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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Lisa....don't say his name...it is like the Candyman.......no no no
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
94, joined Dec. 2011
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Noooooooooooooooo, Lisa, don't even think it!!!!
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lisaorchid
Roanoke, VA
28, joined Jun. 2013
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sorry my lips are sealed. They know who they are though
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
47, joined Jul. 2013
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Bwahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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We already got the block...unblock cause he wasn't getting any attention........oh helllllllllllll no bby
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lisaorchid
Roanoke, VA
28, joined Jun. 2013
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Yeah I notice he unblocked us real quick.
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013
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or some of us are say a tad younger and not working six days a week... we did a morning ride and breakfast and now he's
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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May I ask this ppl ?
Are we saying that if you are not pursuing love........wanting a romantic kind of love, one is wasting their life ?
And Hellooooooooooooooooo everyone eyes. No I dont think its wasting a life. We all make decisions on what we want/need based on our own experiences. When I reflect on things that didn't go how I expected I say "sour grapes" Its my self protection. My parents would read stories to us kids. And I remember thinking I'd give that fox some grapes. As an adult I have a whole new understanding of that little parable. So now when I'm the fox and I cant have what I desire I think "sour grapes anyway".
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Niceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Rose
So you rode him to sleep...........?
Okay...that was all wrong but damn girl....that had blinking lights...railroad signs etc.....
I couldn't resist
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3/15/2015 3:38:15 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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I so understand.........
The problem I have with the whole...people are telling themselves what they want to think scenario ?
I could be in a relationship in about 2 days if I chose to........I cld be dating in a few hours........if I chose to........
So could all of us...........if we chose to it isn't rocket science nor is it difficult to do...........
To imply or suggest that ALL who chose not to........are telling themselves bs to cope with the situation .........is arrogant.
To suggest...again arrogantly as fk....that these ppl have given up ? Is pure arrogance.
To suggest that ppl who have let go of something to focus on something else ? Are really letting go because they didn't have a prayer of having it to begin with because no one wanted them ?
What level of self righteous bullshit is that ?
Look, I don't have to try bungee jumping to know I don't like it.
I don't have to try jumping out of a perfectly good airplane to know I don't want to....
I don't have to light myself on fire to know I won't like it.......
I don't have to force myself into another relationship to know I don't want to sacrifice...compromise....have endless discussions.....about the same bs to know I really don't want one.
Some humans are not meant for this stuff............and I am one of them. I never was, but I followed the words of arrogance........arrogance that spoke of what was good for me...what I wanted...needed and should desire.
I am done with listening to others tell me what I want because it is what they want.....projecting their values..onto me.
Everyone should seek what they desire........and it isn't going to be the same thing
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013
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Niceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Rose
So you rode him to sleep...........?
Okay...that was all wrong but damn girl....that had blinking lights...railroad signs etc.....
I couldn't resist
motorcycle ride
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3/15/2015 4:14:48 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Somebody blocked you lady's then unblocked you? Guess you made them mad and they got over it.
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3/15/2015 4:20:31 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Rose
Sky...he wasn't getting any attention ...thought if he unblocked he wld...
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3/15/2015 4:29:00 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Poor fella. How's the weather down in Texas? It's been unseasonably warm here.
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
42, joined Sep. 2010
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Chris, I was asking because a lil bit ago...some serious arrogant , self righteous bs stepped onto my thread.....and it wasn't Gree's post btw.
I find it amazing when others tell me how I think....what I want.....how I live....what drives me.......and I tell myself bs.......when they don't know a damn thing about me ...
Ah, I see
I thought it was a response to my serious, arrogant, self-righteous B.S., but I couldn't figure out how it related to what I said - my reaction was a bit of "hey, I didn't say that...."
I've got enough posters blocked these days (usually for being tediously and repetitively angry all the time) that I really need to start assuming that replies that seem like non-sequiturs are in response to people I can't see.
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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No no no Chris...it was to another human.
Not a troll but becoming a bit...well trollish
And Sky it is gorgeous here..........windows open.....airing things out....got the bleach out cleaning..........
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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my mom always bleaches her kitchen floor. Burns my nostrils.
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max811
Palmetto, FL
34, joined Aug. 2010
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I think the forums just make it seem like people aren't dating or don't want to date.I haven't noticed any lack of couples when I'm out and about in my daily life.I think the forums here just actually bring to lite how many people there are out there that just suck at dating.
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
42, joined Sep. 2010
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I think the forums just make it seem like people aren't dating or don't want to date.I haven't noticed any lack of couples when I'm out and about in my daily life.I think the forums here just actually bring to lite how many people there are out there that just suck at dating.
That's a fair assessment, I think.
And a lot of the "people" are often extra profiles of the same person - seems like the biggest complainers on the site need multiple profiles to match the scale of their failure at communicating and socializing.
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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I use scented bleach girl
And Max.........many couples here..but they are married.
I hope there are tons dating tho
And Chris...........shhhhhhhhhhh we pretend we don't know that.....
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
42, joined Sep. 2010
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In any case, I tend to talk more on this site when I am dating.
And, when I'm burned out and sick and tired of dealing with people, I tend to log off for weeks or months at a time until I feel more social.
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
53, joined Apr. 2014
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The forums are odd that way. the people here are a mere percentage of a percentage of a percentage of what's out there.
certainly there are some trends to be noted but I have found DH to be heavily weighted by the angry, disenfranchised and just plain broken.
that being said, I have met quite a few really great men with whom I was untimately not compatible but they were and are good guys. I've also met some great people via the forums
ialways come back to...it's all what you make of it.. forums and life in general
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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This is my TV
I come on to entertain myself or talk..........
I took in enough info to make my decision and did.
Both here and real world.
I do this while I am waiting for a bus ....on a bus....home at nite for an hour or so. And on my days off, to fill in time while I bounce to other things.
It can be enlightening..........entertaining and infuriating.........
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cajunmister
Kinder, LA
64, joined May. 2007
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I think the forums just make it seem like people aren't dating or don't want to date.I haven't noticed any lack of couples when I'm out and about in my daily life.I think the forums here just actually bring to lite how many people there are out there that just suck at dating.
I suck at it, but keep tryin
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3/15/2015 5:15:48 PM |
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
42, joined Sep. 2010
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The forums are odd that way. the people here are a mere percentage of a percentage of a percentage of what's out there.
certainly there are some trends to be noted but I have found DH to be heavily weighted by the angry, disenfranchised and just plain broken.
that being said, I have met quite a few really great men with whom I was untimately not compatible but they were and are good guys. I've also met some great people via the forums
ialways come back to...it's all what you make of it.. forums and life in general
The DH people who actually meet me are great.
The trouble is, the forums are full of people who don't meet - they'll either outright say "I refuse to meet (anyone from this site)!", or they're Yes-Butters, with endless excuses not to meet.
Perhaps coincidentally, the people who refuse outright or make all the excuses tend to be the angriest, most disenfranchised, most broken folks around, and need to angrily demand approval for their failure from a nice, safe, anonymous distance from anyone who'll listen... so, into the forums they go!
The forums have got a lot of fairly well-adjusted, social people as well.
We just don't notice them as much past all anger, denial, outrage, doom, and gloom from the rest.
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
51, joined Jul. 2014
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The forums are odd that way. the people here are a mere percentage of a percentage of a percentage of what's out there.
certainly there are some trends to be noted but I have found DH to be heavily weighted by the angry, disenfranchised and just plain broken.
that being said, I have met quite a few really great men with whom I was untimately not compatible but they were and are good guys. I've also met some great people via the forums
ialways come back to...it's all what you make of it.. forums and life in general
That's what I find too, my experience of real life is very different from the depressing crap I read on the forums.
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Everyone I met from DH ?
Were very nice guys...........
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gothygoogoo
Corning, CA
57, joined Feb. 2015
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i'm
a
total
flake...
i'm mean
fake...
okay
so
maybe
both???
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3/15/2015 5:32:40 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Bwahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
A fake flake..........?
Or a flaky fake ?
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stumppy
Wind Gap, PA
69, joined Jan. 2008
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Taking the 5th,refuse to incinerate myself
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3/15/2015 5:39:27 PM |
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gothygoogoo
Corning, CA
57, joined Feb. 2015
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take
yer
pic...
i'm easy!!!
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Bwahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
A fake flake..........?
Or a flaky fake ? now I'm craving corn flakes.
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gothygoogoo
Corning, CA
57, joined Feb. 2015
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i'm
pretty
corny
too!!!
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
47, joined Dec. 2014
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No reason to fake it, I am married, the dates stopped. Even though I try to still.
You can still date your wife ya know...
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3/15/2015 5:53:38 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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You can still date your wife ya know... I was confused on this. Does he mean he's married and on here to date or his wife wont date him?
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
47, joined Dec. 2014
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I dunno sky...you'll have to ask rocky....
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Taking the 5th,refuse to incinerate myself
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh damn......tears
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3/15/2015 6:21:32 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
53, joined Apr. 2014
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The DH people who actually meet me are great.
The forums have got a lot of fairly well-adjusted, social people as well.
We just don't notice them as much past all anger, denial, outrage, doom, and gloom from the rest.
yep!
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gothygoogoo
Corning, CA
57, joined Feb. 2015
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The forums have got a lot of fairly well-adjusted, social people as well.
I had to go find this so i could say...
YOU ARE SO FULL OF ROAD APPLES
AND HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU
ARE TRYING TO SAY AND NOT ONLY THAT
BUT MY FINGER IS STUCK ON THIS ONE KEY???????
BRB...
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
55, joined Sep. 2012
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Haven't dated. Haven't looked.
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3/15/2015 6:51:21 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Danny
Whale
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
47, joined Aug. 2013
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I don't date off of DH anymore period! & I rarely date anybody off of DH.
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Grn...why hun ?
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Danny why aren't you dating? Handsome fella like you should get back in the game.
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
55, joined Sep. 2012
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Thanks Sky. It had gotten to be too much of a game, to be honest.
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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It would seem that the men who women would love to date...........are not dating......
Leaving the minions..........and those are making the women to quit dating............
Great
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3/15/2015 8:56:20 PM |
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
94, joined Dec. 2011
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I have encountered that. It's seems to be affecting both genders.
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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I know Danny. But you just have to keep trying. I see lots of posters from Texas. That's one big state. Go get em cowboy.
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Tink...it would appear that the good folks are getting burned out or burned.
And that leaves the minions to feed............only caveat to that is ...every now and then they feed off each other
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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@eyes You are right. Lots of great guys and women are just giving up. I am shocked to see the young posters on here.
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
94, joined Dec. 2011
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Tink...it would appear that the good folks are getting burned out or burned.
And that leaves the minions to feed............only caveat to that is ...every now and then they feed off each other
I talked to one today that interests me, but he isn't "dating".
When they start feeding off each other...
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
55, joined Sep. 2012
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it would appear that the good folks are getting burned out or burned.
Burnout happens with a lot of things. This is just one of them. I've always been on and off as far as dating/looking. You do it for a little while, until it gets stale, and then you take a break. I've just been on an extended one.
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3/15/2015 9:34:40 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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I understand the burnout part.
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Sky...the young ones I know right ?
That just goes to show how removed our society has become from itself...........
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3/15/2015 10:35:17 PM |
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
94, joined Dec. 2011
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You know, I have been here a while now and read thousands of threads, individual posts, witnessed many debates etc...and it still boogles my mind a bit when I read the utter cattiness and judgemental bullsh*t written by some women in these forums. I'm not really sure what drives that behavior.
Could it be:
1. They think theirs is the only right way.
2. They think everyone will be impressed with them.
3. They are trying to get the attention of the men.
4. They really believe all women should be willing to be sexual on a first date.
5. They are attention wh*res and must have all the men excited by them.
I have just read several comments (in other threads) where women are putting down other women (sometimes by name) for thinking or behaving differently than they do. Arrogant and judgemental of other women, fueled on by the men who just want a woman for a pump and dump (insulting phrase).
It's bad enough when the men put down the women, it is worse when the women have to put down other women to gain male attention.
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Do I want to know where this bullsht is going on ?????????????
Seriously ?????????
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3/15/2015 10:44:11 PM |
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
94, joined Dec. 2011
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nope.
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Mach I know what you mean. Its bad.
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jlyinc
Chaska, MN
31, joined Nov. 2014
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Burnout happens with a lot of things. This is just one of them. I've always been on and off as far as dating/looking. You do it for a little while, until it gets stale, and then you take a break. I've just been on an extended one.
Yup. Gotta know when to step away.
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Okay...do I need to get all the shops in Cali to deny you Carmel frappes to get you to tell me ?
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