| 11/2/2007 6:56:41 AM |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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nick unconditional love develops, you dont meet someone with kids and have that sort of love right off the bat.
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| 11/2/2007 7:01:26 AM |
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sunshinewm
Cleveland, TN
age: 43
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Photo, who are you referring when your saying next time don't have kids.........???
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| 11/2/2007 7:02:45 AM |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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whoever started this topic, but really its a general statement. having kids changes your life. you dont get to live like you did before you had them, and that includes the casualness of dating. SO moaning about not being able to meet anyone is unjustified.
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| 11/2/2007 7:08:37 AM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36
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WHOOOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAA----- thats unjustified. ya......we all have this dream of meeting someone,falling in love having kids then gettin divorced and having to start over-mid life.get real!
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| 11/2/2007 7:12:33 AM |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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yes but once do you things that changes your life like that, you can not rightfully expect others to dramatically alter their lives to suit you.
cake and eating it to....
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| 11/2/2007 7:14:04 AM |
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me4aminute
Rutland, IA
age: 34 online now!
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I think that it is DIFFERENT when you have kids. I don't moan about not dating. I think that because I have my children I look for a different type of guy than I did before I had them. When you have kids you don't go after the bad boy type. You go after grounded and solid. I don't think that my having kids is the reason that I don't date...........I think I use my kids to weed out the men that are not right for me for what ever the reason maybe. Whether it be job jumping, partying, player, or someone that isn't into family as much as I am. I'm not saying any of these types are bad.......I'm just saying when you have kids there is a process of weeding them out to make sure that they are roll models for your children.....not a new Daddy, but a good adult role model. Which when you start weeding them out the dating pool does get smaller and smaller. JMO
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| 11/2/2007 7:15:05 AM |
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sunshinewm
Cleveland, TN
age: 43
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Photo....everyone has a right to their opinion. I will put this as nicely as i can, ok. I am not here to argue or put anyone down at all. I will say this to "you" I knew before even looking at your profile that you do Not have children with a heartless remark such as you made. The is no "love" that anyone can have as the 'love' for your child. I live for my child now, this is true. It is all worth it to me. No one is crying on this forum........merely saying it boys such as yourself that we would not chose to have our children around. It is not just finding someone that would except your child, it more of "who" you want around your child.............
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| 11/2/2007 7:18:22 AM |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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ah yes calling me a boy certainly shows your ignorance.
it also shows your bitterness that not all men welcome a woman with children.
If you think a man is at fault for not desiring a mate that has kids you are just plain wrong. Just like the woman up there that said she is leery of men with kids.
deal with it, your kids are your problem and you can not fault others for not wanitng them.
i have never said other peoples kids are bad, but they require a level of involvement that many if not most men AND women wouldn't want to impose on themselves.
as i said, if you don't like the reactions you get form men, don't have kids.
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| 11/2/2007 7:20:48 AM |
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hanover
Harrison, MI
age: 53 online now!
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I was never able to have children.
Thank God my nieces and nephew have
a few.To me,kids have a broader insight
on people.JMO
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| 11/2/2007 7:20:52 AM |
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anniebrown57
Warrington, PA
age: 50
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photo your tooooooo young. There is no unconditional love except from dogs. And I dont mean the human male dogs. Humans are incapable of love without conditions.
I have no children of my own but my stepdaughter will be involved if I do have another relationship. If a man is unwilling or cant care about the children you come with F___ them. They wern't worth your time anyway. It is not the womans problem it is who she is TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT!!!!!!! No skin off our nose.
[Edited 11/2/2007 7:26:15 AM]
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| 11/2/2007 7:21:11 AM |
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wanttodance
Big Rapids, MI
age: 51
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my daughter has 2 children and she is marrying a guy with 4 boys but my olds granddaugher told him she would not call him dad until after he married her mom there is more to the store then that as you could guess but i thought that was pretty smart fopr an 8 year old (at the time) to come up with
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| 11/2/2007 7:21:56 AM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36
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gee........ since you put it like that.......u r still wrong.
it is give and take......and nobody expects!it is a personal choice.
i give my nights out for unconditional love
my saturday watchin the game for playin in the yard
and half my ice cream for a playful smile.
like i said ... personal choice.
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| 11/2/2007 7:22:04 AM |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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annie! i agree about that.
i'm not the one accusing men of being immature or bad because they dont jump at the chance of dating a single mother.
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| 11/2/2007 7:22:52 AM |
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sunshinewm
Cleveland, TN
age: 43
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Photo, i think you need to leave alone.......i am only ignorant by evening replying to you. Again, one day you will understand when you have a child of your own. No reply is necessary for you. Our conversation is over
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| 11/2/2007 7:25:00 AM |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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lol, typical histrionics instead of just ignoring me you had to make a speech about it. lol maybe thats why you are alone and your kids have nothing to do with it.
as i said there is nothing wrong with having kids, but you can not blame men that don;t want to get in on that situation. watch this:
men are immature that wont date a woman with kids
men are immature that wont date an obese woman
men are immature that wont date a divorced woman
men are immature that wont date an ugly woman
in these forums i;ve seen all of those sentiments expressed, and they are all bullshit.
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