| 2/1/2008 6:20:14 AM |
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tsoprano81
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26
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why are there so many women that need to be with as many guys as they can to feel better about themselves? shouldnt they look inside to find some selfworth instead of whoring themselves out for that quick fix that doesnt work anyway?
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| 2/1/2008 6:22:19 AM |
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lovesillusion11
Moab, UT
age: 24
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why is it when women do it it's wh*reing themselves out? when men do it.... it's gaining experience? i never did quite understand that one
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| 2/1/2008 6:25:44 AM |
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crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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I think it's just a male ego thing, that needs too be knocked down a few notches Love 
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| 2/1/2008 6:27:02 AM |
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tsoprano81
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26
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well me for one dont need to look to a bunch of women to find out who i am. its a question about why people seek what they should be looking for themselves. is that what you do loves? seems that you took offence to it.
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| 2/1/2008 6:28:14 AM |
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lovesillusion11
Moab, UT
age: 24
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lol...
i think a lot of people think just because you date or see someone you are automatically haveing sex...
to answer the question maybe they arn't ready for emotionally commitment...... but a physical relationship is fine with them? hell i don't know on this one... because everyones reason is different i would guess
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| 2/1/2008 6:28:45 AM |
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tommyblue
Louisville, KY
age: 26
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Because typical gender roles attribute beauty and good manners as the most desirable traits in women. Sex is your power. When its given to everyone, it is lost.
With women, we don't care what your job is. Yeah its cool if you're a top nurse or paralegal, or doctor or lawyer for that matter.......but I prefer a stay at home girl. Both of my last live in relationships were single income. I let them be pampered.
Conversely, a man without ambition or career is looked at the same way sluts are.
Why can't that guy get his act together? Do you live with momma? ugh.
Power and Status are a man's most desirable traits in typical gender roles.
Instead of focusing on the negs......use your given stereotypes to your advantage
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| 2/1/2008 6:29:14 AM |
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crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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It has me confused that's fer sure, i have dated a few gals in my time, and not had sex with em, and others well.................
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| 2/1/2008 6:30:34 AM |
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tsoprano81
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26
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i for one dont care about the phyisical as much as getting to know the person then go from there.
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| 2/1/2008 6:37:40 AM |
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lovesillusion11
Moab, UT
age: 24
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personally... yes i took offence to it because you just called women wh*res.... which shows no respect at all... would you take offence if i called you a wh*re?
now i don't know and can't speak for everyone.... but right now i am at a point in my life where i have only been in serious relationships in the past and i am enjoying the dateing scene.... i have a few male friends..... but that does not mean i am "wh*reing myself out" or sleeping with them and it don't mean i don't know who i am.... i am seeing a few people for a few reasons
to make friends
to get to know them before i jump into something where both could get hurt if it's not what the first impressions are
because i am not ready to emotionally commit right now... simply because i am in a stage in my life where i am exploring myself deeper to help future relationships and really as busy as my life is i don't have the time to put forth in a relationship the attention it deserves...
now just because you are a "commitment wh*re" don't mean everyone is!
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| 2/1/2008 6:41:36 AM |
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tsoprano81
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26
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lol wow thats a good one loves. the way i look at it is, if you wasnt sleeping with them you wouldnt take offence at all. i never mentioned that fact of dating or just seeing people. i said sleeping with them!!!
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| 2/1/2008 6:44:11 AM |
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crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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Dude I think you better chill out with Love, before she really gets pissed at ya, yer just digging yerself in a deeper hole with her
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| 2/1/2008 6:44:24 AM |
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tsoprano81
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26
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and to tell the truth, i do not have respect for women that sleep around to much. all that does is show thier true charictor and self loathing as a person.
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| 2/1/2008 6:46:16 AM |
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tsoprano81
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 26
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chill out, why? should be no offence taken unless she has a reason for it i would think.
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| 2/1/2008 6:47:41 AM |
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crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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It was just some friendly advice, take it how you want
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| 2/1/2008 6:47:44 AM |
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lovesillusion11
Moab, UT
age: 24
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i would think anyone would take offence to that coment... you might want to check your wording so you don't sound like a complete asshole from now on! i somewhat wonder if your just pissed because these girls you are refuring to as wh*res.... WON'T SLEEP WITH YOU!
now i am going to back out of this conversation because it seems as though there is nothing i can say that you will understand.... good luck with finding your one! your going to need all the luck you can get!
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