| 3/26/2008 7:01:15 AM |
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afterburner4566
Peebles, OH
age: 30
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Sounds like my uncle, he wont change if he hasnt already. Make him prove his love to you and put the bottle down for a month "if he can", if he cant then kick his ass so far out of your life he wont even remember your name. BTW you are a hottie and you can do better
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| 3/26/2008 7:12:01 AM |
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headstart68
Evansville, IN
age: 39
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What are you getting from your relationship with this guy?
It doesn't sound like he makes you happy.
Do you look forward to seeing someone who looks down on you?
Do you enjoy talking with someone who talks down to you?
I miss the fun times I used to have with my ex, but they ended way before we broke up, and it's a relief to not wonder when I'm gonna have to deal with that stupidity again!
Best wishes,
DJ
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| 3/26/2008 7:19:50 AM |
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grneyedluvr
Waverly, NY
age: 42
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you need to kick both their asses out for gods sake. 20 years old and still living at home? wtf? dont you deserve to have mommie time to yourself? you are going to keep running into this problem as long as your adult son is mooching off you, unless you're the one mooching off your son, then more power too you. too many variables here to give clear advice. but the dude youre seeing does need to be kicked to the curb if in fact hes still on a dating site and emotionally abusing you.
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| 3/26/2008 7:32:09 AM |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 45
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Personally I think your son should be out in the big wide world finding his way. However with regards to your boyfriend I feel he clearly has no respect for you from what you've written so wake up and get rid of him...............now.
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| 3/26/2008 7:49:52 AM |
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ptriley
Staten Island, NY
age: 47
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Hit him in the ASS with the door
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| 3/26/2008 7:55:13 AM |
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ks52
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 51
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Hmmmm how many "red flags" do we see here? You know what needs to be done.
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| 3/26/2008 8:09:41 AM |
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usjunior
Albany, MO
age: 51
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I'm sure you son isn't blind and stupid and probably doesn't get along with your boyfriend because he can see that he is not worthy of you.
Get rid of him, you dont need our advice, this is a no brainer. Living with a emotionally abusive alcoholic is no fun at all!!!! been there done that and it was the biggest load I ever took of my shoulders when I kicked his drunken ass to the curb!!!! 
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| 3/26/2008 8:31:14 AM |
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dorothy72
Maroa, IL
age: 36
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 Hello--- you don't need advice you need to listen to what you brain is telling you this guy is a manipulating control freak! you're hot but you should lose some weight, translates to, wow she's hot! I must say something rude to destroy her self esteem so she doesn't realize i'm a worthless piece of crap! I love you but I can't stand your child u have to kick him out, translation, I know your son loves you and I can't take full advantage of this situation with him here to protect you, got to get rid of the kid so I can really f*ck with her head! Take stock of all you truly hold dear, then ask yourself what you will have left when he is through with you, what would you rather have the guy you're with or you own self respect?
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| 3/26/2008 11:30:53 AM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
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Many things I won't stand for in a relationship, drugs, alcohol, abuse and the #1... not accepting my kid! My kid is forever and always going to be in my life , no matter the age therefore it would behoove a man to accept. Why would you put up with such b/s from a man? Is it really that bad being alone?
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| 3/26/2008 11:42:52 AM |
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gr8stwoman
Napa, CA
age: 41
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Hopefully you have your answer by reading the great advice on this thread, but if you want it short and sweet, go back and read smilin_bob's. He caught the same key words I was going to mention.
By the way, once you have been out of the relationship for a while, you will wonder why you ever asked the question. True perspective requires distance which is why we have that saying, "love is blind."
Good luck to you!
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| 3/26/2008 4:21:33 PM |
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babygirl63
Holden, MO
age: 44 online now!
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Honey,first of all,if the man can't except your son. then there shouldn't even be a dicussion aabout it. your kid should come first. Second, it would be the last time he laid a hand on me.and Third. he will probalynot change.get out, and stay away from him.he's controlling . and it sounds loke he is preyyt worthless. do not settle for that. i don't care how much he sweet talks ya. no no but hell no.
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| 3/26/2008 4:23:15 PM |
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poeticjustice55
North Wales, PA
age: 52
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read what you wrote........ and advice will come from ..........you
you are divine.........
go with that
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| 3/26/2008 4:51:56 PM |
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taylorpetty
Aurora, CO
age: 19
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I am not the most experienced person in the world but I do know that we get ourselfs in to realtionships that make us crazy and wonder why we stay.
I dont want to be 10yrs down the road and wonder why I stayed. That would be a much bigger regret than why did I leave
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| 3/26/2008 4:55:44 PM |
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gunshy1
Hot Springs National Park, AR
age: 41
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Don't do it, He'll drink all your beer.
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| 3/26/2008 4:56:09 PM |
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steviep316
Los Angeles, CA
age: 24
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sweet heart ! Yes you are beautiful but he is a jack ass ! Blood is thicker then water and you deserve better. He's making me look bad !
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