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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
97, joined Apr. 2012
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What reasons do you know of or think an ex might have to contact you from time to time?
If you are an ex, what are your most interesting reasons/ulterior motives?
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| 7/1/2014 7:50:30 PM |
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baileybug32
Sacramento, CA
35, joined Mar. 2013
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My ex randomly contacted me after 2 months of not talking.. He supposedly got back with his ex sooo I don't know why he contacted me..
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| 7/1/2014 8:14:00 PM |
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myhaloiscrooked
Lampasas, TX
31, joined Apr. 2013
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It better be a life or death emergency, and one that holds at least a little amusement for me, I think my exes know that...
Men are like amusement park rides, some are like roller coasters, some are more like the teacup ride...but at the end of the day, why would you go back to stand in line for the same lame ride?
I'd rather have a lemonade shake-up and an elephant ear.
Now I'm hungry and I forgot where I was going with this.
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| 7/1/2014 8:29:40 PM |
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daneene
Allen Park, MI
51, joined Jan. 2014
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What reasons do you know of or think an ex might have to contact you from time to time?
If you are an ex, what are your most interesting reasons/ulterior motives?
Sounds like someone either misses you and wants you back, or they're doing FABULOUS and want to rub your nose in it.
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| 7/1/2014 8:41:25 PM |
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lets_chill98
Boca Raton, FL
42, joined Apr. 2013
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money
its the only thing that makes the phone ring
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| 7/1/2014 8:49:17 PM |
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vickie0621
Las Cruces, NM
35, joined May. 2014
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Im trying to get over a break up... i called quits... but im soooooooooooooo tempted to call him, go see him, get him back... i just miss him... i miss his scent... i miss his smiles... i just miss him... the insane urges may be a reason some ppl reach out to their ex's...
Im sooooooo close from calling... thus so many hours spent here...
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| 7/1/2014 8:58:27 PM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
62, joined Sep. 2009
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A bit of a vague question.
Vague answer: most of what everyone does, is because they think it will get them something they want.
If you supply more specific information, someone might be able to help you make more useful guesses.
Without that information, why anyone might "reach out to you" :
1. You have something that belongs to them and they want it back.
2. They want something from you. Could be information.
3. They want to resolve a prior concern that they have come up with a specific question about.
4. They are angry at you, and want to vent that at you.
5. They have become a sales person, and since they have your contact information, they hope to make money by selling you something.
6. You sell things, and they want to buy something from you.
You see where this is going. You already know why you might get in contact with someone. They would have the same reasons.
Were you hoping for a reunion? Or fearing one?
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| 7/1/2014 9:03:24 PM |
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moodyleo
Jacksonville, FL
27, joined May. 2012
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One person I used to date -- although we were just seeing each other -- that I contacted months after we stopped talking... It was months later and I missed him, and realized that *I* was the one who really dropped the ball in that relationship. Yes he did something that rubbed me the wrong way, but he continued to contact me several times after that and I totally blew him off and just let go of the connection we had. I apologized and told him that I missed him, but he had already moved on. From this experienced I have decided not to cut somebody out of my life that I care about just because things are not going exactly as I'd hoped. (I mean unless they are totally abusive or something, obviously.)
My other ex that I tried to contact about two years after we broke up... He was my serious boyfriend, and I honestly just wanted to see how he was doing. I missed him and still cared about him, but not in a romantic way anymore. His psycho girlfriend cussed me out. But he did send me a friendly message on facebook like a year later!
My other ex from high school contacted me because... after all these years, he still loves me. So yeah, he is still a huge player and probably just wants to get laid.
So yeah, there could be a number of reasons 
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| 7/1/2014 10:47:16 PM |
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jamjam777
Van Buren, AR
46, joined Oct. 2013
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Mine only contact me when they are..
.Drunk....Horny .....or both
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| 7/1/2014 10:54:41 PM |
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noneyadamnbiz
Reading, PA
30, joined May. 2014
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Horny and lonely
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| 7/1/2014 10:57:42 PM |
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bamagirl755
Sioux City, IA
47, joined May. 2013
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I had 1 contact & said he just wanted to see how I was doing.
I replied with, "what's her name?"
Lol
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| 7/1/2014 11:03:06 PM |
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valencia22074
Adelanto, CA
42, joined Mar. 2014
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Ex's try and remain close because they either regret leaving u. And are trying to weasel their way back in.. Or are hoping for a booty call..
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| 7/1/2014 11:08:54 PM |
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lovessmart
Corona, CA
56, joined Feb. 2013
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What reasons do you know of or think an ex might have to contact you from time to time?
If you are an ex, what are your most interesting reasons/ulterior motives?
Some, just because they miss me, or at least miss the good times.
For the one's long ago, it is more about the nostalgia and remembering funny things and things that we will just never forget.
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| 7/1/2014 11:23:37 PM |
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jamjam777
Van Buren, AR
46, joined Oct. 2013
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Them damn Ex's.....
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| 7/1/2014 11:32:12 PM |
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3n1wbgirl
New Orleans, LA
52, joined May. 2011
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My ex called today. Saying he hasn't had a decent blow job since we split up!!
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| 7/1/2014 11:50:34 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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He can reach out but don't touch..
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| 7/2/2014 12:24:07 AM |
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club570
Effort, PA
31, joined Jan. 2014
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Ex's and oh's
A never ending story
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| 7/2/2014 1:14:17 AM |
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hunter12gauge
Bellaire, OH
53, joined Apr. 2008
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My ex called today. Saying he hasn't had a decent blow job since we split up!! 
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| 7/2/2014 1:31:43 AM |
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btru2meibtru2u2
Mars, PA
38, joined May. 2014
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1. Misses the sex
2. Can't find another woman with the awesome attributes , morals, values, respect, etc that I uphold vs. Whoever he has or is dating
3. I may have what the others lack.
a job, car, place of my own, etc...
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| 7/2/2014 1:35:34 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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My ex husband does not reach out at all. I have reached out to him in the past because I needed his help to fix my truck. But really other than that there is not need to talk.
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| 7/2/2014 3:38:38 PM |
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nc_200973
Jersey City, NJ
34, joined Nov. 2013
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Sex
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| 7/2/2014 5:30:26 PM |
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twistedintoform
Brooklyn, NY
43, joined Oct. 2012
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This forum is just depressing the hell out of me. One the other hand, I can probably turn some of your responses into a hit country song.
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| 7/2/2014 5:33:26 PM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
34, joined Jul. 2012
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It could be for any number of reasons but I don't care to rekindle anything with anyone. 
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| 7/2/2014 6:18:47 PM |
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cheatk
Urbandale, IA
47, joined Jun. 2013
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Ex of 10 years, we still contact each other, always has.
We have 4 children together so that was most of our reasons.
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| 7/2/2014 7:54:54 PM |
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rainydaze26
Columbus, OH
51, joined Nov. 2013
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Their current lover jilted them.
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| 7/2/2014 8:17:36 PM |
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bluemoon0_0
Kissimmee, FL
27, joined Apr. 2014
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This forum is just depressing the hell out of me. One the other hand, I can probably turn some of your responses into a hit country song.
lol
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| 7/2/2014 8:18:29 PM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
97, joined Apr. 2012
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It could be for any number of reasons but I don't care to rekindle anything with anyone.
Oh I hear that, on to new pastures!
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| 7/2/2014 9:03:06 PM |
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korpsewalker
Billings, MT
27, joined Apr. 2014
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money
its the only thing that makes the phone ring
This 
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| 7/2/2014 9:07:34 PM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
97, joined Apr. 2012
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Good thing I'm broke! Yay!!!!!!!!! 
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| 7/2/2014 9:10:01 PM |
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korpsewalker
Billings, MT
27, joined Apr. 2014
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if an ex wants me to get back together with them it's usually because they're behind on rent....
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| 7/2/2014 9:13:19 PM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
97, joined Apr. 2012
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Maybe if that happens to me I should give you a call?  LOL
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| 7/2/2014 9:14:32 PM |
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catstatue
Norfolk, VA
42, joined Jun. 2014
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If you had an existing, lasting relationship, sometimes they to it because the routine is now changed and it is crazy painful. Even an argument would be better than nothing. 
Some do it for xxx
some do it because of preexisting financial situations that were shared 
sometimes because they are just f'ing crazy as hell!
and sometimes? just to be a little twat! 
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| 7/2/2014 9:17:10 PM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
97, joined Apr. 2012
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Nice mask! Meow 
Puurrrr, puurrrr, puurrrrr...
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| 7/2/2014 10:48:16 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
48, joined Jun. 2014
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i dont do that
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| 7/3/2014 2:08:10 AM |
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wheelingguy73
Wheeling, WV
42, joined Aug. 2013
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Money and money oh and money
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| 7/3/2014 2:14:08 AM |
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denise1028
Clinton, IN
48, joined Nov. 2013
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Booty call
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| 7/3/2014 2:31:24 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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Well it depends on the circumstances of the breakup.
If you dumped them, its a test. To see HOW STUPID YOU ARE. lol They wanna know if your open to "allowing" them to try their hand with you again after they SCREWED you over the first time.
If they dumped you? Its bcuz they realize the grass wasnt greener and/or they finish with the fool they left you and now want the the old fool back until they find another fool to leave you for again.
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| 7/3/2014 2:34:23 AM |
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peachy1954
Sacramento, CA
62, joined Oct. 2010
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He knows he messed up the best thing he ever had and hopes I will give him another chance but that is not happening.
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| 7/3/2014 2:42:24 AM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
48, joined Aug. 2013
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They have fond memories of me. I have remained friendly with all my exs after a cooling off period. I spent a lot of years with them . We remain friendly 2 I have kids with so we are in contact because of our kids mostly. I don't hold onto resentment it's toxic.
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| 7/3/2014 5:35:13 AM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
34, joined Jul. 2012
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Good thing I'm broke! Yay!!!!!!!!!
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| 7/3/2014 8:03:57 AM |
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firey_green1
Austin, TX
33, joined Apr. 2014
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EX's know there is NO reason to "reach out" to me.. It's over.. Move forward... Time is precious for me to look back...
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| 7/3/2014 8:54:20 AM |
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dejavugirl
Miami, FL
41, joined Feb. 2013
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We have a son so we decided to remain friends. So we try to avoid each other as much as we can and it is amazing not to have to see each other!
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| 7/3/2014 4:18:06 PM |
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9inningtravels
Alloway, NJ
43, joined Jun. 2012
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If I heard my ex's (5 year marriage) mother, father or sister died, I would contact her. Or, if IRS was to audit the years we were married - then possibly if I couldn't avoid it.
Otherwise - there is no reason to hear from an ex
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| 7/3/2014 5:35:08 PM |
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4forums76
Winfield, AL
39, joined May. 2011
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To screw up my current relationship so that they can try this crap ----------------------
If you dumped them, its a test. To see HOW STUPID YOU ARE. lol They wanna know if your open to "allowing" them to try their hand with you again after they SCREWED you over the first time.
If they dumped you? Its bcuz they realize the grass wasnt greener and/or they finish with the fool they left you and now want the the old fool back until they find another fool to leave you for again.
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| 7/3/2014 5:37:05 PM |
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patriciarn2012
Pensacola, FL
45, joined May. 2012
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Doesn't matter. They are an ex for a reason.
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| 7/3/2014 7:23:22 PM |
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beverduster
La Feria, TX
51, joined Apr. 2008
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My ex called today. Saying he hasn't had a decent blow job since we split up!!
im going to ms marys house damm she just turned me on
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| 7/3/2014 7:23:29 PM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
97, joined Apr. 2012
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I'd imagine they want something, just to feel better about themselves in some way. Maybe even to find out if you found somebody way more attractive or just plain ugly... Who knows!?!
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| 7/4/2014 6:19:34 AM |
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bcori
Houston, TX
38, joined Sep. 2013
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They lonely as hell and missing a good thang...people never get thirsty  until the water runs dry!!
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| 7/4/2014 8:56:24 AM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
52, joined Jan. 2013
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Good thing I'm broke! Yay!!!!!!!!!
well that rules out money so it must be about sex then
the only reason he'd ever contact me was supposedly about the children, which met deaf ears.
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| 7/4/2014 8:59:57 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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What reasons do you know of or think an ex might have to contact you from time to time?
If you are an ex, what are your most interesting reasons/ulterior motives?
Sometimes they do it to twist the knife. Mostly when they find out you have someone new.
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| 7/4/2014 11:31:19 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
48, joined Jun. 2014
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I wonder that
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| 7/4/2014 5:03:58 PM |
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blueoblivion
Clearwater, FL
31, joined Jun. 2014
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Return to the scene of the crime
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| 7/4/2014 11:03:41 PM |
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ladiebugg55
Redding, CA
60, joined Jun. 2012
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What reasons do you know of or think an ex might have to contact you from time to time?
If you are an ex, what are your most interesting reasons/ulterior motives?
My ex and I had a friendly divorce 35 yrs ago, and still friends to this day even though the kids are grown..
Through the yrs my ex has called me many times for my opinion or advice..even though I was remarried it never caused issues..in fact my ex and my late husband became friends..some of the issues the ex discussed were usually gf problems..he didn't live in the same town as the kids and I..it's been a long time since he's asked for my opinion and I don't hear from him at all anymore..OK by me..
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| 7/4/2014 11:11:12 PM |
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larena40
Lemon Grove, CA
43, joined Jan. 2014
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That's a good question.
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| 7/6/2014 12:04:37 AM |
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btru2meibtru2u2
Mars, PA
38, joined May. 2014
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Doesn't matter. They are an ex for a reason.
this"
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| 7/6/2014 12:32:51 AM |
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dferg99
Burbank, IL
46, joined Aug. 2012
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Yeah my ex reached out to me 2 months after we broke up. She claimed it was the worst decision she has made in her life breaking up with me. She wants me back but I have moved on. If you have a good man don't loose him on some BS. The sad part is I still love her as a person but I'm not in love with her anymore. I was ready for commitment but she was to busy wanting to hang out in the clubs. Now she regrets it crying to me but it's to late. Some people think the grass is greener on the other side. Maybe if you tend to your own lawn it will be greener than you could ever imagine.
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| 7/6/2014 12:40:18 AM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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What reasons do you know of or think an ex might have to contact you from time to time?
If you are an ex, what are your most interesting reasons/ulterior motives?
An ex contact you if he didn't find anybody else who took him.
Personally I don't believe in second chances in love.
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| 7/6/2014 5:28:38 AM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
54, joined May. 2013
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It took me awhile to figure out my X just wanted to hurt me. I finally told him to get help he was no longer allowed to mentally torture me. That was the end of him and the emotional pain that goes with him.
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| 7/6/2014 5:34:36 AM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
54, joined May. 2013
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It took me awhile to figure out my X just wanted to hurt me. I finally told him to get help he was no longer allowed to mentally torture me. That was the end of him and the emotional pain that goes with him.
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| 7/6/2014 6:48:50 AM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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I finally told him to get help he was no longer allowed to mentally torture me. That was the end of him and the emotional pain that goes with him.
Good move Happylauren!
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