I will be withholding sex from my husband this weekend because I need to renew my depo shot (birth control) Monday.

The pull out method does not work.My fourth son was unexpected.

TBH I disagree with what you classify as abusive and not abusive.
She may still be upset from the argument so I disagree that is abusive.
I disagree the last two are abusive as well.
Not seeking treatment, she may be afraid etc.
If she doesn't want to or can't have sex well why is he with her in the first place if that will be an issue?

Also avoiding intimacy altogether or by faking illness etc is a sign of something else being wrong and alone isn't abuse or manipulation.

Basically abuse is cruel treatment of someone often to gain advantage or power.
Cruelty is defined as:
wilfully causing pain or suffering to others, or feeling no concern about it.

So going by that definition it is only abuse if it is cruel treatment of them which means willfully hurting them and having no concern about it.

That basically means it is only abuse if she deliberately with-holds it to get her own way or does it repeatedly as punishment/to teach a lesson and it causes him emotional pain/upset.

It is NOT abuse if she has a medical condition and can't have sex and doesn't seek help.
Also NOT abuse if she doesn't have sex because she is still upset from an argument, even if it was a week or more ago.

It's still not technically
abusive ;0

Also
care to explain what you mean by that?

TBH I disagree with what you classify as abusive and not abusive.
She may still be upset from the argument so I disagree that is abusive.
I disagree the last two are abusive as well.
Not seeking treatment, she may be afraid etc.
If she doesn't want to or can't have sex well why is he with her in the first place if that will be an issue?

Also avoiding intimacy altogether or by faking illness etc is a sign of something else being wrong and alone isn't abuse or manipulation.

Basically abuse is cruel treatment of someone often to gain advantage or power.
Cruelty is defined as:
wilfully causing pain or suffering to others, or feeling no concern about it.

So going by that definition it is only abuse if it is cruel treatment of them which means willfully hurting them and having no concern about it.

That basically means it is only abuse if she deliberately with-holds it to get her own way or does it repeatedly as punishment/to teach a lesson and it causes him emotional pain/upset.

It is NOT abuse if she has a medical condition and can't have sex and doesn't seek help.
Also NOT abuse if she doesn't have sex because she is still upset from an argument, even if it was a week or more ago.

Not really, she could still be legit upset with him and as a result not want to have sex.

Imo its abusive to force someone to do something they don't want to do and will hurt them psychologically and/or physically just for your own selfish desire. Maybe she's had damage to her pelvic floor from childbirth or been raped and has PTSD. That's manipulative and abusive if he tries to force her to get help against her wishes just for his sake and threatens to leave. He should of thought about her condition before he went in a relationship with her or stayed in it, instead of trying to force what he wants on her

Well of course, if the woman is having sex 5 days prior to or on the day of ovulation, pulling out won't be an effective means to avoid pregnancy, as there is often sperm in what we call "pre cum" which is excreted prior to full on ejaculation. Meaning a woman can get pregnant as soon as the guy starts if he's already leaking pre cum with sperm in it. He wouldn't even necessarily have to ejaculate.

1.Say if she is upset at him or about something else etc, is it ok or not ok?

2.Men have you ever gotten mad or left a girl because she with held sex too much?

3.Do you expect her to still do it and think its not acceptable if she witholds it?

Wrong, it is selfish of him to walk into a relationship KNOWING her issues and push for her to change for HIS sake. If he is not ok with how things are, and how she is, don't go in a relationship with her. Try to have some understanding, getting help can actually be traumatizing for people. If she is going to get help she should be doing it of her own free will and for herself, not because he is manipulating her and trying to force her to. THAT IS ABUSIVE

Men are simply addicted to sex, it does not provide that much bonding for them.
It's just an addiction.
women are the ones who have the neurotransmitters released that are involved in love and bonding during sex, men mainly just get one big Hit of
dopamine.

So what you are saying is, it is O.K. for a woman to USE SEX at the start of a relationship to get and keep a man coming back, and then pull the old switch a roo, and stop having sex with him once he has committed to the woman.

Men are simply addicted to sex, it does not provide that much bonding for them.
It's just an addiction.
women are the ones who have the neurotransmitters released that are involved in love and bonding during sex, men mainly just get one big Hit of
dopamine.

Depends how much it is withheld.
Most men should be able to put their big boy pants on and be fine with a little less sex.
I can understand if it completely stops tho I guess.

Please define what YOU consider a normal amount of sex and little less sex.

Still trolling, miss sienna?

I dont think it's abusive if it's less than 10 days, it's just not often and they are sexually incompatible?

it isn't unless she is doing it on PURPOSE to hurt or manipulate him.

there is no 'time' frame of how long is abusive because it is NOT about time.
It only is abusive if she is using it to manipulate him or actually punish him.

it isn't unless she is doing it on PURPOSE to hurt or manipulate him.

Isn't that the case when a woman is just upset after an argument?

Women still expect men to do for them, even after an argument.

A couple could have an argument and let's say the woman needs help with her car she will ask "Are you gonna help me or what?"

LOl anything as in what?

there is no 'time' frame of how long is abusive because it is NOT about time.
It only is abusive if she is using it to manipulate him or actually punish him.