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12/27/2016 12:31:02 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fairymaiden Bristol, CT 50, joined Mar. 2014	So this guy I know has a temper problem and has never liked taking orders from authority. He's gotten fired from every job he's had because he's either telling the boss off or arguing with his coworkers because he feels that they don't work as hard as he does. He's been evicted from his last three apartments and he claims none of it is his fault because he pays his rent on time. It's all the landlord's fault. However, he does a lot of screaming and swearing at the landlord when they try to tell him he can't do something (such as sell a lawnmower out on the front lawn of the building) or when he wants something and they're not giving it to him fast enough. I will say that some of these landlords are jackasses, but screaming and arguing with them only leads to an eviction. He also has a habit of denying the landlord access to his apartment by changing the locks and purposely not giving him a key as well as sometimes doing big damage to the apartment before leaving it. So now he's living in his truck with two dogs and wants everyone to feel sorry for him and to pay for a motel until he can find another apartment because it's cold out. When he got evicted the 2nd time it took him 5 months to find an apartment and lived in his truck during that time too. I tried to get him to see the error of his ways at that time but he wasn't interested in that idea so here we are again. I told him in an email: You can't scream at your landlords. You can't deny them access to your apartment. You can't swear at them and refuse to take their calls. You can't get upset with them when they tell you that they don't want you doing something. It's not your place. It's not your rules. You need to stop fighting them and have some humility or else this situation is just going to go on and on and on. It was your fault you were kicked out. You were kicked out because you were mouthy. Then these landlords got mad and retaliated and then you got even more mouthy leading to the evictions. Why do you refuse to accept accountability for your actions? It's more than just paying your rent on time. Much much more. You need to respect the landlord's wishes, like them or not. I've lived at my current place for nine years and I have never, ever once raised my voice to the landlord because I know I would be out of here if I did. Whatever he wants goes, whether I like it or not. I am free to leave whenever I want but as long as I am renting one of his apartments I have to do what he says, when he says to, no matter how ridiculous it may seem. You need to learn this kind of humility and gratitude because you're not being thankful at all for your apartments if you're mouthing off to the landlord. After he read my email he said I was heartless and judgemental. Anyone who doesn't pay for a motel is selfishly hoarding their money... I say he made his bed and now he's sleeping in it. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
12/27/2016 12:36:03 PM	This is long but might be interesting
Hellcat3680 Oshawa, ON 37, joined Nov. 2016	Classic narcissist. Take his dogs and leave him to feel sorry for himself.
12/27/2016 12:43:23 PM	This is long but might be interesting
uber_goober Danielsville, GA 52, joined May. 2016	I've been lucky with my landlords back when I moved almost every year when I was a younger man. I lived in one place for over 10 years because the rent was so cheap and there was no lease. When something needed fixing, I would do it myself and deduct the cost of materials from my rent and my labor was free. Tried to buy that house numerous times but he would never sell. He sold it right after I moved out. We got along because I was a landlord's wet dream probably. Never a problem from me. And I paid in cash because he said he liked it that way. Your friend definitely has his anger management issues. Some kind of imagined persecution complex it sounds like. I can't say that I've had any friends quite as bad off with it as that man. When he's not acting like a jackass, is he a pleasant type? Friendly and engaging when in a good mood? If he's snapping at the hands he hopes will feed him, he may have another long residency in his truck. And I'm sure CT winters can be brutally cold to sleep in al fresco. [Edited 12/27/2016 12:45:03 PM ]
12/27/2016 12:44:47 PM	This is long but might be interesting
Zelda88 Sugar Land, TX 28, joined Jun. 2016	Borderline personality disorder
12/27/2016 12:45:54 PM	This is long but might be interesting
sddnly_snoozin Staffordshire United Kingdom 43, joined Mar. 2016	How old is he? Sounds like he's very childish and unrealistic.
12/27/2016 12:48:37 PM	This is long but might be interesting
sparknspirit Ocala, FL 97, joined Jan. 2016	Be a cold day in he'll I would pay for a dudes,motel room, let him reap what he sows,actions have consequences. . I never got why parents allow children unruly behavior with no significant consequences It leads to adults,acting like children, ,they usually end up in jail
12/27/2016 1:02:55 PM	This is long but might be interesting
sinceresammy Dayton, OH 62, joined Mar. 2014	It wasn't interesting, and why does the OP associate with morons?
12/27/2016 1:03:42 PM	This is long but might be interesting
easttowest72 Bremen, GA 45, joined Sep. 2014	Sounds like there is more to this story than your saying. No job but can still pay rent? Couldnt find an apartment for 5 months? Trust me...he is broke.
12/27/2016 1:05:14 PM	This is long but might be interesting
sddnly_snoozin Staffordshire United Kingdom 43, joined Mar. 2016	Quote from sinceresammy: It wasn't interesting, and why does the OP associate with morons? If she isn't associating with you. She's already a step above. C'mon you're a fan of Hag. That says it all.
12/27/2016 1:09:20 PM	This is long but might be interesting
playingindirt Eugene, OR 62, joined Mar. 2014	common sense and courtesy go a long way. some people just don't get the meaning of that until they've learned and experienced it themselves. you can't tell them how. the best way to help someone like that is the school of hard knocks. [Edited 12/27/2016 1:09:40 PM ]
12/27/2016 1:13:55 PM	This is long but might be interesting
sinceresammy Dayton, OH 62, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from sddnly_snoozin: If she isn't associating with you. She's already a step above. C'mon you're a fan of Hag. That says it all. Dr Haggy is a great man. You are just another freak!
12/27/2016 1:27:34 PM	This is long but might be interesting
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 59, joined May. 2009	I'm not at all surprised that he finds it hard to rent a new place. All those evictions are on record and no landlord is going to jump to rent to him. I'm pretty much on board with what others said, especially Ubergoober. If he called you heartless when all you said was a "coming to Jesus" talk, I'd just about write him off. I feel sorry for the dogs, though. He's not being a responsible, adult pet owner.
12/27/2016 1:28:48 PM	This is long but might be interesting
flyfish77 Conyers, GA 52, joined Jul. 2014	hey francy,some have anger issues,somewomen on here are brutal,an go off at less than the drop of a hat,im not perfect,just misunderstood,and..opinions vary..but i have mercy an compssion on people,but i dont receive any back..sometimes people gotta settle down an calm down,whatever it takes an kiss a little a it seems..if his landlord woulda been on here,he woulda cussed an maybe shot the tenant,the worst anger i ever had in my life was right here but id rather forgive an be kind allways,but it takes some doin at times,an your sweet francy an cool an easy to deal with an i like that..but i have compassion an mercy,but am tired of kissin a for sure,but it may turn out to beworth it,i been falsely accused,an i just have no clue,your a swetheart an i need to wake up,ot go back to sleep.of course i love you francy,your a faithful woman friend hunny..........
12/27/2016 1:33:41 PM	This is long but might be interesting
jake_is_fake Avenel, NJ 79, joined Jun. 2015	(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
12/27/2016 1:37:11 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fairymaiden Bristol, CT 50, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from uber_goober: Your friend definitely has his anger management issues. Some kind of imagined persecution complex it sounds like. I can't say that I've had any friends quite as bad off with it as that man. When he's not acting like a jackass, is he a pleasant type? Friendly and engaging when in a good mood? If he's snapping at the hands he hopes will feed him, he may have another long residency in his truck. And I'm sure CT winters can be brutally cold to sleep in al fresco. Yes, he's very pleasant and generous when he's not acting like a jackass. He likes to make people feel guilty who won't pay for his motel by telling them not to worry about him and to just "stay warm in your bed".
12/27/2016 1:37:56 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fairymaiden Bristol, CT 50, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from sddnly_snoozin: How old is he? Sounds like he's very childish and unrealistic. He'll be 53 in a month or so.
12/27/2016 1:44:19 PM	This is long but might be interesting
Zelda88 Sugar Land, TX 28, joined Jun. 2016	Don't give him another single thought. It's a waste of brain use.
12/27/2016 1:52:45 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fairymaiden Bristol, CT 50, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from easttowest72: Sounds like there is more to this story than your saying. No job but can still pay rent? Couldnt find an apartment for 5 months? Trust me...he is broke. He's always had a hard time finding an apartment because he has two dogs, one of them being a pitbull. Plus, the former evictions, bad credit, and criminal history. He's on social security.
12/27/2016 1:55:05 PM	This is long but might be interesting
Zelda88 Sugar Land, TX 28, joined Jun. 2016	So he's on disability, owns a dog many apartments forbid, and an all around f-up. Good thing he has a truck to live in. Quote from fairymaiden: He's always had a hard time finding an apartment because he has two dogs, one of them being a pitbull. Plus, the former evictions, bad credit, and criminal history. He's on social security.
12/27/2016 1:56:30 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fairymaiden Bristol, CT 50, joined Mar. 2014	I shouldn't laugh Zelda, but it was just the way you put it. Yeah, that pretty much sums it up.
12/27/2016 1:58:05 PM	This is long but might be interesting
Zelda88 Sugar Land, TX 28, joined Jun. 2016	Nothing wrong with laughing at stupid people and their stupider consequences. I've done one stupid thing with a stupider consequence and I laugh.
12/27/2016 1:59:58 PM	This is long but might be interesting
stan_147 Coos Bay, OR 53, joined Aug. 2010	Reads like a terminal f**k up. Old enough to know, too stupid to act. Even in self preservation mode. People like that tend to drag everyone around them down into their self destructive spiral. Not caring who the hurt along the way. Sorry, but sympathy is found in the dictionary between shit and syphillis.
12/27/2016 2:03:09 PM	This is long but might be interesting
olderthandirt20 Waldron, AR 71, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from Hellcat3680: Classic narcissist. Take his dogs and leave him to feel sorry for himself. This give his dogs a break and send him this link; http://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org/cgi-bin/id/city.cgi?city=New%20Haven&state=CT Tell him not to cop an attitude at his new landlord.
12/27/2016 2:08:03 PM	This is long but might be interesting
sddnly_snoozin Staffordshire United Kingdom 43, joined Mar. 2016	Quote from fairymaiden: He'll be 53 in a month or so. Comes across to me that he doesn't accept responsibility for his own actions. That he relies on goodwill of others to take accountability and when they don't he turns on them.
12/27/2016 2:09:47 PM	This is long but might be interesting
mva_0615 Avon Lake, OH 49, joined Aug. 2013	Bipolar maybe?
12/27/2016 2:19:31 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fishnthec Mesquite, TX 66, joined Oct. 2010	A man that don't have a pot- to pick peas in- by the age of 30- never will! Bad things do happen to good people. So....... I don't judge people for having problems- I judge people on how well they handle problems! The guy you referred to, may be causing his own problems, and refusing to resolve them. Based on just what you have said about him, he doesn't sound like a problem resolver- He sounds more like a problem maker!
12/27/2016 2:21:41 PM	This is long but might be interesting
playingindirt Eugene, OR 62, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from fishnthec: Bad things do happen to good people. So....... I don't judge people for having problems- I judge people on how well they handle problems! this is exactly it.
12/27/2016 2:38:47 PM	This is long but might be interesting
Zelda88 Sugar Land, TX 28, joined Jun. 2016	...and good people can make stupid choices with bad consequences. Repeating the same bad choices and corresponding consequences indicates behavior problems.
12/27/2016 2:42:24 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fairymaiden Bristol, CT 50, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from olderthandirt20: This give his dogs a break and send him this link; http://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org/cgi-bin/id/city.cgi?city=New%20Haven&state=CT Tell him not to cop an attitude at his new landlord. Shelters accept dogs? I didn't know that. Thanks for the link. There's no sense though in telling him not to cop an attitude with a new landlord. He doesn't do anything wrong.
12/27/2016 2:45:16 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fairymaiden Bristol, CT 50, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from sddnly_snoozin: Comes across to me that he doesn't accept responsibility for his own actions. That he relies on goodwill of others to take accountability and when they don't he turns on them. Well yeah, like the time he wanted me to bail him out of jail and I didn't have the money because I had recently loaned some to somebody else. He cursed me up and down and called me every filthy name in the book.
12/27/2016 2:51:11 PM	This is long but might be interesting
Jaradfromsubway Pussay France 46, joined Jan. 2016	Quote from fishnthec: A man that don't have a pot- to pick peas in- by the age of 30- never will! Bad things do happen to good people. So....... I don't judge people for having problems- I judge people on how well they handle problems! The guy you referred to, may be causing his own problems, and refusing to resolve them. Based on just what you have said about him, he doesn't sound like a problem resolver- He sounds more like a problem maker! Materialism is lame and an old people idea of success but your statement isn't true , anyways . Look up the late success of guys like Churchill , Regis Philbin , Larry King , etc. sometimes it's right place right time
12/27/2016 3:06:00 PM	This is long but might be interesting
_Cham AngualastoAustralian Capital Australia 97, joined Aug. 2016	Quote from fairymaiden: Well yeah, like the time he wanted me to bail him out of jail and I didn't have the money because I had recently loaned some to somebody else. He cursed me up and down and called me every filthy name in the book. After he called you all those 'filthy' names you still associate with him? Sounds like you have been a good friend to him but I would be done with him after that..
12/27/2016 3:08:16 PM	This is long but might be interesting
lunaglider DPO, AA 98, joined Dec. 2013	Can I have his number?
12/27/2016 3:14:57 PM	This is long but might be interesting
sddnly_snoozin Staffordshire United Kingdom 43, joined Mar. 2016	Quote from fairymaiden: Well yeah, like the time he wanted me to bail him out of jail and I didn't have the money because I had recently loaned some to somebody else. He cursed me up and down and called me every filthy name in the book. I used to believe in helping people regardless. Not now though, been bitten too many times. I now realise, although I care that I can be a part of the problem by enabling them to continue to do what they are doing. There is nothing wrong with wanting to help people out. It's a nice thing to do. However, this person clearly does not appreciate it nor does he really want to change his circumstances. Sorry.
12/27/2016 3:17:46 PM	This is long but might be interesting
killerbugs53 Palo Cedro, CA 54, joined Oct. 2016	I have known people like that,it's never there fault it's always everyone elses... and everyone is picking on me...
12/27/2016 3:18:54 PM	This is long but might be interesting
_Cham AngualastoAustralian Capital Australia 97, joined Aug. 2016	as the old adage goes... "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink"
12/27/2016 3:50:38 PM	This is long but might be interesting
olderthandirt20 Waldron, AR 71, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from fairymaiden: Shelters accept dogs? I didn't know that. Most shelters will not accept dogs unless they are service animals, but many can make arrangements with the ASPCA to kennel them for short time if the owner agrees to pay a minimal daily fee when they come back to claim the dogs.
12/27/2016 4:02:04 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fishnthec Mesquite, TX 66, joined Oct. 2010	Quote from Jaradfromsubway: Materialism is lame and an old people idea of success but your statement isn't true , anyways . Look up the late success of guys like Churchill , Regis Philbin , Larry King , etc. sometimes it's right place right time Materialism is one thing, but having a place to get in out of the rain and cold is another. The very first measure of success is being able to provide for oneself. I bet Churchill, Regis, and Larry were all doing that before they became rich. Don't argue!
12/27/2016 4:05:37 PM	This is long but might be interesting
countryladypoet Clarion, PA 50, joined Dec. 2012	cliff notes?
12/27/2016 4:08:04 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fishnthec Mesquite, TX 66, joined Oct. 2010	Quote from countryladypoet: cliff notes? Google replaced cliff notes years ago!
12/27/2016 4:08:29 PM	This is long but might be interesting
countryladypoet Clarion, PA 50, joined Dec. 2012
12/27/2016 4:09:47 PM	This is long but might be interesting
vanilla_cream2 Philadelphia, PA 41, joined Sep. 2014
12/27/2016 4:11:52 PM	This is long but might be interesting
Jaradfromsubway Pussay France 46, joined Jan. 2016	Quote from fishnthec: Materialism is one thing, but having a place to get in out of the rain and cold is another. The very first measure of success is being able to provide for oneself. I bet Churchill, Regis, and Larry were all doing that before they became rich. Don't argue! you win that one
12/27/2016 4:16:41 PM	This is long but might be interesting
playingindirt Eugene, OR 62, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from Jaradfromsubway: Materialism is lame and an old people idea of success but your statement isn't true , anyways . Look up the late success of guys like Churchill , Regis Philbin , Larry King , etc. sometimes it's right place right time it's not necessary an old people idea of success. yes it's lame but you don't piss in the pot you eat in. lol
12/27/2016 4:18:46 PM	This is long but might be interesting
vanilla_cream2 Philadelphia, PA 41, joined Sep. 2014
12/27/2016 5:52:15 PM	This is long but might be interesting
stl1 Saint Louis, MO 63, joined Jun. 2007	Quote from _Cham: as the old adage goes... "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink" And...don't forget... The grass always looks greener in the other bong.
12/27/2016 5:59:14 PM	This is long but might be interesting
amusicluvr Salem, OR 65, joined Nov. 2013	OP - So the guy never grew out of The Terrible Twos, and is an infant mind in a man's body. WTF us "interesting" about that? There are too many like him in the world. The kindest, and most helpful, (and-alas, in his case-least effective) thing you can do is tell him to "grow the f**k up!"
12/27/2016 7:14:42 PM	This is long but might be interesting
lightsquare AbsamAbsam Austria 44, joined Dec. 2014	Dogs especially a pit bull would get my Landlord insurance cancelled very fast. The guy has a criminal record and cannot hold down a job is a definite red flag for a junkie or alcoholic. No way would I consider him for one of my rentals.
12/27/2016 7:25:22 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fairymaiden Bristol, CT 50, joined Mar. 2014	Thanks Lightsquare. He came up with a scheme to get an apartment faster since so many places don't accept dogs. He got the two of them registered as "Emotional Support" animals & he knows that legally he can't be turned down for an apartment because of them. So what he plans on doing is not telling the landlord that the dogs exist until after the lease is signed. Then surprise surprise, I forgot to mention that I have two emotional support dogs and one of them is a pitbull. If the landlord starts squawking about it he says he'll tell the landlord he'll be sued. I told him that's a horrible thing to do to somebody backing them into a corner like that and then threatening a lawsuit. He didn't care though.
12/27/2016 7:43:01 PM	This is long but might be interesting
lightsquare AbsamAbsam Austria 44, joined Dec. 2014	Quote from fairymaiden: Thanks Lightsquare. He came up with a scheme to get an apartment faster since so many places don't accept dogs. He got the two of them registered as "Emotional Support" animals & he knows that legally he can't be turned down for an apartment because of them. So what he plans on doing is not telling the landlord that the dogs exist until after the lease is signed. Then surprise surprise, I forgot to mention that I have two emotional support dogs and one of them is a pitbull. If the landlord starts squawking about it he says he'll tell the landlord he'll be sued. I told him that's a horrible thing to do to somebody backing them into a corner like that and then threatening a lawsuit. He didn't care though. In my application I ask if they have any pets. In the lease they sign it says "no pets allowed" unless approved by landlord. I'm covered and if someone sues let them. A signed lease is a binding legal document and hiding the dog(s) is cause for automatic eviction. Plus omitting the dogs on the application form is another cause for eviction.
12/27/2016 8:09:32 PM	This is long but might be interesting
lightsquare AbsamAbsam Austria 44, joined Dec. 2014	According to the Americans with Disabilities Act, a companion animal does not qualify as a service animal and therefore they are not generally allowed in public places, like restaurants, as service animals are. Landlords can refuse to allow certain companion animals if the animal will present undue hardship or expense for the landlord’s business. An example of this is when a landlord’s insurance company will raise rates or drop coverage for certain dog breeds to live on the property that are considered too aggressive, like pit bulls.
12/27/2016 8:14:35 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fairymaiden Bristol, CT 50, joined Mar. 2014	Landlords can refuse to allow certain companion animals if the animal will present undue hardship or expense for the landlord’s business. An example of this is when a landlord’s insurance company will raise rates or drop coverage for certain dog breeds to live on the property that are considered too aggressive, like pit bulls. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Yep, but that info seems to go in one ear and out the other. I was with him when he was reading that specific info too. I don't see how he would get away with hiding the dogs until after the lease was signed anyways because it's usually always brought up by the landlord during the showing of the property or in the lease wording like you mentioned. [Edited 12/27/2016 8:15:26 PM ]
12/27/2016 8:19:12 PM	This is long but might be interesting
lightsquare AbsamAbsam Austria 44, joined Dec. 2014	He can be evicted for breach of lease.
12/27/2016 8:20:43 PM	This is long but might be interesting
fairymaiden Bristol, CT 50, joined Mar. 2014	How do you like being a landlord? Is it worth the money?
12/27/2016 8:27:53 PM	This is long but might be interesting
flyfish77 Conyers, GA 52, joined Jul. 2014	never been one yet..im kink of my castle of guitars an amps an vintage stereo stuff.... and 3 cats paid for an legally on the lease.hunny just do it,an see what happens i think it wiill work.....
12/27/2016 8:29:48 PM	This is long but might be interesting
lightsquare AbsamAbsam Austria 44, joined Dec. 2014	Quote from fairymaiden: How do you like being a landlord? Is it worth the money? I am doing quite well and know how to handle my tenants. Always represent myself in court and win. Yes I like it and plan to buy another rental unit in the Spring. Once you rehab the place you just sit back and collect the rent.
12/27/2016 8:30:17 PM	This is long but might be interesting
iam_resurrected Reno, NV 47, joined Jul. 2014	this guy is a wannabe victim which is obviously why he sabotages his life let him crash and burn.
12/28/2016 4:23:08 AM	This is long but might be interesting
vanilla_cream2 Philadelphia, PA 41, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from fishnthec: The very first measure of success is being able to provide for oneself. A lot of people here are unable to do this
12/28/2016 4:24:02 AM	This is long but might be interesting
vanilla_cream2 Philadelphia, PA 41, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from vanilla_cream2:
12/28/2016 4:28:02 AM	This is long but might be interesting
yetskimama Walterboro, SC 67, joined Sep. 2011	@fair . I enjoy your threads keep on what you doing. Have a great 2017

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