Open Marriage??!!!

6/29/2016 12:55:01 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
bookwormtobutte Rio Rancho, NM 36, joined Jan. 2016	So I was out with a few coworkers tonight. And this guy with a visible wedding ban is hitting on my friend. She turned him down repeatedly, then was finally like "Dude you're married!!!!" And with out batting an eye he said "Oh it's OK we have an open marriage" Now I've heard of it, I knew it existed, but its like the duckbill platypus, yeah we all know it exists but what are the odds of you actually coming across one?! & how do you verify something like that? Do they get a little permission slip with their wife/husband's signature or do you call him/her up on the phone " Hello, yes your spouse is at the bar trolling for a piece of tail, saying you two have an open marriage. I just wanted to verify this with you before I take them home" I mean seriously?!!! Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
6/29/2016 12:56:42 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
flyfish77 Conyers, GA 50, joined Jul. 2014 online now!	why even bother,thats some marriage.....
6/29/2016 1:48:54 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
digital_knight Grand Rapids, MI 44, joined Nov. 2012	I really believe that what all women want deep down . The reason why I think this because most women wants to still be friends with their ex's and go around act all freely as if they are not in relationship and act as if they are still single . They want to be in relationship but want to feel freedom .
6/29/2016 2:46:40 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
sddnly_snoozin Staffordshire United Kingdom 42, joined Mar. 2016	Just No!
6/29/2016 5:00:26 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
marriedncheatin Twin Falls, ID 49, joined Jul. 2012	Op some ppl have "the hall pass"
6/29/2016 5:31:57 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
easttowest72 Bremen, GA 44, joined Sep. 2014	In my opinion the guy was lying. I've heard of swinger. Usually one finds someone they like better and divorce. Why be married if your still dating?
6/29/2016 5:38:07 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
Mercedes_02 AñatuyaAñatuya Australia 101, joined Dec. 2014	There are such things as an open marriage I do not agree with. Weird how people find open marriages disgusting compared to those that lie and cheat behind their mates back.
6/29/2016 5:44:59 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
micheleisgreat Pittsburgh, PA 53, joined Nov. 2013	Quote from digital_knight: I really believe that what all women want deep down . The reason why I think this because most women wants to still be friends with their ex's and go around act all freely as if they are not in relationship and act as if they are still single . They want to be in relationship but want to feel freedom . Women are still free even when in a relationship... You have trust issues!
6/29/2016 5:51:47 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
cavie59 Enid, OK 57, joined Feb. 2010	Quote from micheleisgreat: Women are still free even when in a relationship... You have trust issues! You are right, they are free to cheat and not have to worry about the results. They will just divorce their husband, take the house, car, at least 50% of his income in alimony, and another 25% of his income in child support. I see it happen all the time.
6/29/2016 6:13:24 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
bookwormtobutte Rio Rancho, NM 36, joined Jan. 2016	Quote from cavie59: You are right, they are free to cheat and not have to worry about the results. They will just divorce their husband, take the house, car, at least 50% of his income in alimony, and another 25% of his income in child support. I see it happen all the time. And I've seen men lie & cheat and kick his old family to the curb w/o a dime of support or even a consideration for his own flesh & blood child. Cause he has a new young pretty thing. It happens all the time! There are bad PEOPLE out there WOMEN & MEN. They are selfish and cruel, and dramatic, and only think of their own wants and desires, and will do anything to get them no matter who it hurts. Once you understand that and not turn everything into a battle of the sexes you'll stand a better chance of finding the special someone who's worth spending your time possibly even you life with
6/29/2016 6:23:21 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
digital_knight Grand Rapids, MI 44, joined Nov. 2012	Quote from micheleisgreat: Women are still free even when in a relationship... You have trust issues! Yep they are so free that so many having babies by multiple men and even some have the guy paying child support that is not even his or even raising another mans child thinking this is what real relationship consist of . And the guy must accept that her (if she is still getting along with him )and the baby daddy sometimes go and do things together with their child . Yea that sounds like open marriage to me all day .
6/29/2016 6:54:46 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
easttowest72 Bremen, GA 44, joined Sep. 2014	Sounds like someone needs birth control.
6/29/2016 7:23:13 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
grande_mamon Houston, TX 21, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from bookwormtobutte: So I was out with a few coworkers tonight. And this guy with a visible wedding ban is hitting on my friend. She turned him down repeatedly, then was finally like "Dude you're married!!!!" And with out batting an eye he said "Oh it's OK we have an open marriage" Now I've heard of it, I knew it existed, but its like the duckbill platypus, yeah we all know it exists but what are the odds of you actually coming across one?! & how do you verify something like that? Do they get a little permission slip with their wife/husband's signature or do you call him/her up on the phone " Hello, yes your spouse is at the bar trolling for a piece of tail, saying you two have an open marriage. I just wanted to verify this with you before I take them home" I mean seriously?!!! A friend of mine has an open marriage and has for 20+ years, they both engage in sex with other people, at the same time...swingers parties etc and separate too. they are about the happiest married couple I know who have been together so long. When we all go out drinking they are all over each other like they just met. Works for some.
6/29/2016 7:25:00 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
sddnly_snoozin Staffordshire United Kingdom 42, joined Mar. 2016	Quote from digital_knight: I really believe that what all women want deep down . The reason why I think this because most women wants to still be friends with their ex's and go around act all freely as if they are not in relationship and act as if they are still single . They want to be in relationship but want to feel freedom . Urm women can be in a relationship and be free. Just as men can. Cheating is a choice. Most of is choice we do not to opt for. [Edited 6/29/2016 7:25:27 AM ]
6/29/2016 7:27:13 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
grande_mamon Houston, TX 21, joined Sep. 2014	It's not cheating if both agree to the arrangement.
6/29/2016 7:28:23 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
digital_knight Grand Rapids, MI 44, joined Nov. 2012	Quote from easttowest72: Sounds like someone needs birth control. But a lot of women wants a baby . And family . They don't care how they go about getting it .Even if it involves open relationships.
6/29/2016 7:55:39 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
easttowest72 Bremen, GA 44, joined Sep. 2014	You should be careful and not have kids with anyone unless you want to be married to them.
6/29/2016 8:02:47 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
cubcougar Lucerne, CA 63, joined Oct. 2010 online now!	It is SEX and MONEY honey .. and they are honest about it. The Kids know that Daddy is fking the upstairs maid and making babies with AIDs vectoring ... this is much better the LIES LIES LIES about it all. Still he be a little boy who fks around and f**ks things up ... he will not give him self to his woman. She has big problems from child rape so she married her abuser to make babies with just like dear old Mom. It gets their Duck Disease .. and can be fixed up. They don't want to .. so wait for the casualites sadness and regrets hit them. Hate your Dad ... you have divorces, affairs and dead children for a future. Hate your Mom .. you be an addict. sumbuddie wear blind sea
6/29/2016 8:47:11 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
soulflight Baltimore, MD 54, joined Apr. 2014	I've known quite a few over the years and just like traditional marriages, some were good and healthy and some were not. Sure she can ask for verification....to what end? He is simply saying up front that he is not looking for a committed relationship with her. Married or not, he is just looking for a hook up. It's up to the woman to decide if that is what she wants. To each their own.
6/29/2016 9:10:13 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
mortara Pittsburgh, PA 62, joined Feb. 2014	I know that even prostitutes do not like cheaters. Some even charge extra or have a up-charge for married guys. They also are known to give a discount to single good looking guys. Sometimes even free samples.
6/29/2016 2:54:34 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 61, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	Op...people in open marriages are like down low men. there are a bunch of them out there....but they keep themselves incognito to the general public. Its nothing new.
6/29/2016 3:25:55 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
toneoz Albuquerque, NM 40, joined Jul. 2014	Like p a m said.. Most swingers don't advertise.. DDiscretion is key. It's hope you avoid aids and shakedown babies. . btw why does up always have some dramatic topic.. Boring thread bottom
6/29/2016 4:03:42 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
digital_knight Grand Rapids, MI 44, joined Nov. 2012	Quote from grande_mamon: It's not cheating if both agree to the arrangement. Quote from sddnly_snoozin: Urm women can be in a relationship and be free. Just as men can. Cheating is a choice. Most of is choice we do not to opt for. That's what I mean most women wants that agreement deep down. So if she goes out and gets pregnant by another guy she knows her man will still be there by her side because its real love . We already know most women dont mind if a guy has another kid by another woman longs he taken care business at home .
6/29/2016 5:09:16 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
testsignup Springfield, VA 62, joined Sep. 2009	Actually, the question about how to tell the difference between some rat disguised as a human who SAYS they are in an open marriage, but who are really just openly cheating, and someone who actually IS of that status, has never been spelled out anywhere that I know of. I don't personally care, because I would have zero interest in investing so much as ten seconds in such a person, regardless. But as a point of social organization, there really should be some way to know, for those who want that sort of thing. Oh well. Anyone who would lie, would be willing to carry a fake "it's okay" card, too. So chances are, you STILL haven't actually met a real one.
6/29/2016 5:22:08 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
miss_trsh1 Mount Pleasant, MI 47, joined Sep. 2014	not my bag baby but to my understanding most belong to clubs or groups to meet up with other like minded individuals the guy in bar? probably just horny
6/29/2016 6:15:25 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
bookwormtobutte Rio Rancho, NM 36, joined Jan. 2016	Quote from miss_trsh1: not my bag baby but to my understanding most belong to clubs or groups to meet up with other like minded individuals the guy in bar? probably just horny OK what you say sounds about right. & he wasn't hitting on me, but it just blew my mind that he just came out & said that. & once I started thinking about it, I was like how does that work? Different strokes for different folks I have abandonment issues and get jealous way too easily to be OK with sharing my man. & I'm only comfortable with one man at a time. I have to wait like a month after breaking up with a guy before I'll be with another. Takes time to get them out of my system.
6/29/2016 6:58:22 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 51, joined Jul. 2013 online now!	Well to each his own, not for me
6/29/2016 8:03:52 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
serendipity1301 Baltimore, MD 47, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from digital_knight: That's what I mean most women wants that agreement deep down. So if she goes out and gets pregnant by another guy she knows her man will still be there by her side because its real love . We already know most women dont mind if a guy has another kid by another woman longs he taken care business at home .
6/29/2016 8:09:40 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
dasnixter Jessieville, AR 58, joined Jul. 2010	One cannot have tasty cake and eat it too.
6/29/2016 8:26:19 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
serendipity1301 Baltimore, MD 47, joined Feb. 2013	I'll eat the cake as long as he eats the pie.
6/29/2016 8:31:51 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 64, joined Oct. 2009 online now!	Quote from flyfish77: why even bother,thats some marriage..... Just what I was thinking. If that's your situation, why not just shack up? Makes it easier to divide the goodies when she breaks it up. Of course a "married" woman has more legal rights than a shack up.
6/29/2016 8:33:46 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
digital_knight Grand Rapids, MI 44, joined Nov. 2012	Quote from serendipity1301: For real this is the new generation of the Brady Bunch [Edited 6/29/2016 8:36:03 PM ]
6/29/2016 8:38:29 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
mortara Pittsburgh, PA 62, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from digital_knight: For real this is the new generation of the Brandy Bunch There is some suggestion that actress Maureen McCormick was related to Reaper Inventor Cyrus McCormick and the family dates back to the Bob Cummings show.
6/29/2016 9:05:04 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
serendipity1301 Baltimore, MD 47, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from digital_knight: For real this is the new generation of the Brady Bunch I can see 1 child if they weren't married or a couple with the same woman if they were married but at this point they should be close to on their own. Several women, multiple children, is a situation a smart woman would avoid.
6/29/2016 9:11:15 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
lightbrownie1 Johnston, IA 47, joined Feb. 2016	So my question is. When did the agreement start. At the altar...or after the honeymoon? I like. Did ya go into the marriage saying we are all open? If so...why spend money on the wedding, rings, honeymoon and take some other guys last name if you're going to be with all kinds of differnt men and women.
6/29/2016 10:45:55 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
truckerdaddy915 El Paso, TX 41, joined Feb. 2014	I sort of have an open marriage
6/29/2016 10:48:29 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
cupocheer Assumption, IL 67, joined May. 2010	No
6/29/2016 11:48:32 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 51, joined Jul. 2013 online now!	Quote from lightbrownie1: So my question is. When did the agreement start. At the altar...or after the honeymoon? I like. Did ya go into the marriage saying we are all open? If so...why spend money on the wedding, rings, honeymoon and take some other guys last name if you're going to be with all kinds of differnt men and women. Agree
6/30/2016 12:05:32 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
westy602 Phoenix, AZ 44, joined May. 2013 online now!
6/30/2016 12:32:48 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
bookwormtobutte Rio Rancho, NM 36, joined Jan. 2016	Quote from digital_knight: But a lot of women wants a baby . And family . They don't care how they go about getting it .Even if it involves open relationships. Wow, God help me, anonymous sperm donor and a turkey baster are sounding better and better everyday
6/30/2016 12:46:19 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
M4mischief Grand Prairie, TX 98, joined May. 2016 online now!	Not for me and not for my partner if he wants to keep his balls....
6/30/2016 8:48:27 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
Mercedes_02 AñatuyaAñatuya Australia 101, joined Dec. 2014	Quote from grande_mamon: It's not cheating if both agree to the arrangement. I agree but why bloody get married in the first place?
6/30/2016 9:04:32 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
windy_rider Aspen, CO 39, joined Nov. 2014	Quote from sddnly_snoozin: Urm women can be in a relationship and be free. Just as men can. Cheating is a choice. Most of is choice we do not to opt for. It's not cheating if it has been agreed upon ahead of time. Hence open marriage.
6/30/2016 9:53:55 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
windy_rider Aspen, CO 39, joined Nov. 2014	Quote from M4mischief: Not for me and not for my partner if he wants to keep his balls.... Just stop, stop threatening me wif a good time.
6/30/2016 5:20:44 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
ltlwing Winchester, OH 52, joined Oct. 2013	Quote from Mercedes_02: I agree but why bloody get married in the first place? That is the way I feel about it...Why get married?? I have been single a long time for a reason...if I'm seeing someone and they cheat??...they are not marriage material to me. Marriage to me is showing a commitment to that one, and only person. That's why we marry in the first place...I thought???
6/30/2016 6:42:16 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
lucky_1million Pewaukee, WI 49, joined Jun. 2013	If you are married (esp. through the church), it still would be adultery even if you gave your consent.
6/30/2016 6:46:05 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
cupocheer Assumption, IL 67, joined May. 2010	Never
6/30/2016 6:53:46 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 35, joined Mar. 2013 online now!	Quote from bookwormtobutte: So I was out with a few coworkers tonight. And this guy with a visible wedding ban is hitting on my friend. She turned him down repeatedly, then was finally like "Dude you're married!!!!" And with out batting an eye he said "Oh it's OK we have an open marriage" Now I've heard of it, I knew it existed, but its like the duckbill platypus, yeah we all know it exists but what are the odds of you actually coming across one?! & how do you verify something like that? Do they get a little permission slip with their wife/husband's signature or do you call him/her up on the phone " Hello, yes your spouse is at the bar trolling for a piece of tail, saying you two have an open marriage. I just wanted to verify this with you before I take them home" I mean seriously?!!! Well, there is no criminal laws, against adultery, in New Mexico. However, New Mexico is a "fault" divorce state. Adultery is still grounds for a divorce, in which the adulterer loses the case in court. So, your friend could not be criminally charged, and as such, all responsibility would fall upon the guy. In any case, your friend did what was MORALLY, and ETHICALLY right in this situation, and was very wise to NOT trust this unknown male to be telling the truth. I have a married couple, that I am friends with. They are "swingers". Their marriage is "open". They talk to each other, about their extramarital experiences, and even act as each other's "wingman". If he were actually in an open marriage, there is a good chance his wife would have been nearby in the bar. He was most likely saying anything he could, to get in her pants. He is likely the type of guy, that makes women turn into a woman like easttowest, because he is a lying, cheating dog, that makes men look bad with his unethical, immoral, and deceitful behavior. And while all of this is speculation, there is a chance I am right. Kudos to your friend. Any chance she likes single white guys, that can't have babies?
6/30/2016 7:22:09 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
digital_knight Grand Rapids, MI 44, joined Nov. 2012	Quote from lucky_1million: If you are married (esp. through the church), it still would be adultery even if you gave your consent. Even if you gotten married in Vegas and Dark Vader was the Reverend?
6/30/2016 10:46:33 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
M4mischief Grand Prairie, TX 98, joined May. 2016 online now!	Quote from windy_rider: Just stop, stop threatening me wif a good time. I cant help it...I always want you to have fun...dear.....
6/30/2016 11:12:17 PM	Open Marriage??!!!
rubyrose2015 Seagrove, NC 29, joined Sep. 2015	No!
7/1/2016 4:48:17 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
digital_knight Grand Rapids, MI 44, joined Nov. 2012	Quote from serendipity1301: I can see 1 child if they weren't married or a couple with the same woman if they were married but at this point they should be close to on their own. Several women, multiple children, is a situation a smart woman would avoid. Hmm there must not be that many smart women out here because I know several guys that has kids by a lot different women and they don't have no problem starting a new relationship with different women .
7/1/2016 5:09:46 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
ltlwing Winchester, OH 52, joined Oct. 2013	Quote from digital_knight: Hmm there must not be that many smart women out here because I know several guys that has kids by a lot different women and they don't have no problem starting a new relationship with different women . Well they need clipped...shows a lack of intelligence to keep spreading your seed with different women. I had one child by marriage the other not...I couldn't get my tubes burnt and tied quick enough.
7/1/2016 6:03:29 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
digital_knight Grand Rapids, MI 44, joined Nov. 2012	Quote from ltlwing: I had one child by marriage the other not...I couldn't get my tubes burnt and tied quick enough. See that's another story in itself. Why get married again when you got your tubes tied ? Why not just keep your maiden name and just be in an relationship?
7/1/2016 6:13:28 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
ltlwing Winchester, OH 52, joined Oct. 2013	Quote from digital_knight: See that's another story in itself. Why get married again when you got your tubes tied ? Why not just keep your maiden name and just be in an relationship? I am beyond having kids...just because I don't want to reproduce, doesn't disqualify me from marriage. Plenty of men out there not wanting to have kids.
7/1/2016 6:19:15 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
digital_knight Grand Rapids, MI 44, joined Nov. 2012	Quote from ltlwing: I am beyond having kids...just because I don't want to reproduce, doesn't disqualify me from marriage. Plenty of men out there not wanting to have kids. Yea if he has kids of his own . That Brady Bunch comes back in mind .
7/1/2016 8:43:57 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 35, joined Mar. 2013 online now!	Quote from ltlwing: Well they need clipped...shows a lack of intelligence to keep spreading your seed with different women. I had one child by marriage the other not...I couldn't get my tubes burnt and tied quick enough. EXACTLY! I keep telling my male friends the same damn thing, when they b*tch about their breakups, child support, custody battles. And the dumbasses just keep reproducing with more women. Apparently, they like playing the "poor me" victim card as much as the women they knock up, do.
7/1/2016 8:45:08 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
enigmaathand Leavittsburg, OH 35, joined Mar. 2013 online now!	Quote from ltlwing: I am beyond having kids...just because I don't want to reproduce, doesn't disqualify me from marriage. Plenty of men out there not wanting to have kids. Oooooh, oooooh, ooooh! Pick me! Pick me! I don't want kids and I am beyond having them too!
7/1/2016 9:55:40 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
digital_knight Grand Rapids, MI 44, joined Nov. 2012	enigmaathand Quote from ltlwing: I am beyond having kids...just because I don't want to reproduce, doesn't disqualify me from marriage. Plenty of men out there not wanting to have kids. Oooooh, oooooh, ooooh! Pick me! Pick me! I don't want kids and I am beyond having them too! I don't know why this guy having problems finding at least 1 woman that has 1 or more kids with her tubes tied thats looking for a guy who doesn't want no kids ?
7/1/2016 11:52:53 AM	Open Marriage??!!!
celyn67 San Antonio, TX 49, joined Jan. 2016	Quote from digital_knight: See that's another story in itself. Why get married again when you got your tubes tied ? Why not just keep your maiden name and just be in an relationship? It's NOT JUST people who want children who get married.

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