3/18/2016 11:53:19 AM |
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epz112
Lancaster, CA
68, joined Nov. 2015
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Just because we are in the web-internet does that fact give us a license
to offend others?
We don't like the way they look, what they believe, what they say, they are..
not sufficient educated to satisfy our fears! as we see a reflection of ourselves
in them. The same way we look in to a mirror often, because we forget what we look like,
so are we to examine our motives when so loosely let the poison be spread from our tongue
in this case from our fingers.
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3/18/2016 12:00:51 PM |
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Jack__daniels
Jacksonville, FL
58, joined Oct. 2015
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ignore them or block them, I get why some block people some are a**hole
but most times i just ignore them.
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3/18/2016 12:40:07 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010
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Well, it's a big and sometimes
not so beautiful world.
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3/18/2016 1:04:22 PM |
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xray6
Jacksonville, FL
28, joined Mar. 2012
online now!
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Yes
It is a free area to speak without consequences.
If you want to play in here you will need to toughen up
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3/18/2016 1:46:56 PM |
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epz112
Lancaster, CA
68, joined Nov. 2015
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Yes
It is a free area to speak without consequences.
If you want to play in here you will need to toughen up
I must quote the wiser man ever lived! out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth
speaks.
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3/18/2016 2:06:32 PM |
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xray6
Jacksonville, FL
28, joined Mar. 2012
online now!
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You're the one asking silly questions
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3/18/2016 2:11:47 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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That had to be an extra large fortune cookie to have all that written on it.
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3/18/2016 2:14:11 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Op....if you post a thread and get some flack and those who did the flack see that you wrote a post about their flack.
all you did was show they got to ya....and that might insight even more flack.
Its best to just shine it on,,,,or make a comeback outwitting them.
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3/18/2016 2:18:03 PM |
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epz112
Lancaster, CA
68, joined Nov. 2015
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You're the one asking silly questions
I'm not asking any silly questions. I am making a statement of what goes on in the Internet'
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3/18/2016 2:26:24 PM |
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epz112
Lancaster, CA
68, joined Nov. 2015
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Bumble. do you think I care?
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3/18/2016 2:46:17 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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Apparently you do..
Ignore or block. As a longtime poster often said...nobody has the right to NOT be offended.
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3/18/2016 2:56:17 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
54, joined May. 2011
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I don't see no reflection of me in the OP.
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3/18/2016 2:58:14 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
54, joined May. 2011
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I must quote the wiser man ever lived! out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth
speaks.
Well, some people have shit in their mouth....
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3/18/2016 2:59:27 PM |
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epz112
Lancaster, CA
68, joined Nov. 2015
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Apparently you do..
Ignore or block. As a longtime poster often said...nobody has the right to NOT be offended.
I hope I don't make the impression of being offended, cause am not. Thanks 4 Ur input!
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3/18/2016 3:39:09 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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Then stop feeding the trolls.
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3/18/2016 3:41:14 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
54, joined May. 2011
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And take a more flattering picture, like me
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3/18/2016 5:18:15 PM |
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masterofbacon2
Kirkjubæjarklaustur
Iceland
90, joined May. 2014
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Is OP a tranny? Yikes!
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3/18/2016 5:58:07 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Not sure if that's her pic, it look like the picture from mob wives, of old girl who passed away, Big Angie
[Edited 3/18/2016 5:59:16 PM ]
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3/18/2016 7:15:08 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013
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If we can't offend and attack people here, then where are we supposed to do it????
Btw nice rack!!! U should post them melons!!!!!
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3/18/2016 8:41:10 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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ignore them or block them, I get why some block people some are a**hole
but most times i just ignore them.
Seems like good advice. You can't pay attention to every shit head in here, it's what they crave.
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3/18/2016 9:20:41 PM |
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epz112
Lancaster, CA
68, joined Nov. 2015
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Seems like good advice. You can't pay attention to every shit head in here, it's what they crave.[/quote
Thanks for your input.
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3/18/2016 9:21:09 PM |
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ltlwing
Winchester, OH
52, joined Oct. 2013
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Dish up what they dish out on here op.
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3/18/2016 11:02:55 PM |
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movez2themusic
FukunoFukuno
Japan
49, joined Feb. 2016
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Am I the only one who has no idea what OP said in her opening post
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3/18/2016 11:24:53 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
63, joined Nov. 2013
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OP - NO one else can offend you.
YOU offend yourself by choosing to take offense at what others say / do.
When someone calls me a "mother f**ker", I do not take offense. I smile, and tell them: "well, keep your mother off the streets, and I will leave her alone."
If you choose to take offense, and be hurt, by what others say, or do, that is YOUR doing. Quit whining, grow up, and learn to focus on what really matters. Perceived insults to your ego are NOT what really matters. They are a meaningless distraction you choose to be distracted by. They are-thus-YOUR FAULT.
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3/19/2016 12:14:05 AM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014
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And take a more flattering picture, like me
You have very nice and tasty looking legs.....
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3/19/2016 3:08:56 AM |
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d_voted
Winnipeg, MB
63, joined Sep. 2008
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Am I the only one who has no idea what OP said in her opening post
I suspect that what she is saying in her post is an attempt to admonish some who think that being on a web site somehow gives them permission to be not just impolite but actually over the top rude and offensive.
I have often wondered what some of the posters seem to gain from abusive posts. Considering this is supposed to be a site dedicated to persons seeking to find someone to date it sure seems counterproductive to write vulgar and offensive comments.
Her original post is under the surface a paraphrase from the Scriptures and anyone with knowledge of the New Testament would have picked up on that fact.
I think she finds it surprising that people use this forum (generally speaking all forums) to insult others and drive their own agendas, philosophies or theological doctrine (as in the Christian forum) without the grace of offering others respect.
I have been guilty of getting caught up in these obscene and vulgar exchanges when I run into Neo-Nazis, White supremacists and others who show no tolerance of others for their views. My favorite comments is to refer to them as syphilitic Swine . I just like the ring of it and it also implies a diseased non-kosher animal.
So anyways, the post, even though it is not written as clearly as it might have been seems to make sense to me.
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3/19/2016 3:11:07 AM |
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d_voted
Winnipeg, MB
63, joined Sep. 2008
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Is OP a tranny? Yikes!
Standard or Automatic?
Fluid Drive, gear or belt driven?
Column or floor shift?
Be more specific for those of us who care.
Please.
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3/19/2016 4:01:18 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Just because is right.
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3/19/2016 5:28:35 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Bumble. do you think I care?
If you didn't care....then you would have never made this thread.
you had "one" main heckler on the thread you posted in dating general....I just checked.
Ray and I didn't butter you up here, but just said how it is and gave some sound advice....you said something snotty to ray and a little snotty to me.
So, here it is your complaining about rudeness in the forums....then turn around and do it yourself too.
All you wanted here was to get buttered up and get some pats on the back.
Your question there was moronic at best, this ones not much better.
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3/19/2016 5:33:55 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Is OP a tranny? Yikes!
One could wonder consider this quote I took from her other thread...
Means you're not pretty enough to be serious about....comment from main heckler...'ol buddy aka palazar
Or a very none handsome man!!....Op's comment back to him.
but this post suggest to me, that was a joke...because she is acting like a woman.
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3/19/2016 5:42:48 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Jeez up above.
Am I the only man on here around 60 years old that speaks from the top of his head and is not playing games.??????
Not afraid to reveal himself and replies to anything with honesty?
I can think of three other men around that besides the dude up there around that age... who you never see answer questions randomly, nope they pick and choose questions, where they can formulate an answer that makes them look like the white knight...skipping the questions where either that can't happen, or threads they may get caught up in and risk revealing things, that may not help the cause....some of these white knights put these at the end of their B.S. post .
but, its not restricted to age, its an old bullshit trick I've seen on many forums.
The sad thing is, is how many fall for this bullshit, mostly women and the men who see it to....most won't say anything. because it wouldn't do their cause any good.
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3/19/2016 7:40:19 AM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
55, joined Nov. 2009
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I used to buy flowers once a week for my wife and say....just because.
Despite the negative tone of this thread, its title reminded me of that.
Thanks for the memories OP.
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3/19/2016 8:39:13 AM |
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epz112
Lancaster, CA
68, joined Nov. 2015
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I used to buy flowers once a week for my wife and say....just because.
Despite the negative tone of this thread, its title reminded me of that.
Thanks for the memories OP.
Truth in your eyes equal negativity?
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3/19/2016 8:44:37 AM |
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epz112
Lancaster, CA
68, joined Nov. 2015
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Am I the only one who has no idea what OP said in her opening post
Just because we are in the web-internet does that fact give us a license
to offend others?
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3/19/2016 9:38:05 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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If you watch every word you say because some people are extremely easily offended by just about everything just about all the time, then you won't get much said! And I'll bet someone was offended by that opinion. Well now, isn't that just too bad.
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3/20/2016 6:17:38 AM |
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ocnfshn4
Fort Lauderdale, FL
49, joined Sep. 2014
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in america ,,,if youre not offending someone,,,youre not doing your job
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3/20/2016 6:41:48 AM |
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ranconteur2012
Richmond, TX
56, joined Sep. 2012
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OP - NO one else can offend you.
YOU offend yourself by choosing to take offense at what others say / do.
When someone calls me a "mother f**ker", I do not take offense. I smile, and tell them: "well, keep your mother off the streets, and I will leave her alone."
If you choose to take offense, and be hurt, by what others say, or do, that is YOUR doing. Quit whining, grow up, and learn to focus on what really matters. Perceived insults to your ego are NOT what really matters. They are a meaningless distraction you choose to be distracted by. They are-thus-YOUR FAULT.[/quote Yes if one assumes responsibility for ones own emotions then others are not able to manipulate with words meant to elicit a reaction whereas the person who knows this simply accepts what the other person says and goes on as opinions vary.Most people though believe others are in charge of how they feel as many say it like this You make me so mad, angry, frustrated. bored, tired,.......when none of these are true unless agreed upon by the recipient. Owning ones emotions allows greater freedom and acceptance of others regardless of content and more emotional distress when not accepted as true from others
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3/20/2016 6:44:26 AM |
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ranconteur2012
Richmond, TX
56, joined Sep. 2012
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Standard or Automatic?
Fluid Drive, gear or belt driven?
Column or floor shift?
Be more specific for those of us who care.
Please.
D
AAmco transmissions for our shiftless friends.....
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3/20/2016 8:41:59 AM |
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epz112
Lancaster, CA
68, joined Nov. 2015
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If you watch every word you say because some people are extremely easily offended by just about everything just about all the time, then you won't get much said! And I'll bet someone was offended by that opinion.
Well now, isn't that just too bad.
Soooooooooooooo Baddddddddddddddd!!
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3/20/2016 8:44:56 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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I used to buy flowers once a week for my wife and say....just because.
Despite the negative tone of this thread, its title reminded me of that.
Thanks for the memories OP.
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3/20/2016 9:08:25 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Just because we are in the web-internet does that fact give us a license
to offend others?
We don't like the way they look, what they believe, what they say, they are..
not sufficient educated to satisfy our fears! as we see a reflection of ourselves
in them. The same way we look in to a mirror often, because we forget what we look like,
so are we to examine our motives when so loosely let the poison be spread from our tongue
in this case from our fingers. Internet or in person, we all reserve the right to treat other as we feel according to what we perceive. We also reserve the right to accept the consequences of that treatment, when they react.
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3/20/2016 9:21:02 AM |
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lightbrownie1
Johnston, IA
47, joined Feb. 2016
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Just because we are in the web-internet does that fact give us a license
to offend others?
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This was a question...right?
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3/20/2016 9:28:27 AM |
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lightbrownie1
Johnston, IA
47, joined Feb. 2016
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Shems op's profile says...
am not perfect, but attractive (I think so as do my friends. . .LOL),
Im just curious why you started your profile like that?
If you believe your attractive...it doesn't need to be published what others think.
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3/21/2016 5:39:41 PM |
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ocnfshn4
Fort Lauderdale, FL
49, joined Sep. 2014
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i dont give a flying f**king rats a** about your c*nting f**king problems
but i do love how spell check acknowledges ,,,f**king and other cuss words
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3/22/2016 9:27:38 AM |
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aintmyb_tch
Ponchatoula, LA
96, joined Aug. 2015
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Nothing anyone says will penetrate the brains of some of these idiots on here. So dont allow it to matter so much.
If you speak your opinion how others behave, you get ridiculed and judged. I believe its true what you say about the mirror. It forces them to see a truth they dont like about themselves. Then because they cant handle it, they project it back. So is best to not even acknowledge they exist, otherwise you get caught up in the cycle of their negativity. Just project what you wish to see in others, then you will draw those types to you and it makes for a better experience online.
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3/22/2016 9:38:51 AM |
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epz112
Lancaster, CA
68, joined Nov. 2015
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Nothing anyone says will penetrate the brains of some of these idiots on here. So dont allow it to matter so much.
If you speak your opinion how others behave, you get ridiculed and judged. I believe its true what you say about the mirror. It forces them to see a truth they dont like about themselves. Then because they cant handle it, they project it back. So is best to not even acknowledge they exist, otherwise you get caught up in the cycle of their negativity. Just project what you wish to see in others, then you will draw those types to you and it makes for a better experience online.
You are so right!!
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4/9/2016 8:34:11 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
online now!
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Yes
It is a free area to speak without consequences.
If you want to play in here you will need to toughen up
I'm sorry but I have to agree with Xray and this is why....
"Life is NOT HEAVEN! It is NOT perfect! It's is NOT our own personal fantasy land where everything is the way WE WANT our fantasies to be. Everything is NOT flowers, pretty white clouds, rainbows and crystal clear fresh still waters that's our personal fountain of youth.
Everything isn't for everyone. If you "choose" to play on a football field you forfeit your right to complain about the roughness. Choose an afternoon in the library and forfeit your right to complain about the silence. Choose a water park and forfeit complaints of being wet up.
I do understand where you're coming from about ppl playing nice and being respectful toward others. But the truth is... Ppl who would otherwise get the living shit stomped and beat outta them for saying half the shit they do in person... look for places (opportunities) like this to piss ppl off BCUZ THEY CAN hide behind that PC and NOT get ran up on.
Pokemon, ivaiva, Philly, Sienna, crazylegs and many others are perfect examples of a few. What's really sad is... I've encountered women on here I wanted to beat within an inch of their miserable a** lives. And I'm not even that type of guy. I'd enjoy the company of exes better.
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4/9/2016 11:35:13 PM |
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missamicable
Austin, TX
57, joined Jul. 2014
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Cowards hide behind a computer and type shit.
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4/9/2016 11:38:42 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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I'm not asking any silly questions. I am making a statement of what goes on in the Internet'
Ok this thread is now done. The end.
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4/9/2016 11:49:55 PM |
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jagged_lil_pill
Hogansville, GA
49, joined Feb. 2016
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Don't pay attention to them.
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4/9/2016 11:53:22 PM |
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rightguyforu92
Lisle, IL
38, joined Feb. 2015
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I would definitely not f**k Jagged little pill while sober... but if I drank a 12-pack and put a paper bag over her head I would take a stab at her then.
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4/10/2016 9:04:47 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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I would definitely f**k Jagged little pill while sober... but if I drank a 12-pack, I would take a stab at anything then.
Fixed that for you.
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4/10/2016 9:28:10 AM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013
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We all have to admit this site would be boring as hell if everyone was nice to each other.....
The rudeness and drama are the only reason I'm still on this site.
This place is freaking hilarious!!!!
And there are soooooo many characters and personalities that this is better than any movie.... the should make a Dh reality show!
Op quit whining and embrace the insanity like I have and just enjoy the free entertainment!!!
Thread over!
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4/10/2016 10:13:58 PM |
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jagged_lil_pill
Hogansville, GA
49, joined Feb. 2016
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Fixed that for you.
Thank u
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4/10/2016 10:16:31 PM |
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jagged_lil_pill
Hogansville, GA
49, joined Feb. 2016
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I would definitely not f**k Jagged little pill while sober... but if I drank a 12-pack and put a paper bag over her head I would take a stab at her then.
U would never get the chance to so keep posting ur shit. And u might wana save that bag for the next woman ur with. She will need it for ur head...
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4/11/2016 2:23:37 AM |
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daisyy1980
Húsavík
Iceland
36, joined Mar. 2013
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People tend to have more balls on the internet than in-person. A bunch of pansies I tell ya!!!!
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