Girls are less straight-forward than men. At least, if you aren’t dating a feminist. Also, they’re masters of hints. So how to understand when she is horny and ready to get laid with us?
Not depending on a girl’s nationality, age, and other data, her character and mentality, she’ll have only two ways to let to know you about her desire: in the chat or in person. Here are some tips!
A girl normally cannot say like men do, Hey, want to come over and hook up? They choose other forms of saying that. Dating experts have gathered a few most used phrases from women.
- My back needs massage, could you be of any help?
- I hate spending the evening in my phone, want to come over in person?
- Since the thoughts of you distract me anyway, would you come to meet?
- Can you be very spontaneous at times? I mean, very.
- Cannot recall any romantic fantasy of mine, what about creating a new one.
- Do you like roleplay? I have a nice costume.
- Got a bottle of fine wine and no one to drink it with.
- Going to the party with girls, are you free after?
- Shall we watch Netflix on my couch?
- Past my bedtime and still sleepless. Any suggestions?
As you can see, options are many and you just need to react quickly. And don’t worry, if a girl wants you, she will find a way to make another hint, and another one, until you finally understand.
It also happens that you communicate with a girl offline. For example, you go to the gym or study together, often see each other in a bar. If both of you are shy, learn to recognize her initiative.
In a few European countries, as well as in Australia and Canada, girls are pretty straightforward about their needs and desires. It’s just a part of culture, and men are profiting from this habit.
In the US, only cheap girls or progressive women are that direct. For example, big beautiful women, or BBW, raise their self-confidence with the help of straightforward sex offers.
In person, girls hide the real meaning of their words even more intensively. Sometimes, one needs to be a pro in pickup or a real psychologist to understand they want intimacy with you.
If she says anything that leads to your visit of her home, very often, it means getting laid. Just make sure she’s being playful with you, not to get confused. Re-ask her politely, if things are unclear.
It is noticed some girls ask, if we’re such good friends, maybe we can be friends with benefits? It’s a frequent men’s question too, so women ask it in a milder form and a flirty connotation.
Even virgins use this trick, not only experienced girls. They start touching you without reason and do things to make you touch them too. For example, they suggest to sense their fluffy top or silky hair.
If a guy is too slow-thinking or shy, and especially if he starts to show up with another female, a girl might get mad. She may yell at you, take away things from you, slam the door in your face.
Don’t react the same way, recall the situations from childhood when kids were trying to get others’ attention with the help of aggression. Kiss her or invite her home in a middle of such an attack.
You will see how she quickly changes her mood and smiles to you. It means you understood it right and acted wisely, you’ll be rewarded with passionate sex on the very same night or hour.
Some great opportunities we get on anonymous hook up apps, but we’re also surrounded by such great options in our daily life. Maybe she’s your neighbor? Colleague? Your buddy’s sister?
If you do not meet her desires or you’re a bad guesser, a girl may start presenting you little gifts with a special meaning. Doughnuts? Well she wants you pretty badly if she goes that far with the symbols.
A bottle of wine, romantic candles, gels and creams of all sorts including massage oils, these items mean a lot and promise you heavens. Do not torture this nice girl any longer and hook up with her.