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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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after begging you to stay because you were going to leave first...
Thoughts please
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| 6/1/2016 2:38:38 PM |
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grande_mamon
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014
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They needed that two week notice to get their mind and shit straight.
It's always silly though begging someone to stay, once the spark is gone there is not getting it back, ever.
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| 6/1/2016 2:51:04 PM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
62, joined Feb. 2014
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They needed that two week notice to get their mind and shit straight.
It's always silly though begging someone to stay, once the spark is gone there is not getting it back, ever.
and in some cases it was never there in the first place because she wanted something from you and it was not sparks.
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| 6/1/2016 3:26:48 PM |
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serendipity1301
Baltimore, MD
47, joined Feb. 2013
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after begging you to stay because you were going to leave first...
Thoughts please
They know it needs to be done but they aren't ready. They are aren't ready and want to be the dumper.
Do what feels right to you and except no begging. It never works out in the long run because you will be reminded why you wanted to leave to begin with.
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| 6/1/2016 3:33:17 PM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
44, joined Sep. 2014
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He found someone else
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| 6/1/2016 3:36:07 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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Thought: Sounds like teenager stuff.
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| 6/1/2016 5:44:49 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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^^^^^^^^it sure does.
I can't say op,....never had it happen.
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| 6/1/2016 6:02:58 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
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It's a revenge break-up.
If the sex is good...
they will probably call you next week to start things up again.
However, in the end you will have to be the bigger person and call it off for good.
This person is nuts. 
And... the whole thing is bananas!
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| 6/1/2016 6:39:25 PM |
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ivaiva
Goleta, CA
48, joined Oct. 2007
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Thoughts .....
Multiple Personality Disorder?
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| 6/1/2016 6:42:24 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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She's an idiot just trying to manipulate the guy! Dump HER ASAP, preferably sooner. Lose her number, her address, spam her email, get a court order if you need to and then watch her come crawling back.
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| 6/1/2016 7:02:09 PM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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Thought: Sounds like teenager stuff.
...You're marriage is a farce
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| 6/1/2016 7:06:59 PM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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^^^^^^^^it sure does.
I can't say op,....never had it happen.
...of course you "never had it happen", a horse couldn't communicate it to you..
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| 6/1/2016 10:22:23 PM |
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lightbrownie1
Johnston, IA
47, joined Feb. 2016
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after begging you to stay because you were going to leave first...
Thoughts please
No thoughts
Be gone...
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| 6/1/2016 10:34:16 PM |
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doublethree
Germantown, TN
39, joined Oct. 2013
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They needed that two week notice to get their mind and shit straight.
It's always silly though begging someone to stay, once the spark is gone there is not getting it back, ever.
All of this reminds me of shit I have gone through.
1. I have begged someone to take me back. Stupid.
2. Girls have begged me to date them or take them back.
3. I got majorly hurt over one girl.
4. The next girl, I made sure to get over her BEFORE we could break up. She was a big time liar so I thought fine I will keep her around just until I get over her, it's her own fault for lying and cheating. I don't think she gave a shit, anyway. Actually she is the one who technically broke up, and indeed I got way less hurt than usual. lol.
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| 6/1/2016 11:27:44 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Wow, look at that up there.^^^^^^^^^^
Lightbrowny1 got a cell with bars that goes sideways......
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| 6/2/2016 7:40:35 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Zippy...did you ever notice my pattern here.
When you post something legit with some real content.
I answer the thread, with a real answer and no ribbing you.
When you post stupid shit, yeh, I rib you.
See, its like I tried to tell you, its nothing personal, I just answer threads by the way the thread is.
If a person post a good thread, I'll treat it as such.
If not, then they are fair game.
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| 6/2/2016 9:09:19 AM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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I don't give a f**k about you
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| 6/2/2016 9:23:16 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
57, joined May. 2009
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...You're marriage is a farce
So...you only want the thoughts you agree with or you'll go for the throat?
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| 6/2/2016 9:37:50 AM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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She's been a jerk in other threads.
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| 6/2/2016 10:44:17 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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being a jerk an cussin people will get you blocked,who needs any of that junk,not me.
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| 6/2/2016 4:26:46 PM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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I'm a counterpuncher
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| 6/2/2016 4:30:37 PM |
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thekinghasrisen
San Diego, CA
31, joined Nov. 2013
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I'm a counterpuncher
Yes you are. 
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| 6/2/2016 4:51:44 PM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
50, joined Aug. 2013
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No one likes to not be wanted. There's a difference between them not wanting you to break up with them and wanting you. They aren't begging you to stay, per se'. They are begging you to not break up with them. Meaning, they can handle it ending but not you not wanting them.
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| 6/2/2016 4:57:56 PM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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Yes you are. 
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| 6/2/2016 5:48:14 PM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
81, joined Aug. 2013
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I wanna zip into your hot wet p*ssy, zippy!!
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| 6/2/2016 8:38:29 PM |
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lightbrownie1
Johnston, IA
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Wow, look at that up there.^^^^^^^^^^
Lightbrowny1 got a cell with bars that goes sideways......
Its called..mini blinds with sun that shines through.
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| 6/2/2016 8:41:46 PM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
50, joined Apr. 2013
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after begging you to stay because you were going to leave first...
Thoughts please
Problem solved!
What's to think about?
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| 6/2/2016 8:43:45 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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Let her go! If you want to be even more miserable then watch the Twins game!
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| 6/2/2016 10:11:18 PM |
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doublethree
Germantown, TN
39, joined Oct. 2013
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Let her go! If you want to be even more miserable then watch the Twins game!
I am using Buxton on one of my fantasy teams, so make him do something good soon. Also, make Perkins come back.
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| 6/2/2016 11:23:47 PM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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?
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| 6/3/2016 9:21:37 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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That is too much drama and game playing. You either stay together is a HEATHLY non game playing relationship or you are mature enough to say enough is enough and get out and stay out. 
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| 6/3/2016 9:41:40 AM |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
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after begging you to stay because you were going to leave first...
Thoughts please
If I had already made my mind up I was leaving. The latter wouldn't apply.
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| 6/3/2016 11:04:04 AM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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Hindsight is kicking my ass. 
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| 6/3/2016 12:17:13 PM |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
42, joined Mar. 2016
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That's gonna hurt
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| 6/3/2016 12:49:53 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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back it up,reverse it,stop being children,act like adults,let love have her perfect work......
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| 6/3/2016 4:09:24 PM |
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doublethree
Germantown, TN
39, joined Oct. 2013
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If I had already made my mind up I was leaving. The latter wouldn't apply.
That's what's annoying about women is they sometimes make their minds up and aren't even open to even thinking to be sure it's the right decision. Many times they will not even discuss solutions with the guy and will decide on their own and then not even talk it out first.
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| 6/4/2016 7:51:53 AM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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Let us PLEASE not get started on the crap that men pull.
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| 6/4/2016 9:13:51 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
63, joined Sep. 2009
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when they break-up with you
after begging you to stay because you were going to leave first...
Thoughts please
Pretty simple, really.
When this happens, it's an indication that your relationship was real. The other person got used to thinking of the two of you being together.
When you first announce you're done, they are suddenly confronted with what they have been thinking for a long time, having to change. So they object.
If you reverse course and stay, then they have time to take a longer AND a fresher look at the relationship. Maybe they realize that you were right, that the two of you are wrong for each other. Maybe they just calm down from the initial panic about having their plans upset, and decide it's a good idea after all.
Think about the other end of the decision-making: yours. Why did you change your mind and stay? Usually it's because YOU really did want things to work out, right? Maybe you were threatening to leave as a negotiating trick. Maybe even consciously. Maybe you didn't really realize until they were anxiously trying to talk you out of it, that you really didn't want to do it after all. Or maybe you realized, now that you actually said the words out loud to them and made it real, that leaving is going to hurt or scare you a lot more than you imagined it would.
So you stay. That means that you WEREN'T so damn sure you wanted to dump them after all.
And then the smoke clears, and the other person realizes before you do, that splitting up is best after all.
Now YOU'RE mad, because they are leaving YOU. So you want to get some sort of mini-revenge. How do you do that?
By telling yourself that they were evil jerks, who plotted to change your mind, so that they could get one-up on you later, might make you feel better.
Real lesson for you: make your damn mind up to leave, and then stick to it.
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| 6/4/2016 11:17:00 AM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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That's gonna hurt
Tell me about it..
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| 6/4/2016 11:19:40 AM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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Pretty simple, really.
When this happens, it's an indication that your relationship was real. The other person got used to thinking of the two of you being together.
When you first announce you're done, they are suddenly confronted with what they have been thinking for a long time, having to change. So they object.
If you reverse course and stay, then they have time to take a longer AND a fresher look at the relationship. Maybe they realize that you were right, that the two of you are wrong for each other. Maybe they just calm down from the initial panic about having their plans upset, and decide it's a good idea after all.
Think about the other end of the decision-making: yours. Why did you change your mind and stay? Usually it's because YOU really did want things to work out, right? Maybe you were threatening to leave as a negotiating trick. Maybe even consciously. Maybe you didn't really realize until they were anxiously trying to talk you out of it, that you really didn't want to do it after all. Or maybe you realized, now that you actually said the words out loud to them and made it real, that leaving is going to hurt or scare you a lot more than you imagined it would.
So you stay. That means that you WEREN'T so damn sure you wanted to dump them after all.
And then the smoke clears, and the other person realizes before you do, that splitting up is best after all.
Now YOU'RE mad, because they are leaving YOU. So you want to get some sort of mini-revenge. How do you do that?
By telling yourself that they were evil jerks, who plotted to change your mind, so that they could get one-up on you later, might make you feel better.
Real lesson for you: make your damn mind up to leave, and then stick to it.
that was utterly thought-provoking and clear.. tis a wise man you are, good sir..
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| 6/9/2016 10:33:25 PM |
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2times2many
Greenwood Lake, NY
31, joined Jan. 2014
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after begging you to stay because you were going to leave first...
Thoughts please
Relief
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| 6/11/2016 10:28:59 PM |
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hunny2003
Elgin, OR
31, joined Jul. 2012
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I broke it off lies and bs he play's anyone and made me lose it all so he can control my life and make it mine. I walked out losing it all do my ex I hope he riots in hell for hurting me and my kids
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| 6/12/2016 3:49:44 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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after begging you to stay because you were going to leave first...
Thoughts please
I had a guy that didn't break up with me one time but he cheated and I found out. I had attempted to break up with him several times and he would threaten suicide or act out somehow in a crazy, psycho way.  Other than him and my ex-H, I was the one that did the breaking up with anyone else I've dated.
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| 6/12/2016 4:40:13 PM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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I broke it off lies and bs he play's anyone and made me lose it all so he can control my life and make it mine. I walked out losing it all do my ex I hope he riots in hell for hurting me and my kids
I'm with you.
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| 6/17/2016 7:19:11 PM |
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bluecougareyes
Chelan, WA
72, joined Nov. 2008
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after begging you to stay because you were going to leave first...
Thoughts please
So how many times have you put your self in this situation ?
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| 6/17/2016 7:33:03 PM |
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lamoneonly
San Diego, CA
19, joined Mar. 2015
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They won. They feel better and you feel stupid
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| 6/18/2016 7:05:30 AM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
27, joined Aug. 2013
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How does one let this happen?
Hasn't this been done to death?
They're obviously upset they didn't do the breaking and by you agreeing to get back together or stay together you've basically given them the petty closure they desired.
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| 6/18/2016 9:18:16 AM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
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So how many times have you put your self in this situation ?
That's niether here nor there.. to be honest.
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| 6/18/2016 10:23:09 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
53, joined Nov. 2014
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usually, women just get done and bored with me.
i am looking for local DH chics to help me become less boring.
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| 6/18/2016 1:24:01 PM |
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bluecougareyes
Chelan, WA
72, joined Nov. 2008
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* NO !!
I always get out before they explode and go ballistic !
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| 6/19/2016 6:11:11 PM |
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up2youandme
Chandler, AZ
41, joined Jan. 2014
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That's what's annoying about women is they sometimes make their minds up and aren't even open to even thinking to be sure it's the right decision. Many times they will not even discuss solutions with the guy and will decide on their own and then not even talk it out first.
That's what's sad about clingy men, they wanna talk shit out..man up ..grow a pair ..if she wants out then she's out!!! They know where the door is ...go
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| 6/20/2016 12:51:45 AM |
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teigeasaurus
Sandy, UT
31, joined Aug. 2014
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Wish them the best.
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| 6/20/2016 1:07:53 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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women play the silliest cruelest games even ones who are posed to be grown an mature in there 40,s etc..so tragic an heartless.....
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| 6/20/2016 1:20:58 AM |
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bluecougareyes
Chelan, WA
72, joined Nov. 2008
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It all started with that damn snake and the apple...
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| 6/21/2016 9:57:16 PM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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I love my cats
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| 6/22/2016 8:42:17 AM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
81, joined Aug. 2013
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I'd lick your kitty!!
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| 6/22/2016 8:52:18 AM |
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serendipity1301
Baltimore, MD
47, joined Feb. 2013
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...You're marriage is a farce
Jealous?
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| 6/24/2016 10:29:49 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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THAT'S when you spit in his face and kick him in the balls and slam your fist in his gut? That's when you call the cops to report domestic battery to have him arrested if he tries to defend himself against you? That's when you determine not to go his bail or visit him in prison taking the blame for what you did? And meantime you're screwing some kid down the street! You're a real catch, honey!
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| 6/26/2016 8:56:22 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Game playing for sure.
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| 6/26/2016 10:51:21 PM |
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mr_zipzip
New York, NY
32, joined May. 2014
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Serendipity
I just love when the invisible throw in their two cents
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