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rightguyforu92
Lisle, IL
38, joined Feb. 2015
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Op ur big tits matter in a gud way. Ur lack of hair matters in a bad way.
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| 1/19/2016 1:43:16 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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So,. it appears numbers do matter to the women here.
Well...that dispels the notion there is a double edged sword as far as the genders and having non relation sexual escapades.
I knew it was just a matter of time to dispel this notion.
thanks girls.... 
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| 1/19/2016 1:43:58 PM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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Not necessarily
Example?
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| 1/19/2016 1:54:46 PM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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If a woman wants to know a number I will give her the number of women I have had sex with in the last thirty years. I can count them on one hand and still have fingers left.
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| 1/19/2016 2:01:56 PM |
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SadisticSienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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I just think it is not healthy for the mind 
difficult to explain I could but the concept it simple, too much of a good thing
kind of concept.
Corrupts you from the inside out
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| 1/19/2016 2:04:18 PM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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Op ur big tits matter in a gud way. Ur lack of hair matters in a bad way.
Ohk ?
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| 1/19/2016 2:06:38 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
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I just think it is not healthy for the mind
difficult to explain I could but the concept it simple, too much of a good thing
kind of concept.
Corrupts you from the inside out
Sounds like you have already been corrupted by judgement but you are definitely not alone*shrug*
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| 1/19/2016 2:09:01 PM |
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
52, joined Jul. 2014
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I think she means too many people?
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| 1/19/2016 2:21:23 PM |
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SadisticSienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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It's not about 'judgement' lol
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| 1/19/2016 3:07:25 PM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
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Sienna, I could make sweet sweet love to you morning, noon and night and it would never be enough. 
....so we might have to involve your sister too.
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| 1/19/2016 3:10:48 PM |
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SadisticSienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Oh Gawd not my sister I had a nightmare with her in it recently
it was so messed up
LIke she was a guy and
was r*ping me??? U.U
It was so traumatizing lol
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| 1/19/2016 3:11:55 PM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
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Now I definitely want to visit Australia
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| 1/19/2016 3:13:27 PM |
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SadisticSienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Lmfao
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| 1/19/2016 4:59:25 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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U not gonna get the answers u looking for, by asking how many partners someone had, people can't even tell the truth nowadays
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| 1/19/2016 6:04:18 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
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It's not about 'judgement' lol
it's totally judgement when you make evaluations about a person based on their behavior. Everybody does it, I'd be much more concerned about someone who DOESN'T evaluate people they choose to get close to rather than how often someone has sex or how many partners they have had. I'm more critical of someone who claims NOT to judge..sounds unrealistic and immature to me.
Unlike you, I don't consider sexual activity or preference to be a standard criteria of character.
Nothing wrong with being fairly discriminatory.
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| 1/19/2016 6:06:24 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
57, joined May. 2009
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It's not about 'judgement' lol
Of course it is. You've already judged them as being messed up and not able to commit to relationships. How is that assessment of others not about judging? (And what's this too much of a good thing all about?)
And what is too many? Is it 2 a year? 3 a year? 12 a year? Or is this a "I don't know how many, but I'll know it when I hear it" thing?
How do you know what prompted a person to be with others? How do you know what was going on that influenced their decisions? You don't. You have no idea, yet you have no problem painting them with a large brush as being somehow lacking something.
It is no one's business who I've slept with, as it is not my business who he's slept with. That includes knowing what and why and where. The only thing that is important is who the person is who is in front of me at this moment in time. Not what brought them there. I will find as we develop our relationship what his character is and all those events in his life that shaped it because how many or how few he slept with is only one tiny little part of it.
ETA: Or I could have just waited for Soul to respond...lol
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| 1/19/2016 6:07:24 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
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@ lake
jinx
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| 1/19/2016 6:08:37 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
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its private an personal..it stretches back to near normal anyway. an you cant say well,you feel like you been with 10 men in 25 years..nope..dont let our minds wander,an go there....
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| 1/19/2016 6:08:39 PM |
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SadisticSienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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That amount of casual sex would change someone
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| 1/19/2016 6:14:53 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
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What amount?
How does it change them?
Why does it change them?
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| 1/19/2016 6:16:38 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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So. All experiences change people. You act like sex is always going to have a negative impact. I find that to be a very narrow perspective.
eta: lake..perhaps we should schedule a meeting to compare notes before posting...lmao
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| 1/19/2016 6:24:15 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
45, joined Sep. 2012
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I only date virgins.
That way my 8 second ride seems like the end all be all to them.
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| 1/19/2016 8:27:15 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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If you screw around like a barnyard animal in heat that is nothing to be proud of.
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| 1/19/2016 9:07:06 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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The higher the number the the more they don't really put much value on intimacy/sex.
it's the other way around actually
A low number suggests the person has little interest in the value of experience and variety...and is probably a dull lover or inhibited/self conscious lover.
A high number indicates a high liking for it and so to that person it's a high value "commodity"...they seek it out when and where possible and will have a much better experience base making them a better and more valuable lover.
I don't know if I can agree with this one . Because if someone were to get with a virgin they could mole that person into something (the who is experience) into whatever they like.
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| 1/19/2016 9:16:52 PM |
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inventtis2
South Haven, MI
38, joined Nov. 2012
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I had a date with a girl that basically indicated that she was a wh*re, so I ended that quick.
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| 1/19/2016 10:10:55 PM |
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truly000
Fort Dodge, IA
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I don't know if I can agree with this one . Because if someone were to get with a virgin they could mole that person into something (the who is experience) into whatever they like.
One could also have just as much sexual experience with 1 or 2 partners in a lifetime as someone with 30 or 40.
Is not the amount of partners but ..the time,interest, discovery, intimacy, passion ect..put in.
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| 1/19/2016 10:30:04 PM |
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hardcover5
Las Vegas, NV
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Ya could be bigger number then expected
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| 1/19/2016 11:33:31 PM |
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pithrill
Bakersfield, CA
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I like Pi.
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| 1/20/2016 1:32:42 AM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
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I don't usually ask because it can be viewed as an invasive question. I'd rather have the man I am interested in offer the information.
The numbers sort of matter because I'd prefer to be with someone with low numbers and a couple long term relationships. I wouldn't be compatible with someone who has had sex with 10 different girls in the last year or so.
I agree that a lot of people probably lie about the numbers.
And... I also think that people who have had 1 partner over many years can easily develop a great and varied sex life... if they are both open to it.
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| 1/20/2016 1:57:51 AM |
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mr_imperfect
Philadelphia, PA
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Do you ask your potential boyfriend/girlfriend how many people they have slept with ?
Does the number matter to you ?
All I care about are 2 things one did she play safe or am I at risk of catching something nasty. And two is she capable of being faithful to the one she is with. As long as yes is the answer to both concerns I could care less if she f**ked 500 men before me.
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| 1/20/2016 6:08:49 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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One could also have just as much sexual experience with 1 or 2 partners in a lifetime as someone with 30 or 40.
Is not the amount of partners but ..the time,interest, discovery, intimacy, passion ect..put in.
Right
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| 1/20/2016 7:04:44 AM |
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
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Yeah the # doesn't matter, as long as he's clean & faithful
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| 1/20/2016 7:14:31 AM |
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Idleeros
Norcross, GA
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I had a date with a girl that basically indicated that she was a wh*re, so I ended that quick.
I don't blame you...stuff like that is a turn off imo.
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| 1/20/2016 7:15:32 AM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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I had a date with a girl that basically indicated that she was a wh*re, so I ended that quick.
Quite right too, no need to pleasure her when you are paying...3 mins is more than enough time.
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| 1/20/2016 9:39:39 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Hell yeah it matters. It tells you what kinda sex life they had before meeting you. Which would explain certain behaviors you'll see later on. And that's IF they're honest.
On the other hand... If they're NOT honest then that'll tell you they can't be trusted AND thE they obviously have something to hide or question their own choices.
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| 1/20/2016 10:03:53 AM |
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mountain901
Pueblo, CO
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Of Course; why be with someone who sleeps around and thinks it's a game? Discretion and clarity is something that is paramount not to be dismissed, I'd need to know! 
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| 1/20/2016 10:30:42 AM |
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truly000
Fort Dodge, IA
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All I care about are 2 things one did she play safe or am I at risk of catching something nasty. And two is she capable of being faithful to the one she is with. As long as yes is the answer to both concerns I could care less if she f**ked 500 men before me.
Sure if you plan on being number 501. Just looking for a lay instead of a relationship. Her track record says something of her character and lack of commitment.
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| 1/20/2016 10:35:30 AM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
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Ladies remember if a guy tells he's slept with 500 women it really means 2.
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| 1/20/2016 10:39:25 AM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
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If a woman wants to know a number I will give her the number of women I have had sex with in the last thirty years. I can count them on one hand and still have fingers left.
Who was the best, your left or your right???
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| 1/20/2016 11:13:30 AM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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Ok, so guys lie. But they never seem to understand the right lie to tell. Women like a low number but not a REALLY low number (this is a WTF moment for them if you're decent looking and 32 and say 2).
It doesn't have a bearing on anything for me. I'd be more concerned how many she slept with after meeting me. 
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| 1/20/2016 11:20:47 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
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Sure if you plan on being number 501. Just looking for a lay instead of a relationship. Her track record says something of her character and lack of commitment.
really? and what exactly is her track record? A number means nothing more than a quantity in my opinion. It says nothing about quality or commitment.
let's try some realistic numbers vs 500
35 yrs old, say first time was at age 16
now we have 19 yrs to work with.
married once for 10 yrs..now we have
9 yrs to work with.
Practiced safe sex, has dated consistantly but not found mr right for her yet. never has sex until there is some sort of commitment pretty much that means 2-3 months after first meet. even if she only dates one quy a year, that's 9 guys by the time she is 35 plus the ex-husband.
when is it too much? why is it too much for women but expected behavior for some men? Why would some men decide 9 or 20 or 30 partners is too much to consider dating or haveing a relationship but still b*tch because a woman won't "put out" on his timeline?
Numbers mean nothing..they are just another superficial means to look down at people. The number doesn't necessarily mean they were irresponsible. The number doesn't necessarily mean they can't commit. The number doesn't necessarily mean they are a bad person of questionable character. The number is just data.
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| 1/20/2016 11:24:06 AM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
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I think wanting to know the numbers is really an age thing. It seems to be that young people have a need to know, and older ones don't care. I'm not really sure what the reason to know would be. It's the past and I'm not interested in pasts insomuch as it doesn't affect the future. Who cares if he was with only his first wife or with dozens as long as when we're together it's just us? Who cares if when we're together we meet each others' needs and we're happy with that?
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I was thinking, the only way something like this might matter is if he's one of those famous (infamous) basketball players who's number is like a million or something. 
Otherwise --- as usual --- Well said.
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| 1/20/2016 11:50:17 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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ditto
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| 1/20/2016 12:30:48 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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All you women asking why does it matter for women but expected by men are those who have brainwashed themselves to think we're the same and this is a definite difference right here.
The more men a woman sleeps with the more worn she is. Of course there are other factors as well. Like how many in a given period.
But no matter how many women a man sleeps with... He's not gonna get any shorter, smaller or thinner in size. And no man wants a woman he can't feel himself inside of.
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| 1/20/2016 12:36:49 PM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
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Well I'm rather fond of 69.
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| 1/20/2016 12:40:55 PM |
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
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SOULFLIGHT IS SOOOOO AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!  
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| 1/20/2016 12:41:24 PM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
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as are your tits
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| 1/20/2016 12:46:45 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
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lmao..so we are back to that old "ego based on d*ck size" argument..
scientifically..it doesn't have shit to do with size. I don't care how big you "think" your d*ck is...no d*ck has ever paved the walls of a vagina like birthing a baby and that doesn't stop. women from having great sex.
Compatible size of the genitalia has nothing to do with the number of partners a person has had.
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| 1/20/2016 1:24:31 PM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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and yes, she is awesome.
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| 1/20/2016 1:49:25 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
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Awww..you guys are sweet, thanks!
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| 1/20/2016 1:56:25 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Who the f**k is going to ask any person with some age on them....how many people they slept with???????????
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| 1/20/2016 5:06:18 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
52, joined Nov. 2012
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Agreed!
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| 1/20/2016 5:16:29 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Of Course; why be with someone who sleeps around and thinks it's a game? Discretion and clarity is something that is paramount not to be dismissed, I'd need to know!
How many they been with, as in how partners they had in they whole life and not one who sleeps around, there's a difference here
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| 1/20/2016 5:17:19 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Yes Soul And Lake are Wonderful they give out good advice
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| 1/20/2016 5:46:07 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
63, joined Nov. 2013
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OP - You worry about the most senseless things. Get a life, and concentrate on what really matters.
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| 1/20/2016 5:53:40 PM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
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I get the other end of the issue with one women saying she has not had sex in 35 years.
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| 1/20/2016 6:49:37 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
48, joined Aug. 2013
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No, everyone has a past.
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| 1/20/2016 7:44:36 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014
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Kinda...I tried to buy something worth 150.00 when I only had 100.00....I couldn't get the store clerk to go along with my "numbers don't matter" idea so it didn't work....
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| 1/20/2016 8:17:38 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Ya could be bigger number then expected
Women always deflate their number. There is a very complex equation for it, and it requires a little bit of snooping to figure their true number out.
Take the figure they tell you, and immediately add 5.(Women have a habit of not counting anything that lasts under two minutes, and they will get a few of these in their life)
Then, go through there phone and count the total number of non-family member males(WV, TN, KY include family)
If the total in the phone, based on the rules above, is GREATER than the number she gave + 5, then you will subtract your first number from the second number.
From this point, you multiply the remaining number by 0.63.
Then, you add that number, to the original number + 5, and round up or down, accordingly, for the decimal.
O = number she claims
a = O + 5
p = Male phone number retained in her phone
b = p x 0.63
T = Total(a + b)
O + 5 + (p x 0.63) = T
Now, for mileage, well there is no accurate way of measuring this one. Most have odometer discrepancies, anyway(see previous equation regarding number of partners)
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| 1/20/2016 8:30:39 PM |
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SadisticSienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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According to your formula Iv had 7.26
lmfao
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