| 11/23/2007 10:15:31 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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slowhand1843
Orangeburg, SC
age: 51
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If your mate is terminaly ill for an extended period of time, is it ok to date?
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| 11/23/2007 10:17:04 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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F*CK NO!!!!
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| 11/23/2007 10:18:26 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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thepkk
Springfield, MO
age: 52
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Sorry because you are good looking, but I would hope my mate would stand by me for however long it took. I would be so hurt if he was dateing.
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| 11/23/2007 10:21:33 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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slowhand...how would you feel if YOU were slowly dieing?
Since she can't take care of your needs it's time to move on?
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| 11/23/2007 10:22:11 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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What happened to the vow ... til death do us part??? I'd probably die from a broken heart knowing that my so-called spouse was dating while I was still breathing 
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| 11/23/2007 10:23:26 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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libra75
Lowell, AR
age: 32
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NO! 
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| 11/23/2007 10:25:53 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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nonickname49
Belchertown, MA
age: 58
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true complete love is giving greater than oneself...for me
love is til death do us part....but its not for me to judge
you need to look deep within yourself...and make the judgement
call...not seek it from others jmho
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| 11/23/2007 10:26:23 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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You started this, where are ya? Give your best shot...
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| 11/23/2007 10:27:00 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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slowhand1843
Orangeburg, SC
age: 51
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I understand and respect both of your responces, but I am a fairly young man who has been dealing with this almost 3 years. I have never dated since she has been ill, but am thinking I need more emotions than just sitting here watching her decline. Life can be so empty when there is no outside life. I am actually sorry I posted this. It should have remained within me to deal with.
I would wish this on no one.
I hope you both can understand
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| 11/23/2007 10:28:05 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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firestarter1966
Bellingham, WA
age: 41
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No it`s not okay.
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| 11/23/2007 10:34:36 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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rnbean04
Suisun City, CA
age: 31
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are you dating for sex or companionship? cuz having female friends would be okay. i mean I'm a nurse and I see how sometimes that person is not really even in there anymore, just b/c their body is still functioning, just barely. I think if I were in ur shoes I would want some companionship but sex would be the last thing on my mind for sure. some one to talk to about feelings about what ur dealing with though is almost needed.
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| 11/23/2007 10:36:18 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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mbean...I agree. Dating doesn't sound like he's looking for conversation to me.
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| 11/23/2007 10:36:51 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Get a divorce. I certainly wouldn't want a man around who is already on the prowl.
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| 11/23/2007 10:39:09 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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Now ya went and made me feel bad....
I just don't see how dating is going to make you feel better. The companionship on here will help.
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| 11/23/2007 10:58:55 PM |
is it ok to date if your partner is terminally ill |
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yankeeluvspeach
Athens, GA
age: 29
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what does your mate say about it? Talk to her about it. Too often we avoid talking about things because we think it will be awkward or painful. Nothing is more painful than silence.
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