And it lets the women ay their "Victim Cards", when he dumps her a** or cheats on her. Don't forget, Doc, how much women love to blame MEN for all WOMEN'S problems.

Now, we both know I am having fun pissing off the Feminist hens.

Now I know that it's not every woman on planet earth. But I am have seen and have been a victim of women just up and leaving because I was to good of a person. What's the point in drama and wanting to be treated badly? I'm not a saint I'm just laid back like to smoke weed eat good food travel the world and follow my dreams. So why wouldn't a woman want a man they could prosper with? not one that just f**ks you and cusses you out every other day.

Soulflight isn't a cackling hen, she's WAY beyond that. She's a BEAST.

I've met thousands of women in my life and except for a couple, none of them have been conniving backstabbing b*tches. Of course, I'm not going to hand out my money to any woman. Women are people, bet you didn't know that, and people are pretty much the same the world all over.

My foreign high buck cars are great rides, and I always hold up my nose whenever I go by some low life in a pile of junk!

The power of the p*ssy is something you dreamed up in your demented mind. Unfortunately, you sound like an awful lot of loser men on this forum. You are permanently f**ked, and you'll never get better over time.

have been a victim of women just up and leaving because I was to good of a person.

Now I know that it's not every woman on planet earth. But I am have seen and have been a victim of women just up and leaving because I was to good of a person. What's the point in drama and wanting to be treated badly? I'm not a saint I'm just laid back like to smoke weed eat good food travel the world and follow my dreams. So why wouldn't a woman want a man they could prosper with? not one that just f**ks you and cusses you out every other day.

So when women complain, is it because they chose and a**hole and expected them to change for "Reasons" also?

One of the dates I went on, I was called a f*got and had a door slammed in my face because I bought flowers for her. She said "Only a queer buys flowers".

And women wonder why men don't do nice things for them anymore.

Do you mean you don't get messages on this site? Maybe try POF. I know a man who is on there & he gets lots of messages from women. Now one has to weed through messages because not all will be from ones you would be interested in.

I know women go back to or stay with men who treat them poorly. Those who do may feel that he will change...as you said...or the woman may feel that she deserves no better. I don't know. I myself am not going to try to change a man. That's not fun. Plus...man OR woman...how someone is from the beginning is usually the way they are. No one should have the thinking that they can change the other person.

But if you want a relationship, you keep trying or you give up. There are the heartless, uncaring, users, liars etc. with both genders. I don't give up on what I'd like. And I've met plenty of men who were not honest or played games or whatever. But I know there are also good men & I don't lump all men as the same.

Shit, POF from El Paso is a f**king dead end. Most of those women don't want to chat and the ones that do it's like talking to a rock, no intelligence at all.

I honestly can't count how many times I've started dating a woman only to have her go back to her X. Who by the way, she left because he beat her or abused her kids.

Her reasoning? She loved him. Maybe he will change, (Oh yea after you've given him 4 chances already over the course of 3 years... Yea no.

I can hear some of you (I would never do that!) you say. Would you like to know how many times I have heard that from women I have dated, or women my friends have dated, only to have them turn around and do, exactly that or something equally stupid?

Almost every single time.

Yes it's true not all women are that way. But a vast majority are. A study was done on 500 random couples from across the US, who were having issues and were in counseling, 476 of them ended badly due to decisions made by the woman. The others had mixed results, whether being successful or ending due to some other reason. In every single one of them the man was sincerely trying to resolve the issues.

Men are seen as commodities these days by many women. Replaceable, and why wouldn't they? A woman stands in Walmart for 5 minuets by herself, she'll be approached by a man if he thinks she is single.

A man can stand in Walmart all day and never have a woman give him a second glance.

Women tend to not understand a mans perspective on relationships, because for them finding a man is not difficult in fact, they generally have plenty of options to choose from, so they automatically assume because it's easy for them it is easy for a man, when in fact the exact opposite is true.

Men on the other hand are lucky if a woman even bothers to reply back with as much as a "hey sorry, your not really my type".


The average woman is single for 1 week unless she chooses to "remain single" by choice.

The average man is single for 6 months to a year or more. and are not given a choice in the matter.


My point is simply that before you make an assumption about a man, take a walk in his shoes. Understanding breeds empathy. Assumptions do nothing but cause harm, especially in a relationship. If the relationship is all about you, then it's not a relationship. And before you say, it isn't all about me as the woman, Maybe you should ask the man his opinion, You may find in fact it most definitely is, because... well... it is.

I don't think a man showing respect to a woman is "50s". If a man is disrespectful to me, I won't be seeing him anymore. And the respectful man would get respect from me also.