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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
50, joined Mar. 2014
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One Father
Four kids
Two kids are always helping the father with things and spending time with him.
The other two kids see him a couple of times a year (Father's Day, Christmas) and sometimes don't speak to him for up to 8-10 years out of anger.
Father dies
Leaves everything to the two kids he's close to.
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What is your reaction to that?
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| 5/28/2017 7:15:07 PM |
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rightguyforu632
Lisle, IL
39, joined May. 2017
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op my opinion is that ur fatteningly annoying and annoyingly fat.
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| 5/28/2017 7:17:02 PM |
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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Sounds about right to me. If his kids don't have time for him in life, why should he do anything for them in death?
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| 5/28/2017 7:18:20 PM |
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ms_Champagne
AngualastoAustralian Capital
Australia
96, joined Aug. 2016
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Sounds about right to me. If his kids don't have time for him in life, why should he do anything for them in death?
THIS!! ^^^
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| 5/28/2017 7:18:21 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
98, joined Sep. 2015
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I agree Tech.
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| 5/28/2017 7:19:32 PM |
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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
50, joined Mar. 2014
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op my opinion is that ur fatteningly annoying and annoyingly fat.
Awwww thank you! You're so sweet!
Gees, you can always count on Rightguy to pick you up when you're feeling down, huh?
What a gem that one is.
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| 5/28/2017 7:21:17 PM |
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xxxharleyquinn
Års
Denmark
39, joined Apr. 2017
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I would have left them all equal share
When im dead my 2 sons will be divided between equally
I wouldnt want them to argue
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| 5/28/2017 7:22:35 PM |
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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
50, joined Mar. 2014
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Please tell me why HarleyQuinn...
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| 5/28/2017 7:23:27 PM |
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ms_Champagne
AngualastoAustralian Capital
Australia
96, joined Aug. 2016
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Actually similar thing has just recently happened to my sister's mother in law she only left her things (house et all) to two of the kids.. and now there are law suits going... such a pain in the neck... it will take years to finalise it.
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| 5/28/2017 7:24:37 PM |
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xxxharleyquinn
Års
Denmark
39, joined Apr. 2017
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Well if the kids angry its because of something the parent did probably/maybe
So why should they be left out
And why would ya want your children to argue after your dead when they only have each other left then?
I wouldnt want mine to argue
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| 5/28/2017 7:25:50 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
98, joined Sep. 2015
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op my opinion is that ur fatteningly annoying and annoyingly fat.
Why are you always calling women fat? Could it be that you are actually fat and you are trying to feel better by projecting that onto women? Let us see a Real pic of you, so you can prove how Hot that You are.
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| 5/28/2017 7:26:16 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
52, joined Jun. 2012
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I hv no issue with it...
But I wld be curious as to why 2 of them had nothing to do with him.
And in most states this is contestable...
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| 5/28/2017 7:27:26 PM |
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ms_Champagne
AngualastoAustralian Capital
Australia
96, joined Aug. 2016
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Ruby ... rightguy posts pics of himself quite regularly..
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| 5/28/2017 7:27:41 PM |
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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How could there be an argument? If the will is very specific, how can the other kids come forward and say they deserve "their share"?
It's contestable? So a person's dying wishes would not be fulfilled?
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| 5/28/2017 7:28:59 PM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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What's difficult to understand? People leave their stuff to those they like! There are plenty of examples where they disinherited their family and left it to strangers.
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| 5/28/2017 7:29:08 PM |
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ms_Champagne
AngualastoAustralian Capital
Australia
96, joined Aug. 2016
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I hv no issue with it...
But I wld be curious as to why 2 of them had nothing to do with him.
And in most states this is contestable...
Yeah here ti is as well.... the mother in law (of my sister) had 5 kids 3 got nothing... yikes it is going to be in courts for years to come...
I know everything of mine will be split b/w my two boys but both are close to me.
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| 5/28/2017 7:29:44 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
98, joined Sep. 2015
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Ruby ... rightguy posts pics of himself quite regularly..
I am talking about a real pic, not those he stole off the internet.
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| 5/28/2017 7:31:02 PM |
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ms_Champagne
AngualastoAustralian Capital
Australia
96, joined Aug. 2016
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yeah ruby he has been here for years and has always posted pics - updated of himself..
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| 5/28/2017 7:31:28 PM |
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xxxharleyquinn
Års
Denmark
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How could there be an argument? If the will is very specific, how can the other kids come forward and say they deserve "their share"?
It's contestable? So a person's dying wishes would not be fulfilled?
Kids would argue that the parent favoured one over the other.
Why put your own kids in that position in the first place that one may resent the other.
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| 5/28/2017 7:34:20 PM |
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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
50, joined Mar. 2014
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Some people believe that since they are a child that that automatically entitles them to an inheritance. Basically saying, I don't need to try much, I'll get something no matter how I act.
Why is it wrong to take care of those you want to? Why do you have to be forced to give something to all your kids, even the rotten ones?
When I go to a restaurant I don't automatically tip 20%. It's based on the service I receive. So why should the rotten kids and good kids get the same?
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| 5/28/2017 7:34:27 PM |
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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If my parents left me nothing, and the rest, to my brothers and sisters, I wouldn't be mad at them, it's not their fault. I might be upset at my deceased parent, but not my siblings, it wasn't their decision
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| 5/28/2017 7:37:43 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
98, joined Sep. 2015
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Some people believe that since they are a child that that automatically entitles them to an inheritance. Basically saying, I don't need to try much, I'll get something no matter how I act.
Why is it wrong to take care of those you want to? Why do you have to be forced to give something to all your kids, even the rotten ones?
When I go to a restaurant I don't automatically tip 20%. It's based on the service I receive. So why should the rotten kids and good kids get the same?
Exactly.
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| 5/28/2017 7:47:00 PM |
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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. Basically saying, I don't need to try much, I'll get something no matter how I act.
I hope a child wouldn't think like that. Meaning---A child shouldn't think they have to try to be nice to their parent, just to be in their inheritance. They should be nice to their parent because they want to. Not because they have a hidden agenda.
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| 5/28/2017 8:02:45 PM |
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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
50, joined Mar. 2014
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Do you think it's fair that those children that received something be harrassed in the most nastiest of ways if they don't give some up to the ones who didn't get anything?
The kids who want to keep their inheritance are being called greedy by the ones who didn't receive anything. However, I think it's the other way around. To harrass and belittle and threaten lawsuits, that to me is the one being greedy.
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| 5/28/2017 8:05:33 PM |
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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The kids who want to keep their inheritance are being called greedy by the ones who didn't receive anything. However, I think it's the other way around. To harrass and belittle and threaten lawsuits, that to me is the one being greedy.
We don't agree often, but we do on this one
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| 5/28/2017 8:06:18 PM |
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
98, joined Jun. 2013
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One Father
Four kids
Two kids are always helping the father with things and spending time with him.
The other two kids see him a couple of times a year (Father's Day, Christmas) and sometimes don't speak to him for up to 8-10 years out of anger.
Father dies
Leaves everything to the two kids he's close to.
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What is your reaction to that?
Sounds about right. I can see a case being made for it all should have been left to them all...but on the other hand there is nothing wrong with leaving it to the kids he had an established relationship with...What's the guy supposed to have done? He didnt know if the other kids wanted anything or not....
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| 5/28/2017 8:09:29 PM |
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pento4
Norman, OK
48, joined Mar. 2017
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my opinion is,,its his damn money he can do what he wants with it.
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| 5/28/2017 8:09:36 PM |
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
51, joined Apr. 2013
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Kids would argue that the parent favoured one over the other.
Why put your own kids in that position in the first place that one may resent the other.
And why shouldn't the father favor those two who helped him and spent time with him???
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| 5/28/2017 8:10:17 PM |
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korbyn
Bat Cave, NC
98, joined Jun. 2013
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Nothing really wrong with what the guy did.
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| 5/28/2017 8:11:14 PM |
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__h_
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Nov. 2016
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One Father
Four kids
Two kids are always helping the father with things and spending time with him.
The other two kids see him a couple of times a year (Father's Day, Christmas) and sometimes don't speak to him for up to 8-10 years out of anger.
Father dies
Leaves everything to the two kids he's close to.
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What is your reaction to that?
I wonder why the kids who rarely see & speak to that father don't have much to do with him. Is it a legitimate reason? If not & they didn't want to have much to do with their father, they certainly shouldn't receive anything of his after he died.
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| 5/28/2017 8:18:14 PM |
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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
50, joined Mar. 2014
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We don't agree often, but we do on this one
Tech, they are acting so badly that even if you were considering giving them some because you felt bad that they were left out, they make you so angry with all their talk of greed and lawsuits, that why would you want to?
They've even brought God in, to properly shame us.
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| 5/28/2017 8:33:58 PM |
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Mercedes_3
New South Wales
Australia
89, joined Jun. 2016
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Sounds about right to me. If his kids don't have time for him in life, why should he do anything for them in death?
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| 5/28/2017 8:34:58 PM |
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
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| 5/28/2017 8:39:56 PM |
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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Tech, they are acting so badly that even if you were considering giving them some because you felt bad that they were left out, they make you so angry with all their talk of greed and lawsuits, that why would you want to?
They've even brought God in, to properly shame us.
Fairy,
Money makes people do strange things, some of it very nasty. Heck people kill each other over money. Kids kill their parents, just for the inheritance, insurance, etc.
You are correct, they are being greedy. If they were harassing me, I wouldn't take their calls or correspond with them period! When they quit throwing a tantrum, I would slowly let them back in my life, but I'd probably always wonder about their motives.
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| 5/28/2017 9:02:50 PM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
65, joined Jul. 2010
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I have 4 kids, 3 daughters and a son, I am leaving everything to my son. My daughters have received help in various forms over the years, my son has basically put his life on hold to care for me, I view it as payment for services rendered.
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| 5/28/2017 9:04:52 PM |
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Watties
Vicksburg, MS
30, joined Nov. 2016
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Sounds about right to me. If his kids don't have time for him in life, why should he do anything for them in death?
Truth.
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| 5/28/2017 9:05:18 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
52, joined Jun. 2012
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How could there be an argument? If the will is very specific, how can the other kids come forward and say they deserve "their share"?
It's contestable? So a person's dying wishes would not be fulfilled?
I believe they hv to leave something to all heirs...not equal something...but something...
Or the heirs can contest the will.
At times the "favored" hv schemed to be the favored..
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| 5/28/2017 9:09:48 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
52, joined Jun. 2012
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I have 4 kids, 3 daughters and a son, I am leaving everything to my son. My daughters have received help in various forms over the years, my son has basically put his life on hold to care for me, I view it as payment for services rendered.
Set up a living trust..place their names on everything..then they already own it...
No estate taxes..no $$ to tge Feds nor state...
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| 5/28/2017 9:10:33 PM |
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rubyrose2015
Seagrove, NC
98, joined Sep. 2015
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Your stuff is your stuff, you do not have to leave it to any of your heirs.
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| 5/28/2017 9:10:39 PM |
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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At times the "favored" hv schemed to be the favored..
I guess my mind just doesn't think like that. I know people have ill intentions in this world, just surprises me that it can be contested! Wow what a mess that would be
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| 5/28/2017 9:28:32 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
52, joined Jun. 2012
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I guess my mind just doesn't think like that. I know people have ill intentions in this world, just surprises me that it can be contested! Wow what a mess that would be
Ppl kill for money...not much surprises me anymore..swear
But the laws vary in each state...
Ruby..better leave it to someone...or the state gets it...
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| 5/28/2017 10:01:32 PM |
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uber_goober
Danielsville, GA
51, joined May. 2016
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One Father
Four kids
Two kids are always helping the father with things and spending time with him.
The other two kids see him a couple of times a year (Father's Day, Christmas) and sometimes don't speak to him for up to 8-10 years out of anger.
Father dies
Leaves everything to the two kids he's close to.
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What is your reaction to that?
Makes perfect sense to me. A person should have the final say as to the distribution of what they have accumulated during their life before they leave this mortal coil.
I'm the younger of a two sibling family. Though the money was distributed evenly, the property was not. My brother received the much larger share of the family silver, jewelry, art and other items of family significance. It has always been done that way in my family as it has in many other families. The eldest gets the lion's share. It has always made sense to me. I never batted an eye. And we were both devoted to our mother and father.
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| 5/28/2017 10:10:00 PM |
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fairymaiden
Bristol, CT
50, joined Mar. 2014
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I have 4 kids, 3 daughters and a son, I am leaving everything to my son. My daughters have received help in various forms over the years, my son has basically put his life on hold to care for me, I view it as payment for services rendered.
Are your daughters aware of that? If not, you might want to let them know so it doesn't come as a surprise.
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| 5/28/2017 10:12:26 PM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
99, joined May. 2016
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It's his stuff and he can do as he chooses....I don't blame him one bit for leaving the other kids out....
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| 5/28/2017 10:21:25 PM |
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xxxharleyquinn
Års
Denmark
39, joined Apr. 2017
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And why shouldn't the father favor those two who helped him and spent time with him???
I just dont think one kid should be favoured over another at all.
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| 5/28/2017 10:36:12 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
52, joined Jun. 2012
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My parents just redid their will..
All 3 of us are equal partners...one step sis..one brother and I. As far as personal belongings..I only want my art back...one ring that was my grandmothers...and some pics..
They can hv the rest...
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| 5/28/2017 10:43:14 PM |
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scoobs78
Kansas City, MO
39, joined Jun. 2013
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Make sure ur kids are taken care of and they take care of mom n dad sounds like a good way to do things!
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| 5/28/2017 10:45:30 PM |
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Suzhi
Knoxville, TN
54, joined Aug. 2016
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 5/28/2017 11:25:44 PM |
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pento4
Norman, OK
48, joined Mar. 2017
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My grandpa did something like this,,,He moved his family from West Virginia in 55 to San Jose Ca.. They were super poor. He did odd jobs until he had saved enough to get a loan for a couple tractors. Then he went to work digging foundations for housing tracts. He hit it big time, A right place at the right time thing. The housing boom was just starting and he cashed in. & spent the next 30 years working his a** off and raking in the cash,,,,,after he retired and got old the wolves started circling, everybody wanted a piece of the pie. Everybody friends and family started kissing his a** thinking they were going to get their piece.....aaaaah but he smelled the wolves and was well aware of them sniffing around,,so outsmarted everybody, when he died in his will it was ordered EVERYTHING be liquidated into cash and it was to be divided equal between his 5 children,,,NOBODY GOT SHIT except his kids,,,he had a living brother and sister, didnt get shit,,us 15 grand kids, didnt even kick us a 100, not shit for us, all the hangers on,,nothing and it was iron clad nobody could do shit about it. He explained his reasoning in the will,,rather than itemize everything and say who got what or not itemize and his kids fight over stuff,,f**k it, liquidate it into cash and split the cash. The reason he gave was "I got 5 kids, its my responsibility to make sure my kids are taken care of, the grand kids can get a cut when their parents die if anything is left, not my problem" everybody was pissed, everybody thought they were going to get some of his pie and he told em all from the grave to "piss off",,,,,Bwaaaaahhhhaaaahhhaaa i was pissed for about 5 min. but the more i thought about it the more i thought "hell yeah paw-paw that is how you kick the wolves and a** kissers in the teeth,,,,,my dad died 5 years ago (15 years after his dad died) and my cut (1/5 i have 4 brothers) after my dad pretty much pissed his away came to 42k
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| 5/28/2017 11:59:09 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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I think it is entirely justified, but he had to more than suspect that the other kids would contest the will to get share of his money if only just to spite him in death.
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| 5/29/2017 12:04:02 AM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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In my father's will I get a half interest in the house where I live. There will probably be no money involved as he's terrible with money, but hopefully there will be enough to pay his bills, but I doubt it. He'll leave enough for a proper burial.
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| 5/29/2017 12:12:12 AM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007
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Yeah here ti is as well.... the mother in law (of my sister) had 5 kids 3 got nothing... yikes it is going to be in courts for years to come...
I know everything of mine will be split b/w my two boys but both are close to me.
Do you mean that I get nothing after all that I've done for you?
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| 5/29/2017 12:14:06 AM |
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rightguyforu642
Lisle, IL
39, joined May. 2017
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Ruby ... rightguy posts pics of himself quite regularly..
Ruby is stupid
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| 5/29/2017 2:34:21 AM |
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scoobs78
Kansas City, MO
39, joined Jun. 2013
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No she's not Matt geebus christ. how come u n cherrie are no longer together again? 
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| 5/29/2017 4:10:25 AM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
66, joined Sep. 2011
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Sounds about right to me. If his kids don't have time for him in life, why should he do anything for them in death?[/quote
this.... forsure... Morning Tech and Maiden. 
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| 5/29/2017 6:57:58 AM |
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
51, joined Apr. 2013
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I just dont think one kid should be favoured over another at all.
Pleas explain why not?
Kids shouldn't do anything for their parents in hopes for getting more after they die.
But if ones does more then the others, to me it shows that kid loves them more.
So it's only natural that over time the parent feel more loves for that kid.
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| 5/29/2017 7:38:14 AM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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My oldest daughter is very much different than I am. She has a family and I gave her a house anyway. Probably giving everything else to my 2 other kids. My son does more to help me than she does.
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| 5/29/2017 8:28:06 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
61, joined Mar. 2014
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One Father
Four kids
Two kids are always helping the father with things and spending time with him.
The other two kids see him a couple of times a year (Father's Day, Christmas) and sometimes don't speak to him for up to 8-10 years out of anger.
Father dies
Leaves everything to the two kids he's close to.
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What is your reaction to that?
It shouldn't make any difference to any of the kids what he does with his stuff when he leaves this world. It's not your stuff.
nobody is entitled to it no matter how good or close they were to him.
the bottom line is its his stuff not yours and if his choice was to give it all to charity he should do that.
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| 5/29/2017 12:13:35 PM |
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xxxharleyquinn
Års
Denmark
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Pleas explain why not?
Kids shouldn't do anything for their parents in hopes for getting more after they die.
But if ones does more then the others, to me it shows that kid loves them more.
So it's only natural that over time the parent feel more loves for that kid.
Love for you child is unconditional
It dont matter what they do or dont do
It dont change
Therefore all your children should be favoured equally
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| 5/29/2017 12:15:36 PM |
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tellitlkittis
Los Angeles, CA
63, joined Nov. 2012
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Just as it should be.
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