of love for them, before expressing your love with them intimately. If its just sex you're looking for, you might as well go out and hire a male or female prostitute(depending on your gender & sexual orientation). It might even be cheaper than taking someone out on that first date. 
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| 1/7/2007 2:56:16 AM |
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byeah
Kent, WA
age: 20
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f*ck you
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| 1/7/2007 8:35:18 AM |
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lynn53
Hemet, CA
age: 57
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Troll ALERT!!!
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| 1/7/2007 9:54:42 AM |
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unslightlynorml
Seaside, OR
age: 42
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That is not an option at this time. LOL
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| 1/7/2007 11:11:49 AM |
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wolfy9459
Dayton, OH
age: 45
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did I miss something who is he saying _uck you to? The troll.
Kenny
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| 1/7/2007 1:54:44 PM |
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traumadez
Redlands, CA
age: 44
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I wasn't sure who it was aimed at either Kenny, but I think he's the Troll!!!! LOL
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| 1/7/2007 7:22:17 PM |
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wolfy9459
Dayton, OH
age: 45
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LOL Dez I was calling him a troll.
kenny
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| 1/14/2007 5:18:29 PM |
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buddha909
Highland, CA
age: 28
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no some times you can also be put in that catagory has well . but isnt wierd how the girls that some times do put out are the best screws and the ones that wait arent really good cause someyimes you have to have a sample of that object to even get attracted or hooked its all about obession a possesion
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| 1/20/2007 5:12:17 PM |
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jondalar
Reno, NV
age: 53
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When a woman is too Quick to take me to bed I think she is desperate to grab me and it is a turn off. BUT every moment and every woman is different, never the same reaction. I am confident that every woman would like to be in bed with me. I admire those that do not give in to every desire and can wait to see if the relationship is going to have a future. Sometimes there seems to be a strong connection between sex and how they feel about themselves as a woman. One once said how can you not want to make love to me tonight. I simply said I desired her very much but do not have sex until I know I would like to see more of her other than sex. What I thought was honorable she took as rejection. When the right one comes along these issues will not matter.
Love and Light
Jondalar
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| 1/20/2007 10:14:06 PM |
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lynn53
Hemet, CA
age: 57
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Thats one load of Bull...LOL
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| 1/24/2007 3:04:07 PM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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(Where's the emoticons, anyway?)
I dont know how to use them on here...
If a man wants to take me to bed on the first date I loose respect for HIM..
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| 1/24/2007 9:02:00 PM |
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ol_hillbilly
Lowry City, MO
age: 47
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Click "Help" at the bottom of the page and it'll give ya the six (6) smileys ya got to work with.
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| 1/29/2007 5:09:20 PM |
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mozartiii
Toms River, NJ
age: 70
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It all depends.. On What??? Well, you'll have to figure that out.
Then it also depends on how desperate you are.
If she puts out the first date- You can figure your very lucky and keep her if you have not gotten anything for a LONG LONG TIME.
You can't figure out all women.
Some Women will think there is something wrong w/you, if you don't make a serious
pass, because she really needs to get Laid.
On the other hand- Let me tell you what happened to me & I regret it to this day.
I was riding a Motorcycle & I luckily met a Girl who was also riding one.
What Luck. Took her for a snack, and then we ended up on the Boardwalk.
She was siting on the railing & I was standing in front and we ended up kissing
real heavy. So heavy, that I thought SHE WAS READY.
Well, how wrong I was. If you don't make a pass- your a stiff. If you do,
& she won't, you made a serious error.
Anyway, as I said- it looked like she was THAT READY.
So I asked if she she wanted to go get a room.
THAT WAS A MISTAKE.
She could not wait to lose me & did not want me to know where she lived.
Anyway- I knew where she worked & called & tried to apologize to NO AVAIL.!!
I was devastated.
So, guys- even if you play it by ear, you can still lose out.
You'll have to find the right words, just in case she's NOT READY.
Be very polite when you ask & apologize RIGHT AWAY if she WON'T
so you don't lose her altogether.
I personaly, don't try to get laid the first date.
Another time, I took a lady to a Movie and when I took her to her car
I kissed her very briefly, thinking there will be more later.
Well next time I saw her at the Dance I met her at- she avoided me like the Plague.
Maybe she was looking for more the first nite??????????? Who the hell knows.??
So, what's the answer here?? There is none.
Continue to play it by Ear & hope for the best.
BUT, DON'T RUSH IT IN EITHER CASE. That way you will have more time to figure her out...
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