2/2/2016 6:44:22 PM |
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souf_iane
Los Angeles, CA
24, joined Nov. 2010
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He has never met me and he has told my girlfriend to choose between her parents and me
Was primarily because of my skin color.
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2/2/2016 6:53:09 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
63, joined Nov. 2013
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Such is life. Live it, or die. I got left at the altar by a black woman whose friends, and family, threatened to disown her if she married me...or any white man. She chose to keep them, and dump me. I moved on, rather than waste time whining about it. I only mention it at times like this, for instruction purposes. If your gal leaves her family, and goes with you, you will know she is tough enough to deal with what comes in other ways, and that she really cares for you a lot. If she dumps you, to keep her family, you will know that you are lucky to be rid of such a dumb daddy's girl. Either way, you win.
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2/2/2016 6:57:55 PM |
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souf_iane
Los Angeles, CA
24, joined Nov. 2010
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she wants to leave her parents and stay with me
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2/2/2016 6:57:59 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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He has never met me and he has told my girlfriend to choose between her parents and me
Was primarily because of my skin color.
Sue him for discrimination.
Now I'll tell you, life isn't fair! BELIEVE IT! Christ was perfect and got crucified just the same.
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2/2/2016 7:12:23 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Reason why your girlfriend dad doesn't like you is, she had to tell her dad some things about u, cause her dad never met u, it's your girlfriend keeping up sh•t
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2/2/2016 7:47:13 PM |
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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
49, joined Mar. 2014
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Or you could look at it the other way - girlfriends come and go but your family will be with you forever.
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2/2/2016 8:33:33 PM |
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jjp184
Somerset, NJ
52, joined Jun. 2013
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I never wanna meet a chicks family, hell in a week I won't even remember her name
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2/2/2016 8:51:13 PM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
62, joined Sep. 2009
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People can be "funny" like that.
I think what most parents who do that sort of thing are actually doing without realizing it, is trying to get their children to verify and confirm their own earlier choices about life. They convince themselves that they are protecting or guiding their children with their best interests in mind, of course, but they are just playing up to their own egos.
The one thing NOT to do in reaction, is to go ahead with the relationship for the wrong reason. That is, don't stay with the girl BECAUSE it upsets her parents. Stay with her only if that's what you think and feel is your best choice.
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2/2/2016 8:58:30 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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That's interesting your profile doesn't reflect the fact that you have a girlfriend. If i was the gf I'd be mad as heck that my bf was still flaunting his stuff on a dating site.
Maybe when you go pick her up you never go in and introduce yourself or maybe you are disrespectful by dropping her back at home at some godly hour. YOUR generation is ungrantful and selfish.
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2/2/2016 9:09:00 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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I always got along with the parents, but had a lot of trouble with their daughters.
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2/3/2016 5:48:58 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
53, joined Oct. 2013
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Why have you not met your girlfriends father?
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2/3/2016 6:54:49 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Maybe its because you have a problem with lice and crabs.
Its so bad, you were even scratching in your picture.
I can't blame the Dad there.
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2/3/2016 6:59:20 AM |
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Idleeros
Norcross, GA
28, joined Mar. 2015
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Family comes first imo! Men come & go.
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2/3/2016 7:40:40 AM |
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Blendno27s
Blackwood, NJ
90, joined Apr. 2015
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Idleeros how bout we see them knockers
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2/3/2016 7:47:42 AM |
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aintmyb_tch
Ponchatoula, LA
96, joined Aug. 2015
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Get a new gf. Preferably one who does not have a bigot for a dad.
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2/3/2016 8:05:38 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Interesting you say skin color....yet it appears your Italian white.
anyway...since Picky brought up your profile.....I thought I would post it here and maybe the op can explain it.
""""""""""""""""""Hey girls my name's Soufiane, 23 years old. I am a outgoing guy, funny and a very happy person. I like to go out to clubs, bars and am not shy to do things at home like watching a movie. I am a honest and sympathetic! I am looking for a nice girl that's honest with a great sense of humor. """""""""""
So...you tell the people your girls name....then proceed to describe the girl your looking for????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
OOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!
and you expect anyone to take this thread seriously?
you really expect to get some girl interested, when you already have a girlfriend?????
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2/3/2016 8:15:00 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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she wants to leave her parents and stay with me
She wants out of her house .. as Daddy is a nasty f**ker.
So she is jumping out of the fire to get into the fry pan .. going from one house to another.
It is just sex and money with you ... just as it is sex and money with dad.
Yup .. he be a f**king her .. as that is what God Almighty do to his daughters ... like the Virgin Mary.
After about 2 years .. she leave you for another guy she be a f**king behind your back.
If you baby up with her .. then you pay for child support and wife support for about 18 years.
F**king you get for the f**king you got.
She is still a child ... not interested in growing up .. being on her own .. having a life.
So she be a slut .. raised that way you know ... just like the Virgin Mary.
no condoms ... get some taco sauce on your swartzn**ger.
fun fun fun ...
Learning curve picks up after awhile.
sumbuddie wear blind sea
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2/3/2016 8:52:26 AM |
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swtrlvr
Little Rock, AR
42, joined Jan. 2016
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Move on
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2/3/2016 8:54:34 AM |
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nyythawk
Denver, CO
53, joined Nov. 2010
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NEWSFLASH : Racism exists.
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2/3/2016 8:55:47 AM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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He has never met me and he has told my girlfriend to choose between her parents and me
Point out to your girlfriend how little her dad cares about her if he's put such a demand on her.
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2/3/2016 4:21:34 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Interesting you say skin color....yet it appears your Italian white.
anyway...since Picky brought up your profile.....I thought I would post it here and maybe the op can explain it.
""""""""""""""""""Hey girls my name's Soufiane, 23 years old. I am a outgoing guy, funny and a very happy person. I like to go out to clubs, bars and am not shy to do things at home like watching a movie. I am a honest and sympathetic! I am looking for a nice girl that's honest with a great sense of humor. """""""""""
So...you tell the people your girls name....then proceed to describe the girl your looking for??????????????????????????? ?????????????????????????????????
OOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!
and you expect anyone to take this thread seriously?
you really expect to get some girl interested, when you already have a girlfriend?????
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This definitely explains it beemaybe her father knows he no good, but on a site still looking to hook up
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2/3/2016 5:08:01 PM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
81, joined Aug. 2013
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Maybe you need to suck her dads d*ck, OPie!!!!
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2/3/2016 5:50:34 PM |
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aintmyb_tch
Ponchatoula, LA
96, joined Aug. 2015
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Maybe you need to suck her dads d*ck, OPie!!!!
Quit projecting your gayness onto the OP.
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2/3/2016 6:00:38 PM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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Maybe you should get a different gf.
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2/3/2016 6:12:03 PM |
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rocky_dennis
Mechanicsburg, PA
36, joined Nov. 2013
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Yeah in North end of Boston, the Italian's always told us, you can come here and eat, but the girls are spoken for. You know damn well, you're not going to have her live with you lol.
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2/3/2016 7:27:11 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Norfolk, VA
45, joined Jan. 2014
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"My girlfriend's dad does not like me."
He wants the best for his daughter. It's understandable. OP, you should leave her. If she really want you, she will go chasing after you. If she doesn't want you, she will just let you go. You should make things easier for her by leaving her. If she wants you back, she will ask you to stay. If she doesn't ask you to stay, then you have your answer. Go find yourself another girl that is a good fit for you.
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2/3/2016 7:29:38 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Norfolk, VA
45, joined Jan. 2014
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Bumble bee: "It appears you are Italian white."
Some people hate Italians, bee. Pure Italians from Italy are very brown. The Italians you see in the USA are half Irish, that's why they look white.
[Edited 2/3/2016 7:32:37 PM ]
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2/3/2016 8:45:53 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013
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she wants to leave her parents and stay with me
Soooooo what's the.problem???
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2/3/2016 10:22:12 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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I had that problem once but we never got into it. He was easier to deal with than his stubborn daughter.
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2/3/2016 11:49:32 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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Why do you keep hitting on him OP?
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2/4/2016 12:00:17 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Bumble bee: "It appears you are Italian white."
Some people hate Italians, bee. Pure Italians from Italy are very brown. The Italians you see in the USA are half Irish, that's why they look white.
That's not exactly accurate.
I'm part Italian.
The Pure Italians in my family tree came from Northern Italy, where at that time, they were fair skinned, blue eyes blonds.
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2/4/2016 12:13:44 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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I will speak directly about the racial profiling comment.
What does any ethnicity look like, sound like, act like... blah blah blah.... Narrow prejudicial mindset at work.
Stereotyping bias at play.
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2/4/2016 4:32:40 AM |
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iam_resurrected
Reno, NV
45, joined Jul. 2014
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Yeah, who gives a f**k.
Get married so you can have both the dad and mom hate you
f**king whiney a** b*tch
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2/4/2016 1:25:11 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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^^^^^^^^^^^^
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2/5/2016 8:15:19 AM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013
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Why do you keep hitting on him OP?
This!!!
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2/5/2016 8:16:40 AM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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I will speak directly about the racial profiling comment.
What does any ethnicity look like, sound like, act like... blah blah blah.... Narrow prejudicial mindset at work.
Stereotyping bias at play.
Stereotyping stereotypers...how stereotypical.
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2/5/2016 9:14:07 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
53, joined Nov. 2014
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help him fix stuff around the house.
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2/5/2016 10:12:40 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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Maybe you should get a different gf.
Yup ... find a dad who likes you ... happy wife happy life.
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2/5/2016 9:00:40 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Well, OP, that is why you practice "Dodge the father, Ram the daughter" techniques....
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2/9/2016 2:53:30 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
63, joined Nov. 2013
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OP - We know what the problem is. You WANT your GF's dad to LIKE you...the way that Siegfried likes Roy...right? Send him a tiger skin rug, for the two of you to romp together on, and you may have a chance with him. Let us know how it turns out.
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2/14/2016 1:11:55 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
55, joined Nov. 2009
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There isn't such a thing as the right to NOT be offended.
It's the same for minorities, feminists and wimpy men.
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2/14/2016 2:20:39 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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Quit trying to get a date with him.
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2/14/2016 5:20:56 PM |
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ltlwing
Winchester, OH
52, joined Oct. 2013
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He has never met me and he has told my girlfriend to choose between her parents and me
Was primarily because of my skin color.
Her dad must have you pegged right!...you have a girlfriend,yet your on a dating site wanting to date???
Don't understand???...Are you a player???
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2/14/2016 7:26:21 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Her dad must have you pegged right!...you have a girlfriend,yet your on a dating site wanting to date???
Don't understand???...Are you a player???
Her dad is probably a Scorpio, like you, amd had him pegged from the start. Knows what moves he was going to make, before he even made them....probably before he even THOUGHT about asking the daughter out.
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2/19/2016 7:46:03 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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burn his house down,stalk an rape the women,kids an dog.................
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2/19/2016 11:14:47 AM |
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nyythawk
Denver, CO
53, joined Nov. 2010
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Unlikely you alone will beat racism, so unless you have some secret weapon the rest of us don't know about...
Either cut her loose, or be prepared to deal with a woman alienated from her racist father because of you. And THAT fact will hang over your relationship FOREVER.
If it were me, I'd cut her loose. Why take on more problems/work than a relationship is already going to have? Unless you're already in love, have a child or any of that crap, my advice is wash out... cut it off... break clean and find someone new.
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2/19/2016 2:14:22 PM |
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GlassSlipper16
Columbia, MO
36, joined Dec. 2015
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If you really love her, want to fight for her, and want to marry her, get to know her dad on your own. Have lunch or meet with him, without her along. He doesn't want his daughter with a pu**y.
Look at him as an ally, not an enemy.
He needs to see what you're like for himself.
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2/19/2016 2:48:50 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
63, joined Nov. 2013
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Op - If you are old enough to be dating a woman who is old enough to be dating, mommies, daddies, etc, do not come into it anymore...except for emotionally immature idiots like your GF, and the emotionally immature idiots-like you-who date them. Shut up, break up, grow up, and then find a grown up woman to try it with next time.
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2/19/2016 6:32:15 PM |
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bluecougareyes
Chelan, WA
72, joined Nov. 2008
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More little boy DRAMA CRAP !
OP.. did not learn enough during his high-school dating class !
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2/28/2016 10:46:31 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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There must be 10,000,000 people in L A and half must be women. You can do better than a braindead bigot. Just stay away from my niece in Orange, k? MARRIED, 2 kids, k?
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2/28/2016 11:17:28 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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george jefferson,and archie bunker combined,id lovethe chalenge an fun,id make it a fun thing for sure.......
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2/29/2016 8:10:58 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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He has never met me and he has told my girlfriend to choose between her parents and me
Was primarily because of my skin color.
Who are you going to wake up next to? the girl? Or her dad?
Some problems solve themselves.
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2/29/2016 5:41:03 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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Your skin color? What the hell are you? White, black, mixed, Hispanic, what?
Also if you're so into your girl then why the hell are you fishing on a dating site trying to catch something? Maybe her dad knows that at 24 you can't be trusted and his daughter will get hurt. Or end up a single mom instead of a bride?
And did you ever stop and think maybe it's you're current living situation, lack of education, lifestyle, your weed smoking or lack of some real responsibility that might make her dad dislike you?
What makes you think it's all about skin color? What's your evidence to back that up?
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2/29/2016 9:15:19 PM |
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ivaiva
Goleta, CA
48, joined Oct. 2007
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How can you not like somebody because of skin color if you've never met this person to see the skin color?
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2/29/2016 9:22:37 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Your skin color? What the hell are you? White, black, mixed, Hispanic, what?
Also if you're so into your girl then why the hell are you fishing on a dating site trying to catch something? Maybe her dad knows that at 24 you can't be trusted and his daughter will get hurt. Or end up a single mom instead of a bride?
And did you ever stop and think maybe it's you're current living situation, lack of education, lifestyle, your weed smoking or lack of some real responsibility that might make her dad dislike you?
What makes you think it's all about skin color? What's your evidence to back that up?
Doc, we both know that if they are at an age where the dad doesn't like him, one of two things are true, and possibly BOTH are true:
He is a shitbag of a boyfriend, that is only out to use and abuse her, and the dad "sees" that intuitively.(The Law of Attraction would apply here)
and/or:
She is underage, and for her it is nothing more than rebelling against her "oppressive, patriarchal" parents, simply stopping her from being a "Liberated Woman" that can choose her own path. And what he is doing is likely a 3rd degree to a 1st degree felony
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3/2/2016 4:36:13 AM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Bumble bee: "It appears you are Italian white."
Some people hate Italians, bee. Pure Italians from Italy are very brown. The Italians you see in the USA are half Irish, that's why they look white.
Italy is divided in 2 countries. Not geographically but in practice it is.
In the South the Italians descend by the Muslims who conquered Sicily in the past centuries. That's why Southern Italians look like Middle Easterns.
In the North are blonde and much more pale, they work, produce and they are and always have been rich. That's why they never emigrated to America. You don't know their traditions or cuisine, you only had Sicilians and Southerns here in America.
Poverty and Mafia are from the South. Money from the North.
Northern Italians hate Southern Italians and they call them "Terroni" a slang word that means bummers.
Lega North ("Lega Nord" if you wanna google it) is the Italian political party which wants Northern Italy to stop to provide welfare to the South.
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