Who should pay for the first date? 91

5/24/2008 5:28:25 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
ddhriss Glen Burnie, MD age: 62	Watch what you say on here countrygirl because there are "Ladies" on here that might think that your not a person of "Quality".
5/24/2008 6:13:12 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
zeanah Clarion, PA age: 48	ddhriss....I agree with you that there are women who play flirtacous games and do not back up their seemingly prowlness. Men do it too in other ways to us women. To put us all in the same category is self defeating to you. Your anger and frustration is in control of your choices now. Alot of us have been fooled and have been jaded by people while dating. Don't be so angry....I am not out to play games and I am definitly not out for just a free dinner. I am also not out to meet a guy and have sex because he was nice to me. It goes deeper than that for me and I think for some of the other women here. There are good hearted women out there. I can't be the only one! I see a lot of intelligent, good women on the site that just want to be respected and not be treated like your buddies down at the local bar.....but when I come into the forums, who are the guys flirting with and complimenting??? The women who come off as needy and beg for male attention or are displaying themselves as a sexual piece of meat. Many men do not give the stable, good hearted,truly feminine women a second look. If we are confident and do not want to talk about your penis and whether we like oral sex, then we are frigid and selfish, gold diggers or labeled a princess. It isn't any of those things. My sexuality and affection level does not reflect how dirty I can talk in the forums and joke and flirt with men. I can be very witty and flirtacous, but I choose to want respect and portray myself as such. I am the woman you can take home to your Mama, but watch out when we go behind closed doors. I know for a fact, there are other women like that on here, but show respect for themselves, as they to want to be treated with respect. So in "who pays"???? It does not mean we want to take you for a free dinner and see what we can charge on your credit cards. It is not wanting to be equal with you on a gender level. It is merely and simply, wanting to feel you think we are special enough and that you see us as a sexual, feminine woman. I know some women disagree and say it's not fair. AND...there is nothing wrong with paying your own way. I have been taking care of myself for years.That's not my motive. I feel very nice and respected when a man pays for my dinner at times. BUT...I am seeing now that it is a very debated issue and that "dutch" just may be the way to go to avoid certain generalizations men have these days. JMO.... [Edited 5/24/2008 6:15:43 AM]
5/24/2008 6:20:16 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
notjustagirl Marion, IL age: 26	The one that asked
5/24/2008 7:22:10 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
dicexo Aurora, CO age: 18	Quote from notjustagirl: The one that asked word.
5/24/2008 7:23:50 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
bassguy66 Pepperell, MA age: 41 online now!	I have always paid for the initial first couple dates. If I ask, I pay. But a woman who steps up and offers to pay for some of the dates does nothing but impress me. Relationships are a two way street. Both sides need to give. Everytime a woman has offered to pay, it tells me she is a giver, and not a taker. I am a very giving person, but it's refreshing to have the favor returned once and a while.
5/24/2008 8:03:16 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
barbara1 Reston, VA age: 51	There is nothing wrong with a woman posting sexy pictutes of themselves (or their legs) and that does not mean that they are going to give it up, especially to a man with a caveman's attitude. I pride myself on my appearance and am not ashamed or embarassed to show off my legs. If you got 'em flaunt them! So read whatever to want from my pictures, I am a woman of quality and I never give it up to some jerk who has such shallow thinking! I have to be in a relationship before that could ever happen! SO DREAM ON!Caveman! I can see you really know how to treat a lady! GET REAL!!!!
5/24/2008 8:15:52 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
wolfi Albuquerque, NM age: 43	If the guy is her type, she'll be happy to pay. If he isn't , she'll be even happier to let him pay.
5/24/2008 9:35:10 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
susansheart839 Port Saint Lucie, FL age: 60	Quote from ddhriss: Barbara1, I just can't see you ever having to ask any guy out on a first date. But if you established a "Long Distance Relationship", just for example, AND, he's comin in to see ya - on a first date, he's already paying plenty in either gas or air far, or both just for the pleasure. So to offset that expence, you better pay for the actual date, and it better be good, OR be prepared to go all the way, which he'll probably want anyway. I just can't amagine anybody making a day trip on a first date just to have coffee and take a stroll on the beach? Be realistic about this and what your willing to infact -- pay. Wow...I thought the 50's thinking was gone, but here it is slapping us girls in the face once again! ddhriss, if you want to see the woman enough to take the drive, why is it her responsibility to give up her charms and pay for everything once you get there???? You are not a gentleman, you are shopping for sex. And in that case, just go to your local bordello and pay. Leave us fine girls alone, ok? Hey girls, remember when the guy paid for the date and told you that he would have you as desert???? Oh yes, 1950's thinking lives long sometimes!
5/24/2008 9:50:17 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
tarrant220 Saint Paul, MN age: 27	Quote from notjustagirl: The one that asked ^^This
5/24/2008 10:19:53 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
looknforu419 Toledo, OH age: 32	you should
5/24/2008 10:23:17 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
ddhriss Glen Burnie, MD age: 62	Quote from barbara1: There is nothing wrong with a woman posting sexy pictutes of themselves (or their legs) and that does not mean that they are going to give it up, especially to a man with a caveman's attitude. I pride myself on my appearance and am not ashamed or embarassed to show off my legs. If you got 'em flaunt them! So read whatever to want from my pictures, I am a woman of quality and I never give it up to some jerk who has such shallow thinking! I have to be in a relationship before that could ever happen! SO DREAM ON!Caveman! I can see you really know how to treat a lady! GET REAL!!!! And we want to thank you for telling us who the player here is.
5/24/2008 10:26:43 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
barbara1 Reston, VA age: 51	Quote from ddhriss: Then you have chicks posting legs and posing in very suggestive positions saying, I don't do that?? Your kidding, a Picture is worth a 1,000 words in my book. Don't post your legs, or be in a prone, suggestive lieing down position, and talk about how you are in bed, then have me make a 4 hour drive, staying until 9 or 10 in the evening, THEN, just to tell me that you don't sleep with strangers? " ______________________________________________________________________________________________-- well, first of all, there is nothing wrong with posting pictures of my legs or other sexy pictures, that by the way I am proud of!(and I have never asked anyone to make any long 4 hour drive! And it does not mean that I sleep with strangers! Get your mind out of the gutter, caveman!And believe me, I would never ask you to drive to meet me anywhere! I only date gentlemen, not cavemen with angerness issues toward women! But, it is nice to see that the MAJORITY of the men on this post appear to be gentlemen, which is a very appealing trait to women. I like a gentleman that know how to treat a lady, because that is what I am! And I am proud of all my pictures! [Edited 5/24/2008 10:30:07 AM]
5/24/2008 10:46:40 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
ddhriss Glen Burnie, MD age: 62	Quote from susansheart839: Quote from ddhriss: Barbara1, I just can't see you ever having to ask any guy out on a first date. But if you established a "Long Distance Relationship", just for example, AND, he's comin in to see ya - on a first date, he's already paying plenty in either gas or air far, or both just for the pleasure. So to offset that expence, you better pay for the actual date, and it better be good, OR be prepared to go all the way, which he'll probably want anyway. I just can't amagine anybody making a day trip on a first date just to have coffee and take a stroll on the beach? Be realistic about this and what your willing to infact -- pay. Wow...I thought the 50's thinking was gone, but here it is slapping us girls in the face once again! ddhriss, if you want to see the woman enough to take the drive, why is it her responsibility to give up her charms and pay for everything once you get there???? You are not a gentleman, you are shopping for sex. And in that case, just go to your local bordello and pay. Leave us fine girls alone, ok? Hey girls, remember when the guy paid for the date and told you that he would have you as desert???? Oh yes, 1950's thinking lives long sometimes! Excuse me?? Can we hear an OINK, OINK? I looked at her profile, You've got to be kidding? Where do you like to go on a date Susan? To an "All you can eat" buffet?
5/24/2008 11:44:56 AM	Who should pay for the first date?
susansheart839 Port Saint Lucie, FL age: 60	Quote from ddhriss: Quote from susansheart839: Quote from ddhriss: Barbara1, I just can't see you ever having to ask any guy out on a first date. But if you established a "Long Distance Relationship", just for example, AND, he's comin in to see ya - on a first date, he's already paying plenty in either gas or air far, or both just for the pleasure. So to offset that expence, you better pay for the actual date, and it better be good, OR be prepared to go all the way, which he'll probably want anyway. I just can't amagine anybody making a day trip on a first date just to have coffee and take a stroll on the beach? Be realistic about this and what your willing to infact -- pay. Wow...I thought the 50's thinking was gone, but here it is slapping us girls in the face once again! ddhriss, if you want to see the woman enough to take the drive, why is it her responsibility to give up her charms and pay for everything once you get there???? You are not a gentleman, you are shopping for sex. And in that case, just go to your local bordello and pay. Leave us fine girls alone, ok? Hey girls, remember when the guy paid for the date and told you that he would have you as desert???? Oh yes, 1950's thinking lives long sometimes! Excuse me?? Can we hear an OINK, OINK? I looked at her profile, You've got to be kidding? Where do you like to go on a date Susan? To an "All you can eat" buffet? I would rather go to the gas chamber than date you, trust me. Oh and did you think that remark meant anytj\hing to me? Pffffffffffffffffffffffft Your d*ck must really be small to say chit like that to women. [url=http://www.sparkletags.com][/url]
5/24/2008 12:02:05 PM	Who should pay for the first date?
rick1962 Chicago Ridge, IL age: 46	Call me old fasioned. but I believe the guy pays. Bottom line no exceptions.

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