| 3/7/2017 11:21:12 AM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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This is a question for those in or not in relationships and what positives you found in the past, present and hope to find in the future?
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| 3/7/2017 11:39:43 AM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Well my ex can do a really sexy Russian accent. The last guy I dated had a hot accent as well. Sometimes they do stuff for me even though they don't enjoy doing it lol. I liked how the last guy I was dating flirted with me on mic was very hot. Miss that guy but ya know he chose to ditch me lol his choice, it was always his choice.
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| 3/7/2017 11:43:06 AM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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opsiidaisy
ViennaVienna
Austria
44, joined Jan. 2017
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playful camaraderie...
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| 3/7/2017 12:07:05 PM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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joey1331
Clinton, MS
46, joined Apr. 2012
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Cheesecake
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| 3/7/2017 4:23:32 PM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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Indepth conversations.
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| 3/7/2017 4:34:11 PM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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DawnIta1973
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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Intelligence, passion, sense of humour, confidence, laid-back attitude, empathy, compassion, integrity.
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| 3/7/2017 4:35:17 PM |
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Helly_Orchid
Oshawa, ON
37, joined Jan. 2017
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Everything Alba mentioned, along with amazing sex.
That's what I want.
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| 3/7/2017 4:39:29 PM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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DawnIta1973
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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Yep.  That goes without saying. Otherwise I would call him a friend, not a boyfriend. 
And it doesn't always have to be amazing. I'm not always amazing either.  
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| 3/7/2017 4:40:16 PM |
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Helly_Orchid
Oshawa, ON
37, joined Jan. 2017
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I'm Irish. Apparently being a great f**k is in the genes.
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| 3/7/2017 4:41:32 PM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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DawnIta1973
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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 love me some Irish. 
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| 3/7/2017 4:42:01 PM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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Helly_Orchid
Oshawa, ON
37, joined Jan. 2017
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For you, always! 
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| 3/7/2017 4:42:04 PM |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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Ha Ladies..
Gotta hand it to Joey, he keeps it simple
Not even a specified home made or shop brought.
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| 3/7/2017 4:42:27 PM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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I like talk, clean cut, and smelling good. Guys can be so sweet sometimes.
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| 3/7/2017 4:43:13 PM |
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DawnIta1973
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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Men...are simple creatures. In a very complicated way.
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| 3/7/2017 4:43:32 PM |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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Yeah they can East. Tactile too..
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| 3/7/2017 4:43:52 PM |
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Helly_Orchid
Oshawa, ON
37, joined Jan. 2017
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Their simplicity is almost infuriating.
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| 3/7/2017 4:44:28 PM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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In what way Helly?
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| 3/7/2017 4:46:21 PM |
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DawnIta1973
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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The kind of sometimes you have to write down things on a stone for them, and hit them on their thick heads with it.
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| 3/7/2017 4:48:13 PM |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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I think it depends on the man. For me, if I need to do kinda the wrong one.
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| 3/7/2017 4:49:22 PM |
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Helly_Orchid
Oshawa, ON
37, joined Jan. 2017
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Right. I'm not the type who likes to repeat myself, nor do I have the patience to deal with a b*tchy man.
So Snoozey, if I he won't talk to me when I bring up a topic that he may not agree with, or he won't have any kind of serious discussion with me at all, I get very frustrated.
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| 3/7/2017 4:50:08 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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playful camaraderie...
this
and this
Intelligence, passion, sense of humour, confidence, laid-back attitude, empathy, compassion, integrity.
I really appreciate the protectiveness factor, too. There is something about the presence of the man I love that I appreciate. Hard to explain, but like when you're in a large crowd and he's clearing the way, sort-of, for you. Not like shoving people aside, but being that he's bigger (not necessarily physically bigger) that following him is easy.
I remember once he who because he was parking the car came into the lobby of the place we were a bit later than me. He came up behind me and stood there, sort of vigilant like, sort of declaring we were together by his body language.
Like I said, hard to explain.
The protectiveness factor also in like it's late and you hear a noise and he goes and investigates without being asked. He just takes it on himself to take care of his family. He takes on the job of making sure windows and doors are locked before going to sleep.
That's something I really missed after my husband died. Of course, I can do it myself, but the fact that someone else does it because he feels it's his to do for the people he loves feels safe and warm and wonderful.
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| 3/7/2017 4:55:06 PM |
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DawnIta1973
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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Lovethelake: I fully agree, about the protectiveness. I was gonna put someone who's my rock but I thought let's not be greedy too much. LOL
Although, someone who has empathy, is compassionate, has integrity and loves you? It is bound to be.
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| 3/7/2017 5:01:29 PM |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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Right. I'm not the type who likes to repeat myself, nor do I have the patience to deal with a b*tchy man.
So Snoozey, if I he won't talk to me when I bring up a topic that he may not agree with, or he won't have any kind of serious discussion with me at all, I get very frustrated.
I understand that. To me it would just tell me he's not right for me. I like open communication as well.
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| 3/7/2017 5:03:01 PM |
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Helly_Orchid
Oshawa, ON
37, joined Jan. 2017
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I keep finding men who fail at communicating. Then when you push it, they go all 12 yr old girl on their first period on you.
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| 3/7/2017 5:08:40 PM |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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Aww Helly, they exist. But I also understand some guys just want a quiet life so to speak.
I think communication is very important. But not something that should be forced. When it's forced it's not right.
I think we can all have our ideals as well just sometimes it's hard matching the reality.
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| 3/7/2017 5:12:43 PM |
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lonewolf_d_69
Hong Kong
China
72, joined Jan. 2017
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The lady like eye rolling, hand gestures and when she stretches herr arms out while yawning.
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| 3/7/2017 5:19:53 PM |
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joey1331
Clinton, MS
46, joined Apr. 2012
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Ha Ladies..
Gotta hand it to Joey, he keeps it simple
Not even a specified home made or shop brought.
 My cheesecake is sexy sweet, desired by many for its smooth delightful enjoyment of tasteful pleasures one recieves. If a woman with such skill equal to my own or better than I shall ever be presents an amazing cheesecake, then her attention I will have.
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| 3/7/2017 5:22:30 PM |
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Helly_Orchid
Oshawa, ON
37, joined Jan. 2017
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Yeah but can we buy the cheesecake? I don't bake very often.
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| 3/7/2017 5:48:22 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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Lovethelake: I fully agree, about the protectiveness. I was gonna put someone who's my rock but I thought let's not be greedy too much. LOL
Although, someone who has empathy, is compassionate, has integrity and loves you? It is bound to be.
Ah yes! Rock. Safe harbor. Soft place to land.
I agree. All of those qualities you mention would make that security inevitable.
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| 3/7/2017 6:23:37 PM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
99, joined May. 2016
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Openess...compassion....easy communication about anything and everything....big strong hugs...protectiveness....kindness...romance....lots of affection....presence both physically and emotionally.....integrity...I never have to question if his word will be backed up by action or whether I can trust him or not..... 
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| 3/7/2017 6:43:45 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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I appreciate the fact that my ex was sort of quiet and kept some things to himself. He also was very confident, tall and good looking.
The current guy I am seeing lacks self-censor. So, annoying.
In general, I usually get along well with the opposite sex, love the logical side of men, have more fun hanging out with men, and appreciate the playful romantic side of being with a man.
Bonus if he can fix things. jk 
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| 3/7/2017 7:39:31 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
online now!
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I'd appreciate them a lot more if they were friendly, would actually date me in a platonic way and would actually cook for me now and then. At my age I know women have been completely disinterested in sex for many many many many many decades. Don't need that. Yes, I'd appreciate them a lot more if I had a positive experience with them instead of meeting the rabid, man hating feminists that we have in here.
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| 3/7/2017 7:41:36 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
online now!
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If your EX was that great, lucky, why'd you kick him to the curb and divorce him?
 Of course! You hadn't given him any affection in years so he started seeing a woman instead of the iceberg at home.
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| 3/7/2017 8:17:27 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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If your EX was that great, lucky, why'd you kick him to the curb and divorce him?
Oh... he was a cheater.
Lots of women think he's great.
I am only recently more of an iceberg. 
It's more for self-protection than anything else.
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| 3/7/2017 8:55:01 PM |
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thread_killer
Turin, GA
22, joined Sep. 2016
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They may never shut the Hell up.
But, at least they'll go to sleep... Eventually.
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| 3/7/2017 10:06:25 PM |
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
37, joined Jan. 2016
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How when you're having a bad day they can pull you into their arms kiss you on the forehead, and things suddenly don't seem so bad.
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| 3/7/2017 11:58:21 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Lol so I literally just ask an ex how he is and he gives me weird attitude "lol as if you even care' calls me a 'sadistic bi.tch' and blocks me.
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| 3/8/2017 12:22:47 AM |
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joey1331
Clinton, MS
46, joined Apr. 2012
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| 3/8/2017 12:36:44 AM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
64, joined Nov. 2013
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I appreciate other people for their: intelligence, sense of humor, friendship, conversation, advice, etc. That applies to males, and females. I guess the only thing I appreciate about just women is sex. Since I am not gay, or bi, I only get sex from women, and so sex is the one thing that women can give me that men can't.
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| 3/8/2017 12:39:59 AM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
64, joined Nov. 2013
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Lol so I literally just ask an ex how he is and he gives me weird attitude "lol as if you even care' calls me a 'sadistic bi.tch' and blocks me.
I keep telling people that over is over. Once you break up with someone, have no more to do with them. It avoids such rude encounters, shattered illusions, etc. You may not be sadistic, or a b*tch, (or you may....I can't yet tell), but you certainly are overly optimistic, and thus just a bit stupid. Learn from the experience, and move on, and cut all exes out of your life...unless you'd enjoy experiencing the event again.
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| 3/8/2017 12:44:25 AM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
64, joined Nov. 2013
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I keep finding men who fail at communicating. Then when you push it, they go all 12 yr old girl on their first period on you.
When men DO communicate, you get angry.
"Do these jeans make my a** look big?" You ask.
"Yes, Dear." He communicates.
Then he gets the cold shoulder, followed by b*tching, followed by little acts of vengeance (putting too much salt in his soup, or whatever), followed by more silence, followed by more b*tching.
And then you wonder why men don't communicate more.
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| 3/8/2017 1:06:12 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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I keep telling people that over is over. Once you break up with someone, have no more to do with them. It avoids such rude encounters, shattered illusions, etc. You may not be sadistic, or a b*tch, (or you may....I can't yet tell), but you certainly are overly optimistic, and thus just a bit stupid. Learn from the experience, and move on, and cut all exes out of your life...unless you'd enjoy experiencing the event again.
well I assumed we would be talking or something since he still had me added on facebook but didn't talk. I was thinking well this is a bit like idk stalky if he has me added but doesn't talk lol.
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| 3/8/2017 2:00:22 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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This is a question for those in or not in relationships and what positives you found in the past, present and hope to find in the future?
It makes no difference what I would like to find in the future relationship with a woman, due to the fact I know I will never find it.
MOST (not all) women do not care what a man wants or needs to form a relationship with him, they only care about what they can get from him.
MOST (not all) women will start out by giving the man what he desires, then after the relationship develops they will slowly stop giving him what he wanted. They will ask for more and more from him and just hint at what he might want.
The majority (not all) women today, no longer care about men, they only care about themselves.
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| 3/8/2017 2:01:49 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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My first ex was very sweet and did a lot of things for me and made me things.
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| 3/8/2017 3:52:14 AM |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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Seeing them smile simply because you are there.
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| 3/8/2017 3:54:34 AM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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It makes no difference what I would like to find in the future relationship with a woman, due to the fact I know I will never find it.
MOST (not all) women do not care what a man wants or needs to form a relationship with him, they only care about what they can get from him.
MOST (not all) women will start out by giving the man what he desires, then after the relationship develops they will slowly stop giving him what he wanted. They will ask for more and more from him and just hint at what he might want.
The majority (not all) women today, no longer care about men, they only care about themselves.
Cavie, there were good times. The reason why you wanted a relationship with that person.
What did you appreciate about them to enter into that relationship?
Nobody can unteach wrongs. It's something we just have accept that person did and move on in life.
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| 3/8/2017 7:50:30 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Their HUGEEEE
heart
;p
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| 3/8/2017 8:38:28 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
59, joined Dec. 2013
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This is a question for those in or not in relationships and what positives you found in the past, present and hope to find in the future?
The way they smell and the way they taste! 
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| 3/8/2017 8:46:37 AM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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some men's mouths taste delicious
vkusno
first Russian word I learnt lol
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| 3/8/2017 10:14:59 AM |
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DawnIta1973
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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Seeing them smile simply because you are there.
Makes your heart warm. 
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| 3/8/2017 11:08:14 AM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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It sure does Alba.
How they can make your heart skip a beat just by gently touching you.
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| 3/8/2017 11:12:41 AM |
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opsiidaisy
ViennaVienna
Austria
44, joined Jan. 2017
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ahhh, poooo!!!
I appreciate when they purposely try to ignore you, treat you like you're invisible, or irritate the shit out of you... that's what really stirs me up.
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| 3/8/2017 11:21:00 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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ahhh, poooo!!!
I appreciate when they purposely try to ignore you, treat you like you're invisible, or irritate the shit out of you... that's what really stirs me up.
What? Did you say something?
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| 3/8/2017 11:50:39 AM |
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DawnIta1973
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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and how can make you giddy.
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| 3/8/2017 12:10:23 PM |
What do you appreciate about the opposite sex? |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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When they get that look in their eyes
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| 3/8/2017 12:36:59 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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Being gentle with a kiss or a touch.
Fixing my truck/car , fixing things in general.
Good conversation.
Hugs. Cuddling.
I will think of more. I aplreciate men fully.
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| 3/8/2017 1:24:55 PM |
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joey1331
Clinton, MS
46, joined Apr. 2012
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I know how to fix things but only if your cheesecake is amazing...oh yeah
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| 3/8/2017 1:29:29 PM |
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DawnIta1973
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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When they get that look in their eyes
Fainting
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| 3/8/2017 1:39:02 PM |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Mar. 2016
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Fainting
Would you care for some smelling salts or the aroma of aftershave?
Oh man there is one aftershave I can spot a mile away and instantly my senses are on alert.
I can make cheesecake
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| 3/8/2017 1:40:46 PM |
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DawnIta1973
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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aroma of aftershave? Now you want to kill me.
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