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cupocheer

Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I'd rather
But not from here
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10/11/2016 9:51:47 PM |
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dantana77

Frederick, MD
40, joined Oct. 2010
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don't ask for email or to add on some other social media and/or messaging platform. Saying "so I can send pics" doesn't work. feel free to send them here if you like. And i'm still thankful spammers can't spell. I think I can pinpoint their nationality by which words they all leave out of their messages
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10/11/2016 9:58:43 PM |
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Chambella_

Virginia Beach, VA
97, joined May. 2016
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Neither can I, but women don't care about that. I see local profiles, all the time, reading: "No pic = No reply".
But, BOY HOWDY, IF A MAN WERE to do something like that, he would be ostracized all over these forums.
I speak with people, type or on the phone(one or twice) without pics everyday... but if I were more than interested I do like to at least see, have an idea, what they look like...
It would only be fair they see what I look like so it would be a pleasant thing to do to return the favour. no???

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10/11/2016 9:59:56 PM |
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Chambella_

Virginia Beach, VA
97, joined May. 2016
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Omg...who has time for this bs girl ?
Even better...why waste time on it ??
Ppl are weird...

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10/11/2016 10:02:08 PM |
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M4mischief

Grand Prairie, TX
100, joined May. 2016
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Exactly what i thought. I don't feel obligated to have conversations i don't wish to have.
You will have a conversation with me and you will like it.....  
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10/11/2016 10:04:09 PM |
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_Technologist01

Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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^^^^^
Don't message her! She's a meanie   
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10/11/2016 10:07:33 PM |
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M4mischief

Grand Prairie, TX
100, joined May. 2016
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Yes I am...rawrrrrr.....  
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10/11/2016 10:17:19 PM |
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driver406

Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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don't send me an intro message
and then send another one get all pissy
if I don't repond to you
I never do. I don't get huffy about stuff like that.
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10/11/2016 10:19:01 PM |
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sallyann3rd

Shingletown, CA
54, joined Aug. 2016
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^^^^^
Don't message her! She's a meanie   
now you tell me....I sent her a d*ck pic 
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10/11/2016 10:22:32 PM |
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M4mischief

Grand Prairie, TX
100, joined May. 2016
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And im using it for a dart board now.....  
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10/11/2016 10:22:45 PM |
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eyesofmedusa

San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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don't ask for email or to add on some other social media and/or messaging platform. Saying "so I can send pics" doesn't work. feel free to send them here if you like. And i'm still thankful spammers can't spell. I think I can pinpoint their nationality by which words they all leave out of their messages
Ohdamnit... true tho
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10/11/2016 10:25:05 PM |
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eyesofmedusa

San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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I speak with people, type or on the phone(one or twice) without pics everyday... but if I were more than interested I do like to at least see, have an idea, what they look like...
It would only be fair they see what I look like so it would be a pleasant thing to do to return the favour. no???

I met my LAST bf..sight unseen...he didn't hv a real pic posted..diff site..but ppl posted in chats...much diff than here tho.
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10/11/2016 10:25:53 PM |
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_Technologist01

Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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Told ya Sally
Good job Flirty. Darts coming through your window now
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10/11/2016 10:31:01 PM |
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M4mischief

Grand Prairie, TX
100, joined May. 2016
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Yes..the passers by better watch out.....
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10/11/2016 10:42:35 PM |
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enigmaathand

Leavittsburg, OH
37, joined Mar. 2013
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I NEVER ignore you, sweetie!
It's too fun to annoy you   Yes, I know. I adore you, like the sister I never wanted.
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10/11/2016 10:51:17 PM |
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sallyann3rd

Shingletown, CA
54, joined Aug. 2016
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that's OK I was always good at hitting that red bullseye
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10/11/2016 11:13:24 PM |
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Mercedes_02

AƱatuyaAƱatuya
Australia
102, joined Dec. 2014
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I don't follow rules.
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10/12/2016 12:17:14 AM |
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enigmaathand

Leavittsburg, OH
37, joined Mar. 2013
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I speak with people, type or on the phone(one or twice) without pics everyday... but if I were more than interested I do like to at least see, have an idea, what they look like...
It would only be fair they see what I look like so it would be a pleasant thing to do to return the favour. no???
 Ok. Well, I CAN exchange photos via Kik Messenger, but that isn't good enough for any woman asking me for a photo, yet.
It is not like I am asking to exchange email/phone numbers, like a hacker would. I could careless about PII, because I have a career as a security officer. My background is ran, by Homeland Security and the Ohio Bureau of Criminal Investigation every single year, when I renew my license.
I can't afford to be a dumbass and break the law.
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10/12/2016 2:02:55 AM |
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M4mischief

Grand Prairie, TX
100, joined May. 2016
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that's OK I was always good at hitting that red bullseye 
I put one right on the tip.....  
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10/12/2016 6:53:50 AM |
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forum_rose

Killeen, TX
40, joined Feb. 2016
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Do NOT have a gigantic laundry list of expectations from a damn starter message. Sheesh!
No wonder your a** is single.
Advice for the men:
Do NOT waste your time messaging women, at all, because 98% of the time they just ignore you anyway.
so what I read here was:
I'm a hypocrite.
I have a "laundry list" as you put it because I have standards. Just as you have standards of the type of women you'll date. You don't have to place any value in my opinion, as I owe yours none either.
In other topics. With the issue people have loading photos I think that there is common sense in exchanging KiK or other "social media" platform information with people. But it should be one that keeps most of personal your information private. I use Voxer. It is not connected to anything but my email account. But people need to be more tech savvy. Don't connect these platforms to your Facebook or other highly personal sites.
On the other side of that coin, don't give out the information willy-nilly, be just as catious.
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10/12/2016 7:08:19 AM |
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dr_cracker

Beverly Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2016
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Taryn, ignore them and come back to bed.
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10/12/2016 7:10:29 AM |
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purdibirdd

Fort Collins, CO
52, joined Aug. 2014
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Don't worry about the enimaOne, T.
but, If he gets too bad to digest-Just tell him to suck a clit and he'll block you. He has a hard time with persons who have a brain & a uterus, that both work.
OT:
I, also, rarely message back- except to those that I only have a real interest in knowing better on a more personal level.
Ps. Nice change of pace, Thread Taryn. It's not another "bump ME thread" or, "i'll bump myself" thread. 
CRACKER!!! YOUUUUUUU again! who???!!! are you- constantly squeezing inbetween me and my Puzzlpiece!!! 
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10/12/2016 7:11:46 AM |
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ol39er

Cicero, IL
45, joined Jul. 2011
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I tend to keep it short, sweet, simple, or cordial. I strongly believe, however, the actual message in and of itself means very little. If the other person finds you attractive in some way, it doesn't matter what you write.
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10/12/2016 7:15:25 AM |
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sandycrabs

Land O Lakes, WI
50, joined May. 2011
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I just ask for boobs,,,,,, is that wrong ?
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10/12/2016 7:20:01 AM |
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yetskimama

Walterboro, SC
67, joined Sep. 2011
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Don't write you're 62 no kids but would like to have some one day, and don't send it to me    Sorry 
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10/12/2016 7:21:14 AM |
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grillocks

Chesapeake, VA
36, joined Dec. 2015
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For the women, don't send pics of your flower. It will get passed around. 
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10/12/2016 7:23:24 AM |
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dr_cracker

Beverly Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2016
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For the men don't send pictures of your misshapen potato, it will get ridiculed.
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10/12/2016 7:23:49 AM |
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lurky_lurker

Norcross, GA
41, joined Feb. 2016
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Don't send e-food, I'm on a diet
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10/12/2016 7:25:04 AM |
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grillocks

Chesapeake, VA
36, joined Dec. 2015
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Right, but if you do send your potato make sure it actually is your potato....
Ps. The thumb ring gave it away... 
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10/12/2016 7:26:16 AM |
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dr_cracker

Beverly Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2016
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And ladies, if you do send pics of your flower, make sure the petals are not flapping about like elephant ears.
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10/12/2016 7:27:53 AM |
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stanleyzee

Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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Flowers  
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10/12/2016 7:28:23 AM |
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dr_cracker

Beverly Hills, CA
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10/12/2016 7:30:31 AM |
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grillocks

Chesapeake, VA
36, joined Dec. 2015
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Flowers  
Stan!!! Are you saying you're guilty of this?!
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10/12/2016 7:31:27 AM |
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dr_cracker

Beverly Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2016
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I bet Stan could sail across the Atlantic using her "elephant ears" as sails.
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10/12/2016 7:32:16 AM |
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stanleyzee

Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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Nooooooo DEAR!! Pictures don't do it real does 
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10/12/2016 7:42:55 AM |
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enigmaathand

Leavittsburg, OH
37, joined Mar. 2013
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I just ask for boobs,,,,,, is that wrong ?
Nope. Women only care about money, so why would that be wrong?
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10/12/2016 7:44:47 AM |
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forum_rose

Killeen, TX
40, joined Feb. 2016
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I just ask for boobs,,,,,, is that wrong ?
only if you use a lot of commas and don't send cheese packages 
Puzzle 
Cracker, you kicked me out of bed this morning mumbling something about "why haven't you left yet"
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10/12/2016 7:46:33 AM |
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dr_cracker

Beverly Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2016
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Cracker, you kicked me out of bed this morning mumbling something about "why haven't you left yet"
Well I couldn't prepare the surprise while you were there...it's ready now but hurry up before it goes away again.
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10/12/2016 7:52:06 AM |
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purdibirdd

Fort Collins, CO
52, joined Aug. 2014
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^Why would she have to leave the room? Why would you not let her 'help' you?
pft. still selfish! you are!
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10/12/2016 7:52:47 AM |
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dr_cracker

Beverly Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2016
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The mechanical device used to get things "in situ" isn't very romantic looking.
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10/12/2016 7:54:17 AM |
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grillocks

Chesapeake, VA
36, joined Dec. 2015
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Plus theres a bit of crying and an unsavory pep talk to the potato..
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10/12/2016 7:54:22 AM |
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archer513

Cincinnati, OH
45, joined Dec. 2014
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I bet rose can "prepare a surprise" pretty well...
Purdi too  
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10/12/2016 7:55:49 AM |
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dr_cracker

Beverly Hills, CA
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10/12/2016 7:56:33 AM |
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purdibirdd

Fort Collins, CO
52, joined Aug. 2014
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Hi ArcherMan Fancy seeing you. It's been a spell.
what's that contraption? Who wants a money generator? Stop thinking with the WRONG head!! 
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10/12/2016 7:56:55 AM |
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_Technologist01

Powell, OH
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Do NOT message Archer, you'll only get dic pics! What a let down 
Hello Miss Rose 
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10/12/2016 7:57:35 AM |
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grillocks

Chesapeake, VA
36, joined Dec. 2015
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Oh...my.
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10/12/2016 7:58:31 AM |
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dr_cracker

Beverly Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2016
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It's true..I just asked him where a good place to go hiking was 
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archer513

Cincinnati, OH
45, joined Dec. 2014
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Let down!!??

I even used a magnifying glass
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10/12/2016 8:00:13 AM |
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purdibirdd

Fort Collins, CO
52, joined Aug. 2014
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not true. he sends great pictures from what I seen.
... he has the cutest:
lil' helmet.
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archer513

Cincinnati, OH
45, joined Dec. 2014
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Dawww  
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10/12/2016 8:00:55 AM |
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dr_cracker

Beverly Hills, CA
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The pic I got had the tag line "Hike on this b*tch"
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10/12/2016 8:01:38 AM |
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grillocks

Chesapeake, VA
36, joined Dec. 2015
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Scrotum Mountains?
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10/12/2016 8:01:42 AM |
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archer513

Cincinnati, OH
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The pic I got had the tag line "Hike on this b*tch"
Well it is quite a hike to get to the end...
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10/12/2016 8:03:04 AM |
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forum_rose

Killeen, TX
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Archer was unimpressed with the boobie photos I sent. He even laughed at me. 
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10/12/2016 8:03:12 AM |
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dr_cracker

Beverly Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2016
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Glad I didn't ask about Spelunking
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10/12/2016 8:03:38 AM |
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purdibirdd

Fort Collins, CO
52, joined Aug. 2014
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WTH. Stop trying to get in between me and.....
EVERYBODY, CRACKER!!!
Gosh, you're so insatiable! 
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10/12/2016 8:06:08 AM |
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archer513

Cincinnati, OH
45, joined Dec. 2014
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Archer was unimpressed with the boobie photos I sent. He even laughed at me. 
Only in comparison to dat a** 
I have it as my screen saver...
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10/12/2016 8:07:07 AM |
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purdibirdd

Fort Collins, CO
52, joined Aug. 2014
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awwww. it's a bunn connection.
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10/12/2016 8:11:05 AM |
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forum_rose

Killeen, TX
40, joined Feb. 2016
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Only on your iPad mini 
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10/12/2016 8:14:47 AM |
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purdibirdd

Fort Collins, CO
52, joined Aug. 2014
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Let's meet in Colorado for New year's EVE and have looksee?!! 
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