| 11/1/2007 10:32:49 PM |
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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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Ok I'm A single mom with 3 kids and I can't seem to find anyone that will hold a conversation with me after they find out. Whats up with that? Now days there is not to many women or men with out kids?
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| 11/1/2007 10:34:47 PM |
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fiddlebritches
Duncan, OK
age: 27
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i dont mind kids but 3 may b a little much because ive already raised 2 that wasnt mine! an dthey are 2 very well behaved and adjusted kids, well i would still date her if i didnt have to do alot of the work parents have to
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| 11/1/2007 10:40:27 PM |
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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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I'm not asking for a daddy they have one. Well sorta..lol
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| 11/1/2007 10:43:49 PM |
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hanover
Harrison, MI
age: 53 online now!
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Just be patient.My niece found
a great guy and she also has 3
small kids.There getting married
next June.
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| 11/1/2007 10:46:53 PM |
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malicai
Edmonton, AB
age: 32 online now!
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no problem for me. Thing is, why AREN'T you looking for a dad. I know if I was to start something that might be real(I don't or try not to start relationships that are just 'flings') why can't I be the dad?
If their dad is great, but you 2 just don't click anymore, thats great, but the new guy in your life has to take all of you(it's a package deal) he should beable to at least 'try' to be a second father figure for the little ones.
I don't get it totally, unless of course the guys u are talking to just want 'good times'
Meh. It's all personal preference, when I think about it it 'MIGHT' slow me down, not because kids scare me away, but because I want to someday have some of my own. (and if I started a relationship with a woman who already had some, chances are I won't ever get the chance to have my own kids)
Could be also that the guys you are talking to, dont want to become the primary bacon earner for some kids who are not his.
Guess just a few things to think about.Not trying to offend, just trying to give u some things to think about.
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| 11/1/2007 10:52:39 PM |
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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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they can be a father figure without being a daddy.If i meet a man and he wants that role more power to him though. As for being the bacon winner ..I make good money and love my job. I'm not looking for someone to support me. I just want someone to love me and my kids or atleast get along with them. My last b/f got attached to the youngest and treated the older two bad. So he had to go.
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| 11/1/2007 10:54:19 PM |
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fiddlebritches
Duncan, OK
age: 27
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well he still liked one, maybe u gave up to soon, see i work 12 hours a day, adn i would go crazytakin care of 3 kids and tryin to sleep
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| 11/1/2007 10:58:02 PM |
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malicai
Edmonton, AB
age: 32 online now!
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yea. Know from experience it takes time to bond with kids, and some just do not want to bond. If you bond with one, the others come along in due time.(And your 3 kids isnt anything, I 'raised' 5 kids ranging from newborn all the way to teenies.)
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| 11/1/2007 10:59:09 PM |
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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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I didnt give up. We were together a year and he was a horible b/f anyway. I work 12 hour shifts as well. I'm not looking for a babysitter. My oldest is 12 then 8. they are good to go. the youngest is 18 months. Like i said b4 im not asking no one to take care of my kids.
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| 11/1/2007 11:09:20 PM |
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ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 29
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I tend to shy away from guys with kids, just because it is a package deal.. I know it may be unfair but I feel that I don't want to become attached to the kids and later have to feel bad if the relationship goes bad with thier father.
maybe the guys feel the same way that shy away from single mothers.. I dunno. Or as someone said earlier..maybe the guy is just looking for a quickie or fun time.
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| 11/1/2007 11:14:37 PM |
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luvinlifetothem
Biddeford, ME
age: 41
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I have two boys and am a package deal also, and the men that cant deal with that let you know REAL quick..but there are good/great guys out there who can...and also men with kids of their own who would love to have a good woman to be a mom! Dont give up..just keep being up front...Hell..post pics of your kids on your profile! Be proactive and weed out the ones who dont want anything to do with kids ahead of time? Why not? Why waste your time with someone who cant deal with the most important people in your life!?!?
JMO
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| 11/1/2007 11:17:30 PM |
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fiddlebritches
Duncan, OK
age: 27
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what does acne medicine have to do with this womans kids and dating
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| 11/1/2007 11:19:31 PM |
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potentloveslave
Dade City, FL
age: 40
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lj, I live in Florida, how come you never looked me up. I must be too ugly for you. I never mind kids. Maybe I'm just not your type. Well, good luck.
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| 11/1/2007 11:22:36 PM |
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ljgiggles
Edgewater, FL
age: 28
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your right JMO...I'm sure there are some out there. It's hard to find the time to find one though. I have a tough job and I work 12 hour shifts at night. I'm hoping to go to days soon maybe I will have a little more normal life........ and there always has to be a joker in the bunch..hmmm fiddlebritches
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| 11/1/2007 11:33:06 PM |
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fiddlebritches
Duncan, OK
age: 27
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sorry! thats kinda what i do! but in a way i am serious about some stuff i did raise 2 bad ass kids
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