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ronniejoe11967
Tulsa, OK
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Im so tired of being lied to and cheated on. Is there not one faithful woman in the world?
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6/11/2017 10:25:56 AM |
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inkedandsassyy
Victoria
Australia
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Yep there is ....
There are plenty ...Obviously you are looking for the wrong type of women ..
Its who we choose in life ..... try picking better mate
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6/11/2017 10:35:26 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Im so tired of being lied to and cheated on. Is there not one faithful woman in the world?
There might be but they are all in relationships or not looking for men.
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6/11/2017 10:58:48 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
New South Wales
Australia
25, joined Jan. 2016
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Are cats even real or
Is this the real life?
Is this just fantasy?
Caught in a landslide,
No escape from reality.
Open your eyes,
Look up to the skies and see.....
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6/11/2017 11:20:20 AM |
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inkedandsassyy
Victoria
Australia
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Are cats even real or
Is this the real life?
Is this just fantasy?
Caught in a landslide,
No escape from reality.
Open your eyes,
Look up to the skies and see.....
lol love those lyrics
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6/11/2017 12:10:57 PM |
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stratus55
Jackson, GA
52, joined Jan. 2017
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right i ben listening to them since about 1976 at 21 years old or so.over an over...........
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6/11/2017 12:12:32 PM |
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anglicus_femina
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined May. 2016
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In theory forever is an illusion because we all die.
Well I am sorry you are lied to and cheated on.
Yup always being faithfull but I'm not interested in dating. I can't speak for anyone else.
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6/11/2017 12:15:06 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Im so tired of being lied to and cheated on. Is there not one faithful woman in the world?
Yes! Just not in the United Snakes like that. Good women in the United Snakes are outnumbered 200/1. So if u EVER DID meet one she's either too far away, already with someone or you might not meet her standards.
Which could be based on a multitude of things.
Stop looking among american women and your chances of meeting a loyal, loving, respectful, honorable, decent woman who knows her place will increase by a factor of 90.
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6/11/2017 2:15:20 PM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
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I'd go after this concern differently.
What I think you want, and what I also want, is a mate who actually wants to BE my mate. What I keep finding, are people who treat the world like a carnival, and they want to take a fun ride with someone. As soon as the ride gets boring, or they realize they have to work at it, they decide to get off and find another ride.
In other words, I'd say I'm looking for someone who ACTUALLY knows what commitment means. Too many people think it means that they really really want to have a good time, and they think you can provide that, so they are willing to behave as though they care about you until such time as they stop having fun. And then they blame that lack of fun on you.
The better ones let you know that they've decided to move on BEFORE they actually do.
To answer the meaning behind the title question, I would say yes. I have known many people who were honorable and caring and who lived their marriages entirely according to the classic vows. I just haven't had someone like that choose me, yet.
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6/11/2017 2:16:55 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Yep there is ....
There are plenty ...Obviously you are looking for the wrong type of women ..
Its who we choose in life ..... try picking better mate
I'm sorry sugar but this is a got damn "Copout!"
THE WRONG TYPE!?!? What IS his type? What's NOT his type? Where has he been looking? Tell us about the females he's date? Tell us what they cheated? Tell us what red flags they showed that he didn't see or ignored? YOU SEE MY POINT??
My point is... Anytime a woman refuses to acknowledge a major problem with female population in this country they ALWAYS find a way of "Flipping it all back" on the man being victimized by feminine ratchetness.
Now if I'm wrong (and I'm sure you'll say I am) then YOU tell OP exactly where to look and who to ask for. Or introduce him to "The Right Type" YOURSELF since you seem to know MORE about what makes HIM happy than HE does.
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6/11/2017 2:26:35 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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In theory forever is an illusion because we all die.
Do you REALLY THINK when OP said "forever that he was thinking that he and a woman would get together and never pass away??
That being with a woman or in a loving committed relationship would give immortality or makes Gods who would physical live forever?
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6/11/2017 2:53:32 PM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
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Yes some of us take longer to find it than others.
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6/11/2017 3:00:05 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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I'd go after this concern differently.
What I think you want, and what I also want, is a mate who actually wants to BE my mate. What I keep finding, are people who treat the world like a carnival, and they want to take a fun ride with someone. As soon as the ride gets boring, or they realize they have to work at it, they decide to get off and find another ride.
In other words, I'd say I'm looking for someone who ACTUALLY knows what commitment means. Too many people think it means that they really really want to have a good time, and they think you can provide that, so they are willing to behave as though they care about you until such time as they stop having fun. And then they blame that lack of fun on you.
The better ones let you know that they've decided to move on BEFORE they actually do.
To answer the meaning behind the title question, I would say yes. I have known many people who were honorable and caring and who lived their marriages entirely according to the classic vows. I just haven't had someone like that choose me, yet.
Thanks for sharing your life story. But I'm not AT ALL shocked or surprised that you've been treated like the boot licking, a** sniffing mangina that you really are.
Bcuz according to you women can do NO WRONG in your eyes. U until it's being done to you I see.
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6/11/2017 3:10:19 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Ok op, u couldn't keep your girl forever because of the lies she told and the cheating she did, so u should be glad u found her out
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6/11/2017 5:21:02 PM |
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milliannoe
Greensboro, NC
26, joined Feb. 2012
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Just don't believe in it anymore
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6/11/2017 5:48:11 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Yep...and sometimes its not a bad idea to advertise for exactly what it is we seek too.
Or else...gee, someone could get the wrong idea.
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6/11/2017 5:51:46 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Here's the thing about the op people.
Sure, there are some good women around, mixed in with what isn't.
The thing is, if you turn over 100 rocks and under 82 of those rocks were rattles snakes.
It sure makes you very apprehensive about turning over anymore rocks.
The other thing is...you have to look at this from his or a mans perspective....not a woman's perspective of women. Because that what matters in this case...and the reverse is true, if it was a woman asking this question.
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6/12/2017 1:45:51 AM |
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inkedandsassyy
Victoria
Australia
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Dr got no answer ...its not a cop out
we all need to learn to read people better
yes you trust people to do the right thing ...but at the end of the day we choose these low individuals ... so we do have to try and make better choices. . When all said and done we have choices sometimes we make bad ones ..goes for men and women
I know I have made the worst choices in men ...I am the first to admit to it ..
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6/12/2017 1:50:01 AM |
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orchid1973
Rome
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6/12/2017 2:24:41 AM |
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track_empirion
Pineville, NC
50, joined Mar. 2014
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Just don't believe in it anymore
Speaking of things being real..........
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6/12/2017 3:55:51 AM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
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It could be one person in the relationship stops taking care of themselves and becomes a couch potato. Being worthy of a relationship shouldn't end with I do.
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6/12/2017 6:57:36 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Yep....or they just can't chance it being another bad one...as I referred to in my comment about the 100 rocks.
But you are correct too...Its funny though....because a truly good one, is an honest person too and won't always tell you what you want to hear.
But, because of the way they are or have become, they go after the ones who tell them, everything they want to hear....because they need that now or always have.
and the viscous cycle continues....with getting with the wrong ones, who look good, because of the bullshit words.
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6/12/2017 7:52:30 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
50, joined Feb. 2017
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What in god's name...
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6/12/2017 7:59:32 AM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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So what she is busty. I wish I had boobs like that.
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6/12/2017 8:07:39 AM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
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As someone who doesn't want to live forever, it seems real as hell.
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6/12/2017 8:47:04 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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So what she is busty. I wish I had boobs like that.
I didn't mention her boobs...
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6/12/2017 9:24:26 AM |
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track_empirion
Pineville, NC
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6/12/2017 10:01:03 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
62, joined Mar. 2014
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Im so tired of being lied to and cheated on. Is there not one faithful woman in the world?
not if you believe there isn't.
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6/12/2017 10:42:48 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
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Im so tired of being lied to and cheated on.
Get use to it, as there are very few women that will not do that.
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6/12/2017 10:49:56 AM |
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inkedandsassyy
Victoria
Australia
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Get use to it, as there are very few women that will not do that.
There are a lot of women that wont ... just as there are a lot of men that wont .... There are good people in this world .... The saying is we seem to attract what we think we deserve .... Maybe its our own patterns we have to change to attract the good ones
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6/12/2017 10:51:49 AM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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There are a lot of women that wont ... just as there are a lot of men that wont .... There are good people in this world .... The saying is we seem to attract what we think we deserve .... Maybe its our own patterns we have to change to attract the good ones
It's impossible to know which ones are which though. A person simply saying "Well I don't cheat" is about as useful as a eunuch at an orgy.
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6/12/2017 11:02:47 AM |
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inkedandsassyy
Victoria
Australia
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It's impossible to know which ones are which though. A person simply saying "Well I don't cheat" is about as useful as a eunuch at an orgy.
After you know someone for awhile you can tell their personality
its not about just listening to them its about really looking at the type of person they are or have been in the past .... Never take anything at face value
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6/12/2017 11:03:42 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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In theory forever is an illusion because we all die.
Well I am sorry you are lied to and cheated on.
Yup always being faithfull but I'm not interested in dating. I can't speak for anyone else.
True, in theory, forever means forever--'til the end of time. But in practice, forever means until the end of your days. When my husband died, I was mad because we didn't get "forever", but you know, actually he did. He loved me for his forever. And even though I found new love, I will still love him forever.
I'm sorry, OP, you have found no one who is faithful to you, but there are many faithful people out there. You've got to ask yourself if your criteria is really about honesty and fidelity. Or is it about some other qualities, attributes, and characteristics that attract you and blind you to character.
A lot of people say that a person is driven to cheat and lie by the actions of their mate. I don't know if I buy that but it's something to consider about yourself.
Take some time to analyze what happened, why it happened, and what changes need to happen within yourself, be that to be more discerning or to be more open in your criteria, and then act on what you've discovered about yourself and your wants. Be very honest with yourself when doing this.
It isn't about lamenting about how others act, but figuring out how to find your forever.
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6/12/2017 11:15:17 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
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A lot of people say that a person is driven to cheat and lie by the actions of their mate.
Blaming the person that was cheated on for their partners cheating, but then again MOST(not all) women will blame men for cheating that happens to then.
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6/12/2017 11:25:54 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
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Not fair to quote only part of that statement, Cavie.
I don't necessarily believe that a person is driven to cheat. I think it relates back to personal integrity. However, I do think sometimes a person's actions will force an issue to arise or force an undesired outcome.
Character has nothing to do with gender, either, Cavie.
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6/12/2017 11:50:22 AM |
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anglicus_femina
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
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Not fair to quote only part of that statement, Cavie.
I don't necessarily believe that a person is driven to cheat. I think it relates back to personal integrity. However, I do think sometimes a person's actions will force an issue to arise or force an undesired outcome.
Character has nothing to do with gender, either, Cavie.
I agree it's a character flaw.
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6/12/2017 1:13:21 PM |
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rightguyforu602
Lisle, IL
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Just don't believe in it anymore
Just take off ur clothes.
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6/12/2017 1:14:59 PM |
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rightguyforu602
Lisle, IL
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Ok op, u couldn't keep your girl forever because of the lies she told and the cheating she did, so u should be glad u found her out
Ur that type of woman arent u sheila?
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6/12/2017 1:24:13 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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If I found one for you OP, how much will you pay me for her?
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6/12/2017 1:42:38 PM |
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stratus55
Jackson, GA
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dont ever say yup..rachael...its yep...unless your a seal or walrus....
listen to me,an get outta that flat hunny..an you,ll go far...
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6/12/2017 3:08:01 PM |
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pickygirl72
Picher, OK
47, joined Sep. 2011
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Im so tired of being lied to and cheated on. Is there not one faithful woman in the world?
You need to look at your own life and see what you really want out of it and go find a woman that wants the same. Review together your goals, hobbies, wants and needs with a gal before getting too involved. Are you sexually compatible?
How does your personalities click?
A lot goes into a relationship and not just if your pen!s fits in her v@gins. And still that doesn't keep them home.
Do not give up or the very least do not through in the towel just yet. Go live your life and hopefully good things will happen.
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6/12/2017 3:37:00 PM |
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orchid1973
Rome
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Its funny though....because a truly good one, is an honest person too and won't always tell you what you want to hear.
But, because of the way they are or have become, they go after the ones who tell them, everything they want to hear....because they need that now or always have.
and the viscous cycle continues....with getting with the wrong ones, who look good, because of the bullshit words.
I do agree with this.
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6/12/2017 3:54:53 PM |
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Olaf_the_german
Houston, TX
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After you know someone for awhile you can tell their personality
yeah that's not true in every case either..The green River killers wife was clueless to the fact he was the green river killer...same for many many people who had no clue their partner was lying/stealing/cheating/killing behind their back.
..nice fairy tale but that's all it is. You can be with someone 50yrs and not know their darkest secrets.
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6/12/2017 4:25:37 PM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
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I'll see you tomorrow, Beanz.
Actually, I'll read what you have to type tomorrow. Olaf can be such a literal bastard at times.
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6/12/2017 4:34:15 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Ur that type of woman arent u sheila?
Why? Cause i didn't give you a chance
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6/12/2017 7:59:11 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
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I think even good people who know better fall into temptation.
That's just how it goes.
Sometimes you get signs that someone might not be faithful.
Sometimes you don't.
My ex was a cheater.
However, he's not necessarily a bad person... just human.
Unfortunately, at the time I couldn't forgive him for the betrayal. So, I let him go.
He's currently in a great relationship with someone else...with a VERY pretty woman
...and he seems to be a changed man from the time that I knew him.
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6/12/2017 8:05:39 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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No, there isn't!
When YOU cheat you're a bleeping bleeping bleeper.
When SHE cheats, it's your tough luck.
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6/12/2017 8:26:34 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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Just don't believe in it anymore
I know I don't believe in romantic love. I completely gave up on women in 1983!
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6/12/2017 8:29:42 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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I think even good people who know better fall into temptation.
That's just how it goes.
Sometimes you get signs that someone might not be faithful.
Sometimes you don't.
My ex was a cheater.
However, he's not necessarily a bad person... just human.
Unfortunately, at the time I couldn't forgive him for the betrayal. So, I let him go.
He's currently in a great relationship with someone else...with a VERY pretty woman
...and he seems to be a changed man from the time that I knew him.
Not the SOB you thought he was? Obviously the babe brought something out in him that you couldn't. She might have more time to spend with him, spoil him a little. If a man doesn't like what his life is like at home then he is much more likely to cheat. But what kind of foundation can a relationship have when you love him and then a minute later feel nothing? You're making sure the relationship will fail whether you're married to the poor guy or not.
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6/12/2017 8:42:12 PM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
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The only thing that is real is the now...the past is gone and no longer exists and neither does the future because it isn't here yet...so no forever doesn't exist either....
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6/12/2017 9:03:47 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
51, joined Jun. 2013
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Obviously the babe brought something out in him that you couldn't.
He likes kids. I wasn't able to have children.
She has 3 of them.
Plus, she's 6 foot and blonde.
I'm just sort of cute.
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6/12/2017 10:25:25 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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Once you're married it only seems like forever until the divorce.
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6/12/2017 10:29:36 PM |
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001snatch
Marysville, WA
57, joined Aug. 2013
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Hang in there forever is real.
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6/12/2017 11:53:12 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
37, joined Mar. 2013
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Im so tired of being lied to and cheated on. Is there not one faithful woman in the world?
Look, I don't want to have to be the one to tell you this, but in short:
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
There is NOT a single woman, on this entire PLANET, that doesn't LIE.
And if you want one that doesn't cheat, I suggest you buy one from Russia
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6/12/2017 11:56:14 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
37, joined Mar. 2013
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Do you REALLY THINK when OP said "forever that he was thinking that he and a woman would get together and never pass away??
That being with a woman or in a loving committed relationship would give immortality or makes Gods who would physical live forever? Hey, Doc. For once, she didn't pull the "copout" routine(like she used to in the past)..
So, give her a tiny little break, just this once?
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6/13/2017 12:02:30 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
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He likes kids. I wasn't able to have children.
She has 3 of them.
Plus, she's 6 foot and blonde.
I'm just sort of cute. Eh, your not so bad, Lucky.
Somebody will see the real value in you. I have faith.
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6/13/2017 12:04:17 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
37, joined Mar. 2013
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Hang in there forever is real, if your bank account is large enough to support me.
Fixed.
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6/13/2017 12:11:55 AM |
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001snatch
Marysville, WA
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Ha ha i can support myself just great.
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6/13/2017 5:17:15 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Well..."forever" is subjective.
Its not forever, unless there you are there on your dying bed and they are there beside you when you depart from this world or vice versa.
until then...its not forever yet.
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6/13/2017 5:19:17 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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What in god's name...
didn't you read what she said?
This is someone advertising for someone who will be there forever.....
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