| 1/30/2016 2:41:43 PM |
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purian
West Palm Beach, FL
56, joined Nov. 2009
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I said what???? stupid auto correct!!
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| 1/30/2016 11:57:16 PM |
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bruce_2014
Dothan, AL
59, joined Jan. 2014
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first mistake..... Coming across too soft. woman hate men that act like their friends or nice guys.... To them men are more like a girl friend.
Learn to be a man...... I have a course.....
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| 1/31/2016 1:00:03 AM |
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fishnthec
Mesquite, TX
64, joined Oct. 2010
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You blew it! Next time don't be such a clingon! 
A gentleman always knows when to leave right? That goes for phone calls too.
Less is more early on. Show interest, but give her time to miss you.
Let her wonder what you're up to.
If she finds you interesting, she'll call you to find out! 
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| 1/31/2016 1:15:30 PM |
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chairman_drth
Toronto, ON
46, joined Dec. 2015
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Its been a couple of weeks OP, what is the update?
Are you two talking and back to normal or did she end up doing the Run forest Runnnnnnnnnnnn?
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| 1/31/2016 1:37:01 PM |
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alls_fair
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
96, joined May. 2011
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I suck at damage control
You best give up booze entirely then!
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| 1/31/2016 9:30:00 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Dude....if you fell in love by just chatting, and fell head over heals by being together for just 20 minutes.
Your really needy....and that's how its hitting her. She's not ready for that and your all over her, and its bugging her...and she probably couldn't take you seriously.
Personally, I'd say you took this whole thing from the beginning a lot more seriously than she did.....No offence but to get this intrigued with really no time together at 30 years old....to me it spells needy.
Why did it take over a year to meet?
Do you really want to be with someone who tells you "your really starting to irritate me" ???...and do you know where that will lead if you got with someone who told you that this early?....you on a leash as a door mat. Untill she gets tired of it and
moves on.
and, you never had her....you chatted for a year on and off and had a short meet.
Anyway....its up to you....but I'd figure its dead in the water, and nothing more may come of it
Work on being more secure.
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| 1/31/2016 10:08:05 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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Or scratch your balls and have her lick it ...if she flinched you got your answer. .
ewwwwwww.... That's just gross. 
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| 2/1/2016 12:42:13 AM |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
68, joined Sep. 2009
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How can you say you fell for her when you only saw her for a short short time? Are you freaking needy? It was only a long period of texting and then the kiss at midnight. I'm reading needy here. Turn in your man-card and you can have it back when you get some brains and some balls. Grow up little boy. Did you just come out of your momma's closet?She's gone anyway. You blew it with the little boy text
[Edited 2/1/2016 12:42:54 AM ]
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| 2/1/2016 4:54:42 PM |
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xman379
Richmond, VA
37, joined Nov. 2015
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Give her space and see what happens. If you continue to text her she probably will block you. But by giving her time she may come back to you.
Great advice.
She was probably spooked. She probably thinks you're moving too fast and/or that you said it with the anticipation of sex.
Keep in mind, many women are very defensive because they are very often apporached by men who typically have sex on their mind and think that PLAYING the role of a nice guy for a short period of time will increase their chances of getting in a woman's panties.
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| 2/1/2016 4:57:07 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
52, joined Nov. 2012
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OP hasn't come back to tell us how this story ends?
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| 2/4/2016 4:36:09 AM |
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iam_resurrected
Reno, NV
45, joined Jul. 2014
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We've hung out for more then 20 mins... I was f**king drunk .. I wouldn't of said that shit sober !!
A man who cannot hold his liquor damn sure can't hold onto a woman
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| 2/5/2016 7:26:20 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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OP hasn't come back to tell us how this story ends?
Because it is already over.
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| 2/5/2016 7:28:02 AM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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She was my first and only kiss of 2016
Erm think positive...2016 isn't over yet.
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| 2/5/2016 7:56:28 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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OP hasn't come back to tell us how this story ends?
Probably, because every gold digger and scammer in the place emailed him and he's reading them.
A dude writes a thread like this.....and its like saying....here I am, take advantage of me.
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| 2/5/2016 8:56:35 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Probably, because every gold digger and scammer in the place emailed him and he's reading them.
A dude writes a thread like this.....and its like saying....here I am, take advantage of me.
This, or when they read it, they think he is like moobs and has a giant mangina, so they avoid him.
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| 2/8/2016 8:50:05 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
55, joined Nov. 2009
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So me and this girl have been talking on and off for a year, finally this past Christmas she came to see me .. Only for 20 mins but we were pressed on time. She was my first and only kiss of 2016 we kissed at midnight.. I fell hard for her when we first started talking btw.. Anyways we planned Monday's on hanging out going on adventures ( driving around getting lost ) .. We havnt had sex nor do I even think about it .. She's that awesome ... Long story short I got drunk and texted her I love her and now she's pissed .. She hasn't deleted me off of fb and this is day two of not texting her .. I was told by a friend give her space .. So Iam.. I suck at damage control and well her last message to me was "your really irritating me right now ".. What am I suppose to do .. I don't want to lose her but I don't want to push her away ... 
Oh lawd...Ain't nobody got time fo dat.
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| 2/10/2016 12:03:32 AM |
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iam_resurrected
Reno, NV
45, joined Jul. 2014
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This thread should be voted most hilarious due to title only 
I told her I love her...........
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| 2/10/2016 3:27:29 PM |
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hard2follow2
Reno, NV
30, joined Oct. 2013
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I met a guy from here actually, and we talked for at least 6 months before we met. I liked him a lot before we met but if he told me he loved m e that quick I would have tripped too. Clingy guys are a turn off.
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| 2/10/2016 3:28:48 PM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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Telling a b*tch you love her doesn't always mean you're clingy...its a fairly common tactic to get in her pants that sometimes works, sometimes doesn't...depends on the gullibility of the d*ck wallet in question
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| 2/11/2016 5:46:35 PM |
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hard2follow2
Reno, NV
30, joined Oct. 2013
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Telling a b*tch you love her doesn't always mean you're clingy...its a fairly common tactic to get in her pants that sometimes works, sometimes doesn't...depends on the gullibility of the d*ck wallet in question
There are exceptions to every rule but the Op is desperately trying to get this girl back. I love my ex still but you can't make someone want you.
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| 2/11/2016 6:36:01 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
online now!
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That's you're first mistake, OPie. She would have been mad it you hadn't said you love her too you know. Women are so bust "just taking it slow" that you'll be 95 before you're allowed to hold hands and go steady! HUH? What else have you been doing the last 70 years?
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| 2/11/2016 9:49:24 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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place is really actin up,an slowin way down..again..
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| 2/12/2016 6:13:56 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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OP .. had to get drunk FIRST ... then got the drunk love bug in his head.
Sober .. he not so much in love ... ya think ...
poor fella is still drunk.
Toss in some cocaine, wh*res and chinese peckerwood medicine and he good to go.
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| 2/12/2016 1:52:01 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
54, joined May. 2011
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Send her another text asking her if she got your other text
about loving her ... outfit that she wore when you hung out.
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| 2/12/2016 3:19:44 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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i love em all...in the flesh.there born to love,an so was i. 
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| 2/12/2016 4:06:29 PM |
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nyythawk
Denver, CO
53, joined Nov. 2010
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F**k that texting shit. Call her, or better yet... go see the woman and tell her the TRUTH... that you're immature, wear your heart on your sleeve and that you don't handle liquor well. She's either into you or she's not. And seems she's not.
THEN, after she's kicked you to the curb, just chalk it in the "lessons learned" column and move on.
An oh yeah...
Sucks to be you! 
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