| 5/23/2016 10:24:14 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
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Nah I love sex but guys don't love me  So ya know, why do it
You probably had some experience of a guy who enjoyed sex with you but he didn't give you the type of commitment that you expected.
My advice is avoid FWB. Take your time to cope with it and if for a while you don't wanna have sex that is fine.
But don't wrap your mind aboit the idea that all guys want sex only. Only some are like that.
If you want more from a man, you just need to date only guys with whom you have a real connection and don't have sex too soon.
(and you don't have sex because you want a guy to like you. You have sex because YOU want it too).
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| 5/23/2016 11:34:30 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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But that is a game that gotta be played by 2 players.
I don't know what kind of game we playing if we are hanging out every other weekend going to movies and or out to eat , drinking at the club together . If she ain't thinking on the same level by 3rd date the game is over . Only say 3 if she has been paying but if I have been paying the 2nd time it's over
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| 5/23/2016 11:41:36 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
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I don't know what kind of game we playing if we are hanging out every other weekend going to movies and or out to eat , drinking at the club together . If she ain't thinking on the same level by 3rd date the game is over
But is not only about what YOU want.
There is another person involved.
You date a woman because you have a connection with her and because you want to get to know her better. You don't date her because at the 3rd date sharp she gotta drop her panties. 
No mean to offend but if you want a woman to have sex when you want you are better off by paying for a prostitute.
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| 5/23/2016 11:44:49 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Quote from digital_knight:
Only say 3 if she has been paying but if I have been paying the 2nd time it's over
Sonce you added this fortunate sentence.
I definitely think you should pay for a prostitute.
So you save the money of the date.
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| 5/23/2016 11:53:46 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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But is not only about what YOU want.
There is another person involved.
You date a woman because you have a connection with her and because you want to get to know her better. You don't date her because at the 3rd date sharp she gotta drop her panties.
No mean to offend but if you want a woman to have sex when you want you are better off by paying for a prostitute.
Look I don't know type of guys you are used to or how they treat you how you treat them . But if I am dating someone I'm usually treating her as someone I'm trying to be relationship with long term . So I'm talking about everyday phone calls if we are not planning on seeing each other things like that . Now like I said I don't know how you treat the guys you date I don't know if you go around dating multiple guys thru out the week but if you do I can understand the game you playing .if I we're dating such a woman like that I wouldn't even begin think about a second date let alone I probably wouldn't ask a woman to go out if I knew she is dating other guys .
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| 5/24/2016 12:01:23 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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If I had choice of dating a virgin or born again virgin I would choose the virgin because she has no sexual experience prior .
he is a virgin so he wouldn't know but the idea was to not have sex anyway IDC anyway cos this was after I already told the guy I was dating someone etcetc previously. Can hardly turn around and be like ohh no I'm a virgin, after saying everything else.
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| 5/24/2016 12:04:17 AM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
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Dating multiple guys?
But what are you talking about? Are you crazy?
So if because a girl dates only one guy she is supposed to drop her panties because he decides it.
It doesn't matter how the girl feels?
The point of a date is not to exchange the money of the date in exchange for sex.
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| 5/24/2016 12:05:21 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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What I mean by not planning on seeing each other I meant for that day and or week.
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| 5/24/2016 12:16:11 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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Dating multiple guys?
But what are you talking about? Are you crazy?
So if because a girl dates only one guy she is supposed to drop her panties because he decides it.
It doesn't matter how the girl feels?
The point of a date is not to exchange the money of the date in exchange for sex.
I thought it was difference when asked
Are you dating ?
Seeing someone?
In a relationship?
Engaged
Married
So I thought when asked are you dating I'm thinking you could be dating a few people not just 1 person in particular .
But like I said i going for the relationship part . Believe me I'm going to talk to this woman for while before I be seen in public with her .
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| 5/24/2016 12:17:17 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
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Him being in his 40's...he understood me. He is just thirsty. I dont like being pressured.
Perhaps. But you cannot assume everyone will always understand what you are saying if you are not clear and use words that cannot be misinterpreted. Trouble is is that everyone has their own filters and their own experiences coloring the words they hear.
No one likes being pressured. And I don't think many women, and probably men, too, want to be pushed into anything before they're ready. But apparently, it works for some and that's why they continue doing it. If the odds are that 1 in 10 will respond the way they want, they'll try it 10 times to get to the one.
For me, I don't say I want to take it slow unless I mean that and for me, it means let's just kiss for now or something along those lines.
If I don't want to even discuss making out, then I'll say it's too soon, I'm not discussing this. No slowdown, just a full stop.
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| 5/24/2016 12:28:05 AM |
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dantana77
Frederick, MD
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wouldn't this be a friendship rather than "dating" ? And if you have those kind of feelings for him the sex should be pretty good. Unless he's just terrible at it. Orgasms/good sex for women is more mental than anything isn't it?
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| 5/24/2016 12:59:20 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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Unless he's just terrible at it. Orgasms/good sex for women is more mental than anything isn't it?
Hmm yeah depends what you mean by mental?
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| 5/24/2016 1:01:42 AM |
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dantana77
Frederick, MD
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lol. mental as in the pleasure depends a lot on how she feels about the dude and what freaky thoughts and imagination is going on in her head
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| 5/24/2016 1:08:19 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
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Kinda. Well I've had sex with someone I didn't even like that much just because I felt like it at the time so not always about how I feel about them. Perhaps I'm just messed up but whatever  IDK depends lmao
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| 5/24/2016 4:12:54 AM |
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bluecougareyes
Chelan, WA
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I don't think it's wrong to date a man with an intention of withholding sex as long you make it clear to him at some point early on during your courtship...especially if you know that he wants you. Because otherwise it wouldn't be fair to mislead him in the hope that it's possible in wasting his time.
Very valid and humbly comment...
* Now read this
Man says: I don't think it's wrong to date a 'woman' with an
intention of withholding sex as long you make it clear to 'her'
at some point early on during your courtship...especially if
you know that 'she' wants you.
Because otherwise it wouldn't be fair to mislead 'her'
in the hope that it's possible in wasting 'her' time.
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| 5/24/2016 4:21:18 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
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or go in a relationship with a man if you don't intend on having sex with him?
Does anyone else feel the same way when it comes to men?
Most (not all) women think that it is perfectly fine to trick a man into a relationship with sex, but slowly start withholding sex till it stops all together. After all the woman knows she can get sex when ever and with whoever she chooses, that is unless her target has morals.
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| 5/24/2016 4:29:59 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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especially if you know that he wants you.
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| 5/24/2016 5:10:35 AM |
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mr_hexy
Andreas, PA
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Most (not all) women think that it is perfectly fine to trick a man into a relationship with sex, but slowly start withholding sex till it stops all together. After all the woman knows she can get sex when ever and with whoever she chooses, that is unless her target has morals.
Whats to trick anyone about? Either you want sex or you don't but that you admit withholding sex is bad relationship skills. Seriously. The concept of casual sex is something you totally are fine with and then when you find it acceptable, it becomes a gimmick
If you want to be with someone else or are simply done, its for women to be better at communicating earlier instead of clinging to the benefits of a relationship she's faking her way through. The gutless prostitute , basically. She wants that money but ain't gonna put out. #nosale. There's actually a skill level for sex for women so don't necessarily think going through life on your back is the same as sexually active. If you don't care enough about sex that withholding it is more preferable then are you really that desirable or objectifying yourself as a cumdumpster before the guy is even a topic?
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| 5/24/2016 5:23:48 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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objectifying yourself as a cumdumpster before the guy is even a topic?
Wait what, this doesn't make sense to me?
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| 5/24/2016 5:31:26 AM |
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
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Born again virgin 
That is what me and my cousin was talking about the other day about women who has kids but now dont want to have sex until they meet that special man . I would just leave that woman alone let her wait for that man .
So, if she has kids she doesn't have the right to wait until she finds that special man? She should have sex with any man that pays attention to get?
I didn't know this rule. I waited seven years... Dammit!
I guess I should have just had sex with all of those men that paid attention  
Maybe you should rethink your statement
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| 5/24/2016 5:56:49 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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I'm bored so
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| 5/24/2016 9:55:06 AM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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I'm bored so
surprising post from you
Are you familiar with this subject matter, See?
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| 5/24/2016 9:58:23 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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Yeah lol
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| 5/24/2016 10:08:33 AM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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Um, I didn't know this was a subject you understood or explored.
I am quite familiar. js
So, you're a sub? slave? or Domme? Switch? Or are you simply curious with some tendencies.
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| 5/24/2016 10:13:32 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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I think I've mentioned before no one here really knows me.
A lot of the stuff I post is when I'm in a bad mood and I have a personality disorder anyway apparently
ontop of that lol.
I'm a switch.
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| 5/24/2016 10:17:23 AM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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I see, See. Well, nice to finally meet you, dear. 
And you participate in real time with D/s? Or is this exclusively something in v/t?
(Obviously, you don't have to answer personal questions. I'm just following up with you on your post around it)
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| 5/24/2016 10:18:05 AM |
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gfnm
Austin, TX
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As long as they know, there shouldn't be a problem.
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| 5/24/2016 10:23:43 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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wait what does V/T mean? lol.
and D/s
I don't usually talk to anyone about this so not sure what that stands for >.<
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| 5/24/2016 10:25:23 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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So, if she has kids she doesn't have the right to wait until she finds that special man? She should have sex with any man that pays attention to get?
I didn't know this rule. I waited seven years... Dammit!
I guess I should have just had sex with all of those men that paid attention
Maybe you should rethink your statement
Maybe you are right I should rethink it . The thing is me and my cousin were talking about women who said they are born again virgin and don't want to have sex while in fact they already have kids. The thing is those women had sex and who ever or whatever man they are waiting for she may not like him after they have sex with him just because all those walking dead guys or baby daddy she had sexual relationship with he may not compare to them. .
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| 5/24/2016 10:28:15 AM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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wait what does V/T mean? lol.
and D/s
I don't usually talk to anyone about this so not sure what that stands for >.<
D/s Dominant submissive or dominance submission
V/T virtual time (not in real life but only in these places or electronically)
and see? now you can discuss it..
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| 5/24/2016 10:29:36 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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With boyfriends lol. Only people I'd trust enough or have sex with so yeah. ;P
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| 5/24/2016 10:32:31 AM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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Trust is integral, See. Without it, there can be no true giving and receiving ...particularly to submit. Not to mention the heady responsibility of someone placing themselves in your care. I prefer strong, intelligent women to do this with. Many mistake strength for dominance and weakness for submission. The best subs I ever had were very competent and strong women. And I had to earn the right to Dom them.
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| 5/24/2016 10:34:23 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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Exactly. I don't sub to men I'm not with. I'd only dom them and the pleasure is for me only. Pretty much.
Very different story with guys I love
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| 5/24/2016 10:36:09 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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I am just saying if you never had something you can't compare it . That is being a virgin is all about .
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| 5/24/2016 10:38:41 AM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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Of course, See. However, for me I can't switch. It isn't an "affectation" for me but more of my personality. I'm dominant. Like I just told someone else, this doesn't mean I walk around in assless chaps..it just means I enjoy control in bed.
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| 5/24/2016 10:42:22 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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Switches are rare, apparently. Well that's what I was told by someone who trains dommes. He wanted to train me but I was like naah. I was also like too young at the time really. Like 18ish. Most people are generally more dominant, sub or more evened (like not either extreme). I can be any but I usually fall back to being a sub since guys like that and yeah Idk, guess I am somewhat more sub. I think men tend to be more dom
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| 5/24/2016 10:48:33 AM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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yes and no. Men WANT to be more Dom but there's a difference between guys like that dark guy always talking to you and posturing like a tough guy and actual men who ARE indeed dominant. Most just use it as an excuse to abuse and cover their low self esteem. There are few real dominants out there, male or female.
And I usually can "feel" a submissive...didn't see you coming
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| 5/24/2016 10:52:05 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
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like that dark guy always talking to you and posturing like a tough guy
Oh man that was so good xD
How do you feel a sub?
It's probably because I play a role as a Dom in here. Like I'm not about to act sub when there are people being jerks. You know what they say; the best defense is a good offense ;p
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| 5/24/2016 11:14:02 AM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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You cannot show that side in here
Too many fools that wouldn't understand.
So yea, I get it See. 
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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and I don't know ...it's weird but it seems like we are usually just kind of drawn to each other...subs and I...maybe it's subtle comments or things mentioned...not sure
To be honest, I'm sorry to say I never took you seriously enough. And don't get mad about that..(it has NOTHING to do with your age, either before you get to thinking that)...it's just you always seemed to be so upset about guys.
Anyway, sorry I underestimated you
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| 5/24/2016 11:53:57 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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This is called a friendship and men do not like that word. I suggest to anyone you really look into what you want out of life and direct your life towards chosing a man that wants the same things.
Take the time to get to know someone before getting to deep into a relationship. Then if you notice he is starting to be a jerk and not what u want you can get out. Less heartache.
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| 5/24/2016 12:02:32 PM |
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thekinghasrisen
San Diego, CA
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This is called a friendship and men do not like that word.
I think that's because there is an inherent imbalance of risk. Take people on a dating website who market themselves as 'friends-first'. Friendships develop out of common interests and low-stress interactions - something that doesn't exist on dates with people who are more interested in making friends than having a two-way dating relationship. Since most men don't date their friends, it comes across like a woman is wanting the benefits of being dated, without the responsibility of 'dating the man back'.
It's not too complicated really, but it's always helpful to date a woman who acknowledges that she's also 'dating you', and not hanging out with a friend (who's conspicuously taking her places and treating her around town).
Basically, if you don't see a physical relationship with a person, there is little need to let them date you, or accept any of the perks that come with being in a dating relationship. If something feels dishonest and misleading, it's usually because it is. 
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| 5/24/2016 6:18:30 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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You don't seem someone who will stay with no sex for very long...
Yeah lol
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| 5/24/2016 6:25:50 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
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Um, I didn't know this was a subject you understood or explored.
I am quite familiar. js
So, you're a sub? slave? or Domme? Switch? Or are you simply curious with some tendencies.
I can be a Domme with men I cannot stand.
But after I tied them up and beat them up I don't have any sex.
I just walk away.
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| 5/24/2016 6:27:59 PM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
44, joined Nov. 2012
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I can be a Domme with men I cannot stand.
But after I tied them up and beat them up I don't have any sex.
I just walk away.
 Someone call the police on this woman .
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
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Quote from digital_knight:
Someone call the police on this woman .
Pfff you don't have the sense of humor...
before I leave I also take a pic of them and I post it on facebook
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
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If she ain't thinking on the same level by 3rd date the game is over . Only say 3 if she has been paying but if I have been paying the 2nd time it's over
I think that most women know that you guys only apply the 3-date rule towards women you don't find attractive... perhaps someone you would only be using for sex anyhow.
When you meet a woman you like and think you could care about, you have a different set of standards.
You guys will actually take the time to get to know her as a person and will enjoy spending time with her even if it is to do something stupid like going shopping.
And... as far as dating a really gorgeous woman... we know how much crap you guys will put up with for that.
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| 5/25/2016 2:32:25 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
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Awww you didn't take me seriously lmao
Nah a lot of people here don't ;p
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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Hey, I owned up to it. Note that. And now I am. A road less traveled for me yet still here at my destination. 
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
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I can be a Domme with men I cannot stand.
But after I tied them up and beat them up I don't have any sex.
I just walk away.
They should have vetted you first *wink*
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| 5/25/2016 11:01:54 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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I think that most women know that you guys only apply the 3-date rule towards women you don't find attractive... perhaps someone you would only be using for sex anyhow.
When you meet a woman you like and think you could care about, you have a different set of standards.
You guys will actually take the time to get to know her as a person and will enjoy spending time with her even if it is to do something stupid like going shopping.
And... as far as dating a really gorgeous woman... we know how much crap you guys will put up with for that.
 
Not this guy anymore.
I have learned that those pretty girls are the ones who would have you doing the most and would put guys thru a competition while at it . Not me I am not going to waste my time on a maybe and an unsure b/s I will treat her the same way i treat an ugly woman.
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| 5/25/2016 11:11:44 AM |
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digital_knight
Grand Rapids, MI
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Quote from digital_knight:
Someone call the police on this woman .
Pfff you don't have the sense of humor...
before I leave I also take a pic of them and I post it on facebook
I have seen your profile pic before you look like an abuser in real life .
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Apr. 2014
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Switches are rare, apparently. Well that's what I was told by someone who trains dommes. He wanted to train me but I was like naah. I was also like too young at the time really. Like 18ish. Most people are generally more dominant, sub or more evened (like not either extreme). I can be any but I usually fall back to being a sub since guys like that and yeah Idk, guess I am somewhat more sub. I think men tend to be more dom
Stunning! An actual conversation....
I actually think there are plenty of 'switches', particularly in the world of D/s where it is focused on sex play only. In that world where the act of training/being trained is part of pleasure and process. It didn't take long for me to grow tired of that. It was an incomplete act. As a submissive, I could never 'not act like a submissive' and my husband could never 'not act like a Dominant. It is simply who we are and our particular approach to the relationship always honors that...24/7.
I hope that you find your true YOU so that you don't have to simply BE what you perceive "guys like". Being in a relationship where both of you are being loved and respected for simply being YOURSELVES...authentically...that is a beautiful thing.
ETA: there is, in all relationships, a wonderful dance of dominance and submission....whether it is labeled or recognized as that or not, it exists. It is wonderfully unique to every couple, determined by them...actively or passively. Often, so dynamic, that the people in the relationship flow in and out of each role continuously...like a dance....lead and follow. Not determined by the man but by the one with the forward impetus....working together.
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| 5/25/2016 11:32:16 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Hehe 
sorry I haven't been posting much I have to do this stupid assignment lol and yeah gotten busy. Going to do a career change as well so it's all happening. I'm doing an honors degree in psychology which I've almost finished but I freaking can't stand most of the 'end' jobs I could get if I continued with it. I'd only be able to get the good ones if I did a ton load of post grad stuff anyway. Pretty much I want to be a 3d graphic artist/modeler and animator.
It was my babes birthday a few days ago and I made him this, took a bit of courage to show it since IDK if I'm thaat good and yeah. I'm self taught.
U can see it with some special effects here lol
http://www.imvu.com/catalog/web_mypage.php?user=24319579&preview=1
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| 5/25/2016 11:38:39 AM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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I have seen your profile pic before you look like an abuser in real life .
And I have seen your posts in here and you look like an idiot. 
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| 5/25/2016 11:43:59 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
online now!
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| 5/25/2016 11:44:37 AM |
Is it wrong to date a man if you don't intend on having sex with him? |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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I'm doing an honors degree in psychology which I've almost finished but I freaking can't stand most of the 'end' jobs I could get if I continued with it. I'd only be able to get the good ones if I did a ton load of post grad stuff anyway. Pretty much I want to be a 3d graphic artist/modeler and animator.
I hear ya.
That is the reason why I keep pushing myself into studying:
I cannot stand to work in an office and be chained to the desk all day long!
I wanna do something that makes me happy, like teaching. 
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| 5/25/2016 11:47:45 AM |
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joe4u2explore
Lombard, IL
49, joined Aug. 2013
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Stunning! An actual conversation....
I actually think there are plenty of 'switches', particularly in the world of D/s where it is focused on sex play only. In that world where the act of training/being trained is part of pleasure and process. It didn't take long for me to grow tired of that. It was an incomplete act. As a submissive, I could never 'not act like a submissive' and my husband could never 'not act like a Dominant. It is simply who we are and our particular approach to the relationship always honors that...24/7.
I hope that you find your true YOU so that you don't have to simply BE what you perceive "guys like". Being in a relationship where both of you are being loved and respected for simply being YOURSELVES...authentically...that is a beautiful thing.
ETA: there is, in all relationships, a wonderful dance of dominance and submission....whether it is labeled or recognized as that or not, it exists. It is wonderfully unique to every couple, determined by them...actively or passively. Often, so dynamic, that the people in the relationship flow in and out of each role continuously...like a dance....lead and follow. Not determined by the man but by the one with the forward impetus....working together.
It was my doing, soul. I brought it out. Right, See?
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| 5/25/2016 11:52:26 AM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Digital knight is the typical embittered loser:
He hates beautiful women and he probably hates successful people as well.
Abusers are all people like that: unhappy and resentful.
People who are happy and don't hate what they cannot have are not abusers.
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| 5/25/2016 11:54:06 AM |
Is it wrong to date a man if you don't intend on having sex with him? |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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...oh and with that post I don't mean to say I am beautiful.
So losers don't start to flag me again. Thanks.
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