| 3/28/2007 8:53:44 AM |
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siless
Independence, KS
age: 31
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i siless would to talk to you do you like black guys if so hit siless we can talk hola at your boy.siless
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| 3/28/2007 8:57:47 AM |
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siless
Independence, KS
age: 31
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I am sorry but I siless to f*ck something or my blueballs is going to kill me.siless
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| 3/28/2007 11:06:20 AM |
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nightwatcher
Upland, IN
age: 31
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I have a couple of "friends with benefits". It makes it nice when you're horny and don't want to go out looking for someone new. You can call up your friend whom you are comfortable with, and go from there. LOL As long as both parties understand that you are to stay just friends. When someone's feelings change, the situation would have to change, so no one gets hurt.
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| 3/29/2007 6:03:57 PM |
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copterdriver
Saint Matthews, SC
age: 55
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Well I still have my friend and I still have benefits.... not much has changed... the sex is better but she still is just a friend, a very selective horny friend too. lol
Not a myth....
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| 3/30/2007 10:38:34 PM |
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suriel
Bronx, NY
age: 38
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HarleyBear,
I agree with you. It's much more sensitive than that. Friends that you become intimate with convert to lovers. Some friends become couples, some get married, some become enemies. If you are attracted to one another enough to persue a sexual relationship, then somehow you crossed that threshold of friendship. You may call them up when you're in need, or don't have anyone else, how mutual is it really? If you need sexual companionship and it's consensual, isn't that a lover? What about if that person is in need and you're in a relationship, dating, or even have an interest in another. How mutual is it when you need it and get it, but decline their need at will because you're unavailable. To continue, to seek your "consensual" friend for sex because you're not involved and lonely only demeanors your friendship because you're seeking self gratification and it's convenient. Saves you the trouble and rejection of seeking someone new, when you have a sure thing that won't hurt your feelings. They already know you, and accept you as you are. If a friend is so readily available, wouldn't that raise questions. Perhaps that friend is just the understudy, studying all the lines, waiting behind the curtains for the opportunity to step in. Operative word "waiting" not hoping. Can you be sure that your friend with benefits doesn't persue a relationship because it's better to remain friends rather than become an item and breakup? And if you found a partner, got married, etc.. would you admit to your significant other about your sexual relationship with your friend? How comfortable would you honestly feel having your love interest's friend know him/her in the bedroom as much or even more than you do???? How accepting would you be of your mate's friend, knowing they slept together. (You just see them as lovers)............. A true friend wouldn't compromise your friendship by allowing a sexual relationship. Sex is for the "me", but friends are for the "you". I know, it sounds weird, but it makes sense to me and it's friggin hard to translate........
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| 3/30/2007 10:44:23 PM |
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singlennj
Budd Lake, NJ
age: 48
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Posted by suriel Sex is for the "me", but friends are for the "you". I know, it sounds weird, but it makes sense to me and it's friggin hard to translate........
It is not as weird as you think. Sex is for "me", it is a part of me I am giving to you and want you to respect it.
[Edited 3/30/2007 10:44:43 PM]
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| 4/19/2007 4:47:36 AM |
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fluffy13
Adelanto, CA
age: 44
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some games but not as bad as heavy trippy hardcore serious, yes been in a few had both ways........................
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| 4/20/2007 5:51:21 PM |
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tator23
Schofield Barracks, HI
age: 23
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SEX is sex it doesn't have to be anything more than that as long as both adults are aware of the situation and are just there to have a good time and enjoy a new sexual adventure . No one gets hurt and every one has fun Its a win win situation for everybody .Anyone looking for that adventure let me know I am all ways down for what ever
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| 4/21/2007 2:18:03 AM |
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kyshia
Beaumont, TX
age: 20
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I think that it is good to have friends with benefits but then again everybody aint able
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| 4/21/2007 3:30:05 AM |
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mom1st
York, SC
age: 30
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4 out of 4 marriages do not end up in divorce. Approx. A little over 50% of 1st marriages end up in divorce. But the chance get higher each time you remarry. 75% of those divorced that remarry will divorce again. I think too many people get married after a very short time, or when they are too young to fully understand what a relationship takes. And now a days you can divorce someone if you don't like their hair color. I think that probably FWB feel alot less pressure, and aren't worried about things b/c if it ends they are not losing a deep emotional connection. All I can say is be safe, you don't know how many friends they have.
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| 4/21/2007 2:00:27 PM |
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bad4eva2
Chicago, IL
age: 20
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Hey Ya'll
Well what I think about FWB's is that it can't work with heterosexual people because eventually someone is going to catch feelings for someone sooner or later. But I do think that it can work well with bisexual women.
Like with me and my bestfriend who I've known all my life. We both have husbands and we take care of our shit at home and because everybody in the world knows we're bestfriends nobody expects a thing, so we get what we need sexually both ways, we keep our friendship, we don't have to worry about getting any diseases, and our married lives are secure because we both feel like we have everything we need.
That's the only way I think it can work.
P.S Men can't do this with other men if so get out of that marriage fast with that woman cuz ur gay. And if it's with another woman u have to very careful not only from ur wife but also cuz that woman is going to want more like I said sooner or later.
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| 4/21/2007 10:38:29 PM |
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luvinlifetothem
Biddeford, ME
age: 41
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Yeah Krazz, just like some of our men here just read Playboy for the articles.
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| 4/22/2007 8:21:25 AM |
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yanisa
Ponca City, OK
age: 33
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i tried the friends with benifits once, i will never do it again.
i came accross her not too long agao and she is still doing it, but she can't figure out why when she goes too the guys house his wife answers the door, or why she gets a phone call in the middle of the night by some woman wanting too know why her number is in her husbands phone?
by the way i don't read play boy or any of those other magazines
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| 4/22/2007 12:19:28 PM |
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coolair
Biloxi, MS
age: 48
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hey kiddwest say you need a friend he!he!
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| 4/22/2007 11:03:39 PM |
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busarider
Florence, AL
age: 29
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Omg, friends with benifits are great, no strings!!! send'em home. I love'em. Got two right now. I know I know.......slut....so sue me.
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