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| 1/25/2007 10:20:18 AM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 40
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Ahemmm ... Stepping on the brand new soapbox 
There's a time-honored saying that goes something like this: "Friends are friends, pals are pals, and buddies sleep together." I'm not quite sure what it means, but I think this adage is mainly poking fun at those who use euphemisms to describe friendships that are, shall we say, more than platonic. I'm talking about "FF" -- short for F*ck Friends -- also known as "friends with benefits."
It's 3 a.m., you're horny as hell and the last thing you want to have to do is impress someone...In this situation, sex can literally be just a phone call away -- you don't have to go through the whole charade of flirting, dating, buying drinks, testing the waters, guessing what he/she wants, etc. Being FF is extremely efficient and makes the most sense for people who don't have the time for a real romance, but still want to get some action without breaking any hearts along the way by misleading people.
Various types of emotional fallouts can doom FF. The most common type is when one of the friends gets too attached and begins wanting something more. If the other person feels differently, they will get hurt. In addition, sometimes one of the parties may become jealous if the other person starts dating someone else seriously. It can be very difficult to separate emotions from sex, but if you want to be FF, that is exactly what you have to steel yourself to do.
You could destroy your friendship, but then, you will be getting laid...In the worst-case scenario, the blurring of the lines between friend and lover precipitated by being FF can completely destroy a friendship. Unfortunately, this is a fairly common outcome, because once you've crossed the physical line, the old dynamic between some friends is lost forever
Being FF can be fun and rewarding if both parties are clear that it's only about sex. Otherwise, it's a dangerous proposition.
Very rarely, however, mutual romantic feelings may develop. And when this happens, it turns into much more than a rough agreement to satisfy the other person's physical needs -- it becomes a real relationship.
Stepping down from the Soapbox 
[Edited 1/25/2007 10:29:15 AM]
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| 1/28/2007 3:29:54 PM |
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thehandler
Aurora, CO
age: 47
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Sin: You are still right up there in my book.
We used the term "FB" for F... Buddies. One of my FB's called it a "PF". A pity F...
Whatever the case, YES, Friends with Ben.., FF, FB, PF, all are out there. Both sexes. "Sin" is right on the possibility of it destroying a friend, and on the flip side creating a relationship. You need to decide for yourself within your own ethical standards.
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| 2/7/2007 10:14:01 AM |
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trevor31
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 21
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i really want to lay into you baby
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| 2/7/2007 10:51:33 AM |
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unslightlynorml
Seaside, OR
age: 42
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K
(borrowed that from Crissy!) LOL
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| 2/7/2007 10:54:12 AM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 40
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K works for me
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| 2/7/2007 11:37:15 AM |
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krazz
Whittier, CA
age: 54
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c?
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| 2/7/2007 12:36:33 PM |
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unslightlynorml
Seaside, OR
age: 42
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F U? LOL
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| 2/7/2007 1:08:27 PM |
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krazz
Whittier, CA
age: 54
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O K 4 U, C ?
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| 2/16/2007 7:15:15 AM |
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mrh50
Lufkin, TX
age: 57
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I ask once and got turn down never tried again.
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| 2/16/2007 10:00:13 AM |
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strongslowhand
Washington, DC
age: 46
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What with just the one friend, , ,? Or all of them?
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| 2/16/2007 12:17:37 PM |
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mrh50
Lufkin, TX
age: 57
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no it was one goodlooking to . it really hurt to. so never tried again was hoping one would ask me. and it did happen but I turn her down and have regetted it not around any more so i can't take it back. But it would be nice to have one good friend to call maybe just once in a while. that you could really really trust.
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| 2/16/2007 3:50:48 PM |
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tuffyneck1
Winter Haven, FL
age: 28
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It creates a shit load of problems usually because one usually wants to be more than just friends, most of the time. Not Always though.
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| 2/17/2007 7:43:57 PM |
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ussher
Punxsutawney, PA
age: 39
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I think it is possible but only with a certain personalities. Not that personalities can't change because I believe life changes us a little everyday. I know it has changed my views. I don't know if I could be a friend with benefits because if I was attracted enough to give you benefits, and the benefits worked really well, then I would want you all to my self, not that we couldn't try lots of things.......But this is just me.
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| 2/19/2007 4:33:56 PM |
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swingman420
Joplin, MO
age: 42
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I'm looking for friends with benefits because it starts out always as friends anyways and then grow's into something so I'm upfront and honest about the fact that I want sexx with friendship!!!
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| 2/21/2007 7:59:41 AM |
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copterdriver
Saint Matthews, SC
age: 55
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Currently have a new friend that insists it is OK with her, She has money, good job, a kid, can't get pregnant, not looking for a husband, active in her church, etc. Married for 12 years and was burned emotionally. She works way too much to have a relationship like most people would, and her kid is still at home (15). So far we are having a lot of fun like friends and the other aspects are pretty much like they always were with my female friends, even better in some ways.
The sex is very good, she is very affectionate, funny, and smart.... I guess we will see. She calls me occasionally and we get together for dinner, hang out when she is not working or dealing with her cheerleader daughters school obligations. She is a programmer/manager so she has to work odd hours at times. Works well for me. I was invited for a "sleepover" last weekend while her daughter was visiting her dad.... not much sleeping going on! he he he... 
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