Right on my brother lol and also another thing im currently in a relationship and my girlfriend doesn't know i have a facebook and decided to search her name one day and found her now i spy on her page everyday without her knowledge and thats what stemed this thread lol

now i spy on her page everyday without her knowledge

So you just don't trust.

Why?

Are you untrustworthy? Are your projecting your own faults on her?

Has she ever once given you reason to distrust her? To believe she's hiding something?

You are lying to her and spying on her. Why?

You are the one doing wrong, why are you placing it on her?

Not the same at all.

She's not pretending she doesn't have a FB page. She's not spying on him or planning on catfishing him to see if he's faithful.

She's just interacting with fiends on FB and liking their pictures and quotes. Totally innocent, but he and I guess you cannot see the innocence in that. You want to make it about her cheating when there is no indication or no whiff of any cheating.

Wanting someone to pay more attention to them is one thing. Telling your date you want more attention spent on them and less on FB or playing video games is one thing. Spying and checking on them and lying and pretending to be someone else is entirely different and it does not matter if a man or a woman doing that to their S/O. It's wrong, it's just plain wrong and it does not do a relationship any good.

If you cannot trust that the person you've chosen can be true to you, then do not be in a relationship with them. Let them go.

It is absolutely a trust issue if you think anyone with you will cheat if you're not on them 24/7 and ensuring they don't like quotes on FB.

Bottom line is she not respecting the relationship . All he is doing trying to figure out the truth . It's nothing wrong doing that .

You want her to spy on you?

Can't you be trusted to do the right thing, or be the good man, without being overseen by someone?



"who wants to kiss me" quote? Did it say anything else? I mean, that seems kind of out of context or just strange on its own.




When you get likes or comments, is there often messages in your inbox, too? I mean, I go around and just indiscriminately "like" things without posting always posting a comment, or even really thinking about what I liked.

You seem to spend a lot of time analyzing and extrapolating and imagining what's going on with "likes".

Let me see if I've got this right.


You are lying to your girlfriend about not having a FB page.

You searched her out, not to friend her, but to spy on her.

You spy on her, but have really found nothing at all, other than quotes she posts which you believe express her feelings at the time of posting. Innocuous, but you find some sort of evil in it. You just haven't figured out what kind of evil you're think you're smelling.

You are told to come up with a fake profile and catfish her in order to "test' her, and you think that's a great idea.

You're worried that she is a liar and cheater.

She's done nothing wrong, you have done a lot of things wrong and plan on doing more, yet she's the bad one here?


Do you check her phone and email, too? Do you drive past places she says she'll be? Drive past her house late at night to make sure she's there? Do you know exactly how long a store trip should take and if she takes longer, you think something is going on?

like for instance she onced shared a quote where itcsaid who wants to kiss me

Well, if that's something only single people do, then why is he still on FB?

like for instance she onced shared a quote where itcsaid who wants to kiss me

Yes, I'm on FB. It'd be easy enough to find me since I use some of the same pictures.

I'd have to know more about that kiss quote, I mean is it a meme or something? Is it something I've posted actually asking for a kiss? Is it a friend who said it and I hit like?

But no, you're right. I'm in a relationship. That is pretty clear on there. I've never posted anything suggestive or blatantly flirtatious myself, though I've probably liked other single friends' posts that may be flirty. My boyfriend is on FB a lot more than I am, but I've never checked what he says or does on there. I'm not his keeper.

Lake do you have FB account? If yes do you sit there or would sit and share post saying who wants to give you kiss while your status saying you are in relationship ?

I don't believe you would . Just because I never seen you post anything like that in here . Except for you comment on having crush on someone or you would mind your man to have one . But still I don't see you will allow it to get that far as you saying who wants to give you kiss .