| 5/29/2008 2:49:11 AM |
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daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
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Barbara, First off I've seen you pictures and they are not a "hey I'm easy" pictures,2. Just because you talk to someone on the phone, e mail, whatever he thinks is a long distance relationship, only a complete senile jerk would think if came to see you that means he's getting laid. 3.If a man is a man I can't imagine him crying in his beer because he pays for a date, it still don't mean the lady is gonna put out to a jerk just because he spent his nickel. Damn the fool that thinks he can buy a woman.
But alas I can't blame the fool for being heartbroken, You'd be a good catch, and I guess when you get to be his age the difference between reality and fantasy can get confused in his wittle mind. And I know you are too much of a lady to say it in a language a cave man can understand, so let me help you out. Grandpa Caveman, take your little problems and F**K OFF.
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| 5/29/2008 6:47:22 AM |
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yani0429
Fresno, CA
age: 29
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I always say go half on the bill, and if he insists on let him pay the tip.
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| 6/1/2008 3:48:09 PM |
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musclebrain
San Diego, CA
age: 47
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Gentlemen always pay for the first date!
[Edited 6/1/2008 3:49:14 PM]
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| 6/1/2008 4:16:01 PM |
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krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 39 online now!
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Of course the Man should pay for it....(if they are succefull they will pay for years)...however, If you gotta ask this question....pay for a couple failed dates then ask this question again......I bet you will see my view point.
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| 6/1/2008 4:19:50 PM |
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ldnlch
Lake Charles, LA
age: 45 online now!
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the man should pay,this should tell a lady what kind of a man he really is
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| 6/1/2008 4:21:12 PM |
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jimmyjohnn
Washington, DC
age: 45
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I have asked men out on dates before, and if I ask I am willing to pay, but most men are gentlemen and will not let me.
Bottom line...Whoever asks should be prepared to pay.
and if I found out he was married, I would not pay! I would be gone so quick!
I like that!
So if I find out she's not going to put out.. I won't pay and would be gone so quick!
So are you saying that you will not pay for a ladies dinner even if you asked Her out unless she puts out? GEEEZ, what woman would want to date you with an atttitude like that.? Ladies should be treated with dignity and respect!
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| 6/1/2008 4:23:31 PM |
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jimmyjohnn
Washington, DC
age: 45
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All that I can say is that you have got to be kidding?? Some of you "Ladies" should go read through the "Sex and Dating" forum before you post your BS here. But what gets me is that you women want equal rights and all that entails. You want equal pay for equal work done, you want to be in the military and fly in combat, you want to be "Speaker of the House" in congress, you want to be "President" of the United States, BUT --- you feel that you shouldn't pay for a freaken date!! Isn't that typical of a oneway May. It's no wonder that so many of you "Ladies" can't get any further then a one date stand. 
I can see why a lady would not want to go on a second date with someone with such a bad attitude!
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| 6/1/2008 4:39:36 PM |
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sircharles60
Wiltshire
United Kingdom
age: 60
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I have asked men out on dates before, and if I ask I am willing to pay, but most men are gentlemen and will not let me.
Bottom line...Whoever asks should be prepared to pay.
and if I found out he was married, I would not pay! I would be gone so quick!
I like that!
So if I find out she's not going to put out.. I won't pay and would be gone so quick!
So are you saying that you will not pay for a ladies dinner even if you asked Her out unless she puts out? GEEEZ, what woman would want to date you with an atttitude like that.? Ladies should be treated with dignity and respect!
I fully agree with you. Man pays and he should never expect anything. This idea of the lady "putting out" is wrong, SO WRONG.
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| 6/1/2008 4:42:44 PM |
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krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 39 online now!
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I agree too!....so where are the women who will put out?.....(this is supposed to be a joke.....kind of....)
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| 6/1/2008 4:46:46 PM |
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bryneyes174
Loves Park, IL
age: 34
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The man should always pay
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| 6/1/2008 4:54:33 PM |
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brawney
Norcross, GA
age: 47
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Apparently there are some men that think a lady should put out if they buy her a date! It is hard to believe that any woman would want to go out with a man like that or a man that likes to harrass a woman just because she does not want to go out with him! PLEEEEZZZ
personally I do not blame the woman for not wanting to go out with you.
A GENTLEMAN ALWAYS PAYS FOR THE FIRST DATE> PERIOD!
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| 6/1/2008 4:58:28 PM |
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brawney
Norcross, GA
age: 47
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There is nothing wrong with a woman posting sexy pictutes of themselves (or their legs) and that does not mean that they are going to give it up, especially to a man with a caveman's attitude. I pride myself on my appearance and am not ashamed or embarassed to show off my legs. If you got 'em flaunt them! So read whatever to want from my pictures, I am a woman of quality and I never give it up to some jerk who has such shallow thinking! I have to be in a relationship before that could ever happen! SO DREAM ON!Caveman!  I can see you really know how to treat a lady!
GET REAL!!!!
And we want to thank you for telling us who the player here is.
Would you please stop bashing the lady? Grow up! Just becasue she does not want to go out with you does not mean she is a player, it just means she is smart! SO GET OVER IT< we are all sick of hearing your whining!
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| 6/1/2008 5:01:38 PM |
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cinnamongirl65
St Catharines, ON
age: 42
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I don't expect the guy to pay ,just depends on how the date goes i guess ...if i pay i don't feel obligated by any means of the imagination !
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| 6/1/2008 5:15:44 PM |
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jane_snow
Reidsville, GA
age: 62
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OK every one the person that asks should expect to pay! But the man should be the gentleman and pay for the first, maybe even the first couple of dates. A woman should share the expenses after there is a relationship it is only fair and right! BUT if she has obligations such as children she should not be expected to take from them. AND please do not ask for sex until their is some feelings for each other... what are we animals. I hope the ladies out there agree with me on this! And the gentlemen.
100% agree. This is supposed to be a dating site not a f*cktorama site.
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| 6/1/2008 5:26:36 PM |
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cosmoisin
Santa Rita, GU
age: 66
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I think if the man asks you out on a date, he should pay for it.
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 If it is a Man, He PAYS FOR EVERYTHING!!!, if it is not a Man, The Gal may have to pay for the Wimp...
However, it is most times much less expensive in the long run, To just call a Cab and leave the dufus swinging in the Wind...
 Because once a Lady starts paying for the Dufus, she will always have to pay and the price will only Go UP, while he was never worth one thin dime... 
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