2/18/2016 5:10:40 PM |
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
44, joined Jul. 2014
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thts weird women that don't want sex
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2/18/2016 5:19:51 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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Wow!
You know a woman that dies want sdx, hreallyshck... Or a woman who doesn't want sex with you?
Clarify, please.
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2/18/2016 5:43:55 PM |
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
44, joined Jul. 2014
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cup r u drunk posting again?
step away from the bottle
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2/18/2016 6:13:41 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014
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Why would I shy away from something I like.....
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2/18/2016 6:18:34 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
57, joined May. 2009
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Well, since your question is about if it is a good idea: No. No, it is not a good idea.
But one does have to have the maturity and wisdom to understand the various aspects of relationships, how they interplay, and their role in the making of a strong, solid relationship.
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2/18/2016 6:21:02 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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If, for the women, it is meant to weed out men who only want sex
then, for the men, it should be used to weed out women who never want sex.
Just using your 'logic' of using sex, or lack of sex, as a filtering tool.
Agree, Now meet me at the Altar
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2/18/2016 6:22:04 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Well, since your question is about if it is a good idea: No. No, it is not a good idea.
But one does have to have the maturity and wisdom to understand the various aspects of relationships, how they interplay, and their role in the making of a strong, solid relationship.
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2/18/2016 6:26:33 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
55, joined Nov. 2009
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No woman is getting my baby batter without romance!
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2/18/2016 6:27:42 PM |
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alls_fair
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
96, joined May. 2011
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And you will cycle back to the dating world disillusioned with sex because you pursued your cinderella fantasies...
Be my guest...
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2/18/2016 8:07:13 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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It's a very good idea! If you get too sexual then the whole relationship revolves around sex and soon you have a hard time relating to each other any other way. I think it hurts it more than it helps especially if you produce a kid. Morally, of course, you should always wait until after marriage.
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2/18/2016 8:13:32 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013
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In the age of skinny jeans, thongs, twerking, and hookups, it's kind of shocking to see so many damaged sexually repressed females out there.
Maybe daddy did "things" to them that permanently scarred them, but that couldn't be the case for all of them.
This!!!
Women don't wear tight, revealing clothes cuz they.are comfortable.....
They wear them cuz they want to give us the.illusion that they want sex. Then shoot us down when we ask for it.
And get mad when they "assume" that's all we want from them...
Although these days most of them won't give us the chance to show them that we actually want more...
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2/18/2016 8:29:23 PM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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I'd give a man I like a chance any day for him to show me he wants more. Many don't allow me to give them that chance.
Not having sex with every date (every man) isn't being sexually repressed.
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2/18/2016 8:48:24 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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i never ever ask,we flow together an they give it,an take thiss big thing..joyfully,all my life,or they asked me..i do not ask them...
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2/18/2016 8:53:34 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
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I'd give a man I like a chance any day for him to show me he wants more. Many don't allow me to give them that chance.
Then u r in the minority in this.country a verrry small minority .....
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2/18/2016 8:55:47 PM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
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Well if she likes him, it only makes sense to give him a chance. That's why I do. But many blow that chance. I've given too many chances sometimes.
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2/18/2016 9:27:23 PM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
50, joined Mar. 2008
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Just because a guy waits lets say 2 or 3 months before jumping into bed with you doesnt mean he is serious and wants you for more than your body.
Back in my day it was a clear indicator he was a keeper if he was willing to wait for sex but these days even if a guy waits awhile for it there is no gurantee that once you open your legs and let him between them that he wont run off and find someone else a week or two later.
If he waits that long, hes probably banging another woman until your ready to sleep with him.
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2/18/2016 10:50:42 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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If, for the women, it is meant to weed out men who only want sex
then, for the men, it should be used to weed out women who never want sex.
Just using your 'logic' of using sex, or lack of sex, as a filtering tool.
They already do that lol
/fail
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2/18/2016 11:31:22 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
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It's a very good idea! If you get too sexual then the whole relationship revolves around sex and soon you have a hard time relating to each other any other way. I think it hurts it more than it helps especially if you produce a kid. Morally, of course, you should always wait until after marriage.
I sort of agree with this.
If you are looking to create children... yes... please definitely be married first.
Dating is sort of that pre-relationship stage where you are trying to figure out if you can be in a relationship with someone or not. If I didn't think that I could commit myself to a relationship with a man I was dating, I would skip the sex at this stage and focus on building the friendship and finding common interests.
However, I definitely like a bit of romance during the dating stage.
IDK... how do you keep your hands off someone you
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2/18/2016 11:57:23 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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If he waits that long, hes probably banging another woman until your ready to sleep with him.
You might find this hard to believe, but some women actually have the gall to be upset about that.
I've seen it!
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2/19/2016 3:06:17 AM |
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alls_fair
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
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You might find this hard to believe, but some women actually have the gall to be upset about that.
I've seen it!
Women have some SERIOUS entitlement issues these days!
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2/19/2016 3:53:46 AM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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Oh, there are some men with entitlement issues too. It's not a gender issue. I've have dealt with it.
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2/19/2016 3:56:33 AM |
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alls_fair
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
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I was just being provocative...
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2/19/2016 4:05:06 AM |
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celyn67
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016
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Ok
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2/19/2016 6:13:28 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
53, joined Oct. 2013
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Hell I didn't even always avoid sexual activities while on the job.
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2/19/2016 6:23:57 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Also it's not that I don't 'like Sex
It's that I don't trust the guy lol
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2/19/2016 7:32:20 AM |
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helmholtzwatson
Raleigh, NC
51, joined Jun. 2014
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Personally, if she is just hanging out as a friend enjoying the attention & waiting to see if she wants to sleep with me eventually.....we never will, ever. She's in the friendzone.
If we are actually dating, by no means do we have to jump right to it (because I don't want any boiled bunnies either), but there is definitely chemistry & "sexy stuff" (flirting, a great kiss, etc) right from the get go. Otherwise, there's no go.
Sure, you can weed out some of the Humpertons by a strict "no sex" declaration.
But you can also weed out the decent guys who've been played before & don't feel like taking a another long shot.
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2/19/2016 7:39:28 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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'Played before', what does that even mean?
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2/19/2016 8:32:33 AM |
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indianadave1951
Mishawaka, IN
65, joined Dec. 2010
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... IDK... how do you keep your hands off someone you
Self discipline and self control.
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2/19/2016 9:23:28 AM |
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
44, joined Jul. 2014
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I'd give a man I like a chance any day for him to show me he wants more. Many don't allow me to give them that chance.
Not having sex with every date (every man) isn't being sexually repressed.
Give me that chance
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2/19/2016 11:51:18 AM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
48, joined Jul. 2013
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Is it a good idea?
It would weed out the guys who only care about sex
(most guys)
By sexual activities I mean sex and any other sexual kind of stuff
you know what I mean : P
Kay gotta goo
What's the point of dating then???
I get that there's more to relationships than just sex. I get you may want to get to know the guy first, but if sex with a man that you're attracted to and like isn't on the table......
Why date him?
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2/19/2016 12:14:40 PM |
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helmholtzwatson
Raleigh, NC
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^^^this^^^
'Played before', what does that even mean?
It means that there are plenty of women, even your age, that will lead a guy along by vague or even overt offers of sex/relationship when all they really want is attention & free drinks/dinner. They have zero intention of every being that guys girlfriend.
Not hard to spot them when you're older, but just about every man has to learn when he's young that painful lesson on how not to be a total sucker.
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2/19/2016 5:10:47 PM |
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up2youandme
Chandler, AZ
41, joined Jan. 2014
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What's the point of dating then???
I get that there's more to relationships than just sex. I get you may want to get to know the guy first, but if sex with a man that you're attracted to and like isn't on the table......
Why date him?
Exactly! !!! Just be a nun or something if you're so worried that if you give it up it will go downhill from there?
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2/19/2016 7:18:44 PM |
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woman1025
Phoenix, AZ
47, joined Aug. 2014
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I hold out until I see up to date papers on your health, still using protection tho.
I'd gladly show my papers to, if the person gets offended by me asking for proof of health, I exit stage left, QUICKLY.
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2/20/2016 9:14:57 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
53, joined Nov. 2014
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I don't date to avoid those activities.
Now, I just make appointments for full body massage, one to three hours at a time.
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2/20/2016 10:12:33 AM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
49, joined Jun. 2013
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Now, I just make appointments for full body massage, one to three hours at a time.
Honestly, I don't see why more men who KNOW they DON'T want to be in a relationship quit complaining and just go for the "rent-a-girl" for an hour or two option.
Everyone can be happy then.
I don't want to DATE someone who doesn't ever want to be in a relationship with me... but is certainly okay with me sucking his D1ck as long as I shut up.
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2/20/2016 10:28:17 AM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
61, joined Mar. 2014
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Get neutered!
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2/20/2016 11:08:48 AM |
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latinleprekahn
South San Francisco, CA
46, joined Sep. 2014
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I'm not going to avoid sex but definitely not on the first date and certainly not just for sex only. That's not dating. That's being f**k buddies.
I want friendship first because if I don't like and respect them I'm not going to date them.
That's just me. Everyone has their own preference.
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2/20/2016 3:47:19 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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as allways friends an love,sex same niite,nuthin no different than usual,you gotta be a friend an make em laugh etc,like i knowed her 10 years already,allways is good.contrary to these suspicious cowardly scardy cat girls on here,i wont give the time of day till they lose that dumb fraidy cat suspicious stuff,caue i didnt make em that way neither..
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2/21/2016 2:08:46 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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What's the point of dating then???
I get that there's more to relationships than just sex. I get you may want to get to know the guy first, but if sex with a man that you're attracted to and like isn't on the table......
Why date him?
Sex isn't the point of dating!
Maybe for normies it is lol
because they make all the 'rules'
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2/21/2016 5:00:43 AM |
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mr_imperfect
Philadelphia, PA
54, joined Sep. 2011
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If he waits that long, hes probably banging another woman until your ready to sleep with him.
Sure in the case of self entitled douche bags who think because they spent a few lousy bucks on a girl/woman it entitles them to sex. Believe it or not however there are srill some men out here who believe in waitimg to get to know someone first before getting down to business.
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2/21/2016 7:41:15 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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Sure in the case of self entitled douche bags who think because they spent a few lousy bucks on a girl/woman it entitles them to sex. Believe it or not however there are srill some men out here who believe in waitimg to get to know someone first before getting down to business.
Maybe, but they're all priests, so sex is off the table.
Unless you're an altar boy..
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2/21/2016 8:23:26 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Sure in the case of self entitled douche bags who think because they spent a few lousy bucks on a girl/woman it entitles them to sex. Believe it or not however there are srill some men out here who believe in waitimg to get to know someone first before getting down to business.
Please feel free to speak for yourself, regarding this opinion. You will eventually learn, the hard way, about how women really are.
One day, you will be just like the rest of us. You will realize that when you pay for their date, that you are teaching them they can get free stuff out of you without having sex.
Once you get to know all about them, the way I have, you will realize they aren't worth more than their tits and vagina.
And when that happens, don't even say anything to me. Because I am gonna just respond with, "I told you so."
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2/21/2016 11:26:28 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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Just say NO. Adults can do that and mean it.
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2/21/2016 1:04:17 PM |
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
52, joined Jul. 2014
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It does if you can get to know the guy, know what he is like and if he's serious. If you never test him, are under his charm, he could be full of it.
You have to be lucid, find out about him, sense how serious he is.
A guy who wants it badly, can wait for months. Especially if he thinks of you as a challenge. :O
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2/21/2016 3:19:38 PM |
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gothygoogoo
Red Bluff, CA
59, joined Feb. 2015
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a guy that respects her
and would like to really get to know her
would take as long as it takes
no game
no contest
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2/21/2016 3:32:21 PM |
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
53, joined Nov. 2013
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If he waits that long, hes probably banging another woman until your ready to sleep with him.
Not all men are pigs
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2/21/2016 4:51:05 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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Where's the pig?
He's getting what he wants. (laid).
She's getting what she wants. (Free meals and movies).
I fail to see the issue.
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2/21/2016 4:54:03 PM |
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
53, joined Nov. 2013
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He is acting as though this is the norm for most men. It isn't. Some men do this. Some women do this. Not all.
In my opinion, that man is a pig. No morals, values, or respect for her or himself.
But, you can live your life and views the way you wish.
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2/21/2016 4:57:41 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
58, joined Dec. 2013
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I wasn't saying it was the norm, I was merely acknowledging that it works for that particular person in that particular situation.
As for me, I prefer a woman that's not walking around with a Frigidaire between her legs. And I'm far too old at this point, to put up with the "free meals gameplay".
As for them, whatever blows their skirt up.
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2/21/2016 5:11:50 PM |
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yz27500
Henderson, NC
53, joined Nov. 2014
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Why avoid?
Practice safe sex .
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2/21/2016 5:31:41 PM |
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indianadave1951
Mishawaka, IN
65, joined Dec. 2010
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Why avoid?
Practice safe sex .
Women use to realise that if they give in to men to easily he may not be around long: he looses respect. He goes on to the next side of beef. Women think it won't happen to them but they will reform him. After he drops her she blames all men. Wake up ladies.
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2/21/2016 5:42:53 PM |
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crabberman
Oxford, PA
58, joined Sep. 2008
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Now I'm really confused....have sex no sex?..wait don't wait?..run away fast or stay?
I'll just go back to the p*ssy eating thread..it makes more sense..
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2/21/2016 5:44:36 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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Women use to realise that if they give in to men to easily he may not be around long: he looses respect. He goes on to the next side of beef. Women think it won't happen to them but they will reform him. After he drops her she blames all men. Wake up ladies.
Dave... Actually I believe some women may think that it isn't the sex thing they are so concerned about but with being labeled "a side of beef". Ya think?
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2/21/2016 5:56:57 PM |
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crabberman
Oxford, PA
58, joined Sep. 2008
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i like my beef medium rare..just saying
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2/21/2016 11:46:00 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Once you get to know all about them, the way I have, you will realize they aren't worth more than their tits and vagina.
This is so not true!
but we already know that so... moving on.. lol
are under his charm, he could be full of it.
You have to be lucid, find out about him, sense how serious he is.
A guy who wants it badly, can wait for months. Especially if he thinks of you as a challenge. :O
Great post/point. I completely agree lol. Yeah I tend to be an idiot and get myself a bit love dazed and such and become blind to the bad stuff/red flags. So always good to try and resist that if possible and resist sexual stuff to further stop the love daze from happening xD
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2/21/2016 11:55:05 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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she also wants deep orgasms..an best lovin she ever possibly had with whatever else comes with it.
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2/22/2016 1:29:32 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Do I ever! but I don't need to have sex for that tho, well the first part
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2/22/2016 1:32:49 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Yeah I tend to be an idiot and get myself a bit love dazed and such and become blind to the bad stuff/red flags.
Translation: I am a woman.
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2/22/2016 1:34:04 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Translation: I am a woman
Haha no but I get especially Dazed!!
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2/22/2016 2:11:49 AM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Really, you have some really big boobs for not being a woman.
Have you been taking advice from moobs, again?
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