1/6/2016 9:57:14 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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i might can have or know maybe 3 women friends to message from a distance..but its posed to be only one,and forever....as far as what love has to do with it......anyway.
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1/15/2016 9:04:51 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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pisces22469
Jacksonville, FL
47, joined Mar. 2011
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Open relationships are rarely a good thing if both partners are not extremely secure in what they have in each other. It's never been my thing. However, I have several friends that are into it. Some have ruined their relationship because one of them became jealous & others are still going strong 20 years later.
IMO, its better to be open & honest with your partner than to do it behind their back. At least have enough courage & respect for them to talk with them & let them know how you feel up front.
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1/20/2016 7:21:00 AM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
27, joined Aug. 2013
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If a man wrote this....everyone would have castrated him by now.
No. I'd be surprised he'd still want to hang on to the chick instead of just dumping her or doing what he wants without her knowing.
This type of thing seems like too much trouble for a guy.
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1/20/2016 11:59:17 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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He likes to go out and you like to stay in..
You want to find someone who stays with you, while he is out with his friends?
Girl, you and this guy don't have a real connection...
So you don't feel happy, but you don't want to break up right?
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1/21/2016 12:06:01 AM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Open relationships are rarely a good thing if both partners are not extremely secure in what they have in each other. It's never been my thing. However, I have several friends that are into it. Some have ruined their relationship because one of them became jealous & others are still going strong 20 years later.
IMO, its better to be open & honest with your partner than to do it behind their back. At least have enough courage & respect for them to talk with them & let them know how you feel up front.
Open Relationship???
I tell you what an Open Relationship is:
A guy who wanna keep his girl just in case he doesn't find better, and go tasting new cakes at the same time
..the girl, who is one of those desperate for a man, doesn't wanna lose him; so she takes all his bullshits pretending to play cool...
Open Relationship in a nutshell
[Edited 1/21/2016 12:06:57 AM ]
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1/21/2016 8:42:52 AM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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No. I'd be surprised he'd still want to hang on to the chick instead of just dumping her or doing what he wants without her knowing.
This type of thing seems like too much trouble for a guy.
Not if he is a player type, or a manipulative one that uses the "Hitler Girlfriend" story to get laid by other women. I had a coworker, like that. He did not want to be with his baby momma, and wouldn't get rid of her, but he didn't stop the other women from pursuing him. They knew about her, too.
Now, guy like me, that is just too old to deal with bullshit, I would dump her.
Then again, if I am going to be in an open relationship, it is agreed on from the very start and that is how it remains.
I give this warning to any interested woman, prior to engaging in any form of intimate relationship or sexual relationship.
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1/21/2016 9:30:00 AM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Open Relationship is just fwb
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1/21/2016 11:00:39 AM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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Open Relationship is just fwb
Or one person exploiting the others insecurity.
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1/21/2016 11:10:57 AM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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blurussian
Tarawa Terrace, NC
27, joined Dec. 2015
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Or ones pocket book, me thinks.
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1/21/2016 11:17:51 AM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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Most of the "open" relationships I've witnessed have usually entailed the dude f**king other women while the meek woman has put up with it because she doesn't want to be alone. WHEN and if the woman does f**k someone else the dude then usually explodes about it
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1/21/2016 1:21:01 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Most of the "open" relationships I've witnessed have usually entailed the dude f**king other women while the meek woman has put up with it because she doesn't want to be alone. WHEN and if the woman does f**k someone else the dude then usually explodes about it
Like granma used to say:
When a woman goes with an a**hole, it means she deserves him...
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1/21/2016 1:22:00 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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Blendno27s
Blackwood, NJ
90, joined Apr. 2015
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didn't read lol
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1/22/2016 10:22:28 AM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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SadisticSienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Nov. 2015
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If you're even thinking about this, it's probably better to abandon ship, so to speak.
I thought in r/ships you're supposed to figure problems out together, not just try to go with someone new straight away.
Waht's the world coming to! lol
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1/24/2016 10:23:03 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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blueyedone42
Rollingstone, MN
42, joined Jan. 2016
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Say no, it causes problems. And there probably not ready for a relationship
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1/25/2016 4:38:22 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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nurseshanna1972
San Marcos, TX
43, joined Oct. 2013
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What needs to happen is to end this relationship and find someone else that is comparable and willing to have an open rationship if you BOTH choose to. Been in one with my last ex and not by choice. It lasted until I could set myself up to leave. Was not in any real relationship for about eight years until I could trust Cliff and Donna came back into my life. The three of us are all great friends and sex partners. It is usually just us but there can and sometimes an open policy to f**k others if we choose to but we do not unless it is a friend that we know and trust. But the openness is something we all agreed to fromm the start and always canceled out ,towards others,if one of us was around.
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1/25/2016 10:43:27 PM |
In relationship, would like to make it an open one |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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You want it both ways. Have that talk with him and I think he's GONE. He'll consider it cheating. You know if you are really opposites then you probably aren't a good match anyhow.
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