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5/23/2008 2:26:16 PM |
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barbara1
Reston, VA
age: 51
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as a very young 45 yr man i was brought up with double standard momma taught the man alawys pays, and puls the chair out,and opens doors
daddy alawy taught all that plus he added if a guy wants to play he has to pay,pay pay   
That was fine and dandy for 1980... but now that women give it up for nothing there is really no reason for a man to pay for the date any more.
Give it up for nothing? NOT ME!!!!!
Good Luck with the girls evileddy, you will need it!
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5/23/2008 7:42:42 PM |
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ddhriss
Glen Burnie, MD
age: 62
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All that I can say is that you have got to be kidding?? Some of you "Ladies" should go read through the "Sex and Dating" forum before you post your BS here. But what gets me is that you women want equal rights and all that entails. You want equal pay for equal work done, you want to be in the military and fly in combat, you want to be "Speaker of the House" in congress, you want to be "President" of the United States, BUT --- you feel that you shouldn't pay for a freaken date!! Isn't that typical of a oneway May. It's no wonder that so many of you "Ladies" can't get any further then a one date stand. 
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5/23/2008 7:55:49 PM |
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misssmatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 51
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lovely thread...just lovely...and so very enlightening...!!!
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5/23/2008 8:32:27 PM |
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theironmandan1
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 38
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on a first date a man in general should pay, unless the woman ask him, then they can work it out together, if you have any brains, you will have a 1st date durring the day, just in case your dates pics are 12 yrs old, you can run out quietly and she can pay. 
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5/23/2008 8:52:06 PM |
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zeanah
Clarion, PA
age: 48
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I agree with Juniebegood....that is a very disturbing post. I do not equate dinner and travel time as an automatic sexual encounter. This man has caveman issues....scary!
Hey to each his own, but the womens lib thing is an excuse. I think it is more of an anger issue and generalizing. It's simply called consideration ,kindness and the natural, human gender bonding.
Eddy...you know you love us!
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5/23/2008 9:35:22 PM |
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juniebegood
Huntington, NY
age: 53
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Zeanah, thank you for the backup and for adding your own enlightened comments. That guy, ddhris, appears to have a lot of anger issues, which come spewing forth. The illustrations and comparisons he uses, in an attempt to make a valid arguement, merely serve to disguise his apparent frustration with women. I suspect that women are not exactly knocking down his door for a date.
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5/23/2008 10:05:46 PM |
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singleagain50
Greenville, SC
age: 50
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If I go I'll pay. And I'll open doors for you and pull your chair out. It has nothing to do with womens lib. It has everything to do with respect. The only exception would be if you told me ahead of time that you were taking me to dinner for a birthday or special occaision.
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5/23/2008 10:35:09 PM |
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barbara1
Reston, VA
age: 51
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I don't want to be in combat,be the Speaker of the House, be in the military or run for "President", but I still feel that when someone asks you out, they should pay for the date!
Some people on this site have a caveman's attitude! And I am sure that thier mother's would be proud of them! (It is pretty obvious that they have an angerness issue with women......
I have 2 sons, and I raise them to be gentlemen and give ladies the respect that they deserve!
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5/23/2008 10:48:58 PM |
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highenergy2
Stephens City, VA
age: 43
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I pay for all dates open car doors and entry doors and let her go in first,Womens Lib,so be it,but I still, am a man/gentleman and womens lib cant take that away,its a matter of respect.
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5/24/2008 4:34:14 AM |
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ddhriss
Glen Burnie, MD
age: 62
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I totally agree, it is a matter of respect, and respect runs both ways. AND, I do have anger issues because unfortunately most, if not all the ladies on this web site play games and are dishonest, as do most guys as well. First, most "don't" post current pics and you show up and they are completely different. Then you have chicks posting legs and posing in very suggestive positions saying, I don't do that?? Your kidding, a Picture is worth a 1,000 words in my book. Don't post your legs, or be in a prone, suggestive lieing down position, and talk about how you are in bed, then have me make a 4 hour drive, staying until 9 or 10 in the evening, THEN, just to tell me that you don't sleep with strangers? We aren't strangers, why in the hell did you agree to this date? AND why are you suckering me in with the leg and other suggestive photos? What you really want is the right to make a guy a fool, THEN, when the tables get turned on your fat behinds, you just can't understand it?? Go figure? Guys know that if there is an attractive lady on here for like "Forever", that just can't seem to find a guy(??), there is a reason -- she's a game player and some are on the first string at it. Nobody like to get played, AND, when the tables are turned and these "players" are themselves played, they desirve what they get, plan and simple. I can be the nicest, respectful gentalmen in the world and don't mind in the least to show any lady kindnes in paying for what ever. But, when she is dishonest, and I finely figure out that she's just a player, I can turn into a damn hard caveman real quick. All to often women just love to see if they can make a nice guy finish last. Why is that?
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5/24/2008 4:51:56 AM |
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misssmatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 51
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the men i've dated always insist on paying for the first date even when i offer to pay half...
i do not understand some of the men here crying 'equal rights', guess they just don't understand that women still do not have what "I" consider equal rights...and i'm not talking about holding the door open for someone, I do that all the time for people, it isnt an equal rights thing but a respect thing. i think its sad when we stop showing acts of kindness towards people because of gender...
and i wonder why anyone would think equal rights means making the woman pay, wouldnt it mean you each pay your equal share?? jmo, as always.
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5/24/2008 4:59:39 AM |
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justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 45
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go dutch!!! each pays their own way............makes life easier
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5/24/2008 5:03:35 AM |
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ariele
Eden Prairie, MN
age: 58
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Sorry, I think you have it all wrong- Women wanted to have equality in the work place, wages, and to be treated better than cattle. Some and I emphasize, some woman back then, were extremists, and wanted to wear the pants so to speak, not all women wanted to be masculine. I was growing up during that movement and felt it was a breakdown of values for those woman who wanted to be treated as a woman yet have fairness in the workplace. So, to throw ALL women in one pot is caveman type thinking in my opinion. Manners and a man's sense of treating a woman with respect still rules!
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5/24/2008 5:12:57 AM |
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countrygrl49
Mankato, MN
age: 48
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Thats funny, I had a sexual encounter a couple of weeks ago. He seems to be pretty popular on this site and I paid for everything. The funny thing was he wanted to come to see me. I guess I paid for it.
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5/24/2008 5:22:31 AM |
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justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 45
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Sorry, I think you have it all wrong- Women wanted to have equality in the work place, wages, and to be treated better than cattle. Some and I emphasize, some woman back then, were extremists, and wanted to wear the pants so to speak, not all women wanted to be masculine. I was growing up during that movement and felt it was a breakdown of values for those woman who wanted to be treated as a woman yet have fairness in the workplace. So, to throw ALL women in one pot is caveman type thinking in my opinion. Manners and a man's sense of treating a woman with respect still rules!
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I think humans, male or female should be treated with respect, hey i have no problems opening a door for a guy, or for the elderly ......... its just a respect thing, nothing feminist about wanting to pay your own way when on a date! 
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