Who should pay for the first date? 196

6/1/2008 5:40:57 PM	Who should pay for the first date?
smartypantsyes Bel Alton, MD age: 54	Quote from ddhriss: Quote from susansheart839: Quote from ddhriss: Barbara1, I just can't see you ever having to ask any guy out on a first date. But if you established a "Long Distance Relationship", just for example, AND, he's comin in to see ya - on a first date, he's already paying plenty in either gas or air far, or both just for the pleasure. So to offset that expence, you better pay for the actual date, and it better be good, OR be prepared to go all the way, which he'll probably want anyway. I just can't amagine anybody making a day trip on a first date just to have coffee and take a stroll on the beach? Be realistic about this and what your willing to infact -- pay. Wow...I thought the 50's thinking was gone, but here it is slapping us girls in the face once again! ddhriss, if you want to see the woman enough to take the drive, why is it her responsibility to give up her charms and pay for everything once you get there???? You are not a gentleman, you are shopping for sex. And in that case, just go to your local bordello and pay. Leave us fine girls alone, ok? Hey girls, remember when the guy paid for the date and told you that he would have you as desert???? Oh yes, 1950's thinking lives long sometimes! Excuse me?? Can we hear an OINK, OINK? I looked at her profile, You've got to be kidding? Where do you like to go on a date Susan? To an "All you can eat" buffet? HOW RUDE! I have noticed that you enjoy bashing women on this site.Get a life!
6/1/2008 6:36:09 PM	Who should pay for the first date?
lobo_corazon Kingston, ON age: 39	Quote from cosmoisin: Quote from barbara1: I think if the man asks you out on a date, he should pay for it. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++========================================= If it is a Man, He PAYS FOR EVERYTHING!!!, if it is not a Man, The Gal may have to pay for the Wimp... For some reason that made me think - What if two lesbians are going on a first date? How do they decide who pays?
6/1/2008 6:52:39 PM	Who should pay for the first date?
musclebrain San Diego, CA age: 47	If 2 lesbians go out on a date, whoever asks pays
6/1/2008 6:53:09 PM	Who should pay for the first date?
cosmoisin Santa Rita, GU age: 66	Quote from lobo_corazon: Quote from cosmoisin: Quote from barbara1: I think if the man asks you out on a date, he should pay for it. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++========================================= If it is a Man, He PAYS FOR EVERYTHING!!!, if it is not a Man, The Gal may have to pay for the Wimp... ( Cosmo is in, was not including Lesbo's in his train of thought...) For some reason that made me think - What if two lesbians are going on a first date? How do they decide who pays? ================================================= +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ ------------------------------------------------- I don't think much about Fagots or Lesbians, I know they exist as an abomination forced on school childeren, so this can become semi normal... But the question here was Who should pay for Te Date ??? The Man or The Woman ??? Gay orentation was never mentioned, nore do I feel should it be included... Cosmo ws here...
6/1/2008 8:16:37 PM	Who should pay for the first date?
reticop Chesterton, IN age: 68	WOW....look at all the pages devoted to this question.....sure times have changed, but you don't have to change with the times!!!! That's the nice thing about being a Christian or having a religious background, God's world never changes, HIS morality never changes, and being a gentleman never changes. If a man can't afford to date a woman to see if she is the kind he wants to spend a lifetime with, then he has no business prowling dating sites unless he is looking for one-night stands with women so hard up they will pay. Women's Lib has changed the whole dating scene I'm afraid...when you date a woman that takes exception to opening doors for her, and a million other quirks that have come up with the movement, then it is no wonder some men feel women should pay for dates...I'll bet most of those men secretly hate women, consider dating as doing them a favor or out for just sex. For me, a good, decent, honest woman is hard to find these days. If I would be lucky enough to find one compatible, that would be the best investment my credit card ever was used for! There is one in El Sobrante, CA that I would spend my last dollar on and then mortgage my soul for!
6/1/2008 9:08:57 PM	Who should pay for the first date?
silentsporty Atlanta, GA age: 23	As a man I usually pay for the first date. But I won't pay for every date! I feel that a woman should chip on some future dates as well.
6/1/2008 9:31:14 PM	Who should pay for the first date?
lobo_corazon Kingston, ON age: 39	Quote from musclebrain: If 2 lesbians go out on a date, whoever asks pays Sounds fair - But if a woman is OK with paying when she asks another woman out, why would it be different if she asks a man out? I call gender discrimination shenanigans! Seriously - I know I think too much, it's my curse. Bear with me for a minute while I play s advocate. Some people believe that men should always pay for the first date (or for every date). So, simply put, why? Offhand I can only think of two reasons to assume that the guy always paying is appropriate: - The woman needs support from the man (as in the past when women weren't allowed to vote or own property, men controlled all the money, so women couldn't pay if they wanted to); - The balance of the relationship is such that the man needs to buy the woman's favour to win her, and she's holding out for the best financial offer. Now every relationship is different, and in some situations one or both of those may be true. But isn't it bad to generalise? --- Personally I've always payed for the first date, but I also appreciate the value of the option as a nice way for a woman to let a guy down when she's decided she isn't interested. I watched such an exchange the other night I think, as what looked like a first date going badly (the guy didn't have any game) ended with the gal insisting on paying for her drink and the shared natchos, then leaving him at the bar. She didn't have to come out and tell him she wouldn't be hoping for another call from him, but I bet he got the hint.
6/1/2008 9:33:52 PM	Who should pay for the first date?
mindyb Park Rapids, MN age: 43 online now!	advocate players I dont like that devils advocate thing. who ever did the asking
6/2/2008 4:58:56 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
barbara1 Reston, VA age: 51	Quote from lobo_corazon: Quote from musclebrain: If 2 lesbians go out on a date, whoever asks pays Sounds fair - But if a woman is OK with paying when she asks another woman out, why would it be different if she asks a man out? ________________________________________________________________________________________ It would not, if I ask a man out I would be prepared to pay. but I have never met a man that would let me.
6/2/2008 5:21:36 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
miraclewoman Accokeek, MD age: 52	A man should pay. Period.
6/2/2008 5:44:59 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
nanaamo Germantown, MD age: 27	Is there a rule a man should pay for the date ? just joking ,but if the female feels she want to pay ,so be it .But personal either of themn could pay depends on both persons involved
6/2/2008 6:04:11 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
sunnyboy59 Queensland Australia age: 48	Whenever I Take a Lady Out...........I PAY..
6/2/2008 6:29:17 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
federal327 Alexandria, VA age: 62	Let's settle this once and for all. Send the bill to Barbara since she started this thread.
6/2/2008 7:53:13 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
barbara1 Reston, VA age: 51
6/2/2008 9:37:48 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
bijaba123 West Palm Beach, FL age: 47	I agree, aplaud to All the MEN who still 'honor' women....old school is respectful, and for the women who are 'tempted' to pay.....(that is only a control issue)....you can't have your cake and eat it to.....If you want a REAL Man, then you have to 'allow' him to be a MAN....otherwise, MaMa's boy. (smile) The way he treats YOU is a good sign of the things to come.....MAN does HIS job well, and We do Ours in return......Have a Great Day!

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