
yankeeluvspeach
Athens, GA
age: 29
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I think if I may try to interpret... (dangerous territory I know) that she was just saying that a lot of guys "say" on the surface that they're cool with kids and upon finding out that with her, they're a reality, rather than just an idea, a lot of guys just hit the bricks rather than fess up and admit they don't want anything to do with kids. That's my guess. Then again, I'll be the first to admit I've been wrong before.
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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Hey I am dating a woman who has 4 kids. Mind you only one is still at home, but it would not bother me if all 4 were still home. Ppl should not say one thing and mean something else.
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falcon77
Eugene, OR
age: 41
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I dated a woman who was divorced and had two little boys, one 8 and the other 5. They were great kids. What turned me off was watching them be used as pawns in ongoing custody hearings and court crap, they were constantly hearing bad stuff about the other parent from both sides. They were a angry mess and I didn't want to be in the middle of it. Add to that I have my own issues to deal with still, my kids are 19 and 16. Add the issues together and you find people at different parenting spots in life. It's a hard dynamic to fit into. I cared for her a ton, still do as friends, but I gotta say the "blended family" and if it would work or not was a concern I thought about quite often. I agree though...It's a package deal to me...all or nothing.
[Edited 11/2/2007 3:03:56 PM]
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