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9/12/2012 7:36:56 AM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  
aries_girl
Over 2,000 Posts (2,925)
Franklin, NJ
50, joined Jan. 2008


Quote from rockhead400:
So this is what my sometimes gf told me this weekend. Dont get me wrong, Im old fashioned and believe that the man should always pay to take his woman out. I like to give gifts. I dont like being asked for them.
So in one day I bought her 2 pairs of shoes, took her to beauty supply and spent about 20, 6 at the pharmacy, 12 at dollar general, 18 on sushi at grocery, 10 for wine, took her to applebees for an appetizer and drinks. Im not cheap and I dont mind spending money on her. The problem is she has no job and no income and is not looking. She barely pays her rent with disability check, and food stamps for food. Smokes like a train, drinks daily like a fish most days.
I work hard for my money and it is not my responsibility to pay for her every need. She has always hit me up for light bills, gas bills, water bills, vet bills, dog food, and on and on.
I tell her to get a job doing anything to earn something and stop expecting me to pay for everything, cause I refuse to be an atm machine. I do give her some cash as well, like 30 bucks this weekend. I usually give her 60-100. I am not giving her that much anymore cause she will just drink and smoke it. So tell me how you feel people? How much is too much? Lots of women out there have jobs and income and are not just leaches.


DAYUM...why do seemingly good men latch on to these types of broads???

And men cry that all women want are "bad boys."

It's reading stuff like this that prompts me to go into my "Why do men only want psycho women tirade." But I shall refrian!

I guess thats why I'm still single...I am gainfully employed, pay my own bills, have my own home and NEVER ONCE held out my hand to a man for money.



[Edited 9/12/2012 7:37:39 AM ]

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9/12/2012 4:04:20 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  
jimdeezee89
Herkimer, NY
39, joined Dec. 2011


Quote from imthegrl:
He has been complaining about this woman for months. They go back and forth using each other...he complains on here about her hitting him a as well a** the drunk part but just keeps going back. He needs to start spending that money on a therapist instead.


Word!! I think he's the problem not her. It's not like she's got a gun to his head and stealing his money. He's crying and whining about the choices that he's making all by himself. Man up sucka!! I can't stand crying little punks like that.

9/12/2012 8:41:30 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  
samantha1dawgy
Lake Orion, MI
55, joined Sep. 2012


I think it's. funny your complaining with that big grin on your face. I'm sorry but it looks like "SUCKER"....

9/12/2012 9:16:27 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  

rockhead400
New Orleans, LA
51, joined Jul. 2010


yes, I guess I am a bit of a sucker. I always gave my daughters whatever they wanted. Have trouble saying no. I hate that she is poor, I know what its like to have no money at all and its very humbling and a bit sad. I would be happy if she would do some kind of work for some money, even if it was 3 hours a week. It would show me she is trying. She asked me for her allowance today, even though I have not seen her since sunday. I will probably send her a 100. Ive never had anyone give me anything, wish someone would for a change. Heck at Christmas I get like almost nothing. Each year I was giving out 20 or 30 gifts and getting 3 back. Finally I just stopped. Whats the point.

9/12/2012 10:05:17 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  

loyalfaithful
Yale, MI
62, joined Apr. 2008


The jerk is sleeping with her, what more does he expect? Get a real woman, not a wh*re for a relationship!! What a jerk he is !

9/12/2012 10:11:01 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  

willblazeyu
Over 1,000 Posts (1,617)
Missouri City, TX
37, joined Mar. 2011


Get out before its too late bro, all that money spent may not seem like a big deal now but you could've used that money on more constructive things like making more money.

9/12/2012 10:25:10 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  
jlgru61117
Milwaukee, WI
32, joined Nov. 2011


Ok this is going to sound mean but you obviously need to hear it.... First off she is never going to right herself Financially if you keep giving her money.... This is called enabling. Second why are you complaining about it? If it really bothered you you would realize that she was no good for you and hit the door but since you are griping about it i am going to guess that you are looking for.someone to tell you everything is going to work out and you're doing the right thing. Grow some balls and either drop her or keep paying for her company but just dont whine about it. In the end you are making the bed you have to lay in and no one else will be to blame but yourself. Good luck in whichever route you take.

9/13/2012 12:22:50 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  
aries_girl
Over 2,000 Posts (2,925)
Franklin, NJ
50, joined Jan. 2008


Quote from rockhead400:
yes, I guess I am a bit of a sucker. I always gave my daughters whatever they wanted. Have trouble saying no. I hate that she is poor, I know what its like to have no money at all and its very humbling and a bit sad. I would be happy if she would do some kind of work for some money, even if it was 3 hours a week. It would show me she is trying. She asked me for her allowance today, even though I have not seen her since sunday. I will probably send her a 100. Ive never had anyone give me anything, wish someone would for a change. Heck at Christmas I get like almost nothing. Each year I was giving out 20 or 30 gifts and getting 3 back. Finally I just stopped. Whats the point.


Again...I maintain this is why I am single. I'm gainfully employed, have my own home and never once held my hand out to a man for money.

What is about you guys that are so drawn to the type of woman that rockhead describes. Do you actually LIKE sticking your d*ck in a beehive?

9/13/2012 12:31:10 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  
stumppy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (38,266)
Wind Gap, PA
70, joined Jan. 2008


beehive ? Oh wow !

I never thought of that.

Will a hornet' nest be as good ?

9/13/2012 7:03:35 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  
aries_girl
Over 2,000 Posts (2,925)
Franklin, NJ
50, joined Jan. 2008


^^^Actually my dear, I believe a hornet's nest would be worse. But pain is pain...especially to that particular region of the body!

9/13/2012 7:24:56 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  
lee3377
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,504)
Madison, VA
42, joined Jan. 2012


It depends on what kind of dog she has that you are buying the dog food for.
If it is an awesome looking wolf -German shepherd mix, then she is worth it, as long as she lets you walk that beautiful animal.
If she has a Chihuahua, then you need to find a woman with better taste in dogs.

9/13/2012 9:06:39 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  
gfjf
Over 1,000 Posts (1,980)
Niagara Falls, NY
35, joined Jul. 2009


Quote from kclady41:
its good you like to spend money on a woman.


No it's not.

9/13/2012 9:07:30 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  

frgprnce
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,915)
Baltimore, MD
52, joined Dec. 2010


Damn Lobster Dinners....

9/13/2012 9:15:32 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  
piper0000
Hagerstown, MD
44, joined Jan. 2012


Is he seriously whining about not getting Christmas gifts? You don't give gifts to see what you get back. Don't b*tch about her being on disability if you knew that from the start. I call bs.

9/13/2012 9:17:31 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  

petitekitten72
Over 2,000 Posts (3,132)
Portland, MI
43, joined Apr. 2012


she's your SOMETIMES girlfriend? wow. here's a tip: find a woman that doesn't NEED you but WANTS you! (a WANT is selective where a NEED can be met by anyone). i JUST told my guy tonight that if he WANTS to be with me i can be bought with compliments and honesty. I don't have a PRICE TAG attached to me: i can't be bought with dollars and cents.

KEEP LOOKING for someone that WANTS to be with you!



[Edited 9/13/2012 9:18:20 PM ]

9/14/2012 9:10:23 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  

rockhead400
New Orleans, LA
51, joined Jul. 2010


Quote from lee3377:
It depends on what kind of dog she has that you are buying the dog food for.
If it is an awesome looking wolf -German shepherd mix, then she is worth it, as long as she lets you walk that beautiful animal.
If she has a Chihuahua, then you need to find a woman with better taste in dogs.


Its a beautiful dog that I love. all black shiny 5 yo with great muscle definition, like an arabian horse. half lab, half pitt. Yeah I do have trouble leaving the dog. I dont live with her though. I only see her 2x a week. I tried living there but never fully moved in, b/c she gets too drunk and mean. But man can she do the wild thing. Likes it everyday and is pretty damn good at it. I wont go into great detail but she likes to use her mouth a lot.

9/15/2012 1:54:26 PM So having a girlfriend costs money!? WTF?  
aries_girl
Over 2,000 Posts (2,925)
Franklin, NJ
50, joined Jan. 2008


^^^God, you're a fool and a whiny little b*tch a** fool at that. Good to know just how easily you can be led around by your pathetic c*ck...I bet you're the one who starts those pissy little threads about how "all women want a bad boy"






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