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| 5/24/2008 12:17:56 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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ddhriss
Glen Burnie, MD
age: 62
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Barbara1, I just can't see you ever having to ask any guy out on a first date. But if you established a "Long Distance Relationship", just for example, AND, he's comin in to see ya - on a first date, he's already paying plenty in either gas or air far, or both just for the pleasure. So to offset that expence, you better pay for the actual date, and it better be good, OR be prepared to go all the way, which he'll probably want anyway. I just can't amagine anybody making a day trip on a first date just to have coffee and take a stroll on the beach? Be realistic about this and what your willing to infact -- pay.
Wow...I thought the 50's thinking was gone, but here it is slapping us girls in the face once again! ddhriss, if you want to see the woman enough to take the drive, why is it her responsibility to give up her charms and pay for everything once you get there???? You are not a gentleman, you are shopping for sex. And in that case, just go to your local bordello and pay. Leave us fine girls alone, ok? Hey girls, remember when the guy paid for the date and told you that he would have you as desert???? Oh yes, 1950's thinking lives long sometimes!
 
Excuse me?? Can we hear an OINK, OINK? I looked at her profile, You've got to be kidding? Where do you like to go on a date Susan? To an "All you can eat" buffet?
I would rather go to the gas chamber than date you, trust me. Oh and did you think that remark meant anytj\hing to me? Pffffffffffffffffffffffft Your d*ck must really be small to say chit like that to women.
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Works every time, give them enough rope and time and you'll see their true blue while they hang themselves with their remarks. You go Su.
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| 5/24/2008 12:32:30 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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jamijoy
Kenosha, WI
age: 40 online now!
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Barbara1, I just can't see you ever having to ask any guy out on a first date. But if you established a "Long Distance Relationship", just for example, AND, he's comin in to see ya - on a first date, he's already paying plenty in either gas or air far, or both just for the pleasure. So to offset that expence, you better pay for the actual date, and it better be good, OR be prepared to go all the way, which he'll probably want anyway. I just can't amagine anybody making a day trip on a first date just to have coffee and take a stroll on the beach? Be realistic about this and what your willing to infact -- pay.
Wow...I thought the 50's thinking was gone, but here it is slapping us girls in the face once again! ddhriss, if you want to see the woman enough to take the drive, why is it her responsibility to give up her charms and pay for everything once you get there???? You are not a gentleman, you are shopping for sex. And in that case, just go to your local bordello and pay. Leave us fine girls alone, ok? Hey girls, remember when the guy paid for the date and told you that he would have you as desert???? Oh yes, 1950's thinking lives long sometimes!
Excuse me?? Can we hear an OINK, OINK? I looked at her profile, You've got to be kidding? Where do you like to go on a date Susan? To an "All you can eat" buffet?
That was so totally rude and uncalled for. Just because you get your panties in a bunch over someones opinion doesn't mean you need to attack them. She didn't ask you out and you really aren't so hot. I looked at your profile to see what made you think you were all that, I guess I missed it
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| 5/24/2008 1:10:57 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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suncatcher08
Glendale, AZ
age: 68
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My question is: If it shows respect for a man to always pay, is it disrespectful for a woman to offer? Also, do men interpret an offer to pay by the woman at a first meeting as not being interested? I also think first meetings are different from first dates -- usually the tab is much less.... please help me out... Me, personally, I always offer to pay my half and to accomodate, the guy usually says, "you can get the tip", which is fine with me
suncather08
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| 5/24/2008 1:12:31 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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jimirayclapton
Denver, CO
age: 49
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(I'M ducking THE FLYING PROJECTILES AROUND HERE...hahaha!)
Hey you know what? It's whatever you agree upon.
I would like to step up and say something on behalf of my male brethren, however.
I have pondered this for some time. I see two conflicting issues here. The first, those of us males that are in our particular age bracket were raised up with the "John Wayne" handbook in a lot of ways. Old school traditional manners and way of looking at the world. But in our lifetimes, those things we were taught as boys apply less and less now that we are men. Why? Because women are not the same as what we were brought up to expect. The world has changed so much in such a short time, it's hard to keep up with. It's true. I applaud all the ladies for their successes and independence. But at times it does have a cost in regards to the guys our age. I don't share the bitterness that some show. But I do have an awareness of it. Not targeting anybody. Just chipping in my $.02 cents based on my experience.
The other thing is, that I would say it seems at times like (with some) women they feel the pressure to "appear" to be successful. To have the house, the job (career), the Lexus, the boob job, so that OTHER women (of the same type) will regard them as being successful. Strong alpha personalities. But yet can't understand why the guys are not flocking to them.
I would say that most guys like to feel like men. To feel appreciated. Not emasculated.
Just a few thoughts. Peace.
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| 5/24/2008 1:37:53 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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ddhriss
Glen Burnie, MD
age: 62
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Barbara1, I just can't see you ever having to ask any guy out on a first date. But if you established a "Long Distance Relationship", just for example, AND, he's comin in to see ya - on a first date, he's already paying plenty in either gas or air far, or both just for the pleasure. So to offset that expence, you better pay for the actual date, and it better be good, OR be prepared to go all the way, which he'll probably want anyway. I just can't amagine anybody making a day trip on a first date just to have coffee and take a stroll on the beach? Be realistic about this and what your willing to infact -- pay.
Wow...I thought the 50's thinking was gone, but here it is slapping us girls in the face once again! ddhriss, if you want to see the woman enough to take the drive, why is it her responsibility to give up her charms and pay for everything once you get there???? You are not a gentleman, you are shopping for sex. And in that case, just go to your local bordello and pay. Leave us fine girls alone, ok? Hey girls, remember when the guy paid for the date and told you that he would have you as desert???? Oh yes, 1950's thinking lives long sometimes!
Excuse me?? Can we hear an OINK, OINK? I looked at her profile, You've got to be kidding? Where do you like to go on a date Susan? To an "All you can eat" buffet?
That was so totally rude and uncalled for. Just because you get your panties in a bunch over someones opinion doesn't mean you need to attack them. She didn't ask you out and you really aren't so hot. I looked at your profile to see what made you think you were all that, I guess I missed it
I guess that you did "miss it" jam. Because just for your FYI, you can check to see who's viewed your profile Well whatdayaknow, another liar you infact didn't. 
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| 5/24/2008 1:40:41 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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jamijoy
Kenosha, WI
age: 40 online now!
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Yes I did, it said something about you being an athletic biker or something blah, blah, blah, I didn't study it But I looked
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| 5/24/2008 1:50:12 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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barbara1
Reston, VA
age: 51
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If someone asks YOU out on a date, they should pay for it. PERIOD
and I can not believe the "Caveman" mentality of a few of the men on this post! But it is nice to see that most of the men here are gentlemen and do treat ladies with respect.It is sad to see that a few on here that have real anger issues with women...
[Edited 5/24/2008 4:44:58 PM]
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| 5/24/2008 5:38:25 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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uhadme
South El Monte, CA
age: 45
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I think if the man asks you out on a date, he should pay for it.
catch22? total bs... like girls ask guys out.
I think anyone who is so shallow to ask this question should pay.
[Edited 5/24/2008 5:43:08 PM]
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| 5/24/2008 5:39:54 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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myheart78
Edinburgh, IN
age: 29
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the guy HELLO
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| 5/24/2008 5:52:24 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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2cam88
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 41 online now!
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I was taught by my father that chivalry is not dead. A lady should be treated like a lady. I like treating for a date. I also believe in opening doors and pulling out a chair.
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| 5/24/2008 6:20:52 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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barbara1
Reston, VA
age: 51
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Girls do ask guys out! I know I have!
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| 5/24/2008 7:12:57 PM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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good4u2know
Scottsdale, AZ
age: 29
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I think a guy should open doors, pay for dinner and movies and the girl should buy him clothes/cologne later on as token of her appreciation and its a good way of keeping a guy looking and smelling good.
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| 5/25/2008 2:03:54 AM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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russ01
Dallas, TX
age: 42
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both should dine and dash let the turkey in line pay for it ;;lol
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| 5/25/2008 2:11:32 AM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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drub22boy
Kaukauna, WI
age: 32
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I think women should pay for all sex and dating related expenses.
With great power comes great responsibility.
This would eliminate all of this "Does suchandsuch person like me"
Might as well make women do all the work for dating since they are so good at it... and the ones holding the prize of sex.
A logical mind at work.
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| 5/25/2008 2:18:11 AM |
Who should pay for the first date? |
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sun_shine51
Shreveport, LA
age: 56
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Men I date have always paid for the 1st date...
I think that is the gentleman thing to do...
BUT
I always grill steaks and chicken the 2nd date.
Or if it is winter, I cook a roast.
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