| 6/28/2014 4:42:56 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
44, joined Apr. 2012
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My opinion differs from lovesmart, but I won't argue about it...
I do think it's all about attitude and perception...
How many ways can this statement be taken?
"We're going to the Cheesecake Factory, wear a dress..."
If he says this as a controlling demand, or whether he turns it into a flirty request is all on him...if he's misinterpreted by her, perhaps this isn't a good match...
Personally, I think what's missing here in this thread is a sense of humor... 
No please shove your
Ideology down our throats until we submit.
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| 6/28/2014 4:49:19 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
63, joined Feb. 2013
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I have no idea what that means, e...
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| 6/28/2014 4:49:51 PM |
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shanb79
Lake Orion, MI
37, joined Dec. 2012
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I'm a jeans/shirt and flip flop kind of gal 
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| 6/28/2014 4:49:52 PM |
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midniteriddler1
Austin, TX
48, joined Nov. 2010
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Homeless attire would have been suitable for that dump.
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| 6/28/2014 4:51:20 PM |
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e_llicit
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
44, joined Apr. 2012
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I have no idea what that means, e...
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| 6/28/2014 5:13:34 PM |
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brian1136
Belleville, IL
47, joined Sep. 2011
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69 pages because some woman wore jean shorts instead of a dress?
Whole story is probably made up anyway.
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| 6/28/2014 5:18:32 PM |
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musicdesign
Moodus, CT
54, joined Apr. 2007
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I wear shorts and Ts in this ungodly humid heat and jeans and sweaters in cold weather. I almost never deter from that.
HOWEVER,
I am not going to wear the same old shit on a first date with a guy...and not likely on most dates.
He asked me out, he is offering to pay. He is picking me up, dropping me off, and he is taking the time and effort to look and smell nice for me, and shave and shower and wash and comb his hair.
The least I can do for him is show him a little appreciation and interest by trying to look pretty and sexy for him.
That is what dating is all about...initiating and maintaining attraction and interest.
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| 6/28/2014 5:19:53 PM |
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beautifulfire08
Antioch, TN
58, joined Aug. 2013
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"We're going to CF, wear a dress."
I'd be like, "Wear THIS, MF."
The way he presented it was just fine.
"I love that dress in the pic. I'd really like to see you wear it," or a similar sentiment.
There was not a thing wrong with that.
Trust me, some of you old bats had better jump all over a compliment like that. Not like you've heard anything about being sexy in a very...and I do mean VERY... long time.
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| 6/28/2014 5:20:57 PM |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
48, joined Sep. 2010
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69 pages because some woman wore jean shorts instead of a dress?
Whole story is probably made up anyway.
Yep...Nothin like a good 1000 page critique on a made up story...
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| 6/28/2014 5:23:15 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
57, joined Feb. 2014
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To say I'm shocked this thread is still going is an understatement. Freedom of choice!!! He asked her out twice. Twice she said yes. She didn't wear the dress he saw on her profile pics, the one he said probably looked even better in person. He said the evening ended with passion and was good. Maybe I'm over simplifying the situation but good grief get over it. Freedom to ask for a 3rd date or not. 
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| 6/28/2014 5:26:04 PM |
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beautifulfire08
Antioch, TN
58, joined Aug. 2013
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To say I'm shocked this thread is still going is an understatement. Freedom of choice!!! He asked her out twice. Twice she said yes. She didn't wear the dress he saw on her profile pics, the one he said probably looked even better in person. He said the evening ended with passion and was good. Maybe I'm over simplifying the situation but good grief get over it. Freedom to ask for a 3rd date or not.
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| 6/28/2014 5:32:32 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
63, joined Feb. 2013
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To say I'm shocked this thread is still going is an understatement. Freedom of choice!!! He asked her out twice. Twice she said yes. She didn't wear the dress he saw on her profile pics, the one he said probably looked even better in person. He said the evening ended with passion and was good. Maybe I'm over simplifying the situation but good grief get over it. Freedom to ask for a 3rd date or not.
That isn't the way it's done....
Everyone has to have an opinion, and then everyone else has to critic all the other opinions, and then the ones who type the loudest gets to repeat his/her opinion repeatedly to be sure it's heard repeatedly, and then the opinions start all over again with new people contributing their opinion, to be critiqued by new posters with opinions ...
And on and on...
Meanwhile, the op of the thread is free to live his life off dh....
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| 6/28/2014 5:33:35 PM |
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creekstomperr
Brush Creek, TN
57, joined Jan. 2014
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| 6/28/2014 5:36:04 PM |
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beautifulfire08
Antioch, TN
58, joined Aug. 2013
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That isn't the way it's done....
Everyone has to have an opinion, and then everyone else has to critic all the other opinions, and then the ones who type the loudest gets to repeat his/her opinion repeatedly to be sure it's heard repeatedly, and then the opinions start all over again with new people contributing their opinion, to be critiqued by new posters with opinions ...
And on and on...
Meanwhile, the op of the thread is free to live his life off dh....
You forgot to tell Amoeba about the spelling and grammar critiquing.
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| 6/28/2014 5:37:27 PM |
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fiesty_wench
Macon, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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I've gotten lucky wearing my Lane Bryant 'jogging suit'
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| 6/28/2014 5:38:41 PM |
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creekstomperr
Brush Creek, TN
57, joined Jan. 2014
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Sometimes ya got to chase them down
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| 6/28/2014 5:39:36 PM |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
48, joined Sep. 2010
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For me it was my burka...
My flip-flops were hidden though...
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| 6/28/2014 5:41:03 PM |
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fiesty_wench
Macon, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Creek and Flirty
And with a burka, he won't know you are picking your nose
[Edited 6/28/2014 5:42:11 PM ]
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| 6/28/2014 5:43:07 PM |
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musicdesign
Moodus, CT
54, joined Apr. 2007
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Yep...Nothin like a good 1000 page critique on a made up story...
This was not a made up story.
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| 6/28/2014 5:54:16 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax
Big Timber, MT
24, joined Apr. 2014
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Yep...Nothin like a good 1000 page critique on a made up story...
So what if it is?
Does that make it any less legitimate than the other made-up thread topics?
It's apparently an interesting supposition to many of us, including you.
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| 6/28/2014 5:57:38 PM |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
48, joined Sep. 2010
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So what if it is?
Does that make it any less legitimate than the other made-up thread topics?
It's apparently an interesting supposition to many of us, including you.
I dont care...soooooooo what if i did comment..sooooooooo what?
So..soooooo sooooooo sooooooo....
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| 6/28/2014 5:59:18 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
57, joined Feb. 2014
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Maybe you should go lie down for a bit.
Thank you. I will. In my short shorts tank top no bra or shoes painted nails and toenails. Makeup on check! Lmao I'm ready for a date.
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| 6/28/2014 6:00:30 PM |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
48, joined Sep. 2010
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Creek and Flirty
And with a burka, he won't know you are picking your nose
Nope he won't..it's a good cover....
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| 7/5/2014 8:45:15 PM |
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33smiles
Eldon, MO
37, joined Apr. 2010
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Has it really come to the point where people have to discuss what they're wearing? Shouldn't some things fall under common sense? If you have a dinner date at a relatively nice place, you put some effort into what you're wearing.
Yes I agree it should be common sense and there should be effort put into it. I think it's pathetic and disgusting what just isn't common sense anymore. It's nice to hear this from someone else on this site. Certain things shouldn't even have to be discussed or thought of. Totally stupid. Thanks for letting me vent, and again it's nice to see this post. Thumbs up!!!!
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