There is another thing I've noticed, check this out...

If you look at topics about interracial relationships...notice how a whole lot of a certain race are quick to scream from the rooftops about how much they like another race.

But look at the women of other races. You don't see them making topic after topic, or comment after comment about how much they love other races.

You don't see Asians, white, native, or Latino women always talking about their sexual preferences.

Which is funny because out of all races...the black women is married the LEAST to another race.

So that means while some women are broadcasting how much they like men of other races...those men do not like them the same. But their women date and marry black men mite. Their women just don't feel the need to make themselves look thirsty.

According to statistics, black women are the LEAST desirable in America. So it's crazy, that men are supposed to chase the women...but men of other races BY STATISTICS don't even want a black woman like that...but the black woman is still throwing herself publicly at them.

I feel blessed when I see exactly how some who do that are, because that's not very lady-like, and looks desperate as hell.

In fact, a white guy has a topic up now in DGD called "Too Many Desperate Black Women On This Site!"

That should be embarrassing, and something you should make sure you don't look like.

If you have any dignity, class, or pride.

Let the man chase you, not the other way around.

Wow.

somebody shouldn't have to date who you want just because your perched on a racial soapbox...your not very enlightened or smart.

When I come on a dating site and see people saying they don't date blacks...

I feel blessed!

Because it automatically tells me a few things immediately.

1. I am an enlightened being. Being spiritual, I have elevated past petty differences in skin color. When I see someone who hasn't, it lets me know to stay away from them.

2. I am extremely intelligent. So even if a person did have a hangup over race, they let me know they aren't smart enough to go about their business in an unobtrusive or callous and inconsiderate way.

3. I like honesty. And it saves both of us time. How she goes about informing others of her racist or preferences will reveal a lot also.

4. I'm black. I know exactly who I am, and what I can do compared to other races. I know that blacks are the original race, and all other "races" are just variations and ethnicities that come from me. So I have no problem with people wanting something other than the original.

5. Often, people make topics like that to bait. I laugh. You can read that topic and see 55 comments in a row praising other races and putting black men down. And if ONE black man says ANYTHING in response to the attacks on black men...they get joy out of that. That's why they made it in the first place. I never go in those topics and say ANYTHING negative...because that brings joy to racists or baiters.

6. I get to learn a lot about others and their motives in these topics.

Anyway, that's what happens when I see those topics.

See ya!