| 5/23/2017 3:35:51 AM |
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boytoyof87
Saint Cloud, MN
29, joined Sep. 2008
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For anyone who's seen my profile, do you guys think I'd be a good boyfriend?
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| 5/23/2017 3:46:47 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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We have a section here for profile reviews....you might want to ask this there.
To be honest op...this question, your profile...and um, a few other things could lead to some funny comments you may not want to read.
In fact, just off the top of my head, I could have easily came up with many good such funny comments...myself.
But, in the event you are sincere and not another troll just prowling the forums, I decided not to.
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| 5/23/2017 4:28:45 AM |
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Mercedes_3
New South Wales
Australia
89, joined Jun. 2016
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Mrs Doubtfire?
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| 5/23/2017 4:32:44 AM |
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boytoyof87
Saint Cloud, MN
29, joined Sep. 2008
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I... don't get it?
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| 5/23/2017 4:39:41 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Are you good at cooking?
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| 5/23/2017 4:42:59 AM |
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boytoyof87
Saint Cloud, MN
29, joined Sep. 2008
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I can make stuff like hamburger helper, cook burgers, chili, scrambled or hard-boiled eggs (that's a common type food in my household). And for anything else I don't know, I just tend to muddle my way through. At least according to Mom and Jerry, my food tastes good, so there is that.
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| 5/23/2017 4:44:19 AM |
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Mercedes_3
New South Wales
Australia
89, joined Jun. 2016
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Are you good at cooking?
You only have to look at the puffy neck to figure that out.
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| 5/23/2017 4:46:42 AM |
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boytoyof87
Saint Cloud, MN
29, joined Sep. 2008
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That's a joke, right? But please be careful, I am very sensitive about my weight issues.
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| 5/23/2017 4:50:34 AM |
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Mercedes_3
New South Wales
Australia
89, joined Jun. 2016
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boytoyof87: That's a joke, right? But please be careful, I am very sensitive about my weight issues.
You want me to lie?
You want me to say your arse doesn't look fat
in that garb?
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| 5/23/2017 4:52:18 AM |
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boytoyof87
Saint Cloud, MN
29, joined Sep. 2008
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You don't have to constantly call attention to it, though. Seriously.
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| 5/23/2017 4:53:47 AM |
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Mercedes_3
New South Wales
Australia
89, joined Jun. 2016
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That's true you're more than capable of doing that alone.
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| 5/23/2017 4:56:04 AM |
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jack_gulf
Cameron, LA
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| 5/23/2017 5:11:37 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Dude...first off women are extremely visual...they just hide it better and don't always admit it...but its true.
So from that alone...your not hitting a home run here, but not all women won't look past the looks, but you'd have to have the rest of what they seek.
This site name you chose contradicts the image you seem to be wanting to create here, it gives the impression you just seek sex, and becomes sort of a joke because of the above, and comes off as you are full of B.S....saying one thing, then another and that throws up the red flags.
As for your profile, it spells the dreaded issues, most try to avoid, and hog pog of trying to impress women with your politic beliefs and etc....and was way too long.
To be honest the whole thing looks like some troll who created all of this, just to rattle or play the forums, and when we consider how many of these types we already have here...its easy to draw that conclusion.
But..there is a shred of possibility that this is not the case, which is why I refrained from my typical M.O. of laying some good flames to this thread.
for now...anyway....lol
Its a shame, because you left yourself wide open for some good shit...
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| 5/23/2017 5:13:48 AM |
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boytoyof87
Saint Cloud, MN
29, joined Sep. 2008
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I'm not a troll. I'm really serious about this. But what would you recommend changing? Besides length?
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| 5/23/2017 5:16:50 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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^^^^^^^^^that all depends on how you look at things.
do you want to honestly represent yourself?
Or change things just to appease the women and it not be true.?
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| 5/23/2017 5:18:11 AM |
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boytoyof87
Saint Cloud, MN
29, joined Sep. 2008
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I want to be honest, which is what I did in my profile. Though I think I can finally see how you guys might get the wrong impression, but it wasn't really a troll account.
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| 5/23/2017 5:21:45 AM |
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boytoyof87
Saint Cloud, MN
29, joined Sep. 2008
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Is it possible to change your username? See, I haven't been active till recently, and I think that's what really does it.
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| 5/23/2017 5:23:53 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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I'm saying anything else, until I know for 100 percent sure that your not Korbyn or Mikey...with yet: another fake profile.
Sorry, but I'm setting myself up to look like a fool....lol
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| 5/23/2017 5:24:58 AM |
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boytoyof87
Saint Cloud, MN
29, joined Sep. 2008
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I don't know who those people are, but I'll wait if you want time to see for yourself. I meant what I said, though. I'm not a troll. I just have an unfortunate username that I chose back in 2008.
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| 5/23/2017 5:25:39 AM |
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stratus55
Jackson, GA
51, joined Jan. 2017
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good call,could be,an thanks for reminding me of what needs to be done..........
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| 5/23/2017 5:26:01 AM |
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lsu_lsu
Houma, LA
50, joined Apr. 2011
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Pretend they are all Korbyn and keep your fool in..lol
 morning bee 
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| 5/23/2017 5:30:59 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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morning lsu lsu...
Op...start with getting rid of that user name, if you can't change it...then delete the profile and start again.
Click edit profile and see if you can change it.
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| 5/23/2017 5:39:23 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Dude...in the profile, here are some highlights:
Tons of issues.
Don't drive.
Find working hard.
Very limited education.
Granted if you are sincere, its great to be honest, but these are things that shy either gender away from the other gender. and especially when you think of what women seek in men.
Sure, if you are sincere, you might be this sweet guy, but those things still remain and will work against you.
To be honest I really don't know what to tell you.
10 years ago...I'd a told you to work on overcoming these things...I'd have to give you the same advice now.
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| 5/23/2017 5:43:59 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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I can make stuff like hamburger helper, cook burgers, chili, scrambled or hard-boiled eggs (that's a common type food in my household). And for anything else I don't know, I just tend to muddle my way through. At least according to Mom and Jerry, my food tastes good, so there is that.
So you can make stuff that any 10 year old could make. That is not cooking.
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| 5/23/2017 5:45:32 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Well...here I contradicted myself..lol
I said I wouldn't say anymore until I convinced myself that you weren't a troll.
But, I did anyway...showing I'm more compassionate than my image here.
Oh well..
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| 5/23/2017 6:29:15 AM |
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boytoyof87
Saint Cloud, MN
29, joined Sep. 2008
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Dude...in the profile, here are some highlights:
Tons of issues.
Don't drive.
Find working hard.
Very limited education.
Granted if you are sincere, its great to be honest, but these are things that shy either gender away from the other gender. and especially when you think of what women seek in men.
Sure, if you are sincere, you might be this sweet guy, but those things still remain and will work against you.
To be honest I really don't know what to tell you.
10 years ago...I'd a told you to work on overcoming these things...I'd have to give you the same advice now.
Thanks for the advice! Though still, isn't it better to be honest? Because those things are who I am. And the truth would come out eventually.
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| 5/23/2017 6:34:17 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Yes...its best to be honest.
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| 5/23/2017 6:36:37 AM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Is this a joke? 
Oh wait everyone on dh says looks and money don't matter. Op you should have a love connection within the hour. 
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| 5/23/2017 6:39:00 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Is this a joke?
Oh wait everyone on dh says looks and money don't matter. Op you should have a love connection within the hour.
I told him, that he should have added to his profile about being a millionaire and his belief in that the guy always pays.
Go get him...E/w.
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| 5/23/2017 6:45:42 AM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Guys should also exercise, have their own place, be charming, and well by my threads we know I don't like guys who start off with "I like to cuddle".
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| 5/23/2017 9:02:48 AM |
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anglicus_femina
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined May. 2016
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Elliot, I wouldn't know. A) because I don't know you B) because you are not in my age group.C) You laid too much info out there and you may being honest. But you're not giving people the option to get to know you for themselves.
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| 5/23/2017 11:26:22 AM |
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lets_get_funky
Killeen, TX
28, joined Feb. 2017
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I'm a 29yr old Caucasian male with tons of mental disorders and a traumatized childhood (my father was very abusive), yet I'm overall a very sweet guy, honestly. I believe very strongly in social justice for women, female empowerment, and traditional Feminist values. I'm looking for a decent relationship that hopefully leads to something meaningful with someone who becomes special to me and grows very close to my heart. White, black, Hispanic, it doesn't matter to me what color you are or what ethnic or national background you come from, though I suspect it would help having someone with similar political views (I voted for Barack Obama twice and Hillary Clinton in 2016 and I am extremely passionate about rights for workers, minorities, women, and LGBT people as well as fighting discrimination and injustice).
My exact address will be released if you get to know me better, but probably not for a very long time. *chuckle* Despite my weight and somewhat frumpy appearance, I'm a rather cuddly guy who hugs his pillow literally every single night dreaming and pretending it's my one true love falling asleep in my arms after a tender night of lovemaking, and I dream of all sorts of touching, hugging, and all the traditional romantic stuff. I hate confrontation, I dislike disorder, and I can get passionate and obsessed about things, perhaps way too much so. Regardless, I do have my own strengths like everyone else does. It's my dream to get married, take my wife's last name, have kids, and tend home, but getting out there will be a bit tough since I've never had a girlfriend and by nature I stay inside and don't go out a lot.
Some of my favorite interests include playing video games, reading books, writing fanfiction, watching animes (my favorite animes include things like Dragon Ball Z, Pokemon, and Fate/Stay Night) and I'm mostly a stay-at-home type person, which I think would help a lot when raising kids. I'm a nineties kid at heart and I look back to the 1990s (my childhood!) with a lot of happiness, remembering those times fondly. If I could go back to any other time in history that would make me the happiest in the world, it would be the nineties. I love cats, and I have four of them living with me, my mom, and my older half-brother (he's 40). Due to my mental disorders, I find that maintaining a steady job is hard, but I have worked, it's just I never finished high school because retaining information happens a lot slower with me and I was a very slow learner growing up (it is very possible I have a learning disability and it's uncertain whether it's autism or some type of personality disorder).
If you decide I'm worth it, I'd love to take it slowly, texting first, then calling, then meeting somewhere in public, and then working together to build a stronger future with one another. What do I have to offer? I will never beat you, never dismiss your concerns and take them seriously, I will talk to you, and hopefully not rush into the sack right away, though I am still a virgin. And if by some cruel act of nature you ended up sexually assaulted, I would not dump you, or toss you to the side, or call you "damaged goods," and I would make damn sure we could get used to making love comfortably again. I will not pressure a woman into making love to me or rushing into marriage, but I admit I can get very impatient because lots of times it feels like it's never going to happen, that I will be alone for the rest of my life. I can be picky when it comes to a partner, though, like how I want someone who does not currently have their own children (I want 'em from scratch), I hate smoking with a passion, and excessively overweight women are a turn-off, though that last one may be hypocritical, but with me at least I would admit that it is hypocrisy since I am not blind to my flaws. I WOULD like to try to do more, to explore more and go out more, and if you feel like that would be worth it, we could go out places together.
I don't drive (I get very nervous driving after getting hit by a car in 2007), but I think I would spare no expense in treating you like a proper lady. That's my greatest asset, I believe. I want to find my significant other to treat like a real woman - not talking down to her, but supporting her, loving her, and attending to her every need, and perhaps nourishing a few of the more traditional values without being sexist, though like I've said, I am inexperienced in matters of love and sex and relationships, and I can be incredibly shy. If you feel in your heart that we could make this work out, then hit me up with a private message or an email! I live in St. Cloud, Minnesota, and I'm hoping to meet someone preferably close by. My email is [email protected] and my Skype username is "Yukaphile." (tagline: "Yuka is love. Yuka is life.") I'll be waiting!
Bro, you lost me at Elliot.
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| 5/23/2017 11:27:45 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
online now!
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Mrs Doubtfire?
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| 5/23/2017 11:34:44 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
online now!
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He likes Anime. SIENNNA! We found you a boyfriend.
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| 5/23/2017 11:38:14 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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He likes Anime. SIENNNA! We found you a boyfriend.
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| 5/23/2017 11:48:45 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
online now!
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Well I like yaoi, big difference
Draw some anime stuff on his chubby big belly. He's be yours forever.
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| 5/23/2017 5:41:45 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Op u got too much going on in your profile, but got the nerve to say u picky when it comes to women while i sip on this tea
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| 5/23/2017 5:46:32 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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I want to be honest, which is what I did in my profile. Though I think I can finally see how you guys might get the wrong impression, but it wasn't really a troll account.
U can be honest when u find somebody, hell u can write a book cause that's your whole life story in one profile nobody needs to know your history, you're not getting a checkup at the doctor
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| 5/23/2017 6:26:08 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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The original response I was going to put down considering I usually just post off the top of my head was....
Yes, a good boyfriend for Scoobs....lol
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| 5/23/2017 8:09:01 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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| 5/23/2017 10:37:03 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Better take her down to the Pub or is it the Press. Isn't the Pub where you go to get drunk and the Press is where you go to dance? If you pay she'll think you're a good boyfriend. If Searles is still around take her there for dinner, you pay of course. It was good the time I ate there.
Searles, that's the place I handed out my FIRST dollar tip! Yes yes yes yes that was about four decades ago.
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| 5/23/2017 10:48:55 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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I think the mental disorders would scare off most women. The women in here don't like competition. Lose some weight, that would help. Traditional feminist values?! Voted for the Commie and Killary? You know Stearns County is basically Republican except for the college. Women, despite being feminist still like a MACHO man. Feminist guys come across as pushovers and effeminate and women hate anything feminine even themselves. If anything you need to be more masculine, not more feminine. A dominatrix could use a guy like you and the college could well be the place to go. Check their societies, they probably have a feminist society there. You make UNDER 25000? That's not going to impress the girls. You need some dough to afford Searles, the Press and enough beer to keep her smiling and she's not going to want to support you if it comes down to that. I really think the abusive childhood and mental disorders would make most women run. Hugging your pillow and pretending it's a babe? FIRST you need to work on yourself before you try to find a babe. She wants a strong, confident man with LOTS of dough. That's why they gravitate toward MACHO, anti-social bad boys. Oh they say they want a feminist nice guy, but they never go out with a guy like that.
Used to live in Sherburne on the campus, 401, 805, 806, 1303. Boy, has it ever changed and not for the better!
GOOD LUCK!
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| 5/23/2017 10:51:56 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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I... don't get it?
Mrs Doubtfire was a movie. Wasn't he dressing like a woman and serving his EX wife as a butler so he could be closer to his kids.
Krista always tried to get me to see that one. No wonder we only went out twice.
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| 5/23/2017 10:54:30 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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U can be honest when u find somebody, hell u can write a book cause that's your whole life story in one profile nobody needs to know your history, you're not getting a checkup at the doctor
In the beginning, yes Packer, but she's going to have to know before very long so she can determine whether she wants to continue in the relationship as opposed to springing it on her six months in. She might feel he was dishonest an that she was wasting her time.
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| 5/23/2017 11:16:12 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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I don't know who those people are, but I'll wait if you want time to see for yourself. I meant what I said, though. I'm not a troll. I just have an unfortunate username that I chose back in 2008.
You've been here longer than I have! I believe someone told me the only way to get a new user name is to create a new profile.
You know you're not in a position to be picky about a woman, but I'd try the college if I were you. It has to be the most liberal place in Saint Cloud. Surely they must have an activities board at Atwood where you can see what is going on or check their website. Lose some weight and get yourself straight. Get a job, even PT if possible. Most babes don't want to support a guy and living independently if possible would help too, but then you need a job and there we go again. Not being able to drive poses a problem too as you'd have to be right on the bus line or working at a place within walking distance from home. Staying at home so much doesn't help. As I well know Ms Right isn't going to come knocking at the door and she won't for you either. Seems to me the college is the place to meet babes though you're a little old for them, the Press and Pub would be good places to meet people. They were hopping when I lived there. If you're on medications though don't be drinking though but   would be good exercise. I never went into the Press after I stepped on that's babe's foot at summer camp. Think up a strategy, make a plan, change it as necessary. Change the things you can and look realistically at what you have to offer and what you can expect to get in return.
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| 5/24/2017 3:34:03 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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In the beginning, yes Packer, but she's going to have to know before very long so she can determine whether she wants to continue in the relationship as opposed to springing it on her six months in. She might feel he was dishonest an that she was wasting her time.
Yes but he advertising it to the whole dh right now in his profile, he can explain himself once he get a date and let her decide for herself
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| 5/24/2017 6:00:16 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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I've never had a girlfriend and by nature I stay inside and don't go out a lot
Hmm... at this point, I would say no due to lack of relationship skills.
It probably would be easier to look for a walking partner or a gym partner.
... or join a meetup group.
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| 5/24/2017 6:24:29 PM |
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rightguyforu602
Lisle, IL
39, joined May. 2017
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Op, im sure u wud dominate some p*ssy.
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| 5/24/2017 7:52:19 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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That's a joke, right? But please be careful, I am very sensitive about my weight issues.
Seriously delete your account while you still have some self esteem left. This site will chew u up and spite you out.
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| 5/25/2017 6:33:08 PM |
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Stopsign_01
Londres
Argentina
25, joined Feb. 2017
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For anyone who's seen my profile, do you guys think I'd be a good boyfriend?
Scoobs??? That you dude
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| 5/25/2017 6:33:28 PM |
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Stopsign_01
Londres
Argentina
25, joined Feb. 2017
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Op, im sure u wud dominate some p*ssy.
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| 5/26/2017 4:53:58 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Seriously delete your account while you still have some self esteem left. This site will chew u up and spite you out.
Picky gets 100 points for honesty and good advice.
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| 5/27/2017 6:14:28 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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She don't, he still here
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| 5/28/2017 8:23:08 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
36, joined Mar. 2013
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For anyone who's seen my profile, do you guys think I'd be a good boyfriend?
You admit to being a Feminist. That means you would be the perfect GIRLFRIEND for the frog, or moobs78....
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| 5/28/2017 9:12:14 PM |
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ToveTheRevolter
Vancouver, WA
29, joined Mar. 2017
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????
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| 5/28/2017 9:33:58 PM |
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rightguyforu642
Lisle, IL
39, joined May. 2017
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^^^^^who is this?
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| 5/29/2017 12:16:34 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
online now!
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My girlfriend
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| 5/29/2017 7:59:33 PM |
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o_w_n_e_d
Beverly Hills, CA
34, joined Apr. 2014
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| 5/29/2017 8:20:22 PM |
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rightguyforu602
Lisle, IL
39, joined May. 2017
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Hey irish
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| 5/29/2017 9:08:45 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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I think you probably would make a good boyfriend. But I think you need to edit your profile a bit. It's not that they aren't things worth knowing, but that while dating you open up to your date and get to know each other over time. Some of those things are things that should be talked about over time spent together.
Being in a relationship and learning about each other's stories happens organically as you get to know one another. It's like you peel each layer to learn what's beneath and the bond between you grows. Knowing all of it from the get-go sort of removes the whole fun of discovery.
For instance, say that your goal is to meet someone, and take time getting to know each other, and that ultimately you'd like a committed relationship that leads to marriage and kids. All the rest, while lovely, might be off-putting when spoken too soon. Let her discover your gentleness, etc.
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