| 5/26/2017 8:55:59 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009
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There was one woman I used to know who really had a lasting effect on me. The most beautiful woman I personally knew. She had the most radiant smile I've ever seen. I looked her up today. I was stunned. She clearly developed an addiction to botox. Her face looks like a mask with thick lips. She doesn't look remotely like the woman I knew. It's sad that she felt the need to do that to her face. I don't know if she thought she spotted crow's feet developing or what, but she ruined her flawless face. For the ladies in here, have you ever tried it? It must be addictive. She used to be a head turner, now you would turn away.
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| 5/26/2017 9:22:44 PM |
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cheep_trick
Herndon, VA
49, joined Mar. 2017
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Is this the same broad you work with,
who was cheating on you, then got dumped
by the guy who actually got to tap her
ass, and recently wanted to be friends
with you?
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| 5/26/2017 9:32:44 PM |
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__h_
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Nov. 2016
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It seems surgeries & other things done medically for looks are addictive for some people.
No, I have not had Botox or anything else.
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| 5/26/2017 9:33:51 PM |
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sparks_01
Ocala, FL
97, joined Feb. 2017
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i thought this was about the condom dog artwork 
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| 5/26/2017 9:34:35 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009
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Is this the same broad you work with,
who was cheating on you, then got dumped
by the guy who actually got to tap her
ass, and recently wanted to be friends
with you?
No!!
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| 5/26/2017 10:26:25 PM |
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beverduster
La Feria, TX
52, joined Apr. 2008
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i thought this was about the condom dog artwork
i did too, where is savona, i miss her great art paintings
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| 5/26/2017 10:26:35 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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The pressure to NOT age is on us all...
It makes ppl do all sorts of things...
No..no botox here..it involves needles..
I hate needles
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| 5/26/2017 10:27:46 PM |
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beverduster
La Feria, TX
52, joined Apr. 2008
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eyes you forgot about being a man hater
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| 5/26/2017 10:40:44 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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eyes you forgot about being a man hater
Just because I dnt waste my time on perverted twats who think sexually laden bs is...flirting.
Dsnt mean I hate men.
Just because I am not fkn a date..dsnt mean I hate men..
Just because I dnt believe the whole..you're sexy ..hot..beautiful bs...dsnt mean I hate men..
Just because I am not a dk sucking..sammich making show pony...dsnt mean I hate men..
I merely dislike men who think that way...
Fall into any or all of those categories?
Fk sorry...dnt like you..
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| 5/26/2017 11:03:30 PM |
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bookwormtobutte
Rio Rancho, NM
37, joined Jan. 2016
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Insecurity, its a B****
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| 5/26/2017 11:04:03 PM |
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killerbugs53
Palo Cedro, CA
54, joined Oct. 2016
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There was a gal that I bonked in high school, she was hot as hell ...she was my first....we had dated for a year or so,she went her way and I went mine,joined the service and always kinda wonder what she was up too, well one day I had found out she got divorce that she was single again,and at the time i was also...well we had met up again and and talked ,she was fat as hell with a bad attitude....it kinda reminded me of that Garth Brooks song, thank God for unanswered prayers...I shit you not everytime I hear that song I think of her...
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| 5/26/2017 11:07:47 PM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
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Nope...I earned every damn wrinkle and the crows feet to go with them...I don't have to pretend im not almost 50.....if I want my face numbed I can just go to the dentist....
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| 5/26/2017 11:19:07 PM |
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pento4
Norman, OK
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I am 50 and i look 35,,,,so the theory hard living ages you is bullshit 
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| 5/26/2017 11:20:06 PM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
100, joined May. 2016
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im 49 and I look 49 and im ok with that.....
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| 5/26/2017 11:44:48 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
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that woman will end up with cats, a 12 pack of beer and a moo moo, OP
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| 5/27/2017 12:02:33 AM |
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anglicus_femina
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined May. 2016
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No, I doubt I ever will.
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| 5/27/2017 2:24:04 AM |
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GalaxyRogue1
Denver, CO
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In my male dominated industry, we of the wise years , have to compete not only as women,but as older women who still like to work. Looks matter. HR can't say that, no one can say it, but everyone knows it. Same as they know blatant age discrimination is alive and well.
I use Botox once or twice a year, for big events & family events which include x inlaws.
It is only meant for crows feet, the little " 1 1 " between your eyebrows and some lines on your forehead. Botox lasts only 3-4 months.
I like it a lot.  It doesn't change your face.
If lips and cheeks are changed, that is done with fillers, not Botox. Those last from 6 months - 1 yr.
If the doctor/nurse went to far with lip fillers, the person has to wait that 6-12 months until they're back to normal. If they do it unevenly, it can look lumpy and unbalanced.
I've not tried fillers.
beyond fillers, some people get chin and/or cheek implants, usually from their own fat.
MOSTLY, I think women AND men should do what they like and want. 
The plastic surgeon at my place does TONS OF WORK ON MEN. Botox, fillers, FACE LIFTS.
To compete professionally. 
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| 5/27/2017 8:15:25 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
53, joined Jun. 2012
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im 49 and I look 49 and im ok with that.....
This..
I am almost 53...look 53..I am good with it 
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| 5/27/2017 8:29:20 AM |
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_Technologist01
Powell, OH
51, joined Aug. 2016
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No fake anything here! Don't agree with it. The only fake thing I'll do is color my hair.
Seems your friend thought she was defined by her looks. She got older and didn't want to accept it gracefully.
I was adopted, but I must have gotten good jeans. My whole life I've been told I look at least 10 yrs younger than I am. I had a lady in my water aerobics class that was floored when I told her I was 51.
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| 5/27/2017 9:04:51 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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at any age no matter how beautiful you are physically if you don't feel beautiful from the inside you're not going to feel beautiful unless you have and or keep your physical beauty. maybe she didn't feel beautiful on the inside. so don't be too harsh on her unless you've walked in her footsteps.
I wasn't born a beauty queen but I am beautiful from the inside out. that makes me shine. people see it. I'd never have surgery for more physical beauty.
beautiful truly comes the inside out and how you see the world around you.
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| 5/27/2017 10:40:38 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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there ain't no amount of surgery that'll make you feel beautiful if you don't feel beautiful from the inside. otherwise it's nothing more then a cover for who you aren't inside.
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| 5/27/2017 10:42:33 AM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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On the bright side botox and collegyn wear off
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| 5/27/2017 10:47:01 AM |
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lurky_lurker
Norcross, GA
41, joined Feb. 2016
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I'm 41 and look 40
Don't mean to brag
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| 5/27/2017 10:49:35 AM |
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frecklefarmer
Lebanon, MO
45, joined Oct. 2014
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Oh yeah? I'm 45..look 55,and don't have a single damn to give
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| 5/27/2017 10:49:42 AM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
67, joined Sep. 2011
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I'm 41 and look 40
Don't mean to brag[/quote
Great  Happy weekend
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| 5/27/2017 11:00:07 AM |
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lurky_lurker
Norcross, GA
41, joined Feb. 2016
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Happy weekend yets 
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| 5/27/2017 11:20:18 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
62, joined Mar. 2014
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In my male dominated industry, we of the wise years , have to compete not only as women,but as older women who still like to work. Looks matter. HR can't say that, no one can say it, but everyone knows it. Same as they know blatant age discrimination is alive and well.
you don't have to compete with anyone but yourself when you're doing your best. if someone can do better tip your hat to them and carry on.
looks matter to people that need to lean on that to be who they want to be. you don't have to do that. if you lean on your looks you're in for a big disappointment as you age.
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| 5/27/2017 11:31:35 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Look at it this way, she probably started aging and not looking as good, at least in her mind and did all of this.
So, it could be she would have looked worse without it, and maybe you caught her right after all this and it wasn't settled in yet.
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| 5/27/2017 11:36:04 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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One more comment...women who are sculptured works of art on the outside don't knock me over like it does most guys, sure I'm human and male...and it looks good, but I rate what's on the inside with a lot more value, and you can see pretty women all day long, but find one that's down to earth and real and you really have something...that impresses me a lot more than being pretty.
Enough men and women who are works of art in looks, have been pampered and gotten so much attention, it makes them not so attractive in how they are.
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| 5/27/2017 11:36:48 AM |
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Stopsign_01
Londres
Argentina
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Insecure people who think changing the outside will help mask what's really on the inside....
Right Brenda
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| 5/27/2017 11:45:41 AM |
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beverduster
La Feria, TX
52, joined Apr. 2008
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Just because I dnt waste my time on perverted twats who think sexually laden bs is...flirting.
Dsnt mean I hate men.
Just because I am not fkn a date..dsnt mean I hate men..
Just because I dnt believe the whole..you're sexy ..hot..beautiful bs...dsnt mean I hate men..
Just because I am not a dk sucking..sammich making show pony...dsnt mean I hate men..
I merely dislike men who think that way...
Fall into any or all of those categories?
Fk sorry...dnt like you..
are you kinfolk to the scarecrow? he writes books too
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| 5/27/2017 11:55:07 AM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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Scarecrow is 70, and he looks dead!
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| 5/27/2017 12:01:47 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax
Greenville, SC
24, joined Apr. 2014
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People have always tried to improve their looks. Whether it is with makeup, exercise, diet and nutrition, or surgery, people will continue in that quest. What "God" didn't give, in many instances, science can.
Botox, collagen, biotin, implants, and hair replacement are just a few of the options that women and men may use in their fight against the tolls of time and diminished psyches.
There is nothing wrong with trying to remain as active, viable, and attractive as possible...
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| 5/27/2017 12:04:44 PM |
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rightguyforu632
Lisle, IL
40, joined May. 2017
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Shut up sir hugo... ur opinion dont count.
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| 5/27/2017 12:07:09 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax
Greenville, SC
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Shut up sir hugo... ur opinion dont count.
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| 5/27/2017 12:21:44 PM |
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beverduster
La Feria, TX
52, joined Apr. 2008
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Scarecrow is 70, and he looks dead!
and has direah of the mouth
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| 5/27/2017 1:46:15 PM |
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uber_goober
Danielsville, GA
51, joined May. 2016
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The only woman I ever dated who had had a cosmetic....refinement(?), had just had breast surgery. But it was a reduction. When I knew her in college, she was EXTREMELY top heavy. And to be totally honest, afterwards, they...were...spectacular! 
When I was still a teenager in the early 80's, most of the gals I knew layered the makeup on with a trowel. That crap would leave smear stains on my pillows in he morning. . NOT a fan of makeup. Some slight cosmetic adjustments to enhance features that already exist are fine if it's what she truly wants. A woman's femininity is attractive enough to me. And whatever she looks like now, as a seasoned adult woman, is preferable to any injections, etc that would try to reverse the clock however temporary.
Just how I look at the situation.
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| 5/27/2017 1:56:12 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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You don't really know what's gone on in her life since last you knew her. You don't know if something devastating happened to require some kind of plastic surgery and that the results weren't all that good, but maybe better than what prompted it. You don't really know what her reasons are for anything. You don't know what her thoughts are about anything.
So don't judge her harshly.
That said, I have seen some people whose clear addiction to plastic surgery is scary. You've all seen the woman whose surgeries have left her looking like a lion. Or the one who wanted to be a real life Barbie. Look at what Michael Jackson did to his nose. Look at what (who's that guy who sang that gambler song?), his face is unrecognizable. Ever watch that show Botched? Some of those people are nuts. There was some Argentinian guy on there who looked like a plastic doll and still he wanted more. He had "sculpted" his buttocks, torso, shoulders, jawline, nose, etc., etc. He really liked that shiny, plastic look of his face. He looked like a buff Ken doll. He wanted the buff body without the workouts. Just surgery. To me the surgery would be worse than working out, but apparently not to him.
I would like to look younger again. I wish I had the taut and dewy skin I used to have and no saggy facial skin anymore. If I could do it without the risk of looking like it's a mask, I'd do it. What I really wish is that I didn't see my dad when I looked in a mirror!
In my mind's eye, I'm still 22.
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| 5/27/2017 2:17:58 PM |
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bosss_babe
Saint Paul, MN
44, joined Jan. 2017
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Botox brings me life.
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| 5/27/2017 2:33:15 PM |
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curbsideprophet
Tulsa, OK
43, joined Dec. 2010
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I've known two women in my life that wanted to go the way of the knife (sorta). Both wanted bigger boobs.
The first I worked for, she was flat but holy f**k she was gorgeous in every possible way. I like boobs, I like'm decently sized, but with this woman she was perfect as is.
Anyway, she was putting some thought into it, her friends were encouraging her and they even had some sample implants out and were feeling on them to see which ones felt the most real etc.
She commented to her friends about asking me, they scoffed and said men only care about how big they are. She called me in and asked me what I thought about her getting implants.
I answered both women the same way, the second woman isn't important but I still told her the same.
"If you get implants, do it because YOU and only YOU want them, not because you think you need them to impress anyone or to feel relevant or attractive."
Carrera, my boss hugged my neck and never got them. The second woman was just testing me hoping to get an idea of what I liked physically in a woman. Just f**king ask next time.
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| 5/27/2017 2:38:16 PM |
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bosss_babe
Saint Paul, MN
44, joined Jan. 2017
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Ftr- botox is not plastic surgery. Of course i wouldn't expect many on here to grasp that concept
Its temporary- just tiny injections. Many doctors also use it for migrains, excessive sweating, and other common ailments.
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| 5/27/2017 2:41:20 PM |
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bosss_babe
Saint Paul, MN
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People have always tried to improve their looks. Whether it is with makeup, exercise, diet and nutrition, or surgery, people will continue in that quest. What "God" didn't give, in many instances, science can.
Botox, collagen, biotin, implants, and hair replacement are just a few of the options that women and men may use in their fight against the tolls of time and diminished psyches.
There is nothing wrong with trying to remain as active, viable, and attractive as possible...
Absofrickinlutely
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| 5/27/2017 2:56:20 PM |
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sandcrabs
Long Lake, WI
54, joined Feb. 2013
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Botox brings me life.
Makes my balls silky smooth.
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| 5/27/2017 3:29:07 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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Ftr- botox is not plastic surgery. Of course i wouldn't expect many on here to grasp that concept
Its temporary- just tiny injections. Many doctors also use it for migrains, excessive sweating, and other common ailments.
You're right, it isn't. But the way he described her face sounded like more than Botox. I'm thinking chemical peels, maybe some lifts, like around the eyes or something.
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| 5/27/2017 3:38:25 PM |
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bosss_babe
Saint Paul, MN
44, joined Jan. 2017
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I agree lake.
Its definitely not botox altering an appearance that drastic. The only altering botox would really do is reduce the face from creating lines when you smile, frown or that type of thing.
I'm sure you are educated on this lake.
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| 5/27/2017 4:09:12 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
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| 5/27/2017 7:25:59 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009
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I agree lake.
Its definitely not botox altering an appearance that drastic. The only altering botox would really do is reduce the face from creating lines when you smile, frown or that type of thing.
I'm sure you are educated on this lake .
No,its lips, everything. She looks those older actresses and ex models that have that fish face look where it looks like they couldn't possibly smIle.
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| 5/27/2017 7:29:53 PM |
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bosss_babe
Saint Paul, MN
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I get that babe. But in your op you said she was addicted to botox.
Botox doesn't alter your looks like that.
Sorry it was a disappointment
Sounds like she had a lot of fillers.
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| 5/27/2017 7:33:24 PM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
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No I haven't and I'm not going to.
Having said that,I am not against Cosmetic surgery, botox etc., when it's done properly. What I am against is the sense of measure that some lack in using it. Some don't even need it, yet they go for it. I'll never understand that.
Insecure people who think changing the outside will help mask what's really on the inside....
Right Brenda
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| 5/27/2017 7:39:30 PM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
67, joined Sep. 2011
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I'm thinking about putting a little Stuff into my lips. they used to be very full but gotten smaller as I turn younger,
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| 5/27/2017 7:55:46 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax
Greenville, SC
24, joined Apr. 2014
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No,its lips, everything. She looks those older actresses and ex models that have that fish face look where it looks like they couldn't possibly smIle.
Thankfully, we don't allow a few extreme examples to set the standard for the entirety. The fact is that most people who have these procedures DON'T look plastic and don't have fish faces. The overwhelming majority who get the procedures don't appear on freaky websites and supermarket tabloids...
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| 5/27/2017 7:57:59 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009
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Ok, obviously I'm no expert in these things. I just know its some kind of treatment women use to look younger, but it makes them look worse. On a scale of 1 to 10, I would have given her an 8.5 before. I can't understand why she would do this to her self.
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| 5/27/2017 8:03:36 PM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
67, joined Sep. 2011
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Oh well you didn't pay for it so don't worry your pretty Head
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| 5/27/2017 8:11:20 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax
Greenville, SC
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People don't see themselves the same as you. Other people won't see her the same as you see her. She might believe she looks better and her healthy self image will matter far more than what you or I may think of her...
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| 5/27/2017 8:14:26 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009
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But it isn't in her best interest to look that way. No one would say she looks better now. She looks unnatural. Caitlyn Jenner looks more like a woman.
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| 5/27/2017 8:24:22 PM |
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orchid1973
Rome
Italy
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Thankfully, we don't allow a few extreme examples to set the standard for the entirety. The fact is that most people who have these procedures DON'T look plastic and don't have fish faces. The overwhelming majority who get the procedures don't appear on freaky websites and supermarket tabloids...
This is true.
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| 5/27/2017 8:26:23 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax
Greenville, SC
24, joined Apr. 2014
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But it isn't in her best interest to look that way. No one would say she looks better now. She looks unnatural. Caitlyn Jenner looks more like a woman.
Alright, brah...
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| 5/27/2017 8:27:37 PM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
67, joined Sep. 2011
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he will drag this out 50 pages,,,, we don't know her or care. 
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| 5/27/2017 8:31:32 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009
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Don't recall a law that says you have to reply.
Best way to show you don't care is not answer, genius.
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| 5/27/2017 8:36:11 PM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
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Don't recall a law that says you have to reply.
Best way to show you don't care is not answer, genius.[/quote
OK EINSTEIN,,,, JUST TRYED TO HELP  :::
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